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Why do some men prefer porn over true love?

Q.   I guess I am just an old fashioned girl. I have been married twice/divorced twice and am in a relationship with a wonderful man right now. We are both in our mid forties. To me, "sex" is about intimacy and love. It is about sharing the m...

A.   14 August 2011: hi, men some times need to these things, we dont use dildos, but men do watch porn, i do, if it is efecting you love life maybe he is not feeling good about him self,ask him, talk to him, men. and i know iam one)( find it so hard to tell how they ... (read in full...)

I've love a few, but all end in tears. How do I date men who don't drop me?

Q.   I'm a divorcee and have suffered lot of physical and verbal abuse during one year of marriage. This happened 4yrs back and I'm single since then. Have entered into few relationship after that, but they were couple of years younger to me and unma...

A.   24 December 2010: hi sweethart, you have just got to wait, you will not meet the right guy, why you are looking for him he will turn up one day then you will find happnes, dont try to hard x... (read in full...)

Should I put up with my feelings or get out of the marriage?

Q.   I've been with my husband for many years but graduallyI've got less and less attracted to him physically. I haven't actually fancied him for ages and now I don't feel right when he touches me, I just tense up.We have kids so I'm having real trouble ...

A.   17 November 2010: hi, my wife stoped fancying me as well, and 9 weeks ago told me she did not love me any more,and she was seeing some else. i was a mess and still am, i moved away and made it so she could not contact me, but someone gave her my new number and she ... (read in full...)

Can I win her back?

Q.   Here's my problem my ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a little over 2 months now. And this entire experience has been extremely hard on me, and my feelings for her haven't changed. I still love her just as much the day we ended things, ...

A.   17 November 2010: hi iam in the same hell as youmy i went nc, she meet somone else soon after, but in my case she had stoped loving me for a while befor we split and i had no idea, i know this will hurt you hereing this, but thats what could have happend with... (read in full...)

We are broken up but I catch him staring at me

Q.   Ok so its been about 4 days since my ex has broken up with me and everytime at school like at lunch or when we're walking to class,I catch him looking at me. Not like a glare or anything,but just almost like starring. Does this starring mean ...

A.   2 November 2010: well sweet hart, hes young, and so are you, best thing is just smile at him, if he wants you he will let you know, then tell him to go and fxxxxc him self, then just watch him come runing xxxx... (read in full...)

Beaten, vunerable and utterly lost, can anyone help me?

Q.   About six years ago I wondered from house to house, bridge to bridge... one day i found the father of my 2 wonderful boys... lost myself i helped him find himself but i have remianed lost.. He was so into getting stoned, he would hardly pay ...

A.   22 October 2010: you and your kids are not safe, get out now, go to the police this minite, take the kids with you please do it now. they will put you some where safe, sit in the station till they do, a duty solicter it will not cost you anything, please do as ... (read in full...)

I moved five hours away after our break up -- and now he's dating someone here??

Q.   My ex and I were together for about nine years. When we broke up (about nine months ago) it was basically mutual. The relationship had become stagnant and we both needed to move on. To make it easier on me and to cut the possibility of ever ...

A.   19 October 2010: i think he still loves you, but has know idea how to handle it x... (read in full...)

Was I good enough for him?

Q.   I really need ur help Ive liked this guy for ages hes single and yes i have slept with him a few times and saturday nite was about the 5th time and that was me staying at his house anyway when he got home late saturday nite he came into my be...

A.   18 October 2010: well love forget about him hes just using you sorry to be blunt, ... (read in full...)

How do I ask the shy guy out?

Q.   question dear cupid i meet this very shy man at my sister's party i was wondering how to ask him out. a friend told me he has not had many girlfriends and very inexperienced with women i was wondering how to ask him out for coffee or tea. he looked ...

A.   16 October 2010: just ask him, i too am very shy, iv never chated some one up, but shy guys have a lot to give, i just needs pushing make his day, you will not regret it, good luck x... (read in full...)

I'm devastated..ex no longer loves me!

Q.   my ex told me she no longer loves 4 days ago, iam deverstated,iv not eaten or gone to work iv not been out of the house, and last night i was toil she has been seeing someone befor we split,all i ever done is love her i just can not stop crying, ...

A.   16 October 2010: thanks everone for your advice,i moved away as soon as we split closed my facebook a/c and change my email and my phone i dont have anyone to talk to with moving 20 miles away thats why i came on here will go back to work monday... (read in full...)

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