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He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?
Q. I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...
A. 31 December 2008: Fellas get side tracked....i wouldn't worry too much about it, you two are very young and a long distance relationship can be very testing...have fun and go out yourself, i know you are very keen on him but you need to focus on yourself for a ... (read in full...)
I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...
A. 31 December 2008: I got pregnant after 5 years of using the with drawal method, i thought i got away with it before that, but i obviously didn't. Sooner or later you will fall pregnant this way....... (read in full...)
What are some hot things to say while having sex?
Q. What are some hot things to say when your having sex that will get him really turned on?...
A. 14 December 2008: Well there are a number of things that you can say to him like....I want to lick the whole of your shaft while i play with your hairy balls....or, i want to finger your hole while i tongue you all over....the list is endless.....Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 14 December 2008: Becca, its so easy to be fooled by someone. I think you had a romantic notion that maybe,you two could of been an item, you saw him look into your eyes, it meant nothing to him but you were mesmerized, just forget him, time is a great healer and you ... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 13 December 2008: Well, even if he did pay you back before, he isn't now...Anyway, regardless on whether his friend died or not, why on earth should he delete you off Facebook...charming....Do you really want this relationship? If you could call it one.He had sex ... (read in full...)
Does he really care, or is it just lust?
Q. If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust? I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon. ...
A. 13 December 2008: Kiss the guy for god's sake, put him out of his misery, otherwise your just teasing him.You either want him or you dont.... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant or is my period just disrupted?
Q. Hi, I am going through the same situation... I am 23 years old. I always get my period 4-5 days earlier than the last one. I had sex 2 weeks after my period for the first time. I did bleed a lot, and we had it again the next day... I started...
A. 13 December 2008: You need to do a pregnancy test if you want to know for sure. Guessing wont do you any good, you need an answer, buy a test kit today......good luck... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 13 December 2008: I tell you why, because he doesn't want to cough up the £20 quid he owes you, so he's done a runner. And the old chestnut,where he said his friend just died is a load of old bull....plain old fashioned lies, i dont believe a word of it.
The man is a... (read in full...)
Should I ask my married lover to leave his family for me?
Q. I'm 41yrs old and single. I have been seeing a married man 55yrs. We had been friends for about a year when one day he asked me if we could just have sex. He said that he was lonely he had no companionship with his wife anymore. I was lonele too I'd ...
A. 13 December 2008: Has your lover actually said to you, that he loves you? I bet he hasn't, it sounds a bit one sided to me, but then im not emotionally involved, so i guess its easy to judge. Right, this is what you do, you say to your lover that you want to be with ... (read in full...)
Should we try councelling or is it to late will it never work again?
Q. My husband has had an affair with a woman he has known for 5 years through work who is ten years younger. It had been going on for 7 months before I found out. Around the time it started my father had just died and he lost his business so we were ...
A. 14 November 2008: You move on, he said he's not in love with you, so tell him to sling his hook.I know you still love him and your emotionally involved where im not,so yes, its easier for me to say all this but please believe me, you will get through this and you ... (read in full...)
Burning questions about guys and your erections!
Q. Hey guys, I really want to know all about erections; a)How does it actually exactly feel when one has an erection?! b)What can a woman do to make it feel better? c)What NOT to do...? d) Are there different types of erection? Thanks...
A. 12 November 2008: No dear, there is just one erection, the penis goes straight up when its aroused, simple as that...its not a science.... (read in full...)
Should I politely tell him to go away or should I throw caution to the wind and meet up?
Q. About 7 months ago I started temping at a company I worked at 6 years ago. A couple of weeks after I started I got an e-mail from a guy I used to work with saying hiya how are you, saw you in the canteen, you're still hot, are you still single. I ...
A. 12 November 2008: While he's sending you sexy emails,i bet my bottom dollar that he is having sex with his wife and your just a distraction. Yes, he's bored at home but not bored enough to leave her, they never do. What happens if you start to see this guy for ... (read in full...)
Should we try councelling or is it to late will it never work again?
