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| | Leanna's profile:I'm usually pretty straight up with advice I give. I try my best to give my honest opinion about what I would do if I was in the same situation as the person asking the question. This site is pretty useful for those who need some serious advice so I hope I help someone feel better through the advice I give. |
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I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...
Q. hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think...
A. 10 May 2008: I like ginger hair so much I went from naturally light blonde to deep red over a year ago. I love that it's less common than other colours, I love the way it shines in the sun, i love how it contrasts with my eyes (they're very light blue)... What I ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend bleeds everytime we have sex, is it unusual?
Q. Most girls I've had sex with haven't bled during/afterwords, unless they were virgin's or hadn't had sex in quite a while, but my girlfriend at the moment, she bleeds EVERY TIME we have sex? is this unusual?...
A. 9 May 2008: Bleeding during or after sex could be a sign of infection (amongst other things) so get her to see a doctor immediately. And I hope you use condoms because if it is an infection you might wanna get yourself there too.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I recently found out he'd been looking at pictures of "tgirls"....
Q. Hello. I'm a 24 year old businesswoman and my husband is 26. Our sex life has become non-existent lately - every attempt I made to seduce him was refused, even when I wore sexy lingerie (which he used to love!) I recently found out he'd been lookin...
A. 8 May 2008: I wasn't talking to you anonymous - I was talking about website that the poster keeps mentioning... Over and over again. ... (read in full...)
My husband shows zero affection towards me... Am I entitled to divorce him or should I stay for the kids?
Q. I have not been happily married for about 10 years, but no one would ever know. Through the years, we have had UPS and DOWNS. I have been to marriage counceling ALONE several times to save our marriage. He will not go. My husband is not ...
A. 8 May 2008: I think the other aunts have pretty much covered it. However I do have one thing to say about you 'staying with him for the children'.
Really, how do you think your children will benefit from being around a man like that, watching him treat th... (read in full...)
I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?
Q. this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...
A. 8 May 2008: You need to get yourself to a professional to sort out the paranoia you've got going on.
How on earth would you know that they email her about you? ... (read in full...)
I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?
Q. this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...
A. 8 May 2008: What a load of rubbish. ... (read in full...)
I need some advice about taking the pill.
Q. I want to take birth control. My question is, do i take a pill and do sexual intercourse a few days later? and if i don`t do sex and i don`t take the pill (would that get me pregnant?)...
A. 8 May 2008: I don't quite understand your question but you're supposed to take the pill everyday at the same time. If you take the first one on the first day of your period you'll be protected from pregnancy straight away.
Obviously if you don't have sex... (read in full...)
I recently found out he'd been looking at pictures of "tgirls"....
Q. Hello. I'm a 24 year old businesswoman and my husband is 26. Our sex life has become non-existent lately - every attempt I made to seduce him was refused, even when I wore sexy lingerie (which he used to love!) I recently found out he'd been lookin...
A. 6 May 2008: There's really no need to keep mentioning the website - sounds like an advert for the site to me. ... (read in full...)
Was I having an orgasm?
Q. Whenever my boyfriend was fingering and rubbing me my body started to twitch uncontrollably. Was I about to reach an orgasm?...
A. 2 May 2008: Sometimes when there is too much pressure aplied to the clitoris it can be uncomfortable and cause twitching - especially in the thighs and hips. I'm not sure if this is what you're describing but it's happened to me before.
An orgasm feels li... (read in full...)
I want to be with her, I'm 18 and she's 14.
Q. I am 18 and my really good friend is 14, I have never had a relationship, and i think i like her. What should I do? I want to be with her??...
A. 29 April 2008: You know it's not a good idea - stay well away. The labels you'll get from people will be vile. Her parents will string you up. And if you have sex with her you're very likely to go to prison. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I should be able to come just from intercourse, is he right?
Q. Im a little confused about some stuff.. I lost it to my boyfriend who i really love about two months ago.. and from those times... when we've had sex.. he cums but i havent had an orgasm yet.. im nto surprised since this is my first time...
A. 29 April 2008: Not many women can have orgasms from intercourse - some can, but not many. Let your boyfriend know this. He needs someone to break his bubble because if he's saying all his previous partners have had orgasms from intercourse then chances are at ... (read in full...)
