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How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: Sorry about that...my pc is playing up again.... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy is in love with you?
Q. how do you know if a guy is in love with you?...
A. 16 July 2006: It depends on what he is doing when he is around you.A guy can look at you for a long time because he finds you attractive...it wouldn't mean that he is in love with you.Saying that....action speaks louder then words so if he shows you consideration ... (read in full...)
My partner is constantly controlling me, and wont give me enough support financially or otherwise! please help!
Q. my partner and i have been together for almost 4 years and have a beautiful son. but my partner has no respect for me and controls everything. after my son was born he would not give me any money it was 8 months until he started to give me $15 a ...
A. 12 July 2006: You have got to get out now....this man is nothing more then a big bully....He lacks self esteem and has no self confidence so therefore he takes it out on you.He cant provide a decent life for you or your son...in other words...he is a waste of ... (read in full...)
My partner is constantly controlling me, and wont give me enough support financially or otherwise! please help!
Q. my partner and i have been together for almost 4 years and have a beautiful son. but my partner has no respect for me and controls everything. after my son was born he would not give me any money it was 8 months until he started to give me $15 a ...
A. 12 July 2006: You have got to get out now....this man is nothing more then a big bully....He lacks self esteem and has no self confidence so therefore he takes it out on you.He cant provide a decent life for you or your son...in other words...he is a waste of ... (read in full...)
I can't keep it up! Help!!!
Q. i have problems in the bedroom department. i cant get it up for more than 5 minutes and my girlfriend is going to chop my d*** off if i dont last longer can u save my small penis. gavin moon...
A. 9 July 2006: I agree with the other agony auunts...you need to see a doctor or change your girlfriend.She is not helping by threatening to chop it off!...not only will it not help you...iv heard its very painful.... (read in full...)
Do I abandon this relationship because it's been so adversarial? What should I do?
Q. I am in a relationship for two years. For several months things have been rocky because I was feeling neglected. I usually spend the weekend with my boyfriend but on Saturday he is out until 2:00am. I have share this and how I feel with him but ...
A. 8 July 2006: I dont think it was a good idea to discuss your personal problems to his sister and mother as that was private and as it involved him he probably felt that his life was being scrutinized.To sort these problems out it needs you and your partner to ... (read in full...)
I don't feel as in love with him anymore-I miss the boyfriend I used to have....Anyone have any advice?
Q. I am feeling very alone and unappreciated in my relationship to the point that I am considering breaking up with my boyfriend. We are currently in a long distance relationship but decided we must live in the save city again because we are so in ...
A. 7 July 2006: It sounds to me like you are doing all the sacrificing while his lifestyle hasn't changed at all.If your boyfriend isn't appreciating you,then he needs a good wake up call.Why put yourself in debt?....while he swans off to Europe for a couple of ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know anything to get rid my condition as my GP hasn't given me good advice about it?
Q. a couple of months ago i asked a question on here which asked if my problem (pectus excavatum) could affect me (question was 'could my defect put a woman off sex?'). I thought it was things would be fine but things are now worse. I've now quit pla...
A. 5 July 2006: I would go for a second opinion because some Doctors do differ on this subject.Instead,ask to see a specialist who deals with this kind of thing because surgery could be your best option...also there is a procedure where they can insert silicons ... (read in full...)
Fingering doesn't feel that great to me. Will I never have an orgasm?
Q. When my boyfriend fingers me I don't feel anything 'nice' at all, even when he rubs where my clitoris is. I've never had sex and I'm worried I won't be able to have an orgasm....
A. 1 July 2006: Does your boyfriend just finger you while you are bone dry? because if he is then its no wonder you are not enjoying it.A woman needs a lot of stimulation like plenty of cuddles and kisses....having her body explored,what she doesn't need is some ... (read in full...)
Should I believe his excuses?
Q. I have posted before( The guy i am seeing won't commit and disappears for months at a time) The last few times he has disappeared and not been in touch, i have contacted him and he has been really pleased to hear from me and each time he has told...
A. 1 July 2006: He is using you...he probably has girls all over the place..And i dont believe him when he says he has lost your number....thats a feeble excuse.Dump this loser and move on.... (read in full...)
