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Hi Im here to help if I can, Most of my adult life people have come to ask for advise, I think its because I have been in quite alot of situations or as I like to look upon them as learning experiences, I do not judge we are all different, It is our differences that make us special...Feel free to message me anytime..with lots of love MANDY :) XXX Angels dont always have wings, They sometimes live down the road with the kettle on, ready to listen to your worry's Or if ya lucky one may take you out for a pint and a game of pool :)

Hi to all my friends and to those who send private mail, I havent at this moment got internet connection. Only from my phone, I will get back to you so please dont think I havent bothered after reading your problems I will do my very best to help and get back as soon as poss. Thankyou for your patience :O)

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Being friends with the ex

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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...

LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...

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My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?

Q.   My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...

A.   6 July 2008: oh hunny Im glad they have found something so it can be sorted hopefully but they lost a blood test ooooh that makes me mad...you enjoy your holiday and i'll carry on praying for u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?

Q.   My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...

A.   2 July 2008: have fun in the sun (:0) hun xXxXxXx... (read in full...)

My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?

Q.   My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...

A.   1 July 2008: keep us posted hunny best of luck and lots of prayers love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)

Question about how straight guys act...

Q.   Hey, Got a question about how str8 guys act. i`m a gay man , i`ve written before about this guy, but theres more unsure things about him , or maybe i`m just confused about how the str8 mind works lol this guy makes it clear that his girlfrie...

A.   22 June 2008: Like I did say hunny he may be testing the waters (I did say that eh!) Oh well Im saying it now, You may be right with the way he has been brought up the quick marriage and he may have just conformed to his familys way of thinking which isnt ... (read in full...)

I always end up with a wrong partner, what am I doing wrong?

Q.   Way is it that everytime i think i found the right guy.I allways end up with the wrong one,the partner i have cheated on me so many times and i will like to know what am i doing wrong....

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny You are doing nothing wrong, They are! dont go back to a cheat if he has done it once he will do it again and if you go back over and over again your giving him the all clear that its ok...You will find someone one day hunny that will trea... (read in full...)

Wll she be interested if I talked to her about my ex??

Q.   im talking to a girl whos a lil younger.. she knows my ex-gf whos really popular... do u think it'll make her more interested if i talked to her about my ex... but i like this new girl.. or dont bring her up at all ......

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny I went out with a guy who did nothing but talk about his ex wives and he spoke about them in such a happy way like this was all good memorys to him and it is a total put off..Not only do you wonder why they split up but you wonder why if h... (read in full...)

Is there anyway I can stop thinking like this, I don't want to lose him.

Q.   I've just started going out this guy i really like and we get on well with each other. we both have the same interests and enjoy each others company. the problem is, when things start going very well i start to push him away as i can feel my self ...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny You need to sort your self esteem out as Ive been through really bad past relationships and this is how I react because of the hurt and pain as soon as you get close to someone you push them away with alsorts of strange behaviour beca... (read in full...)

My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?

Q.   My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny Your sister needs to go back to the doctor there are more test that can be done to see what the problem is hunny. Heart tests such as ECG, Holter monitoring, echocardiogram, or an exercise stress test. A tilt table test. This test checks ... (read in full...)

I just ignore her 'cause I cant take the pain. I don't know what to do!!

Q.   I'm in love with this girl at school. Been about 8 months. I really thought that she loved me too. We used to talk a lot and show signs that we like each other. As months went by, she began focusing on other guys. She talks less to me and dont even...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Sweetheart You need to calm down first as what ever you feel at this moment will not change a thing, Your a good guy and she has gone for the bad boy..You ask yourself why hunny and I can not tell you why and Im a girl. I dont no why some girl... (read in full...)

Small bumps on my vaginal area, I'm afraid to go to the doctor!

Q.   yes i have small bumps on my vaginal area at the end where the hair stop befor it enters to your clit...im afraid to go to the doctor to me they look like skin tags...can some help n tell me what u guys think they are please!!!!...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny These could be quite a few different things hunny and probably nothing to worry about when you say lumps do you mean some kind spot, or a swelling like a pea. Such a swelling can be a blocked gland or a cyst. But you really need to go to y... (read in full...)

My best friend is a priest and fell in love with a woman. What should I advise him?

