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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
This question has 16 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 17 December 2008: yea hunny I think she would have stopped contact all together had she felt nothing ... (read in full...)
This has been bothering me for 23 years... was I raped?
Q. I have a serious question that has been in my head for 23 years or so now. When I was 15, I went cruising around with a guy I had known for well over three years. I had one puff off a joint he offered me, and I also had a drink of his beer. I ...
A. 17 December 2008: Hi Hunny
Yes this was rape, I went through an experience the same with a guy who was supposed to be a mate about 24yrs ago..I'm so sorry for your pain sweetheart, If you ever need to talk love please message me TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAY... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 17 December 2008: Hi Love
This may be the hardest thing yet, If she is still hurting as her mates have told you, She could be getting advise from her sister to take things slow. I no you really wanted Christmas together love and I can feel your pain but maybe she ... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 16 December 2008: Hi Hunny
I'm sorry to hear this news, Em! not to sure about the tickets love is she planning on taking you when she comes back... (read in full...)
Too depressed to care
Q. i feel there is no point in me trying to change.i am too depressed to hurt to bothar.i feel there is no point in me like any guy because any guy in all my years has rejected.torn my heart out it has been done to many times i don,t think i can ...
A. 16 December 2008: Hunny
If you really felt you didn't want to do something about this I don't believe you would have asked for help. Yes we can get so very depressed that we don't want to be bothered to do anything..But starting by doing little things at a time will... (read in full...)
Too depressed to care
Q. i feel there is no point in me trying to change.i am too depressed to hurt to bothar.i feel there is no point in me like any guy because any guy in all my years has rejected.torn my heart out it has been done to many times i don,t think i can ...
A. 15 December 2008: Hi Sweetheart
Please don't give up on yourself, I can feel from your post how very depressed you are and I'm going to say to you rather than concentrate on guys right now concentrate on you...You need to find that confidence and self esteem that... (read in full...)
I put him before my career and now he criticizes me!
Q. Question: I am in a LDR for 4 years and I had traveled back and forth a lot. Our relationship started right after I graduated, then he moved away. Ever since, I been trying to move in with him and things have not worked out the way I wanna to...
A. 13 December 2008: Hi Hunny
I think he is extremely selfish in his views, And if this were me Id grab this opportunity to better my career. If this is what you want then do it and let him stew in his own advise sweetheart..You have put his feeling first taking the ... (read in full...)
The married guy I'm saying has a cheek to say I'm cheating on HIM!!!???
Q. Hey guys I am single but in love with a married man. We have sex once in a month. I am not sure about his feelings. Sometimes he says he has feelings for me and sometimes says he don't have. He has one other girlfriend also which I came to know ...
A. 12 December 2008: Hunny
Your seeing a married man, Who has another g/f????
He sees you for sex once a month in-between his other g/f and making time for the wife I guess. Your not allowed to phone him (reasons there are obvious)And he phones you once every 15days t... (read in full...)
How can I attract guys? What's wrong with me? Am I that repulsive?
Q. My name is Kristen and I havn't had a boyfriend in so long ever since freshman year of highschool (I'm twenty years old and a junior in college). Ever since then,my self-esteem has gone even lower than before. I'm think I'm too short (I'm 4'5"),I'm ...
A. 12 December 2008: Hi hunny
You are not over weight your weight for your height is normal sweetheart..I'm sending you a body mass index chart for you to do yourself ok love....
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
I had a friend who thought she was to fat, She thou... (read in full...)
I'm still kicking myself about missing work due to sick kids!
Q. Not a relationship probelm I know, but I'm so annoyed with myself right now. I rang work yetserday to say I wont be in as the kids have this virus going about. She said thats fine and the office didn't need to know cuz I can make the day up this ...
A. 9 December 2008: Sweetheat
Don't be annoyed with yourself! (This coming from someone who has been annoyed with herself for being ill)
Hunny you cant help children's illness, Your mum and like me having to juggle you job around your children WHOOOO! STRESSFU... (read in full...)
Revenge tips for me to hurt a guy's feelings.
Q. hi I wanted a boyfriend all my life since I was 18 years and now I am 30 and I have never been asked out once and a lot of the guys I liked rejected me for someone who they find more sexually attractive than me. After all the rejection and hu...
