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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 17 November 2008: Right hunny I've read your question, First can I say I am sorry for not getting back to you as soon as I said but I'm human and I had problems to this weekend, So please just give me some time and I always try and do my best ok love....
Not e... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hunny got you that was a mission eh!!!!!look I'm going out and haven't much time so I will write back on Sunday night..The one thing that stuck out to me is maybe your mum is right sweetheart, Maybe he is gay but cant admit this to anyone, I may be ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 13 June 2008: Sorry to hear your mum isnt well hunny, He spoke to you for awhile concerned about your mum so thats a good thing love..That bit you put about he said you were right he has to learn to take things easy can I ask what and how this was said love? At ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hunny forget about him for 1 minute and read a little of the self esteem link I sent you, you are going round in circles..GET STRONG BEFORE YOU HAVE ANY CONTACT! Be a different you..If you have to have contact which I wouldnt but if you need this ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 5 June 2008: sweety you really do have to start thinking of you now...Its going to grind you down day after day thinking of this all the time and of him...I sent you a link on coping with a breakup..But your self esteem and confidence needs a lift as well hunny ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: Im not suprised your miserable hunny to have a breakup via e-mail is the same as having your guy breakup over a text message, if he can do this without any thought of your feelings and just run then he is a coward...Yes you pressured him and no he ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: Its been two weeks with no contact at all, I personally would leave it hunny, I no its hard but if he hasnt bothered at all then its time to move on with your life sweetheart and start thinking of you again..Im sorry to here of all your pain TAKE ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 31 May 2008: I would just send a message saying quite cassual "How are you" kinda thing hunny but dont feel let down if you dont get a reply..Its either waiting for him to contact you or just that quick how are you message..Thats all you can do hunny TAKE CARE ... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 29 May 2008: Hunny
I dont think he is rushing things because he feels maybe you are worth more and he wants to take things slowly because he has been hurt in the past...I no what that is like and I would not rush into anything when my fiance came along I want... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi Hunny
I cant tell you whats going on with him sweerheart, But if I were you I'd just stay very cool because the harder he plays it the closer your getting and the more your worrying..It sounds like he has money problems for one so that would be s... (read in full...)
I dream of a guy I met, and it feels like I'm cheating
Q. Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know ...
A. 26 May 2008: I no what your saying sweetheart I understand you cant change someone else but you can change you...Being alone if you b/f is away will have an affect.....Here is a link it may help it may not but its worth a try love and if you can find a way to ... (read in full...)
I dream of a guy I met, and it feels like I'm cheating
Q. Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Someone has caught your eye and you have become infactuated (if thats how you spell it) By him....How is your relationship doing hunny has things started to get routine and do you feel in anyway bored. You are inlove with your b/f your fant... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: The last post is right hunny...Time to miss you love, I understand your pain sweetheart just give it a little time and no contact let him contact you love, If you need a chit chat message me ok love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
My friends have spread a rumour that I like a certain boy, when in fact I do not. How should I tell him?
Q. There's this guy in our class, lets say: F. Now my friends tend to tease me with F. I would like to emphasise that I DO NOT like F. (If you have friends, you will know what I'm going through.) So, now, rumours spread and now F thinks I like him....
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
This boy is being cruel to you hunny then just ignore him completely.. I would most definatly have a word with my friends to stop the gossip and put things right love as it is there place really as they are the ones that have got you in t... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
If you are both going through a stressfull time, you wanting one thing your b/f wanting another then the end result can end up like it has with you two....To much pressure sweetheart.. Its not your fault you just want to get your point acro... (read in full...)
Will my boobs get any bigger? And when will they stop growing?
Q. ok so i had started devloping breasts, and then i just started my period, how will i know if my boobs will get any bigger! and when do they stop growing!!!??...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Everything hope has said is spot on sweetheart Ive found you a link that may help you understand a little more and help.....
http://www.acog.org/publications/patient_education/bp041.cfm
This should tell you everything you need ... (read in full...)
I'm 3 days late, am I pregnant?
Q. i can't take this any more i'm afraid. i just can't be pregnant!!!!!i have my whole life in front of me and my family and friends will be so dissappointed in me. me and my bf had sex two weeks ago. he took his penis out before he "cum". but he's ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
The only thing you can do is go and get that test love, I understand how hard it is for you. Worry can cause your period to come late but that is not the main thing here sweetheart..It finding out if you are, You say you b/f took out his ... (read in full...)
I'm too tight. Help!
