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Do guys have their dark/cold moments?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. It was all fine until up to two weeks ago, where his grandma went to the hospital, and he received his marks back for one of his college courses (which he got like 60s when he was aiming for 90s). ...
A. 24 October 2010: This guy is playing with your head and your emotions.One minute he wants you the next he doesn't.I dont care if his grandma went into hospital,i dont care if his grades were crap...that wasn't your fault.He is giving out any excuses he can muster so ... (read in full...)
Males, what signs no longer show your interested in a woman?
Q. I was kind of seeing a guy before my holiday, which was 2 months long. We were having fun and it was all great. I'm back now and things have changed. I messaged him asking how he was and he said that he was now running his company because the boss...
A. 24 October 2010: He might have second thoughts about you now, maybe he isn't as keen as he was before? Ok...stop all contact, no emails, no phone calls or text messages...just disappear from his radar.He will be expecting you to do all the running while he plays ... (read in full...)
LDR & phone sex
Q. I am currently in a long distance relationship. For some odd reason I keep asking him if he really wants this relationship. He answers it with he is not sure. I read quite a bit about ldr and also mentionedthis websites to him but he has no read an ...
A. 16 October 2010: Something isn't right here.Have you two actually met? or is it only an internet relationship? although its not really, is it? You have phone sex, he shoots his load then hangs up....he sounds delightful! I think he is using you to get his rocks ... (read in full...)
I'm devastated..ex no longer loves me!
Q. my ex told me she no longer loves 4 days ago, iam deverstated,iv not eaten or gone to work iv not been out of the house, and last night i was toil she has been seeing someone befor we split,all i ever done is love her i just can not stop crying, ...
A. 16 October 2010: Heartbreak sucks, doesn't it? Its like a form of grief and it hurts like hell but you will get through it.My advice to you is to stop all contact...no emails...no phone calls..no texts or standing outside her house in the pouring rain.You dont beg ... (read in full...)
Why do I still talk to him, see him and listen to his crap?
Q. I met and dated this guy when I was 22. I truly fell for him and a few weeks later found out he had a girlfriend. We were always off and on regardless because i wanted to be with him. He always had girlfriends but never could choose to be with me ...
A. 24 September 2010: Thats good but its still early days....its only been 3 days since you had no contact?....give it a few weeks and he will probably crawl out of his rock....but dont give in.... (read in full...)
Still care for the ex-lover from the affair & wonder why I still care for him & it hurts!
Q. I have been having affair with my business partner for the past 5 years. We have separated since this year month March after he finally yelled at me saying he doesn't love me anymore after so much lies and I found out that he actually started ...
A. 22 September 2010: You really need to move on...this guy had fucked up your head for 5 whole years, ok...so he went on a spiritual retreat and now is full of remorse...so what? Does he think he has come back as Jesus Christ now? This man used you...and treated you ... (read in full...)
Why do I still talk to him, see him and listen to his crap?
Q. I met and dated this guy when I was 22. I truly fell for him and a few weeks later found out he had a girlfriend. We were always off and on regardless because i wanted to be with him. He always had girlfriends but never could choose to be with me ...
A. 22 September 2010: Dont give in!..You hate the rejection, who wouldn't? Thats why you want something you cannot have.He is out of reach for you and thats what makes him so appealing..but he isn't really...its an illusion.Dont fall for it.... (read in full...)
Why do I still talk to him, see him and listen to his crap?
Q. I met and dated this guy when I was 22. I truly fell for him and a few weeks later found out he had a girlfriend. We were always off and on regardless because i wanted to be with him. He always had girlfriends but never could choose to be with me ...
A. 22 September 2010: This fella doesn't know whether to go for a shit or a haircut.
He is what you call a ditherer...and if i was you i would get your hat and coat and run for the hills..seriously! This man is no good.He doesn't know what he wants..I gather he is roug... (read in full...)
Our sex life is zilch!
Q. We have a very stressful life with lots of painful issues about our children. Mental health and chronic drug addiction. And many other what is more ,than an average family can handle. My question needs a little longer time, but I try it short ...
A. 22 September 2010: He is depressed, not because he doesn't desire you but because he is worried about your children...it would be enough to destroy any man's erections.You said they are a constant worry and that you have alot on your plate...so yes you are right...its ... (read in full...)
Will my girlfriend get bored of having sex chats every day?
Q. will i bore my girl for sex chatting with her each day? she likes it but am afraid i might bore her...
A. 22 September 2010: You cant beat the real thing......... (read in full...)
He's not that into me! Really?
Q. Hi. I'm new here and stumbled on this site while surfing the net for answers. I really hope you guys will give me good advice. I've stopped dating about 3 years ago (fyi and btw, I'm 30). Boyfriends are overrated... don't you think? Anyway, a...