Q.   i have a friend. he is a priest.he fell in love with a woman. he is facing in a very crucial decicion-making of wether to give up his career and disregard his vows as a priest in order to be with that girl for good or to just forget her.what can i ...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny You say you dont want his life to be ruined by that woman, So have you made your mind up that she is no good for him sweetheart.. As a true friend I would listen to my friend and all he has to say and just be there for him, You can not ... (read in full...)

The condom broke and I got my period the very next day, any chances of pregnancy?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were having sex when the condom broke, Now I got my period the very next day and had a normal period except for the odd fact that I had severly bad cramps for two days. Is it possible I could be pregnant? I don't feel like it,...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Love You say it was 5 weeks sinse the condom broke, Then you had a period so could you be due on another period very soon hunny, That could be why your eating more and a little emotional. You can do a test love I would wait untill your due date... (read in full...)

Is that a decent size for a kid my age?

Q.   I am 15 years old with a 6 and a half - last measured about 6 months ago - and was wondering if thats a decent size for a kid my age. I am told its nice, but want to hear it from many other people. What do you guys think?...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny Im sending you a link..... http://www.coolnurse.com/penis_size.htm What do you think????? TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)

Why has his mum added me to her facebook?

Q.   I'm 19 and there's this guy who I went to high school with who added me to his facebook as a friend. A while after that his mum added me to her facebook which I thought was really weird! She hasn't messaged me or anything saying why. I looked at...

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny I really have no idea at all sweetheart, You could send your friend a message and ask him maybe he knows the reasons behind it all TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)

I'm unable to treat my husband nice after he cheated on me. Any advice on what to do?

Q.   I am unable to treat my husband nice after he has cheated on me. For example when he asks me to massage his shoulder I say a BIG NO. Such things make our life difficult to live together. Any advice? Please help....

A.   21 June 2008: Hi Hunny Its very hard to get back what you had love when someone betrays your trust, This is understandable hunny everytime he wants something from you, You feel an anger inside as if he has no rights to ask anything of you.. If you do generall... (read in full...)

Why do women like to tease men about sex??

Q.   Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...

A.   20 June 2008: OH HE IS LUCKY!!!!!WOOF WOOF GRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!:)... (read in full...)

Do you think it's the right decision/necessary for me to know details of his affair?

Q.   I've been very contemplative about this question. I have so many questions in my head all the time that all I do is just think about them. A part of me says that I do want to know EVERYTHING (times, places, who they were with, who knew, what i...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Love If you are thinking and thinking of every possibility that could have happened and its driving you crazy not knowing. What happens if the possibilitys you are thinking about are right then what. Or if you want to work on getting back toge... (read in full...)

Why do women like to tease men about sex??

Q.   Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hunny I suppose alot of women do tease and when I say tease Im meaning with maybe what we may wear and being nice can come across as teasing sweetheart, And you do get the girls that just want a drink out of a guy so will tease to get as much... (read in full...)

Period problem! Normal to sometimes have a thicker, darker period? I'm worried!

Q.   I really need some advice. My periods are usually pretty regular, for example if i had a period on feb 21st, i'd probably have one around march 22nd or 23rd. Now, during feburary I took the morning after pill. It was all fine, no sickness. Then i...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hunny The darker thicker blood can sometimes be old blood plus it can happen when you have used the morning after pill but that was awhile back now, Do you use tampons you couldnt have possibly lost one sweetheart could you? There could be many... (read in full...)

I'm confused, I ask her to spend the rest of our lives together and she says I don't value her, what's going on in her head???

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend 5 years and we have lived together for about 3. We have a daughter together. I recently asked her to marry me and she said no and said it made her feel like i didn't value her. I'm confused, i asked to spend the rest of ...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hunny You have spent 5yrs with this lady lived together for 3yrs have a beautiful little girl you ask her to marry you and she said no as it made her feel you dont value her?????Hunny I think you need to sit down and ask her straight out what... (read in full...)

I can't get this fling out of my mind! Help!

Q.   o.k this is my problem i can't seem to shake. I met my girlfriend 4 years ago she said we should take things slow as she'd just come out of a relationship. So we decided to be just friends and see how things go. We moved on to sexual relationship, ...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Love I think your self esteem is so low this is all you can think about hunny, She was abit cruel in the way she told you really and its left you with this horrible feeling that you just cant shift. I think if your confidence level was up a litt... (read in full...)

I want to loose my virginity! Any advice?

