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writes: Hi Ppl. Myself and my ex bf broke up on the 9th of june which is almost two months ago now and I still have not got over him. We were together for almost a year and were engaged (he proposed. Now we have broken up and his friend introduced him to another girl and he says that he may start a serious relationship with her. This hurts me so much because even after the initial break up he said he couldnt look at another as his gf except me which gave me hope that we would get bk togetha. Now that shes in the picture I find it hard 2 talk to him and we always end up argun because I cant help but ask questions about her. He insulted me last week and said some really painful things but even when I feel I dont need him, my feelings cum flooding bakc and I want him back. How do I get him back? Ive made myself seriously ill now and i'm even on medication for depression. All I want is to work things out but he wont let me see him. Why is this? HELP!
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (28 July 2006):
 making yourself ill wont bring him bk all yo can do is move on i know it is hard but every one gets a broken heart at somee point in there life i know it hurts to think of him wth her but the best way to get over him is to stop all contact wth him go out wth ure friends keep busy b4 you know it youl be over him trust me
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reader, shania +, writes (28 July 2006):
 Please dont make yourself ill over this guy,he simply isn't worth it.What you are experiencing is a kind of bereavement,its just like grief,i know your heart has been ripped open and i bet you feel that no other man will do...but in time you will heal and you will get over him...i promise.This guy fancies himself as a bit of a player with the ladies until one day he will get the push from some girl he will fall in love with and will know what it feels like.Give yourself time...dont ask questions about this other girl...what will you gain once you have the information?..Move on...talk to your friends...go out,dont talk to your ex,you must sever all links with him otherwise you cant move on.There is a guy out there for you who will swipe you off your feet,it just wont be this one.
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reader, Elizabeth01 +, writes (28 July 2006):
Hi! I'm no expert but it seems to me that he just said that he could never look at another girl as his gf as a way to make himself feel better after hurting you. Otherwise he is gutless and you don't need him especially if he says painful insulting things to you. It will take time but you will get over him. My best advice is spend time with friends that love you who you can talk things out with. The best thing to do is distance yourself from him at least for the time being until you at least feel a bit more like yourself. Things will work itself out over time and one day you will probably look back a laugh, happy that you didn't end up with him and his immature behavour. He has to learn to say what he means there is no need to say that you could be his only girlfriend if he doesn't mean it.I hope you feel better soon, it just takes time.
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