A. 20 September 2010: Why is it such a big secret for him not to tell you on what he does for a living? Why all this cloak and dagger stuff? If you do need a male opinion on this then i think you should email the agony uncles to their profile, that way you will get a ... (read in full...)
Will her vagina always be blown out?
Q. My wife was married to a man who stuck dildos in her for many years. I'm not small, but I don't compare to some of the objects that are out there. So, I'm wondering if all those years of having large objects inserted in her has made her vagina too ...
A. 19 September 2010: A woman who has given birth a few times,can become slack down below and they can do pelvic floor exercises to strengthen the wall muscles.Are you not getting any feelings or sensations when you have sex with your wife? I wouldn't of thought the ... (read in full...)
Is this just his way of finishing with me?
Q. About 5 weeks ago I received a message from my partners saying that he had to deal with major issues in his life and since then I barely hear from him. He says he needs his space to sort these things out. He tells me that the relationship is not ...
A. 19 September 2010: What issues has he got? You have been with him for 3 whole years but doesn't have the decency to tell you whats wrong? I find that rather bizarre! 5 weeks is quite a while and he should of at least let you know where you stand, but instead he is ... (read in full...)
I don't know if his interest in me is just sexual
Q. After months of chatting online expressing our sexual chemistry with each other, this guy and I met up. Our desires for each other were very strong but I didn't let anything happen. He didn't force it either which I'm glad because I don't know ...
A. 19 September 2010: If i was emailing him i would of died of boredom by now...He is dithering about, he probably has a few women on the go and getting his sex that way...or he's married with 5 kids.What puzzles me is he hasn't exactly being jumping on your bones...no ... (read in full...)
He's not that into me! Really?
Q. Hi. I'm new here and stumbled on this site while surfing the net for answers. I really hope you guys will give me good advice. I've stopped dating about 3 years ago (fyi and btw, I'm 30). Boyfriends are overrated... don't you think? Anyway, a...
A. 19 September 2010: He is probably either married...has a girlfriend or a few women on the go or has simply lost interest.What exactly does he do for a living? Is he a long distant lorry driver? if so then he would be hard pushed in getting to the pc and to email ... (read in full...)
What should I do this time?
Q. I have been friends wit this girl for over 2 year and for the last year i am so clear on how i feel about her . she is all i seem to think about. I have told her i care about her deeply as more than a friend her response to this was i have been hurt ...
A. 6 September 2010: You have told her how you feel...you couldn't make it any clearer if you tried,she just wants to be friends with you..She has made that pretty clear too but your hoping she will change her mind and start to have real, strong feelings for you but i ... (read in full...)
I like sniffing dirty panties
Q. I am obsessed with dirty panties i always go around sniffing my girlfriends dirty panties with out her knowimg is this normal and do others have the same problem....
A. 5 September 2010: Why is it?... (read in full...)
I like sniffing dirty panties
Q. I am obsessed with dirty panties i always go around sniffing my girlfriends dirty panties with out her knowimg is this normal and do others have the same problem....
A. 5 September 2010: It only becomes abnormal if your sniffing dirty panties 24/7...that to me would be a tad obsessive..other then that its a fetish of yours and there is loads of men who do enjoy it.If your girlfriend doesn't mind then i dont see it being a problem.... (read in full...)
He says one day he'll marry me but has a wife and child. What should I do?
Q. Am separated from my husband and I am currently seeing this guy who is 10 years older than me we do not do a lot of things together. We hardly go out or do any fun things together. This guy is a medical doctor and is married with 1 adopted daughter. ...
A. 4 September 2010: Why on earth are you with him if the sex is boring? Isn't that what affairs is all about? Sounds like he's hopeless in bed..a crappy husband and a big fat user.Please walk away now, he is only after sex, nothing more, nothing less.He will spill you ... (read in full...)
Can I ever commit?
Q. I was married for 21 years, Been divorced for 9 yrs. now. In and out appox 7 relationships nothing seems to work out a year or less. Did not date, hug, kiss, nothing for two years. Then i met a classmate of mine ,told her i didn't want a ...
A. 4 September 2010: You said that you didn't want a proper relationship...you said that you wanted someone to hang out with,you also told her that you didn't want a commitment,she got that message,loud and clear..so your lady friend decided to look elsewhere, maybe to ... (read in full...)
What should I do, or can I do anything to finally get the woman I am crazy about??
Q. Hi guys for the past year i have been interested in this woman, we had been flirting around each other for ages and both of us really liked each other but never said it. So i decided to write to her and i told her how much i liked her and wanted to ...
A. 5 June 2010: Then you have answered your question....your wasting your time with her.... (read in full...)
What should I do, or can I do anything to finally get the woman I am crazy about??