Q.   k i really want to loose my viginity and i kiss my arm and pretend a boy is actually dare but how do i get a boy that is right they all call me ugly but i dont think i am and im hated off all the girls giv me sum advise plzz im 14 x...

A.   20 June 2008: Hunny You really dont want to be thinking like this at all, Loosing your virginity is not the answer to other underlying problems sweetheart, And I say this out of kindness you say the boys call you ugly this is very cruel behaviour but also not ... (read in full...)

My sisters husband forced me to have sex

Q.   i lost my virginity at age 12 with my sisters husband. i dident want to but he forced me. know i dont know if to tell my sister wat happend. wat should i do?...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi hunny You really need to get some help, Its not easy sweetheart Tisha has given you some good helplines and they will listen to you as long as you want to talk, They will offer you good advise on how to deal with the family, You really do need... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant? I gave him a handjob (he hadn't ejaculated) then touched myself...

Q.   Yesterday I gave my boyfriend a handjob, then I touched myself. He hadnt ejaculated at this point, but is it possible I could be pregnant? should i get the morning after pill? He also fingered me himself after this...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hunny I doubt it very much in fact I doubt it at all hunny..You need a good contraceptive and condoms and this will not be a worry in the futour... http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/safersex/contraception Take care and be safe wit... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't kiss me, and hasn't in months!!

Q.   my husband does not kiss me and has not kissed me in months, he also does not say he love me and he does not have an interest in oral sex(when performing it on me) what should i do and do you see any love or likeness here?...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hun I would speak with him love, Why has the affection stopped? Your really unhappy and if he cant see this there is something very wrong with him. If you can sit down and ask him if anything is on his mind and see what he says if he trys to put ... (read in full...)

Is it weird that he has so many different fetishes?

Q.   I have an ex boyfriend who I see every now and again. He and I are very comfortable with each other, especially in a sexual sense, and have discussed the possibility getting back together in the future. Recently he's confessed that he wants to try ...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hunny There are a few you mentioned there that I'd tell him to take a running jump, Sex on a period well thats ok in my eyes but its not what I would call a fetish its just I get horny while on my period full stop! As long as Im clean Im ok with... (read in full...)

I don't feel comfortable using new sex positions yet - How can I make him understand?

Q.   My name is Amanda and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 almost 4 momths. Everything is going really good we have alot in common but we recently chose to become intimate with one another and all he ever talkes about are these different ...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi Hunny You need to sit down with him and tell him your just not comfortable with all this just yet, It is not a race to see how many possitions you can get into in such n such time..If he cares about you he will listen to your wishes there is lots... (read in full...)

I'm confused after three years of marriage and still cannot get through to him.

Q.   I have know him for five years. Been married to him for three and I love him lots. He does not show any feelings unless I pull it out of him and that is once in a while. He does not like to talk about us or sex. What do I do. I feel I can help ...

A.   19 June 2008: Hi Hunny Can I ask you do you have a good sex life? I no you say he doesnt like talking..He tells you occationally that he loves you but doesnt show any feeling normally, Does he suffer from depression love? A little more info would help as if it i... (read in full...)

Question about how straight guys act...

Q.   Hey, Got a question about how str8 guys act. i`m a gay man , i`ve written before about this guy, but theres more unsure things about him , or maybe i`m just confused about how the str8 mind works lol this guy makes it clear that his girlfrie...

A.   19 June 2008: Hi Hunny It sounds to me like he doesnt no if he is able or mable he talks wrongly about his g/f to you but tells her he loves her. He talks openly with you of b/js knowing you are gay so hint hint!!!Would be my thought on this, Maybe he is curi... (read in full...)

Wrist injury. Anyone had one and can advise me?

Q.   Grrrrrr not a relationship question, but i wonder if anyone can help. I punched someone in self defence about 5 or 6 weeks ago. Wish i hadn't now because its done me no good!Woke the next day with a painful wrist. Thought its probably a sprain s...

A.   18 June 2008: Yep sweety xray needed, It may be a sprain but without rest its going to get worse...Cold pack rest when you can Nurofen Express 200mg Liquid Capsules are a good anti inflam if you can take them as they can upset the stomach..Go to you doc hunny is ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do, haven't had my period since April!

Q.   im just wondering i havent had my perroid since april i dont tnink im pregant but is it possable that my boyfriend vestectomy dindt work and i get preganat i dont know what to do if any one can help write back...

