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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 17 November 2008: Right hunny I've read your question, First can I say I am sorry for not getting back to you as soon as I said but I'm human and I had problems to this weekend, So please just give me some time and I always try and do my best ok love....
Not e... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hunny got you that was a mission eh!!!!!look I'm going out and haven't much time so I will write back on Sunday night..The one thing that stuck out to me is maybe your mum is right sweetheart, Maybe he is gay but cant admit this to anyone, I may be ... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 25 June 2008: good oh!... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 24 June 2008: yes I have a comment, You could have explained the situation much better and maybe put the age correct first..And also added the tiny detail that your brother had past..Which is very sad and your sister inlaw must be devistated and very vunerable ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 13 June 2008: Sorry to hear your mum isnt well hunny, He spoke to you for awhile concerned about your mum so thats a good thing love..That bit you put about he said you were right he has to learn to take things easy can I ask what and how this was said love? At ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hunny forget about him for 1 minute and read a little of the self esteem link I sent you, you are going round in circles..GET STRONG BEFORE YOU HAVE ANY CONTACT! Be a different you..If you have to have contact which I wouldnt but if you need this ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 5 June 2008: sweety you really do have to start thinking of you now...Its going to grind you down day after day thinking of this all the time and of him...I sent you a link on coping with a breakup..But your self esteem and confidence needs a lift as well hunny ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: Im not suprised your miserable hunny to have a breakup via e-mail is the same as having your guy breakup over a text message, if he can do this without any thought of your feelings and just run then he is a coward...Yes you pressured him and no he ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: Its been two weeks with no contact at all, I personally would leave it hunny, I no its hard but if he hasnt bothered at all then its time to move on with your life sweetheart and start thinking of you again..Im sorry to here of all your pain TAKE ... (read in full...)
Please advise me about protection to avoid an unwanted pregnancy...
Q. okay... i feel stupid asking this but i really want to know , my bf and i are thinking about having sex and my best friend just had sex with his girlfriend, with no condom and is in this.. predicament and i really dont want to be in the same b...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive found you a link sweetheart this should help, Always be safe sweetheart....
http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M1_faqs.asp
TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Itchiness following masturbation, what could the reason be?
Q. Last night I masturbated. The next day I felt itchiness down there. The itchiness happened in the afternoon. What is this? Is this normal to have itchiness? What should I do? I'm embarassed to tell my parents about this. ...
A. 2 June 2008: sorry hun just type in thrush in the left hand bar and it will take you there and it the last one down xxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Itchiness following masturbation, what could the reason be?
Q. Last night I masturbated. The next day I felt itchiness down there. The itchiness happened in the afternoon. What is this? Is this normal to have itchiness? What should I do? I'm embarassed to tell my parents about this. ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You may have a yeast infection as in thrush, if this continues I would just say you need to go to the doctors and explain the itching, You dont need to mention anything else hunny you will need medication and cream to get rid of it if it i... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hunny
Is the age at the top right? If so what is she doing to an underage child? If the age is wrong what is she doing anyway, This is you brothers wife, Do you not have any thought for your brother...Keep away from her she should not be enco... (read in full...)
Why do people think we are stupid little girls if we fancy a teacher?
Q. i may sound VERY naive right know but i have to ask this question,why do so many of you call us stupid little girls for liking(loving) our teachers?? we cant chose who we love you know our heart does.what if we really do have feelings for them.and...
A. 1 June 2008: Hi Hunny
I dont think anyone is a silly little girl or boy for that matter, When someone asks for advise and help when its a question like this..In my case from my point of view Im giving advise to that person on what could be the outcome and if i... (read in full...)
My sister-in-law is mad at me for what I told her parents
Q. My sister in law is mad at me for telling her parents that I hope that she and her husband have kids and that I hope they have a girl so that my 2 girls have someone to play with. Two days prior to me saying this, she told me on the phone that she ...
A. 31 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive got to say how old are you all here posting it on myspacs and taking you off her friends list oh my!!!!!! All this sound so very childish to me...Ok you were excited and told a secret you were not supposed to tell..Phone her and say ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 31 May 2008: I would just send a message saying quite cassual "How are you" kinda thing hunny but dont feel let down if you dont get a reply..Its either waiting for him to contact you or just that quick how are you message..Thats all you can do hunny TAKE CARE ... (read in full...)
Am I becoming obsessive over my spots and blemishes?
Q. hi - wondering if anyone can help. I have for a while been picking at my face - by this I mean I can spend long periods of time each day with a magnifying mirror, near a window for best lighting, so that I can pick what I think is all the spots, ...
A. 31 May 2008: Hi Hunny
You are in an abusive relationship Ive been were you are now, You need some control in your life and this obsessive behaviour is it love..You need to get out of this relationship as soon as possible hunny..you are going to need along time... (read in full...)