A. 8 December 2008: Oh dear!
So you realise you want to hurt someone else because you are hurting? You are 30yrs of age should you not be trying to put your energy into getting your self esteem back on track rather that being nasty and cruel because you think this is o... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: WHOOOOO!!!! GO!!!! HUFFLEPUFF!!!!!!I haven't a clue what I'm on about here... But this is FUN!FUN!FUN! And I have good people in my huffle (:0) XXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 7 December 2008: I don't mind being in the leftover pile cause all the weird n wonderful will be with me XXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 7 December 2008: I've never read a single book my son has them all, I've lazily watched a few films, But I did the test for fun and The Sorting Hat says that I belong in Hufflepuff! ... (read in full...)
I was her teacher for a while, and now we want to marry once she is old enough, but what will people say?
Q. my girlfriend is 10 years yunger to me,i am 25,we are madly in love and plan to marry after she joins some college that is 6 years from now.m ready to wait but is this relationship socially acceptable coz i for 1 year was her teacher in school and ...
A. 7 December 2008: I'm not to sure if its advise you want here or someone to agree with you, You question was.."Is this relationship socially acceptable"!
You have been advised by someone who knows your culture a lot better than I do. And you have been very rude in y... (read in full...)
I'm increasingly resenting his cross-dressing, like he steals my femininity!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and have known from several weeks into our relationship that he liked to cross-dress. In the beginning this was something I totally accepted - I was honored that he trusted me, it was something we ...
A. 7 December 2008: Hi Hunny
I understand you 110% and more, I was married to a very abusive man who secretly wanted to be a woman and was jealous to the core of my femininity, Unfortunately he told me this a few weeks after our child was born..I new a little swee... (read in full...)
Any weight loss suggestions would be appreciated... I'm desparate!!!!
Q. I was going to send this annonymously, but thought about it and decided that I have nothing to be ashamed of. I also want people to be aware that I'm not a Know-it-all, and there are things I need help with too! I am in an LDR, I first met him in J...
A. 7 December 2008: Hi Hunny
You are not hugely overweight so I would suggest a healthy eating plan love plus some exercise at home can greatly improve shedding those extra unwanted pounds, I've found a few links for you love that hopefully will help...
http://ww... (read in full...)
Anyone got any comments or support for me? I feel a bit numb at the moment.
Q. I text my boyfriend this morning to ask him to come over after work so that we could talk (I want to break up with him). He immediately called and said that he was busy and couldnt come over but we could speak over the phone, he asked if I was ...
A. 6 December 2008: Hi Hunny
Life stinks sometimes eh!!!!
I think you did the right thing, Ok you were not expecting the other girl bit but thankfully you now no and hopefully you will realise that you will only gain from this experience in time. Of course you are ... (read in full...)
How can I get off this drug?
Q. Someone help - this weird thing I have for marijuana. I been smoking for a year now but I am hooked on it. It's about 2-3 joints a day. I'm finding it difficult to stop. Anybody got any suggestions for me? I'm 18 by the way. ...
A. 6 December 2008: Hi Hunny
Have you asked for help from a doctor so he can refer you to a drug counsellor so you have the support you need love, I have found a link for you hopefully the number on there will help and the information will give you some idea how to h... (read in full...)
My two best friends have fallen out with me, what can I do to win them back?
Q. This has been weighing down on me and I really can't take it any more.. me and my 2 best friends (I have more best friends than them.. but we were the closest) aren't friends any more.. they never treated me right, they're mean to me, and etc. I ...
A. 6 December 2008: Hi Hun
As we grow up we learn that not all the people in our lives we meet and become friends with are our true friends hunny. If as you say these friends were mean to you then they were not your true friends they were cruel and unkind, Why woul... (read in full...)
After being hurt once and again, I keep on loving like no tomorrow - is it worth it?
Q. Hi all, what a fabulous site, and what awsome answers.. this isn't really a please help me, with an issue, I am just after a release really and if you have any answers I would be greatful. I just want to really know WHY? Why do we keep on searchin...
A. 5 December 2008: Hi Hunny
I guess we just get up shake all the crap off and keep our heads high,(not always a party) Rolling along and one day we may bump in to THE ONE! A lot of people when they get into a relationship are blissful then after a few yrs down the ... (read in full...)
Girls, what if you don't have the perfect body?
Q. "I look nothing like the girls from Sex and the City" "My body isn't even close to the bodies in the magazines" "My boobs are too small" "My boobs are too big" "I have a ghetto booty" "I have no butt" "I have stretch marks" "I have...
A. 4 December 2008: Oh my I'm going to copy paste n stick this on my wall, I don't think I've ever heard a fella say these things..In those words are you real, YOU'VE GOT MY RAITING HUNNY WOW!!!!!!!Im actually stuck for words good job Ive only got to type n not talk ... (read in full...)