How do I get a man to like me for more than looks
Q. I know a man whom I am deeply attracted to both physically and to him as a person. However, though he is just as attracted to me physically,( He has made this clear for the past two years now but I haven't done anything about it as i know he would...
A. 1 July 2006: If this guy has made it pretty clear that he only likes you for your looks alone...and he has been saying this for the past 2 years...why would he change his mind now? From what i can tell,he is only interested in a leg over and nothing ... (read in full...)
Should I marry my fiance??
Q. Hi, Should I marry my fiance? Please advise me. I met him 3 years ago online. We chated online and we liked each other. So we decided to meet. When I met him face to face I didnt fancy him at all. But he was nice person and very kind with good h...
A. 1 July 2006: I personally dont believe that you should stay with him because you have a house together...at the end of the day,its only brick and water.From day 1 when you 1st clapped eyes on him you said you wasn't attracted to him...and you still arn't,yet you ... (read in full...)
I don't have the courage to ask him out!!
Q. Theres this guy i've liked for ages, and now he knows, the only thing is I don't have the courage to ask him out as i'm scared he'll say no. I can't tell if he even likes me in that way and I don't know what to do!...
A. 1 July 2006: Why dont you just test the waters 1st and just start a conversation with him...Try saying hello and how are you?...Once he responds then hopefully you should be able to see if he really likes you or not.Get to know him first then ask him out for a ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to her or wait until she chills out??
Q. I am having problems with a woman who I work with. She really is quite nice but is starting to annoy me. She broke up with her live in partner a year ago ( he also works at the same place) and as I understand it they recently got back together. She ...
A. 1 July 2006: Yes this woman is insecure and if it wasn't you it could be any girl that she would find a threat to.I would let her chill out and ignore her...i think if you were to say something it might start to rock the boat or make the situation ... (read in full...)
My parents punished me for dating my bf-should I just break it off?
Q. I have a boyfriend and he is really great. He has never done anything wrong so my parents have nothing against him. But my parents are old fashioned and dont think that dating is allowed. They once found out and i was seriously punished. I told him ...
A. 25 June 2006: I totally agree with Martini....what century is your parents living in?...You dont say how old you are but i take it that you are in your teens.I find it disgusting that your parents would want to punish you forever?...You haven't committed ... (read in full...)
After our first date, she refuses to reply to my texts. What's going on?
Q. I'm 22 and recently went on a date with a 17 year old girl who I've liked for ages. The evening went well, no awkwardness etc. we didn't kiss or have sex, which i'm fine about. I dropped her off home, told her that I had a lovely time, and would li...
A. 24 June 2006: It sounds to me like she isn't interested in you.The fact that she hasn't answered your txts proves this.Saying that...she should of put you straight.Dont lose sleep over her...she isn't.Go out and find some other pretty chick who will want to date ... (read in full...)
Feeling very unhappy at the moment
Q. Hi All Sorry for the long and random post....... I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. I'm feeling really confused and guilty about the doubts I've suddenly had about our relationship. We are very much in love and he is t...
A. 22 June 2006: It sounds like you have outgrown him....He was there for you when you came out of a very bad relationship..he picked you up and dusted you down but you have moved on.You are still young and the world is a big and exciting place with full of ... (read in full...)
She was the perfect girl but we weren't compatible in bed... What now?
Q. Hi. I met a wonderful girl. She is perfect! We both dated a few times and when we are not together we miss each other. We both told each other how much we both love being with each other and that we are perfect together! Sorry - but it's true!! ...
A. 22 June 2006: d4u04 is right....all because the 1st time you had sex it didn't make the earth move didn't mean that you should of ended it with your girlfriend.They say...practise makes perfect so just keep experimenting and see what really turns you on.Sex books ... (read in full...)
I am happily married but I can't stop thinking about the lawn care man.
Q. I have been married for 18 years to truly wonderful man, and soulmate. Last fall, I traveled to another state for unpleasant family business, and met "Mark", the neighborhood lawn care guy, who offered to help in anyway. And he was a big help ...