She is 15 and pregnant and says I'm the father!
Q. Im 21 and met this girl things were going fab. We had sex and i thought i fell in love. Then she tells me she is pregnant and im the father and also she is 15!!!!! She told me that she was 18 i still had a problem when she said 18 but i dealt with ...
A. 28 April 2008: You weren't worried about her age enough to keep it in your pants were you?
You brought this on yourself when you decided not to use contraception, and now there's an innocent baby caught up in it's parents immaturity. Maybe next time you'll b... (read in full...)
Teacher student relationship goes terribly wrong Warning!!!
Q. What do I do?I'm going through a serious case about my teacher and I.First off we were dating.I'm 16 and he is 37.I knew it was wrong from the begining but because of having to see him daily and having him being flirty i gave in to him.There were ...
A. 28 April 2008: He still flirts with students? Something doesn't ring true about this.
How is he still working at the school if he's bring investigated for liasing with a pupil? How is he allowed near you to tell you anything ?
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Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....
Q. is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...
A. 28 April 2008: Um... I smell BS.... (read in full...)
Can a woman get an infection from overproduction of vaginal fluid?
Q. i know a friend (female 23years old) who suffers from vaginal discharge that caused an infection. can a woman get an infection from an overproduction of vaginal fluid. she says that the vaginal fluid is quite alot and may be because of lack of ...
A. 28 April 2008: She got an infection from not having enough sex is basically what she's saying? I'm not a doctor but my guess is that this is very very not true...... (read in full...)
My teacher is gay, should I try kissing her on the cheek?
Q. i love my teacher and i am so close to her, the other day she had her head on my shoulder and if i just turned my head i could of easily kissed her, i nearly did, i was sweating, my hands were shaking and everything! i love her immensely and man ...
A. 27 April 2008: Do you have any idea how much of a big deal this could be?!
I mean, seriously, are you understanding anything these people are saying to you? Do you think you're both going live happily ever after? You are wrong.
This woman is not going to ... (read in full...)
How does a doctor check a female to see if she has an STD?
Q. How do doctors check females for an std? Does it hurt? I'm not going for a check-up or anything, I don't need to, but I'm just curious. I've heard they insert a tube up a guy's urethra (spelling?) and that doesn't sound too pleasant! So what about a ...
A. 24 April 2008: A swab from around the cervix I believe... And bloodtests too sometimes. ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to have sex with someone who could be paralyzed from the waist down?!
Q. okayy. my boyfriend went to the doctor like 2 days ago. They said a disk in his back was out of place and if he plays any sports or messes up his back in anyway he will become paralyzed (sp?)from the waist down. when he told me that i tryed to ...
A. 24 April 2008: You said he's more interested in sex than you are... Could he be saying this to get you to sleep with him sooner?
It just doesn't quite make sense. ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to have sex with someone who could be paralyzed from the waist down?!
Q. okayy. my boyfriend went to the doctor like 2 days ago. They said a disk in his back was out of place and if he plays any sports or messes up his back in anyway he will become paralyzed (sp?)from the waist down. when he told me that i tryed to ...
A. 24 April 2008: Is he making it up for a bit of attention? Am I the only one who doesn't quite believe the one in a million chance thing?
Would any sane person risk their health that way?
And surely if the chances of him becoming paralyzed were so high, he... (read in full...)
Am I too young for alcohol and smoking? I'm 15...
Q. Ok so im 15 now but I starting drinking when i was 14 and there are only a few people in my grade that do because we are like the popular people...so is it really that young i mean it doesnt feel that way at all and also i smoke not pot but ...
A. 18 April 2008: If you want to carry on with such a naive childish attitude then go for it. There was no point asking for advice if you weren't going to listen to anyone anyway.
And just so I know, what the hell is fun about putting tar into your lungs and turn... (read in full...)
Am I too young for alcohol and smoking? I'm 15...
Q. Ok so im 15 now but I starting drinking when i was 14 and there are only a few people in my grade that do because we are like the popular people...so is it really that young i mean it doesnt feel that way at all and also i smoke not pot but ...
A. 16 April 2008: Just because your mum didn't get ill from smoking, doesn't mean you won't. My mother is currently suffering from advanced lung cancer, she has around four months left. What makes you think you can beat it?
