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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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Should I trust him again after he vanished with no apparent reason?
Q. me and a guy ive knew have just started "talking" but like a year ago we used to talk then and he must of just totally forgot, but yeah i went with the flow. last time we talked he blocked and deleted me with no reason what soever i tried calling ...
A. 13 July 2008: well hunny at least you no now he isnt going to change and hopefully u can move on with ur life TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 6 July 2008: oh hunny Im glad they have found something so it can be sorted hopefully but they lost a blood test ooooh that makes me mad...you enjoy your holiday and i'll carry on praying for u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I just had a baby and now my partner seems unimportant!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts! Please help me as you've always guided me so well in the past.. I am 23 and my boyfriend of 2 years and I have just had a beautiful baby boy whom I absolutely adore.. The only thing is that now he is 4 months old, he seems to...
A. 5 July 2008: Also hunny give your partner the chance to take some care of the little one work out a system of some kind that you are not the one that gets up every morning that he does it as well, And dont think he cant because he can he may not do it like you ... (read in full...)
I just had a baby and now my partner seems unimportant!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts! Please help me as you've always guided me so well in the past.. I am 23 and my boyfriend of 2 years and I have just had a beautiful baby boy whom I absolutely adore.. The only thing is that now he is 4 months old, he seems to...
A. 5 July 2008: Hunny
There is nothing wrong with you a visit to your nurse may not go amiss but to be honest what your saying I can understand as this is how I felt when I had my son he is 26 now I was only just 20 when I had him and I felt like my life had chan... (read in full...)
I'm really embarrassed about my nose!
Q. I'm really self conscious about my nose. As soon as I learn to accept it and forget about it, some jerk at school says something mean to me about it that just lowers my self esteem again. I'm 14 and I know that once I'm 18 or older my parents ...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi Hunny
When doing corrective makeup, especially on your nose, always use a subtlte touch when highlighting and shading, as you don't want the shading to be too dark or it will be too obvious.
For shading you have two options - depending on... (read in full...)
I am having sex with someone that's doing someone else!
Q. What do I do with myself - I hate the person I have become! I went out with a married man twice and he dumped me. I recovered from it after going for vacation immediately after, and a month and half later we met at a party and sure as hell I acted ...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi Hunny
You are really not happy with yourself sweetheat you dont like what you have become and want to change this pattern..So dont go back for more I no its easy for me to say Im not in your possition but hunny I have been in a situation of a si... (read in full...)
Can you help me with a solution to this letter my wife wrote?
Q. After 20 years of marriage , she has decided I'm not her ideal husband . She wants a me to not be like me or I need to change to be different . She is a generous , helpful and will do anything to help others . These are things that I am not , ...
A. 4 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I dont believe writing a letter to be a cowards way out at all, She needed to say how she felt in her own words with out argument, She just needed you to know how she felt..I think writing it down sometimes helps as the person can read and ... (read in full...)
How do you go about getting councelling?
Q. How do you go about getting counselling? And do you have to pay?...
A. 4 July 2008: Hi Hunny
You should go through your doctor, And he/she could refere you to a counsellor, citizans advise may help as well love, But If your feeling bad then go see your doc TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY CXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
He asked for my number, now he's missing in action, should I forget him?
Q. So this guy approached me in a club at the weekend, he chatted to me for ages was really nice, the convo was easy not over the top and I wasn't drapping myself round his neck, he spent time talking to my friend about me (she got the vibe he really ...
A. 3 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Dont text anymore, If he is interested he will text you but just leave him love, Yea your out and you get chatting and you swap numbers but I would never text first if I heard nothing then the number would be deleted within a week and then... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 2 July 2008: have fun in the sun (:0) hun xXxXxXx... (read in full...)
How can I help my depressed Mom and make her happier?
Q. Please help me. I am 16, I have always known that my mum had a hard childhood and i knew that through her life at times she has been depressed. She was a single mum looking after me but now she is married, and today my step dad told me that she is ...
A. 1 July 2008: Oh sweetheart
You are the most wonderful daughter and your love for your mother will help believe me, My children have always shown there love for me everyday.. Ive had up and down times but because of the support of love and laughter from my chil... (read in full...)
My curvy Goddess is trying to slim down! How can I tell her I like her the way she is?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months and she is the largest girl that i have ever dated (shes about 5feet 6 inches and about 180 pounds. before her i only liked women with slim bodies but found myself so attracted to her curvy ...
A. 1 July 2008: Hi Hunny
You can tell her you love her the way she is but if she is not happy within for herself then should you not be happy that she wants to help herself feel better..It really sounds sweetheart that she needs this for herself confidence and self... (read in full...)