A. 22 June 2006: I totally agree with Irish49....This guy was setting a trap to bed you and nothing else so when he realised that you wasn't going to do that...he acted like a spoilt child..not getting his way.All this eye contact...hair touching thing was to make ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with my teacher? Help me understand
Q. am i in love with my teacher i am 16 and she is 22 we tlk more than her and other pupils and when she come to the skool i was there to comfort her as she was bullied n i hugged her and made her feel better we definetly have a different relation...
A. 22 June 2006: What you have got is a big crush....its normal to have strong sexual feelings for an attractive woman...but she is out of bounds.As she is your teacher it would be very unwise of her to start a relationship with you....it would cost her...her ... (read in full...)
We don't like each other, but the sparks are amazing! What gives?
Q. There's this guy that I know, we usually do not get on with each other as I find him disrespectful and he finds me annoying. However, and this is a BIG however, we have TOTAL chemistry. I mean, I have heard of sparks flying but this literall...
A. 21 June 2006: Looks like its a love hate relationship.What you do is...the minute this guy starts his insults you quickly push him onto the bed and tie him up and then he would have to beg for mercy....Thats one way of breaking the ice.Or if the insults are ... (read in full...)
We don't like each other, but the sparks are amazing! What gives?
Q. There's this guy that I know, we usually do not get on with each other as I find him disrespectful and he finds me annoying. However, and this is a BIG however, we have TOTAL chemistry. I mean, I have heard of sparks flying but this literall...
A. 21 June 2006: You cant hate him that much otherwise you wouldn't fancy him so much.Why dont you cut the arguing out and get it together...go on...you know you want to....... (read in full...)
Shes 48, im 27, we just broke up but im really hurting, think we want different things, should I find someone my age!?
Q. i've recently broken things off with my girlfriend who i was living with. she is 48 i'm 27. for the past month of our relationship i felt unhappy but only when i wasn't with her. i thought about the future and kids which was a no no for her, think i ...
A. 19 June 2006: The old saying is when money goes out the door...love goes out the window and that can happen to any couple regardless of age.Now your lady friend is a good 20 years older then you,ok no big deal some people might say but you two have already felt ... (read in full...)
I love her, she loves him...help!
Q. Hey I am a guy and I’m 17 years old Recently I have made the most special friend I have ever had. She is so special to me but every time I am with her I feel my self getting more and more close to her. I think I am starting to fall in love wit...
A. 19 June 2006: The ball is in her court isn't it? You are a free agent but she has a boyfriend.If this girl doesn't want to be with her fiance anymore then its down to her to end it.Have you told her how you felt?...maybe she is waiting for you to make the 1st ... (read in full...)
Why is his tongue cold!!?
Q. Weird question: Every guy I have kissed so far has had a warm tongue but recently I made out with a guy whose tongue was cold!!What's that all about?...
A. 18 June 2006: Maybe he talks with a cold tongue.... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend wants to carry on having sex with me
Q. my x boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex with him i dont wont to but he wont stop going on he keeps saying he still loves me n i have feelings 4 him 2 i have had sex before but i dont feel comfatable with him xxemilyxx...
A. 18 June 2006: If he is your ex boyfriend then why in the hell is he still wanting sex with you?...You dont have to have sex with him if you dont want to...its your body.Let me guess...did he finish with you? but still wanted sex with no strings attached? In ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his funny ideas!
Q. My boyfriend that I've been with about a year recently started talking about his fantasy of seeing me with another woman. I personally don't find the idea appealing, I can imagine having an emotional relationship with another woman but not a sexual ...
A. 18 June 2006: The trouble with threesomes is while it might start out as fun,people's feelings then start coming into it.One person could start to get jealous and insecure if it looks like the other two are getting closer...its very testing and i have known one ... (read in full...)
I am trying to end my affair with a married man
Q. Eventually i thought of ending my affair with this married man. I did not reply his sms and answering his call n did not want to see him as well for three weeks already but the true is i still miss him deeply. Pls advice, i am already suffer ...
A. 17 June 2006: You have done the right thing.This married man will try to contact you because he needs the sex.If he truely loved you and wanted to be with you then he would of left his wife...its as simple as that.You will get over him eventually,time is a great ... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend barely have sex....is there something wrong?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost six years now and we have only had sex about six times! It was the first time for both of us and I suffer from premature ejaculation. Other than sex we have a very good relationship. Are we weird ...