My bf's groin area smells really bad!! What is it? Any ideas on how I can talk to him about it?
Q. Yeah so this is kinda awkward but I have a problem with my boyfriend of 10 months. His groin area smells bad. It's like a strong sweat odor and it's rather offensive. The smell is constantly there, even after he showers, and it really repulses me. I ...
A. 31 May 2008: Hi Hunny
overactive sweat glands can cause this love he will need to be seen by a doctor for proper treatment as this is something very difficult to sort out on your own It usually requires prescription deodorants and sometimes medications. His ... (read in full...)
He said he still had feelings for me, but I think it was the drink talking.
Q. Hi I went out with a guy for 2 and half years and we were in love but I ended it as he wasn't around for any more, I changed my mind but he didn't want to get back together a wk or two later we spoke about it and he said he didn't love me any ...
A. 31 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Maybe he was guarding his heart after you finished things and told you he didnt love you because you had finished it and he felt like he could no longer speak with you for awhile as he may have been hurting, He moved on and when he saw you ... (read in full...)
He treats me like a child and is controlling
Q. i go out with this guy who i thought id really like. i had fancied him for ages as he's really gorgeous and kind. about a year ago we started dating. at first it was absolutely fantastic and the sex was the best ive ever had, but about six months ...
A. 30 May 2008: come on hunny
You no this is wrong he is more than controlling he is a complete an utter arse...He has real issues that need to be sorted but will he admit them..NO! You are the one in the wrong in his eyes... Stop wiping his feet and get out of t... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 29 May 2008: Hunny
I dont think he is rushing things because he feels maybe you are worth more and he wants to take things slowly because he has been hurt in the past...I no what that is like and I would not rush into anything when my fiance came along I want... (read in full...)
I've heard about strengthening your PC muscle by holding back when you go to the toilet but how do you do this?
Q. Hi there I've heard about strengthening your PC muscle by holding back when you go to the toilet. Apparently you can strengthen this muscle anywhere by tensing your PC muscle. The problem is i dunno how to do this :S Is it just kind of sq...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi hunny
Imagine you are dying for a pee and you are holding it back keep pulling up your vagina muscles, you can use a vibrator a small one and try and hold it there standing... This is a good way then there is the pencil test (make sure its clea... (read in full...)
In my case, I hope curiosity doesn't kill my pussy......cat.
Q. Just out of curiosity, please tell me if what I'm feeling is normal. I'm 51, by the way. This past year I've been feeling so very horny, I mean, I want sex all the time!! The slightest thing seems to turn me on. It could be triggered by som...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Your normal well in my eyes anyway, My sex drive hit the roof after my 40s and most certainly has not slowed down, Quite the opposite love...So enjoy its good for you it makes you free an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away!!!!!FORGET THE ... (read in full...)
When should I get a pregnancy test?
Q. hi i was reading what you guys wrote about the Pregnancy test. Well i just had sex with my husband and something happen so i will like to know, when should i do it? I hope to hear from you guys soon byebye thanks...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi Hunny
When your next period is due if you dont get it on the day, Wait a week, some test do say you can do it the day your period is due but its best to wait for a week as the hormone will be stronger hunny, I found you this link good luck... (read in full...)
Are these signs that he's got the hots for me?
Q. I need to know if a guy i know fancies me or is just being friendly. He tickles me, he'll talk to me loads, we sometimes have text conversations until late at night, but they're quite rare. He'll laugh at my jokes, and he teases me. He has nickn...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi Hunny
It sounds like he does like you sweetheart, Hope things go well for you hunny TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?
Q. Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi Hunny
He is not doing the right thing by anyone here sweetheart you are 16 he is 44 married and his daughter is your best friend..The family have taken you in because of your situation at home and he is using you for sex..This is your first time... (read in full...)
Question for the girls, will she give me another chance? She broke up with me because of depression.
Q. hi,i have a question 4 the girls!,some1 recently said 2 me that a girl will always tend to give thier ex another go before starting somethin with someone new,i am goin through this situation where my ex split up wiv me cuz of home life,basically she ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
If your g/f is depressed then she may feel her unhappiness is affecting your happiness so she will not want to hurt you because she is hurting...And in turn hunny because she is hurting you it makes it worse as it makes her depression wors... (read in full...)
Are there condoms for wider in girth men?
Q. where do i get condoms which are wider in girth than normal ones but are hust average size because when i wear them i fill them up with my girth...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
I dont no if this link will help you its worth a try...
http://www.feelconfident.co.uk/condoms/size_chart.htm
TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I.m afraid my parents will oppose me living with my boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend thinks I'm too negative when it comes to finding a solution to a problem. I always say it won't work. When I face a problem, I always want to leave it until I really have to face the problem. I also think about the worst scenario when I ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
The last post has good advise I have found you a link that could help you.....
http://www.lifepositive.com/Mind/psychology/positive-thinking/positive-thinking.html
I understand how you feel as other peoples ways of doing things and ... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust other people.