I have some major issues with our sex life, how to bring these up sensitively to her?
Q. please bear with the length, i think this is a topic that will trigger discussion and one that many experience. I hate to "complain" as I am in a loving, faithful relationship with a stunning, great girl. she wants to marry me, we live together an...
A. 4 December 2008: Sweetheart this sounds so much more positive, You are a good guy.. I truly hope everything works out for you both with love Mandy xxxxxx... (read in full...)
I have some major issues with our sex life, how to bring these up sensitively to her?
Q. please bear with the length, i think this is a topic that will trigger discussion and one that many experience. I hate to "complain" as I am in a loving, faithful relationship with a stunning, great girl. she wants to marry me, we live together an...
A. 3 December 2008: Hi Hunny
I've read all of what has been posted and hope I can keep it all in my memory, This is going to be particularly hard for me but maybe I can shed some light on a few things here..
I was raped in my 20's and he forced himself on me, Now my r... (read in full...)
Living in somebody's shadow?
Q. Hey, Have you ever felt like you live in somebody's shadow? Like you're a support beam for someone who's meant to be happy and prosperous and at the same time your one and only purpose in life is to make them feel better? Well, this is just abo...
A. 3 December 2008: Hi Hunny
My house used to be full of people asking me to look after there children, could I pop down and help them with there housework as they were busy and someone was visiting, They were depressed and needed someone to talk to, And so on, from... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 3 December 2008: Thats honest hunny you cant be more honest than you have been of late, You as you said have learnt a lot during this time which is a good thing no matter what, Just try and relax and do stuff to make you happy as hard as it is, I no been there done ... (read in full...)
My sister's husband is so perverted around me when she's not around!!
Q. My sister's husband really perverted around me when its just me and him. I'm only 17 and he's 24. They haven't been married long (about a mouth) but he's been "in the family" for a long time. I don't want my sister to know and I don't want to make a ...
A. 3 December 2008: Hi Hunny
Your not doing anything, What could you be doing if your so worried about all this.
Hunny my advise to you is tell him straight to back off but maybe in stronger words and tone...Scare the living shit out of him, He wont expect it love..
... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 3 December 2008: Hunny if what her friend said is true then she is giving you hope, But I don't no really she is saying one thing her friend is saying another. The only thing you can do is have time out..Try not to let this rule your life, I no its hard love, You ... (read in full...)
Living in somebody's shadow?
Q. Hey, Have you ever felt like you live in somebody's shadow? Like you're a support beam for someone who's meant to be happy and prosperous and at the same time your one and only purpose in life is to make them feel better? Well, this is just abo...
A. 2 December 2008: Hi Hunny
Can I first say don't hate!!!!
It can and will destroy you, I could have felt this way, In answer to your question I have felt very much in shall we say the background at times of someone, And that someone is my sister love, As we were g... (read in full...)
I have no real friends, what can I do to improve my life? Please help...
Q. i have no real friends.......only acquaitences but thats it.....my "friends" wouldn't even care if i was around..........i have no one i can call a real friend.........i just think im not meant to have friends..........no one ever ask me to do ...
A. 2 December 2008: Hi Hunny
First of all YOU ARE NOT DUMB"!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A parent that puts this kind of feeling in your head as you grow will make you believe this and not believe in yourself..I have dealt with social phobia and I agree 100% it is not nice its qui... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends!
Q. I'm increasingly noticing that my boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends. My best friend is unaware of this. However, I know and have come to realize it over some time due to our private dialogues with one another. Also, supposedly it was a ...
A. 1 December 2008: Hi Hunny
He has put that doubt in your head now, This is your best mate how would he feel if it were the other way round..You were more interested in his mate than in him..I guess he would be none to pleased. This also I imagine would make you feel... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says his priority is his drinking!
Q. my boyfriend says his priority is his drinking, i'm expected to buy all household items, baby items. i'm surprised he gives me half for the babysitter. he recently lent me 30 dollars because i needed to buy OUR daughter a thanksgiving outfit, the ...
A. 1 December 2008: Hi Hunny
The first line of your question was..... "my boyfriend says his priority is his drinking"
He prefers to drink than take care of his family needs, He lent you $30 for an outfit for your child, His child!!!!! I don't think that he is being... (read in full...)
Why is my vagina burning during sex?
Q. I was having sex with my boyfriend tonight and at first it felt really really good, but then my vagina started burning! its never happened before, so I don't know what's wrong. help! please....