Q. My husband has had an affair with a woman he has known for 5 years through work who is ten years younger. It had been going on for 7 months before I found out. Around the time it started my father had just died and he lost his business so we were ...
A. 12 November 2008: While he is having strong feelings for this woman then personally i wouldn't make him choose or ask for him to come back.He is feeling very guilty,thats why he is upset when he visits you.But your not his psychiatrist, you have children to take care ... (read in full...)
What is with men and older women?
Q. Guys:- Are men really attracted to older woman? (For example women in their 30s or 40s?) Why do some men date older women - is it because they get bored with younger girls or does age really not matter? Also what age gap between younger men and...
A. 12 November 2008: I think men find older women attractive because they know what they want in bed.Younger women tend to be self conscious with their weight etc. Plus older women tend to enjoy sex more and like to experiment.... (read in full...)
After everything he still acts like he loves me, what's up with this guy?
Q. Dear Cupid, For the past 4 years now this guy and i met we became best friends i told him i liked him but back then he was so busy and he was too shy and gave me a letter saying we shouldnt go out because he didnt have the time he thought i deserv...
A. 12 November 2008: This fella doesn't know whether to go for a shit or a haircut?
Just an English phrase....This guy is playing with you but at 16 years of age, what do you expect....fellas that age want to play the field,they are immature,its to be expected...i know... (read in full...)
Would you like to be second best?
Q. If you found out that your bf/gf was going to dump you for their ex, but then decided to stay with you, would you be ok with it or wud you end it with them ? how would you react ?...
A. 27 October 2008: Dump him, he is using you...he is half hearted about this relationship.... (read in full...)
My fiance had threesomes in the past
Q. My wedding is in one month and my fiance just admitted to me he had threesomes in the past. He is always talking about it, but I thought he was just kidding. Now that I know he is done it before I am so disgusted.. what do i do????...
A. 27 October 2008: When you say that he is always talking about it, do you mean that he says it with fondness and that he loved every minute of it, or just wanted to confess all before the big day? Either way,you now know, but it did happen in the past and he is now ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my husband?
Q. Hi everyone, I am thinking of leaving my husband, he is an only child and of course which is natural, his mother thinks the world of him. We got married less that 2 years ago, dont have sex anymore, he walked out on me before, but we managed...
A. 3 June 2008: Ask yourself this, could you imagine life without him? Do you still love him? He's willing to move back with you so he sounds more committed in this relationship, i wouldn't worry too much about the photographs, his mother obviously,hasn't let go of ... (read in full...)
How to set up a watching game?
Q. Can those who have watched their wives doing it with other men, give me some advise on how best to set about arranging such action?...
A. 3 June 2008: Do you really need to be told? Is your wife happy with you arranging men to shag her? If so, im sure there is web sites that cater for this,or in certain magazine adverts. Can i just warn you though, while you will be acting out your fantasies, ... (read in full...)
I happened to see my son masturbating and don't quite know what to do about it!
Q. I am a mother of 2 kids, 11 year old boy and 8 year old girl. My husband is on a business tour and will be back only after two months. Couple of days back I happened to see my son doing masterbation in his bedroom. He does not know that I have seen ...
A. 3 June 2008: Masturbation is perfectly normal and at 11 years of age,that is not uncommon to be doing this. He's growing up and why embarrass him by telling him you have seen him? What will you achieve? Its normal............. (read in full...)
I want to leave my partner, and this country, but our children complicate things!
Q. I want to leave my partner , but what makes it so difficult is that I’m from a different country and we also have two young children with a third on the way. When I leave my partner I don’t wish to stay in Australia. I have no social network here ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hey! lets not rush things here, your pregnant here and your emotions are all over the place, are you sure you want to leave your partner? If you want to leave then i would suggest you wait until the baby is born and even then,that would be too ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he doesn't offer me oral any longer! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore. He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't...
A. 1 May 2008: Crikey, sorry to sound prudish but im looking at your age here, your only 13? your far too young for oral sex and how old is your boyfriend....forget i asked that, slow down girl, whats the rush? You want to run before you can walk. Please, please ... (read in full...)
What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?
