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writes: i been going out with a guy for four years and im faling out of love i dont want to throw something away for nothing but i am willing to sacrifise.,im messing around with a guy from work who i do like alot.But not sure if he feels the same way about me.Iwas going to ask him but he had said before that he does not date any one under the age of 21....im 18 and he is 25.Im very confused.should i ask him out to talk or leave it alone Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): i know how easy it is to get caught up in this type of situation...i myself am currently in one just like it..only thing is i have crossed over..i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i love him to death...but i have been seeing someone from work on the side for about 5 months now...everytime i try to cut it off i end up going back.. you need to stop and figure out what you want and who means more to you..i already know the answer is my boyfriend..but stopping is easier said than done
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (29 August 2006):
 if you stoped messing around with this guy from work do you think hell ring you saying i miss you come back to me no to be honest he wouldnt care because he knows he can get some one else to screw yet as for your feller of 4years he would seriously miss you. i think what it is because youve been fooling around with some one else you are thinking to your self the grass is going to be greener on the other side but to be honest it isnt always greener on the other side. why dont you try doing something to make your ralationship better in stead of giveing up and going off with some one else? try spiceing your sex lifes up try going out more things like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): Hi there, I agree with Shania...I think you should walk away from the guy at work, you need to sort your own head out, find out what it is you want out of a relationship, if it is just fun nights out, and no strings kinda thing, then go for it, you are young, live your life, but at 18, you dont want to be getting stuck in a rut with a relationship you aint completly happy about.Take care,Judith xXx
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reader, shania +, writes (29 August 2006):
 Dont you think you should be honest with your boyfriend and finish with him,before you embark on another relationship? You say you dont love him so why are you still with him?...is it out of habit? If you really want to spread your wings then end it with your fella.Now this other guy you like sounds to me like he doesn't want to take things any further because he wont date anyone under the age of 21,to me that sounds like a cop out.To me,18 is not that young,your an adult and him being 25 is hardly an old man,we are only talking 7 year gap here...if he was really keen on you then age wouldn't come into it,well not in your case any how.I would forget about him because he just wants to flirt and thats it.
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