Even though I don't like him as a person and don't want to really be with him, I am so sad...
Q. I have posted on this site earlier about my relationship with my ex-bf. To sum it up, we were together for two and a half years, lived together for one and a half. I moved to a new city for my Ph.D and we broke up cause it was more important for him ...
A. 1 July 2008: Hi Hunny
You were with a game player sweetheart, He messed around behind your back and treated you like crap..But he is the one thats lucked out this is how you look at this..You did nothing wrong he did. He did not respect you or care about your... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: Thats great news Andrew, Yippee its getting bigger n bigger guys n dolls...Everyone coming together to help each other what could be better than that GREAT NEWS!!! ... (read in full...)
I retaliated in an email to a guy I just met and am very fond of! How can I turn this around?
Q. I am a female aged 49 and got very fond of a guy I met as friends only on holiday. However on returning we e mailed a few times and then he got cross in one and I retaliated-which of course is stupid. I would still like to be friends with him as ...
A. 1 July 2008: Hi hun
If he liked the ballroom dancing but lacked confidence sweetheart then that may be a nice idea, Or you could get a card and tell him the truth of how very sorry you are and as you put in your question you only want him to be happy and you ... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 1 July 2008: keep us posted hunny best of luck and lots of prayers love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Is it safer to use 2 condoms?
Q. is it safer to use 2 condoms at a time?...
A. 1 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Its not actually safer to use two condoms than one as the two can rub together causing friction and break, Hunny you would be better sorting out some contraception for you...
http://ww... (read in full...)
Could sharp pains in my head be linked to masturbation?
Q. Hi, i am a 15yr old male incase the above says otherwise. I masturbate frequently but recently have had a problem. I occasionaly get sharp pains in my head for a short while (for about 15-30mins). Also, I don't know if this is relevant but I think I ...
A. 1 July 2008: Hi Hunny
go and see your doctor, If you have had alot of headaches it could be Migraine, or high blood pressure as that will shoot up during masturbation, Its not unheard of love and its always best to get checked out. The doctors have heard it a... (read in full...)
How do I learn to trust and regain my self esteem?
Q. Hi everyone. I am seeking some advice on how to get beyond the things that have happened to my marriage and my self esteem. My husband of six years (together for 10) cheated on me with an 18 year old girl. He actually left the kids and I for about ...
A. 30 June 2008: Yes hunny you have a right to feel angry you have a right to feel any emotion that any given situation as this one has put you through...Your husband should be warning her off as well as you if he wishes for your marriage to survive this traumatic ... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 30 June 2008: R u achoooooooooing MOI!!!!!!
Squiffy that was me last night on both counts IM GUILTY AS CHARGED!!!!!!But oh wot fun plenty of kissing to and twas not a frog!!!!Which british friend would this be then mate (:0)XxXxXxX... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 28 June 2008: OOOOH!
The first guy I eva kissed was the stud muffin of school and it was horrible, He threw his tongue around my mouth like he was searching for something and I was nervous as hell..I didnt kiss for awhile after that as I did think at my youn... (read in full...)
I had a comtraceptive implant in March and now I'm torn between being safe and dirty or unsafe and clean
Q. First a little background info. I had the contraceptive implant back in March and the doctor did say that it would take about three months for my periods to sort themselves out. In the first couple of weeks my period was constant then stopped but ...
A. 28 June 2008: hi Hunny
Any kind of contraception may not agree with you, The bleeding all the time will make you tired and loosing so much blood is not healthy. So maybe you should consider getting a different form of contraception love....
http://ww... (read in full...)
I've been dating this guy a week and he wants to get serious...but I've never had a serious relationship before!! Help!
Q. Basically, I've been dating this guy for like a week now, He wants to get serious but I've never had a relationship before, so I'm scared of going wrong. We get on really well and I really like his company. But my worry is that if I get into a ...
A. 27 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You just have to first TAKE A DEEP BREATH!!!!Right have a talk with him very casual and tell him all the stuff you have to do over the next few weeks, Hunny if he wants to get serious now why would he finish with you for doing things that... (read in full...)
My husband has been visiting dating websites!
Q. i am new to this site, i ran into it on accident but i'm glad i did. the first question i ran into sounded just like mine. my husband has been going into websites without me knowing and there date, or meet someone websites. i found out by accident ...
A. 26 June 2008: Oh Hunny
I would def talk with him, Changing his password will really not do any good at all apart from maybe put him on the defensive..Yes he has done wrong to you, Its not nice to find something like this out, But If you want your marriage to work... (read in full...)
My 'best friend' keeps flirting with my boyfriend!