Q. What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal se...
A. 30 April 2008: I wouldn't read into too much, he probably gets turned on by saying that,because he wants to be dominant....its just a phrase........ (read in full...)
How can I stop my Husband beating me?
Q. How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...
A. 30 April 2008: How do you stop him from beating you?.....Get out now...walk away, you have to leave him otherwise the next time he could kill you. No man should hit a woman, he doesn't love you, he wants to control you. Isn't there any place you can stay,where ... (read in full...)
She says she's going to leave her husband for me, but I'm not sure, neither me or her husband deserve this, should I say enough is enough?
Q. i am having an affair with a married girl , i have tried to end it cause i love her but she cannot be with me . but she came right bk the next day saying she had made a mistake to let me go , and i am the only one she wants so i took her bk , and ...
A. 12 December 2007: I get the impression that your married lover is dangling you on a piece of string, she says she will leave him,so why in the hell is she going on holiday with him? it doesn't add up.She's getting the best of 2 worlds, she has the stability of a ... (read in full...)
I suspected he is a player, but we have really connected and are taking it slowly, am I just his bootie call?
Q. I met this guy about a month ago, hated him at first, he screamed player to me, however after getting to know him I began to like him and have slept with him twice. Both times we connected emotionally as well as sexually. I dont know where we're ...
A. 12 December 2007: Its hard to say, but judging by his history,i would tread very carefully. This guy only see's you every 5 days so he's not exactely, breaking your door down to see you.Take it slowly,your doing that now but if you feel that in 6 months time its ... (read in full...)
How can I support her without giving off mixed signals??
Q. First a little background: I am happily married with 3 children. About 3 months ago a young woman started working in another department in my company. Due to her job, I see her several times a day, and over time I became quite friendly with her, ...
A. 22 November 2007: Well i feel sorry if she's feeling depressed but its hardly your fault. Your a happily married man,end of. You dont need to justify yourself and your not responsible for her happiness. What might happen is if you show a bit of kindness she could ... (read in full...)
It's difficult to leave, hot to save myself?
Q. hie how do you let go of a guy who you know is just using you but does not love you who wants sex from you only but you want more from him, i have tried leaving such a guy but its been difficult.how do i save myself?...
A. 10 November 2007: Sounds to me like your craving for someone to love you and by having sex with them,that will answer all your prays.Trouble is,its not working like that,is it? Maybe your giving yourself too quickly to the 1st bloke that comes along? You need to ... (read in full...)
I helped a disabled girl-was it the wrong thing to do?
Q. I have a friend who nobody likes because she isn't fake like everyone else; she doesn't wear her hair like them, or make-up, or talk like they've never heard English before. She is very shy and only wants to be liked because she has no friends but ...
A. 10 November 2007: With a friend like that,who needs enemies? Your so called best friend is a arrognant,selfish,uncaring little girl,who needs to grow up. And as for the gang who was pushing her,well they need stringing up. What you did was correct,you helped that ... (read in full...)
Should I end my current relationship and hook up with the new girl?
Q. I've been in a relationship just over a year now, it's a rocky relationship at best and more then once has nearly ended but that's not the problem..... A few weeks ago I went back to college and I met this other girl in college. We haven’t slept...
A. 9 November 2007: Well the decision lies with you at the end of the day.If you dont love your girlfriend,or your arguing all the time,then it sounds to me like this relationship has run its course.Your already making eyes with someone else,so it looks like you have ... (read in full...)
Could this be a mommy complex?
Q. hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still n...
A. 29 October 2007: There's nothing wrong in having a few fetishes,but its only troublesome when he expects it everytime he has sex with you....its not only boring for you but it can become a unhealthy obsession where your boyfriend cannot get a erection unless your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving away, I'm staying put, is this the end for us?
Q. Oh, I'm desperate! My boyfriend and I have been "together" for almost 9 months now. He decided against coming to school in the town I live, and is interviewing for jobs in his own country- and that's far away! He always told me that he didn't ...
A. 28 October 2007: Well it doesn't sound like he is making much sacrifices for you,now is he. Its all what he wants....sounds a bit selfish to me. He doesn't even compromise. So to put it in a nutshell,your not too keen to move....and neither is him,so what does that ... (read in full...)