As for drinking because the popular ... (read in full...)
Can I hide having sex at 13 from my parents? Is it advisable?
Q. i want to have sex but my mom doesn't know that.i'm only 13 and want to have a baby.but also i don't have a boyfriend.how do i get a boyfriend and have sex at the same time without my mom finding out?...
A. 15 April 2008: Oh dear...... (read in full...)
My Dad is setting me up with his friends!-Is he winding me up?
Q. im soo confused and just dont understand why my dad would want me to do this. well on monday we was watching thig programme on tv. me, dad, my friend who stayed over at mine and my dads friend. me and rachel went upstairs ont he computer just ...
A. 15 April 2008: I don't think this is real... (read in full...)
Can my sister be pregnant?
Q. Hi i have a 15 year old sister and she had sex for the first time on march 4 2008 and today is april 15 2008 she has not gotten a period but she says her period was irregular but then regular so my question is can she be pregnant?????...
A. 15 April 2008: Well that greatly depends on whether your sister used contraception, doesn't it?... (read in full...)
I think I'm suffering from depression because of forbidden love
Q. hi, i am really worried at the moment cos i think ive got depression. it all started 6 months ago when my original teacher left on maternity leave and we got this new guy who i kinda fell in love with. now, i know you will say its just a cru...
A. 15 April 2008: Oh look you're pretending to be someone else again.
And by the way, they were things I said to you. Why would anyone give a crap about me telling you to use capital letters? Apart from you of course.
I'm done arguing with you now little ... (read in full...)
14 and a virgin, I feel lonely and inadequate because all my friends have already had sex!
Q. I'm 14 and from Hampshire, England. all my friends have had sex. i feel lonley because i'm still a virgin. they arn't saying i MUST pop the cherry but i don't fit in anymore eg. i'm not invited to party. i've always been a bit awkward around p...
A. 14 April 2008: Stop being so dramatic.
Put things into perspective. Do you really believe every single one of your friends is having sex? They might be saying they are but they're not.
Secondly, is a guy wanting to 'screw' you all you actually want? W... (read in full...)
We're not agreeing on our wedding plans, can you help, please?
Q. He wants a drive-thru wedding, i want a normal wedding.....I dont know what to do.....can you please help?...
A. 14 April 2008: A drive-thru wedding?? How romantic...... (read in full...)
I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...
Q. I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...
A. 13 April 2008: "it wasn't that hard"
Oh that's ok then, you scumbag. What kind of pathetic excuse for a man hits his pregnant, teenage girlfriend? Maybe she'll never speak to you again (nothing less than you deserve), personally I think she has every right no... (read in full...)
I think I'm suffering from depression because of forbidden love
Q. hi, i am really worried at the moment cos i think ive got depression. it all started 6 months ago when my original teacher left on maternity leave and we got this new guy who i kinda fell in love with. now, i know you will say its just a cru...
A. 8 April 2008: Lol of course it wasn't you. You mention things referred to in this post but it wasn't you, no. You're not the brightest are you sweetie?... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm pregnant or not...
Q. Hi. I don't know if I am pregnant or not, but I came off my peroid on Friday, but I had sex for the first time that night I looked in my knickers there were some brown stuff, but normally I have that anyway, I dont know if I am pregnant or not, ...
A. 6 April 2008: It's extremely unlikely. However, if you think you're mature enough to be having sex then you're mature enough to protect yourself from pregnancy. Don't think it won't happen to you. It will.
See this scare as a lesson learnt and next time use... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 6 April 2008: There go the next 18 years of your life. Maybe you'll teach your kid that attitude of yours. Delightful...... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 3 April 2008: You said: "The day I think we concieved my period came down"
THEN you said: "Plus I think we concieved one friday"
'Thought' is the word you were looking for. Past tense, meaning you know better in hindsight.
Not 'think' meaning you're t... (read in full...)
My bf had sex with his own mom!!Ughh..How should I react?
Q. My boyfriend had sex with his own mother. And that is really embarassing like I can't even look at his mother anymore. I even have a kid with him and is under his name. Right now,,I feel like this family I got into doesn't seem like a good family ...
