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pinky_Jo
writes:I love my bf so much, but I dont get pleasure from sex, at all, why? It's starting to get to me now. Reply to this Question |
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reader, pepper27 + ♥, writes (14 June 2008):
 Hi Hunny
Does your b/f give plenty of foreplay before just diving in there, Men like there b/j's and stuff...Maybe your not getting excited enough before the actual act itself...Do you use toys? And clitoral stimulation is really good before sex,Him going down on you e.t.c Feeling comfortable with your b/f so you can experiment with all kinds of different things is a must sweetheart..To be able to do these things together will turn you and him on....Now if after saying all that and you have tryed everything and you are comfortable then if this is as you said really getting to you go see your doctor.....But try some of the things ive mentioned if you havent hunny if you need a chat message me TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, q1605  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 Women fall into two categories in my opinion.Those that would just as soon skip the sex part of their relationship because they don't enjoy it enough to bother with the unpleasant side of things, like birth control. wet spot etc. But do it out of a sense of obligation to their spouse. And those that love it because they communicate with their partner what it is they like. And where they like it. And how fast/slow hard/soft rough/gentle oral/fingers. Until you clue him in on what you like. So you just need to switch to the fun group. And if you think you don't really like sex, I will counter with, you just don't know how much you like it yet. He will not be able to decipher you on his own. Have you ever had an orgasm? If the answer is " I am not sure" then you haven't. Unfortunately you will have to take ownership and responsibility for finding a place inside your head that lets you relax and make it to the big O. He can lend a hand which will get him started on figuring out the combination on your lock. But mentally it will be just about all you. But when you have an orgasm and can relax and get them consistently. Then you can fine tune his input to all that feels good to you and pretty soon, you'll understand why every body wants to get naked at the drop of a hat.
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reader, mum and 1 +, writes (14 June 2008):
do you feel ready for sex? how well do you know your boyfreind? do you trust him? do you have any ongoing issues with sex? try to anwer these questions yourself and maybe then you may start to feel relaxed. try talking to your boyfried he maybe just as nervous and unsure as you are. take a break from sex for a while and get to know each other slowly without the added pressure of sex! happy dating!
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