Q. I'm in a weird situation, I've been with my boyfriend for 2years and I trust him but I don't trust other people. I don't like it when he looks at other girls because i'm scared he will leave me for someone else... I really don't know what to do x...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi sweetheart
Like waterloo says it happens to everyone at some point, But everyone does look..I cant help looking at a beautiful guy or girl its a natural thing like looking at a beautiful painting or landscape...But you no he cant go off with a pa... (read in full...)
Condom came off during sex, I'm on the pill too, should I see the doctor or wait for my period?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles; I have a problem which could be very serious and life changing. My boyfriend and I decided to have sex, [Im on the pill and we used a condom] The condom came off and we didnt realise until afterwards. I know the...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Your on the pill so as long as you have taken them correctly you should be fine, You are taking the correct precautions so you are doing everything right sweetheart, If this is an on going worry for you a doctors appointment to pop your... (read in full...)
How can he move on like that and just stop caring?
Q. I am a married woman for about 4yrs i have two children and i am having an affair with a man who has been married for 18yrs and has two children as well. We both work together this is his part time job he works full time during the day elsewhere. We ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
It sound to me like his life was lacking in some excitment and he needed to find something and he found it in you, I dont mean to sound harsh hunny...He works long hours he is married as you are and his wife has noticed something is amis... (read in full...)
Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?
Q. I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Im looking on this from the veiw point of someone I no and at the moment is going through a bad time with an ex..He sat with me and told me she wont stop ringing me she says she has something to say and when I ask her what she says she does... (read in full...)
Me and my best friend both fancy the same guy!!
Q. Hi, I really fancy this guy , I mean I really do ... but my best friend fancies him too, I want to ask him out but I don't wanna ruin mine and her relationship. Please help!!! Thanks, Love becka....
A. 28 May 2008: Hi becka
You are a little young to be thinking this way sweetheart, But my advise to you is the girls code when you come across this kind of situation hunny then think the girlfriend code..Your friendship comes first and as you grow you will unde... (read in full...)
We broke up like a couple months ago ut I keep thinking about her
Q. Hey my friend and I we broke up like a couple months ago. we only went out for about a month and a half. But we got to know each other pretty well. But I'm wondering how can get rid of my feelings for her? I feel as though I love her......I have ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
I guess this was not on your part the breaking up love..Its so very hard to come to terms with a breakup if you care so deaply about the person and thinking about that person all the time only makes things so much worse for you as you are ... (read in full...)
He's wonderful, but he's says inappropriate things to my friends, how can I get him to understand this?
Q. I have been married for a year to a man whom I truly believe to be the 'one' for me. He is a wonderful husband and we have a great sex life. My problem lies with his behavior towards our female friends. He is always saying things to them which ...
A. 28 May 2008: Oh hunny I feel so sad for you, I hope you sort this out very soon love and the link I sent you will be very helpfull sweetheart lots of love n hugs to you mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I do not want to be with her, as I know it's illegal. I seek your advice on how to get over her!
Q. Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
An older person is taking a interest in your work giving you the appreciation you deserve she is kind and caring and you think she is an amazing person. This can happen in our lives as we grow and learn hunny we can care for someone that... (read in full...)
He's wonderful, but he's says inappropriate things to my friends, how can I get him to understand this?
Q. I have been married for a year to a man whom I truly believe to be the 'one' for me. He is a wonderful husband and we have a great sex life. My problem lies with his behavior towards our female friends. He is always saying things to them which ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
You need to sit and talk with him hunny and I mean tell him if the boot were on the other foot how would he feel if you were shouting out to his buddy..HEY HOT STUFF!!! I bet he would fall off his chair...Some men need attention and he is g... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust him and get past all this?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and before i was with him a guy cheated on me and messed me up very much. now i've been trying to trust him but the past has hurt me so much. now he has been going out twith his new friend thats ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Past relationships that have left us with scars can tend to raise unwanted emotions that lead into another relationship causing alot of pain and unwanted stress sweetheart..The thing is you know so your half way there to helping your... (read in full...)
My friend acts and looks feminine, could he be gay or maybe undecided about his sexuality?
Q. Is he gay or is he straight? I think my friend is gay. i asked him and he said no. he has displays of vases and bought me crystal glasses. we were drunk and he walked arm in arm with me. he wont dress in front of me. he has had sex with 2 women...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi Hunny
He may be sweetheart then he may be just quite feminine, He may feel comfortable with you love...Ive known of men to get engaged and be quite alot older before they realise there sexuality. It all depends on the person how they feel and ... (read in full...)