I feel like an addict
Q. Hey Cupids, Why cant I just let go! Even through my ex walked all over my heart and totally took my feelings for granted I still think about her all the time and am fighting the urge to pick up the phone and call her! I have the possibility...
A. 28 October 2007: This is no good,how can you have a proper relationship with anyone else,if you keep running back to her........and she knows it.This woman sounds imbalanced and you cant let go. I suggest you cut all contact with her,that means no emails,no txt ... (read in full...)
Umm ... was it sex?
Q. my boyfriends and i were fooling around the other night. it started as just humping, i had no underwear on, but he had boxers on. Then he took them off. we did the same humping motion, and his penis touched my vagina, an went in, but i dont know if ...
A. 28 October 2007: If he penetrated you,then yes,you had sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for both, should I let one go?
Q. I had fallen for a guy in the city where I used to live. But because I was moving, we never have made anything more of our relationship but have kept in close contact. I began dating someone 2 months ago where I now live. I'm so torn between who I ...
A. 27 October 2007: Stick with the 2nd guy.......the 1st one isn't going anywhere,it never did.....he's just seems more appealing because you cant have him.Give the 2nd guy a chance,if you really have strong feelings for him,it will grow into love.... (read in full...)
Do you think he really loved me??
Q. Me and my boyfriend was having a affair! He lived with me for bit but then went back for the kids he said! Anyway we kept seein each other for past 7mths! We had a row and was made now he doesnt want to know me! He replies me txts sometime...
A. 2 September 2007: Not many married men leave their wives for their mistresses,why would they? If this man truely loved you then wild horses wouldn't keep him away.But he has walked out to be with his wife and kids and your back to square 1 again.I suggest you to stop ... (read in full...)
I have come to realise no matter how much he means to me I can't come to terms with the fact he has kids (he is divorced). Should I leave?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship of two years with a man who I get on really well with. We never argue, laugh alot together, and the sexual chemistry is strong. He is 12 years older than me and has two grown up children (16 and 20). He just recently got ...
A. 2 September 2007: Whats more important to you? Having children or him? You probably need some more time to think.Your 32 years old so if you were to meet another man then you would have to expect some baggage.A man in his 30's is either going to have a child or two ... (read in full...)
I love him but I can't trust him. Will he do the same to me that he did to his ex gf?
Q. Ok, I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on two years now, but we have only seen each other once in the last eleven months for we have a long distance relationship. I know he loves me and I love him. But I don't know if I should trust him ...
A. 5 May 2007: Sorry if im going to sound blunt with you but i cannot see this relationship lasting.You said you have only seen your boyfriend once in the last 11 months,which to me isn't a proper relationhip.I know your very keen on him but the distance is too ... (read in full...)
He still wants me even when his wife is with him!!
Q. I have been seeing a man for a year now and he works here but from another country. He told me last year that he was married and if I wanted to go I could.I love him to much and couldn't go away.I asked did he want that I go bye and he said no ...
A. 5 May 2007: This man is using you for a bit of excitement in his life and while your offering the goods then he's going to just take.He has no intention of leaving his wife or kids,why should he? He's getting the best of two worlds.Dont put up with being 2nd ... (read in full...)
He says: There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE"... views?
Q. I am dating a guy who said, There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE" I am not sure how to take this. Part of me thinks this is a great thing because he is confident and he ...
A. 5 May 2007: Doesn't this bloke love himself?...It sounds to me like you should be grateful and honoured that he's giving you his precious time,what a massive ego he has and yes,i would agree with Dr Psych and that he probably suffers from a touch of ... (read in full...)
Is this guy just using me, or does he like me ? What would this conversation tell you ?
Q. This is a conversation i had with a guy i liked, i get most of it but not all.Is he using me? Does he like me? Just please tell me what he means? Me: What do you think of me? Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate? Me: What am...
A. 30 April 2007: Well it sounds to me like he is using you for sex...why? Because he doesn't see you as a girlfriend but a person to have a leg over once in a while.Lose him.... (read in full...)
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