Q. Hi guys for the past year i have been interested in this woman, we had been flirting around each other for ages and both of us really liked each other but never said it. So i decided to write to her and i told her how much i liked her and wanted to ...
A. 4 June 2010: Its all hit and miss, isn't it? She's too much like hard work.I get the impression that she will only go out with you if you get down on bended knees and kiss her feet...or jump off a cliff...give her a million pounds etc.Its ridiculous.Your jumping ... (read in full...)
What should I do, or can I do anything to finally get the woman I am crazy about??
Q. Hi guys for the past year i have been interested in this woman, we had been flirting around each other for ages and both of us really liked each other but never said it. So i decided to write to her and i told her how much i liked her and wanted to ...
A. 3 June 2010: This woman is loving the attention you are giving her...but thats it,she doesn't want anything else.You said that you have known her for a year,that you have sent her a heart felt letter,you gave her flowers and chocolates,you flirted with her...YET ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work after the lies he told me?
Q. I dated this man for a while and found out he was married. I walked away because I did not want to be in a relationship built on deceit and lies. Recently we started dating again. He told me that he divorced his wife. He tells me that he wants ...
A. 13 May 2010: I agree with Caring Guy..he's a pathological liar,i wouldn't touch him with a 10 foot barge pole...i pity his poor wife.... (read in full...)
Shall I stay with my bf when I can not satisfy him with deepthroat?
Q. I have been with my bf for two years. We love eachother but last year there has been a sexual issue which has become big mental problem for me. Like 1 year ago he told me that the most exciting thing in the world is deepthroat. Well, ok, I haven´t ...
A. 13 May 2010: I hope your going to dump that loser.... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend broke up with me but wants to remain friends?
Q. My ex bf of 3 months broke up with me saying that he felt that the relationship was getting too serious for him and that he wasn't ready. I deleted him from Facebook. Now he comes on my skype and wants to talk "as friends" on regular basis - he ...
A. 11 May 2010: This guy doesn't know whether to go for a shit or a hair cut?
You cut all links with him...no emails, no text messages no phone calls...he needs to go cold turkey over you.He dumped you, yet he wants to still be in contact....dont give him that luxu... (read in full...)
Shall I stay with my bf when I can not satisfy him with deepthroat?
Q. I have been with my bf for two years. We love eachother but last year there has been a sexual issue which has become big mental problem for me. Like 1 year ago he told me that the most exciting thing in the world is deepthroat. Well, ok, I haven´t ...
A. 11 May 2010: Oh my god! this guy is a complete jerk...im sorry but he really is. He is cold, insensitive, manipulative, calculating,spoilt little man who has thrown his toys out of his pram...he needs to grow up! If he really loved you then he would put your ... (read in full...)
Shall I stay with my bf when I can not satisfy him with deepthroat?
Q. I have been with my bf for two years. We love eachother but last year there has been a sexual issue which has become big mental problem for me. Like 1 year ago he told me that the most exciting thing in the world is deepthroat. Well, ok, I haven´t ...
A. 10 May 2010: What a selfish man....he's not satisfied that you are giving him oral sex and thats not good enough...he wants you to have deep throat on him...making you sick...no doubt dreading sex with him now....and he calls that love? Come on! he's having a ... (read in full...)
Why am I so crazy about her feet?
Q. I just want to massage and rub my girlfriend's feet all the time. I think it is my favorite thing to do with her. I am trying to get up enough nerve to kiss and lick them. Am I crazy?...
A. 10 May 2010: Nothing wrong in that....and if your girlfriend enjoys it, whats the problem?...like Caring Guy said, you have a foot fetish.....there's loads of it about!... (read in full...)
How do I stop family members from talking over me?
Q. I have problems with family members because they don't listen to a word I say. I might say something really important, and they just talk over me or change the subject. They treat me with no respect. I'm starting to feel like they're taking m...
A. 9 May 2010: When you say family members are you talking about your parents? wife? children? who? Do you tend to raise your voice pretty loudly when you talk? or do you make your point in a polite way? If they are talking over you then you ignore them and read ... (read in full...)
Is phone sex more of a chore than fun for girls?
Q. How much masturbating is to much? And also do girls like phone sex? They make it seem more like a chore than fun....
A. 9 May 2010: In the beginning if a girl wants to please a guy then they will have phone sex for a while but if you keep asking for it then eventually it will start to grind on the girl's nerves because females prefer the real deal...they want intimacy, affection ... (read in full...)
Is he just using me to have someone with no comittments?
Q. iam seeing a guy now for the past few months,he had been chasing me since nearly the beginning of the year. im busy with college, chemotherapy and he is in a band thats tours and travels. we try to see each other at least 1-2 times a week when we ...