A. 3 April 2008: Why would you want to tell your child about it's father and grandma doing that?
I don't believe this is real...
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Can anyone give me advice on how to get rid of thrush?
Q. OK this may seem like an odd question. Well, I think I have thrush, I have had discharge for years and it's always the same. It is so annoying! I've tried an oral tablet and i've even had cream and things from the doctors.. but nope it's still ...
A. 3 April 2008: Everyone has a certain amount of natural discharge - that does not mean you have trush. If you're itchy and sore and find it difficult to urinate, then it's a sure sign of thrush and you need medication. However, you are never going to get rid of ... (read in full...)
Is there "non-prescription" birth control I can buy at a store?
Q. i was wondering if there are any non-prescription birth control besides condoms that i could buy at a store. please, my boyfriend finds condoms uncomfortable and I don't want my mom to know im having sex(so the pill is a no)....
A. 3 April 2008: There aren't any.
If you feel you're mature enough to be having sex then you should be mature enough to protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy.
Why does your mum even need to know you're on the pill? You don't need her permission to ge... (read in full...)
Do you think he may be gay??
Q. Hi guys I have a guy friend who is a little more than a friend but he is different than most guys I met. He likes to put lotion all over his body after a shower and keeps his place really clean....he also likes to clean his house and keep everything ...
A. 3 April 2008: Yeah he's gay cause his house is clean...
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Do many people wear contact lenses? Any tips about them?
Q. heyaa guyss... this isnt anything to do with relationhips, guys, sex, anything else ive given up with boys tbh lol! but i need a bit of advice about contact lenses you see i have an appointment with my optician in a few weeks for contacts, ive be...
A. 3 April 2008: I wear them every day. At first they will be a little gritty, uncomfortable maybe but in a few days that's over. They don't hurt so there's nothing to be scared about. They're just a convenient alternative to glasses.
Your optician will tell you... (read in full...)
How can I make her love me?
Q. how to make someone love you who does not have the same feelings with you. who tell you that she care a lot a lot as a friend but does not have other feelings. she also knows how much i love her....
A. 2 April 2008: If she has already said that she only likes you as a friend then you're just going to have to accept that. You cannot 'make' someone love you. Accept what she's said to you, move on and leave the poor girl alone - you're coming across as a creepy ... (read in full...)
Help!-I am obsessed with my mom!
Q. Ok,this sounds very creepy but,ever since i was 8 i have wanted to have sex with my mom Extremely Badly!! i mean u have no idea.i am only 13 but you know i have had soo many dreams about having sex with her and i just cant tell her how i feel. i mean...
A. 1 April 2008: Of course you do dear...... (read in full...)
Advice about the pill please!! Urgent
Q. Hey, just a quick question... It's my first month on the Pill and I have two pills left in the pack before my 7 day break. I was just wondering if I am still 99% protected in this first month with unprotected sex? Thanks ...
A. 1 April 2008: The person below is incorrect. If you took your first pill on the first day of your period then you were protected straight away and as long as you've taken them when you were supposed then you have been protected and will continue to be throughout ... (read in full...)
I think I'm suffering from depression because of forbidden love
Q. hi, i am really worried at the moment cos i think ive got depression. it all started 6 months ago when my original teacher left on maternity leave and we got this new guy who i kinda fell in love with. now, i know you will say its just a cru...
A. 1 April 2008: I've been recieving abusive messages from this charmer...... (read in full...)
I think I'm suffering from depression because of forbidden love
Q. hi, i am really worried at the moment cos i think ive got depression. it all started 6 months ago when my original teacher left on maternity leave and we got this new guy who i kinda fell in love with. now, i know you will say its just a cru...
A. 31 March 2008: For the love of god use some capital letters!!!
It kind of gave away that the anonymous post below is from you also.
Punctuation!!!!!... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 31 March 2008: Well learn some proper grammar and punctuation if you're going to post a question then lol. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 30 March 2008: And for the record you didn't concieve twice like you say you think you did. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...
A. 30 March 2008: Ok so I'm sick of giving safe sex lectures to silly, immature little girls - I'm not even gonna bother with this one. You're not going listen anyway, are you?
If you're getting your period then its unlikely you have concieved.
There are... (read in full...)
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