A.   18 June 2008: Hunny You need to get a pregnancy test a.s.a.p..Rule it out at least instead of sitting there worrying. Then book an ap for your doc love or go see your doc anyway the sooner the better, You need to no one way or another if your pregnant, if your... (read in full...)

I am so confused and upset, perhaps being a fool, can anybody please help me out here?

Q.   I have been friends with this girl for around two months and talked every day online or by text or in person. I wanted to be more than friends but she had a boyfriend and never wanted to lose her as a friend, so was happy to be friends. I found out ...

A.   18 June 2008: Hi Hunny You are this girls friend YEA! Yes you wanted something else but she wanted your friendship hunny..I had a lovely male friend and he got very nasty with me because Id found a b/f and things slowly became to much for me to handle..DO I MISS... (read in full...)

We've had many fights...but I never expected it to turn out like this...!! Any advice appreciated

Q.   My boyfriend and I got into a heated argument last night while he was drunk he snapped from being fine to screaming at me and calling me.a whore and all those other lovely names people call one another. He wanted to get up to leave I stood in the ...

A.   16 June 2008: Hi Hunny You say your b/f has emotionally abused you for about a year sweetheart this is not good this is not how you should be treated by the one that loves you. Last night things came to a point and he got his arse kicked for abusing you, Ive been... (read in full...)

How do I know if I love her or just want her for sex?

Q.   how i know if i love her or just i need her for sex?...

A.   16 June 2008: Hi Hunny Do you like to spend time with her, Do you enjoy her company? If you can answer yes to these questions then its more than sex..If on the other hand you just look forward to seeing her when your horny then there is your answer to the othe... (read in full...)

How do I put on weight?

Q.   hi,im a slim light skinned girl and im currently a size 8.im usually a size 8 and ten at the most but the weight is dropping off me.how can i try to put on weight?please help....

A.   16 June 2008: Hi Hunny I think my friend country woman is right you need to find out why you have been loosing the weight first and make sure its not a medical reason...I have had the same problem and its taken me 2yrs to put on a stone..You can buy build up drin... (read in full...)

He says he loves me, but is he in love with me now? Have I pushed him too hard in the past?

Q.   I have been with "Bill" for 7 months... We were very close .. close to the point he was going to move in till I pushed him to many times..Meaning, I would tell him not to come back..(past relationships made walls real high with me).. He lived about ...

A.   14 June 2008: Hi Hunny He is going to be as peter said testing the waters to see how things go, Hunny I more than understand what you mean with the emotional walls..I have ptss and have for 10yrs I have had a really tough time getting into relationships in the ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend, but I don't get pleasured from sex.

Q.   I love my bf so much, but I dont get pleasure from sex, at all, why? It's starting to get to me now....

A.   14 June 2008: Hi Hunny Does your b/f give plenty of foreplay before just diving in there, Men like there b/j's and stuff...Maybe your not getting excited enough before the actual act itself...Do you use toys? And clitoral stimulation is really good before sex,... (read in full...)

I'd really like to hear female perspectives on what sex feels like for them?

Q.   I've been wondering for some time now. What does sex feel like for a woman. It sounds really immature i'm sure, but I've always been curious as to what the physical sensations must be like for my significant other. I've talked to a few female ...

A.   14 June 2008: Oh yea tisha the pc muscle any woman can practice this and men as well hunny for that matter, And squeeze I do this all the time to keep my pc in good working order as tisha said as the penis is sensitive more so to the tip then if your girl ... (read in full...)

I'd really like to hear female perspectives on what sex feels like for them?

Q.   I've been wondering for some time now. What does sex feel like for a woman. It sounds really immature i'm sure, but I've always been curious as to what the physical sensations must be like for my significant other. I've talked to a few female ...

A.   13 June 2008: Hi Hunny Everyone is different so I guess everyones feelings will be different..Its just like what turns you on may not turn another person on love....My fiance told me last night I pressed his big red button!!!!!So Im guessing for him its good :) f... (read in full...)

No one I know has ever experienced anything like this, would like advice from anyone who has?

Q.   alright, this is going to be long, so bear with me: i'm 20 years old, my ex (as of today) is 22. we had been dating for 8 months last month and after finding out that he had cheated on me (no sex, but making out) throughout basically our wh...