A. 1 December 2008: Hi Hun
This could be a yeast infection and when you had sex it irritated it..Thrush maybe love, Get yourself checked out to be sure though..TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 30 November 2008: Oh I'm sorry hunny,
TAKE CARE AND LOOK AFTER YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I can't wear a tampon.
Q. Hello. I am a 40 year old woman. I don't understand why I can't wear a tampon. I have tried for years, however my body seems to push them out on it's own. Does anyone know why this could be? Yes, I use them right! lol I'm just so tired of pads. ...
A. 29 November 2008: Hi Hunny I suggest an ap with your doc hunny certain things like a tilted uterus may cause this, I have experienced this myself but only on rare occasions plus at those times I'm in quite a lot of pain as well, So go and get a check up just to make ... (read in full...)
I'm really upset and angry at my dad...
Q. Hello, not really a romantic relationship problems but a family relationship problem. I'm a 19 year old woman who has just moved out to the big city and got her own flat for the first time. I'm a first year university student. Before that I ...
A. 29 November 2008: Hi Hunny
I'm adopted and I see my biological father once or twice every two months as we don't live in the same place either..When I first met him I was working and earning a very good wage and often if not all the time spent lots of money on him ... (read in full...)
I don't like how he always tries to teach me... does he even like me?
Q. Hello Friends, Am not brilliant enough what can i do. I have a boyfriend and he told me at the initial time he loves me, but as time goes on he discover that am not brilliant, he always talk to me, try to teach me, but the way he teaches me is as if ...
A. 29 November 2008: Hunny from what you say this guy is putting you down a lot, The only thing I can say to you is if you are not happy leave walk away he doesn't sound very nice. He makes you feel stupid which of course you are most definitely not..it sounds as if ... (read in full...)
Is kissing considered cheating?
Q. Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...
A. 28 November 2008: Hunny yes this is cheating no two ways about it love, I'm so sorry you had all these plans, I hope you can sort this out and find the right thing for you sweetheart, my ex husband did a quick romp in a bush I mean it lasted not even 5 minutes as the ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that he's cheating on me?
Q. Well here it goes again my 3rd question in 5 days guess I needed more help then I though or I just think way to much either way here it goes. My b/f who just turned 18 and I had been dating 3 months everthing was going great I loved him he lov...
A. 28 November 2008: Hi Sweetpea
Oh hunny its so hard to leave behind the one you love, And the first few months of a relationship is the most special..I understand just how you feel hunny....
You talk a lot on m.s.n this is good sweetheart, But all this worry will get... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup?
Q. Why does my boyfriend of 6 years always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup. He will comment here and there, stare at my face and ask if I'm wearing makeup. He makes me feel embarrassed and unattractive about wearing makeup. He says ...
A. 27 November 2008: sweety believe me he is married to an intelligent, strong minded women.... (read in full...)
Is kissing considered cheating?
Q. Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...
A. 26 November 2008: Hi Hunny
Kissing is very intimate it is very passionate and also loving, So yes it is considered cheating in my eyes love TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXX... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup?
Q. Why does my boyfriend of 6 years always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup. He will comment here and there, stare at my face and ask if I'm wearing makeup. He makes me feel embarrassed and unattractive about wearing makeup. He says ...
A. 26 November 2008: Hi Hun
I totally agree with fade and all the other posts here, I've been in a position were I was yelled at for putting my make-up on, Yelled at!!!!!!
I've always done it and always will no matter what, Its for me... NOT FOR ANYONE ELSE! If I don... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 19 November 2008: Hi Love
Sometimes its easier to say these things to your friends than it is your fella, One reason being the thought of saying something that may scare him away or he may not understand or you simply cannot get the words out or, She may have open... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 13 November 2008: Well that's a start love hope it all goes well. keep us posted love good luck, I'm sure she is the thinking type, not in a nasty way but she may analyse allot, take care love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 11 November 2008: Hi Hunny
The amount of times I've heard well its time she/he got over past issues...Its not quite as easy as popping your washing away :)..I understand more now and don't be sorry for name dropping, I just wanted to get a better view on thin... (read in full...)
I'm lost... how can she not be thinking of me or making any effort?
Q. Hey there, not sure if I can really say much or express how i feel right now but I will try. Me and my girlfriend now ex, had been toghther for 5 yrs, however every year we split up, due to arguments, niggling, and sillyness, prob caused by lack o...
A. 10 November 2008: Hi Hunny First because you choose to compliment her, If the pressure is on to compliment you back then it wont feel natural to her..What's missing here is what did you actually argue about, That may shed a whole different light on your post love..So... (read in full...)
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