A. 5 January 2010: If he is seeing you 1- 2 times a week and he's taking you out then whats his problem? Why does he have to see you every day and have sleepovers to become your official boyfriend? This guy is giving you mixed signals...Personally i think he's not ... (read in full...)
Is he just using me to have someone with no comittments?
Q. iam seeing a guy now for the past few months,he had been chasing me since nearly the beginning of the year. im busy with college, chemotherapy and he is in a band thats tours and travels. we try to see each other at least 1-2 times a week when we ...
A. 5 January 2010: Does this guy actually take you out? i mean takes you to the movies..a walk in the park..having a drink at a bar...eating out etc...thats proper dating...if he's just turning up at your house and just having a kiss and cuddle then i would feel ... (read in full...)
Should I Meet With Him?
Q. About 4 months ago I started speaking to this guy who lives in the same city as me and is only a year older than me. Everytime we speak he asks when we are meeting up and i have told him before i would. the problem is i cant bring myself to go and ...
A. 5 January 2010: Meet him in a public place like a coffee shop or cafe...where there is people around...you dont have to get naked with him, just meet up and talk..i know your nervous but give him a chance..... (read in full...)
Wife of 15 years is cheating, where do we go from here?
Q. I could use a little advice. I've been married to a great woman for 15 years and I thought things were going well. But one month ago I discovered by accident that she had a secret email account. Well, after lots of back and forth, she admitted ...
A. 5 January 2010: Sounds like your wife is going through a mid life crisis....yes women can have it too.To be honest, i think your marriage has finished, its not like she's had 1 relationship with a man,you could maybe understand that...but 20 guys! This woman is ... (read in full...)
Should I stay and be patient, or is over?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been off and on for 1 year and 8 months. He has never cheated or lied to me. I have lied to him, but he forgave me. We are totally opposite. We really love each other and can get jealous over little things. I was going to ...
A. 5 January 2010: You two have become an old habit and your both scared of completely making a clean break.You said your relationship has been on and off for the last year or so...usually thats a bad sign...If your not compatible then your in deep trouble...the sex ... (read in full...)
Sex on a first date, today he is quiet, will he show for our date tomorrow?!
Q. I slept with a guy on our first date! Now he seems distant.. We have only really known each other a month but the instant we met online he lived near, attractive it was like we was made for each other.. he instantly give me his number and got on...
A. 5 January 2010: Little Red Corvette by Prince...brilliant song but listen to the lyrics,there's a meaning to it.You are moving too fast..you have slept with this guy after 1 date...now the mystery has vanished...whats left? You have skipped the "Getting to know you ... (read in full...)
I'm single having an affair with married man. Please help me.
Q. I am thanking you open-minded guys in advance. To make my story short, I'm having an affair with a married guy. I met him when I was still a medical representative and we both have same area. For the first time we met I knew I liked him. Knowing ...
A. 4 January 2010: Your married lover is no doubt having sex with his wife...and if he had to make a choice between you and his wife...she would win.You offer him excitement,your a forbidden fruit...but he's not really in love with you.If he was,he would be making ... (read in full...)
After this last week he has scared me a little, should I stay with him and get married or leave?
Q. Dear Cupid I am involved in a gay relationship with my best friend. He is married but now separated. We have been together about 1year and 5 months. We have never had sex as yet but we do sleep together in the same bed when I go spend the night ...
A. 4 January 2010: Thank you paulofessex....:)... (read in full...)
Should I worry about the three little words?
Q. Hi . I am misssing the elusive : " I love you " that I have been waiting for . I have seen a lovely , caring older guy . Fifteen years older than me . He is kind , caring and passionate . He has told me ....that I am special , and big in his l...
A. 2 January 2010: I would of thought after 6 months he would know if he is in love with you or not? Saying that,if he shows you love through his actions, then thats mostly important, although it is nice to hear those 3 little words.Have you actually said to him that ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he kiss me after our first date?
Q. I just went out on a first date with a guy I met last week. I was so excited to see him because we had a great conversation and he is very nice and attractive. I had a great time on our date and I would really like to see him again, but I'm afraid ...
A. 2 January 2010: Are you seeing each other again? ... (read in full...)
After this last week he has scared me a little, should I stay with him and get married or leave?
Q. Dear Cupid I am involved in a gay relationship with my best friend. He is married but now separated. We have been together about 1year and 5 months. We have never had sex as yet but we do sleep together in the same bed when I go spend the night ...
A. 2 January 2010: Walk away...this guy is not making you happy, he's making you sad, frustrated and frightened...is this what you want in a relationship? This guy is a tease..he throws you a few crumbs by sharing your bed and with great promises of Canada and ... (read in full...)
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