A.   13 June 2008: Hi sweetheart I would advise you to move on, That really is your only opption you really cant go on living like this...Personally I would turn around quite casually when everything is quite calm and say Im finding somewere else to live if you stil... (read in full...)

What are these "bumps" on her vagina?

Q.   my question is pretty major. My Girl Friend doesnt want to have sex because she has bumps on her vagina, ive seen it myself. they are almost like pimples, but only occur on the surface and are nowhere by the "inside" of her vagina...do you guys have ...

A.   13 June 2008: Hi Hunny Like the last post said she should go to the doc love, This could be something as simple as an ingrowing hair sweetheart but to be on the safe side tell her to get it checked ok hunny take care and if you are thinking along the lines of s... (read in full...)

FWB/casual do people think he would commit more over time?

Q.   Hey all would just like an outside view on a situation. I met this guy 2 weeks ago (total stranger) and we got on very well and have met up nearly everyday since. He is always trying to kiss/cuddle and sends sweet texts about how he misses me etc. ...

A.   13 June 2008: Hi Hunny This new guy of yours sweetpea likes you and he doesnt want FWB relationship with you he wants more he just wants to get to no you a little take things slow and see how things go because I feel he would like to be with you at some poin... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   13 June 2008: Sorry to hear your mum isnt well hunny, He spoke to you for awhile concerned about your mum so thats a good thing love..That bit you put about he said you were right he has to learn to take things easy can I ask what and how this was said love? At ... (read in full...)

Been together for 4 months..is it too soon for a baby?

Q.   Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby. Is it to soon? Am I too young? I've known my partner for 4 years because he used to work at the stables I used to go to. I love babies so much i've always have ever since i can ...

A.   13 June 2008: hey hunny You get a job you relly care about and one day when your older and a little more settled then babys can come along, it took me 3 trys before I got my girl..You enjoy your life with david hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXX... (read in full...)

Can he really change after sleeping with an escort in our marital home?

Q.   Hi, I've been married for 15 years, my husband never showered me with the love and affection I craved for. We have 3 beautiful children. I went away with the children and found out that he had an Escort in our house two days in a row. When I ...

A.   12 June 2008: Hi Hunny Oh how awfull for you, You will need alot of soul searching for this one sweetheart, He brought an escort into your home for two days..Oh my I just canot belive what you must be going through...You said your husband has never shown you much... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   6 June 2008: Hunny forget about him for 1 minute and read a little of the self esteem link I sent you, you are going round in circles..GET STRONG BEFORE YOU HAVE ANY CONTACT! Be a different you..If you have to have contact which I wouldnt but if you need this ... (read in full...)

Been together for 4 months..is it too soon for a baby?

Q.   Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby. Is it to soon? Am I too young? I've known my partner for 4 years because he used to work at the stables I used to go to. I love babies so much i've always have ever since i can ...

A.   6 June 2008: Hi Hunny You may have known your partner for 4yrs but you have only been together as a couple for 4 mths and I think this is far to soon to be thinking about having children. Yes they are cute they look lovely all snuggled up in there pram but when... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   5 June 2008: sweety you really do have to start thinking of you now...Its going to grind you down day after day thinking of this all the time and of him...I sent you a link on coping with a breakup..But your self esteem and confidence needs a lift as well hunny ... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   4 June 2008: Im not suprised your miserable hunny to have a breakup via e-mail is the same as having your guy breakup over a text message, if he can do this without any thought of your feelings and just run then he is a coward...Yes you pressured him and no he ... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   4 June 2008: Its been two weeks with no contact at all, I personally would leave it hunny, I no its hard but if he hasnt bothered at all then its time to move on with your life sweetheart and start thinking of you again..Im sorry to here of all your pain TAKE ... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   31 May 2008: I would just send a message saying quite cassual "How are you" kinda thing hunny but dont feel let down if you dont get a reply..Its either waiting for him to contact you or just that quick how are you message..Thats all you can do hunny TAKE CARE ... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   26 May 2008: The last post is right hunny...Time to miss you love, I understand your pain sweetheart just give it a little time and no contact let him contact you love, If you need a chit chat message me ok love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

Q.   I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...

A.   26 May 2008: Hi Hunny If you are both going through a stressfull time, you wanting one thing your b/f wanting another then the end result can end up like it has with you two....To much pressure sweetheart.. Its not your fault you just want to get your point acro... (read in full...)

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