A. 15 June 2006: Thanxs martini...im glad you noticed it.I wish people could write their own answers down...otherwise its boring for the poor person who wrote it.Write your own xxlikkleangelxx!!!... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to start feeling aroused by him again!?
Q. We don't have sex because I am seldom aroused. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. During the first year, we had frequent sex. The relationship became rocky after the 2nd year and through the 3rd year. We took a break and I ...
A. 15 June 2006: Are you still attracted to him? but when it comes to sex it feels like a lead balloon?....Your boyfriend might not be doing enough foreplay on you...does he hurry it up when it comes to having sex? Fear of getting pregnant wont help so you really ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my boyfriend loves me or one of his friends....
Q. i am in love with my boyfriend, but i think he is in love with one of his longtime friends. i also think that he doesn't care much because i never get a present or anything to say i appreciate you or i love you. what should i do?...
A. 15 June 2006: What makes you think that your boyfriend is in love with his long time friend?...Have you seen them together? When you say to your boyfriend "i love you"...does he say it back?..Have you asked him out right whether he still wants to be with ... (read in full...)
She slept with all these people and I couldn't handle it...but I still want our friendship...
Q. A few months ago I got involved with a girl from my work. We had been close friends for a couple of years and we were very close. The problems started because she went out drinking with her friends all the time and I started to get suspicious o...
A. 15 June 2006: I know you are hurting and that you are missing her but the trouble with the past is our brains have a funny way of forgetting the reason on why you split up in the 1st place.....and only thinking of the good times.This girl of yours was quite happy ... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend barely have sex....is there something wrong?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost six years now and we have only had sex about six times! It was the first time for both of us and I suffer from premature ejaculation. Other than sex we have a very good relationship. Are we weird ...
A. 15 June 2006: If you and your girlfriend,are quite happy with your sex life then no..its not a problem....not everyone has a high sex drive but there could be other reasons on why your girlfriend doesn't ask for more.You said that you suffer from premature ... (read in full...)
How do I stop this embarrasing situation from happening?
Q. This is really embarrasing but something has to be done. My boyfreind suggested that he do me up the bum, so I thought, why not! We used a condom. When my boyfriend took his penis out it had my poo on it. I was really embarrased but my boyfriend ...
A. 13 June 2006: What can i say?....all these agony aunts are right.Its also possible that your boyfriend is inserting his penis quite high up inside you so therefore there will be some shit on his penis...even though you dont want to go,also...do you want to keep ... (read in full...)
What is going on with my boyfriend???
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months - we'd developed a friendship before that and had very similar interests and the attraction was mutual and instantaneous on both sides. About a week ago, he had to cancel on me 2 nights in a row and on ...
A. 10 June 2006: Well it does seem a bit odd?...it could be a number of reasons on why he hasn't been in touch...you say that he acted differently on your last date,that he held you tighter and was more affectionate...was that out of guilt?...The reason i ask ... (read in full...)
Breaking up with my ex has been very hard
Q. I know I'm being stupid, but I need the opinion of someone in a relationship that was the one that "broke up" the relationship. I'm keeping my distance from my ex and its really killing me, and I haven't called or been in contact nor has he even ...
A. 10 June 2006: Ooops!...sorry, yes i understand what you mean.Well,if it was him that ended it...then my advice still stays the same,if he missed you and wanted to start again...then he would of rang.Heartache is a bit like grief,you lost the person you loved and ... (read in full...)
Breaking up with my ex has been very hard
Q. I know I'm being stupid, but I need the opinion of someone in a relationship that was the one that "broke up" the relationship. I'm keeping my distance from my ex and its really killing me, and I haven't called or been in contact nor has he even ...
A. 10 June 2006: Who said that the person who ends the relationship doesn't feel the pain?...of course you are upset.You had your reasons to finish with your boyfriend but it looks like he didn't put up much of a fight.Was it a reaction,that you wanted to have from ... (read in full...)
I have man boobs, how can I fix this?
Q. i am a teenage boy and i am fat and i seem to have my man boob stick out, and i want to ask 2 questions: is it normal?? how to i get rid of it?...
A. 9 June 2006: Its not unusual to have "mans boobs" if you are very overweight....the only way to get rid of them is to lose weight.... (read in full...)
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