We know what a 69 is but whats a 35?? Are there any more numbers that mean sexual acts??
Q. me and my friend were wondering whats 35, we know whats a 69...and would there happen to be more of these that mean sexual acts??...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Nope cant say any come to mind, Cant think at all and ive been up to a hundered, Wouldnt have a clue if someone asked me if I wanted a 35 sweetpea!!! The closest thing I can think of is BINGO two little ducks is 22/ 34 is ask for more and ... (read in full...)
I am worried that my dad is slowly killing himself with alcohol and drugs....please help!
Q. Can someone please give me advice, my dad wont listne to anyone who tells him to stop bieng so irrisponsible with alcohol and drugs.He regulerly smokes cannabis and drives, which really scares me. Yeserday he asked me if he could borrow for money ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
I really feel for you Ive seen this first hand and its not nice, You really need to post this on the main problem page so you get as many answers as you can sweetheart...This situation is going to get you so down hunny ,You could talk to y... (read in full...)
Why does he want his mistress to be fat and his wife to be thin??
Q. Ok, I realize most of this will not make sense logically. I am currently having an affair with my best friend (we are both married.) He pursued me for two years and i finally relented since i am now going thru a divorce; we are NOT in love. But, ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
He is a control freak, He doesnt want you to loose anymore weight because other men will find you hot!!!!So he wants to keep you fat as you put it so your confidence is low and you need him...He wants his wife petite as he likes this look... (read in full...)
I moved in with my bf but I then found out he had anger problems! My ex is also back in the picture from 2004...any advice?
Q. i only knew my boyfriend 3 months before i moved in with he and his brother. A few weeks later my ex called and needed a place to stay because his chick broke up with him and his buddy kicked him out. i wanted to move back so bad and provide him ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
You can not stay with an angry man and get depressed just because you get on with his family and care for the animals, Sweetheart he is mistreating you..His anger is out of control and its only been just over 3months..You need to get away... (read in full...)
We keep arguing and she gets really hurt by this...the thing is I don't feel the same about her anymore...should I end it or carry on?
Q. me and my girlfried have been dating for a year and a half. I really love her but for a while we've been having problems. we never had a single fight for almost a year but now we fight all the time because she thinks i dont spend enough time with ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Your feelings have changed, You want to spend time on your own hunny this is what is causing the arguments and the hurt..It would be kinder to tell her the truth than to feel like she is being a chore, When its not really her fault swee... (read in full...)
Why does my mouth taste like acid all the time?
Q. Why does my taste taste like acid most of the time? i mean, i like brushing my teeth and using mouthwash..but why do i have a bad breath? even drinking a bottle beverage or beer turns my breath into hell..need help.does it have to do with me remov...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive found you a link to help,
http://www.badbreathhelp.com/symptoms.htm
Also a doctors appointment would be a good idea hunny it could be many things but if you are having stomach problems acid reflux may be a cause I cant say for... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a hand job and a blow job, but I don't know how to do it.
Q. My boyfriend wants me to give him a hand job and blo job. I'm fine with this, except I never done it before. How do you do a hand job? How do you do a blo job?...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
I dont no if you are 13 or 15 and its obvious that you havent done anything like this before, You say your ok with this, I would think very hard first sweetheart..
If this is making you feel uncomfortable then dont do it...You need to ... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
I cant tell you whats going on with him sweerheart, But if I were you I'd just stay very cool because the harder he plays it the closer your getting and the more your worrying..It sounds like he has money problems for one so that would be s... (read in full...)
I dream of a guy I met, and it feels like I'm cheating
Q. Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know ...
A. 26 May 2008: I no what your saying sweetheart I understand you cant change someone else but you can change you...Being alone if you b/f is away will have an affect.....Here is a link it may help it may not but its worth a try love and if you can find a way to ... (read in full...)
I dream of a guy I met, and it feels like I'm cheating
Q. Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Someone has caught your eye and you have become infactuated (if thats how you spell it) By him....How is your relationship doing hunny has things started to get routine and do you feel in anyway bored. You are inlove with your b/f your fant... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: The last post is right hunny...Time to miss you love, I understand your pain sweetheart just give it a little time and no contact let him contact you love, If you need a chit chat message me ok love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
If you are both going through a stressfull time, you wanting one thing your b/f wanting another then the end result can end up like it has with you two....To much pressure sweetheart.. Its not your fault you just want to get your point acro... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Hunny
The best thing to do is talk, Openly talk about what you both want, Two relationships are never the same. The things your last guy did will not be the same for your new guy people work in different ways, Its not a bad thing comu... (read in full...)
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