Q. How do i make my vagina larger? I am 47 and even after using lubricant i still get very tight. I have purchased dilators but it is embarrassing using them just before intercourse. My vagina becomes very tight and i cannot have spontaneous sex. I...
A. 25 May 2008: Thats ok hunny I hope you get this sorted and feel happier with yourself TAKE CARE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I'm too tight. Help!
Q. How do i make my vagina larger? I am 47 and even after using lubricant i still get very tight. I have purchased dilators but it is embarrassing using them just before intercourse. My vagina becomes very tight and i cannot have spontaneous sex. I...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Using your fingers will help, Also buying 2 different size vibrators could help this situation with plenty of lube..Have you seen a doctor sweetheart as I would suggest you do and get some advice just to make sure everything is ok she/... (read in full...)
Is this email considerd cheating? please help me, I love my wife so much!!
Q. I wrote the following email to a friend, of whom was a girl, lets call her girl B, I wrote the email at the start of my first proper relationship with a beautiful girl i met, lets call her girl A, this was written within 2 weeks into our ...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Hunny
You havent cheated you made a mistake which you now realise and wish you could take it back. The only thing I can suggest to you hunny is you sit down with her and tell her everything you said here, Tell her how bad you feel now..Your girl... (read in full...)
My wife has always had someone else on her mind. Is our marriage worth saving?
Q. Hi All, I have been married for last Two and a Half years. We have known each other for about eight months before marriage. In those eight months we talked on phone and dated. Since the time we got married, my wife kept nagging about small thin...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Hunny
Im so sorry to here of your pain, You need to move on away from this situation sweetheart and hopefully heal from all this upset and find someone who will be there for you and love and care for you as you would for them..You deserve much... (read in full...)
My boyfriend went out with his friend today, I had no one to hang out with, and I just realized how lonely I really am!
Q. Hello everyone, Well my problems has nothing to do about sex. I know a lot of people and im a pretty fun person to be around but I have a problem trusting people as friends because from multiple past experiences friends have been fake back stabbers...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Sweetheart
You really have to work on your trust issues and self esteem to feel comfortable with you..Happy with the person you are inside and not feel lonely hun, Im going to send you some links to help you overcome this lonely spell as you dont... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?
Q. i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard ...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Hunny
The best thing to do is talk, Openly talk about what you both want, Two relationships are never the same. The things your last guy did will not be the same for your new guy people work in different ways, Its not a bad thing comu... (read in full...)
We were dating, but now she's backed away from me, saying she didn't want to get attached! Help!
Q. Hi there, So I was dating this girl who is a couple years younger than me and still in college. I started dating her on her Spring break and things seemed to go well from there. We did a lot of texting, facebook messages, phonecalls here ...
A. 25 May 2008: Hi Hunny
You met someone who didnt want to get close to anyone, She could have gone around it a better way and explained to you it was a bit of fun during her stay. The more you text the more she will ignore she knows you like her sweetheart, My a... (read in full...)
Why does he hurt me and still keep me around?
Q. The reason I left him was he was a liar and a cheater. The 1st time he did it I was calm about it and forgave him... The 2nd time was enough and with multiple girls. I left him and he agreed but said he still loved me. He is now with another cick ...
A. 24 May 2008: Sweetheart
The answer is staring you in the face..Because you are willing to listen to his lies forgive him take him back...Im going to be blunt love he does not love anyone but himself..He treats you like crap walks all over you and will carr... (read in full...)
This is the first time I've ever felt attached to anyone, but he wont call or talk?
Q. This boy had been my friends' friend for a few months and i would always see him around. But after an event where he was one of my friend's dates, he just started being around all the time. he would im, text, call all the time to go have lunch, to ...
A. 24 May 2008: Hi Hunny
You could call him and ask if you could talk as you dont want to loose this friendship, He may have only wanted a friendship hunny and all the other stuff may have confused him and he doesnt no how to react or what to say..If you want to k... (read in full...)
My son is on drugs...does love and patience really work or do I let him hit rock bottom???
Q. I am heartsick. My teen son has always been a gentle, quiet, bright yet strong and determined young man, with high marks and good goals, for his future. We had him in sports--soccer, snowboarding and golf. He always love electronics with a a ...
A. 24 May 2008: Hi Hunny I had this with my own son from the age of 14/15 I caught him sniffing anything from petrol to gas to nail varnish remover 90 cans of gas a week plus ecstasy and speed and alcohol all mixed, Of course you notice this sudden change and of c... (read in full...)
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