Q. Ok, i have a big problem with my bestfriend! Recentley ive started dating this guy that i REALLY like and he really likes me. Well Today at break my boyfriend came to meet me like he usually does, and we were in the middle of a conversa...
A. 25 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You really have to nip this in the bud so to speak and now, Talk with her and tell her face to face how would this make her feel and its not on..Straight talk she is your friend and she should not be acting this way if she cares for you.... (read in full...)
My penis and scrotum are 'shedding'! What is this and can I treat it at home?
Q. Ok, this is a bit emberassing, but my penis and (for lack of a better term) 'ball sack," are both having the same problem:they're "shedding." They're covered in dry skin, and some of it keeps coming off. what could this mean? Is it seri...
A. 25 June 2008: Hi Hun
I would go to your doc love this could be a fungal infection of some sort it sounds simular to jock itch but the penis is not usually infected its more the groin area and you dont mention any itching so the best course of action is stra... (read in full...)
How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?
Q. Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work...
A. 25 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Oh dear Im a woman and if Id come home to that my reaction would have been shall we say not very calm. Yes she is 18 and yes she is going to be going out with guys and sex will come into it, But oral on the kitchen table in the family home... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 25 June 2008: good oh!... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my violent boyfriend?
Q. How do I break up with my boyfriend? Bear in mind: 1. He really really loves me and this'll break his heart 2. I cheated on him, he doesn't know yet and I don't know if I should tell him because he said he'd kill me if I cheated 3. He gets viol...
A. 24 June 2008: Hi Hun
If he is violent then you dont really need a reason why you have to break up as violence in a relationship is not good at all love, And it matters not that he will be upset because he loves you so much as if he loved you that much he woul... (read in full...)
Is my partner taking me for a fool?
Q. Hi i've been with my partner for 8 years, we have one daughter aged 6. I recently asked my partner to marry me and she declined. Some time later after reading an article in the paper i became aware that i had no parental responsibility, because of ...
A. 24 June 2008: Hi Hunny..
Ive found you a link that I feel you should take a look at and then have a real discussion with your partner love as it stands you have no rights at all unless you get this document...There is I think away you can apply for it by cour... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant - what symptoms should I look for? And how can I keep it healthy?
Q. i have had a hard time getting pregnent. i have had many misscariages and an ectopic which caused me to lose a tube. when i was pregnent i had to get hormonal injection shots in my butt every day and even then i lost the baby. i have never made it ...
A. 24 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Its really good that you have stopped all drugs, And if you do want to keep a baby then you should continue to be as healthy as possible and its good new as well that your b/f has stoped....
http:... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 24 June 2008: yes I have a comment, You could have explained the situation much better and maybe put the age correct first..And also added the tiny detail that your brother had past..Which is very sad and your sister inlaw must be devistated and very vunerable ... (read in full...)
I don't understand what he wants....help!!
Q. I made out with a friend of mine and now I don't know where we stand. To give a clear picture, I am a 29-year-old woman who mostly has male friends. I always prefer men's company and my four best friends are all men. I am actually going on holiday ...
A. 23 June 2008: Hi Hun
It sounds like he really cares about you alot, He is scared of loosing you as he said alot of relationships end so he is thinking negative because he wants you but the friendship is important to him and he is confused as to what to do..... (read in full...)
She's really confusing me! Can you help?
Q. uhm.. Hey to all. I need some advice. Please! Well here is my story... Im dating this other girl... For a month and two weeks now already. But i dont know what to do. during the week everything is fine and we talk through text messages and voice ...
A. 23 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You have to go by how this is making you feel, Is she making you happy? Or is it more confusing than your mind can cope with love. Have you tryed not texting her so much and leaving it untill she texts you, If you are always ready and on h... (read in full...)
My body wants him but my mind doesn't. I don't know if it is the instinct to protect myself that's holding me back...
Q. I met up with an ex this weekend that I hadn't seen for six years. It was always going to be a bit awkward at first and I expected that. What I didn't expect was this weird feeling in my head. My immediate feeling was that I wasn't attracted...
A. 23 June 2008: OH GOD HUNNY YES YES YES!!!!!
Women are sexual creatures ya no and our bodys tell us ooooh come here, But our heads are saying yea come here but dont try and get in my heart as its well closed off triple locked a few bolts and a chain just for good... (read in full...)
Help me! I can't deal with all his drama.
Q. hi everyone, im a 40 yr old woman, who is married to a 43 yr old man, at this time we are seperated, and hes moved out, and i have filed for a divorce, which will be final in another month. i have took a dvepo out on my husband the day he and i ...
A. 22 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Smiles is right about the pillow SCREAM AS LOUD AS U CAN!!!!!Hunny I had 5 injunctions out on my husband each lasting 6 months and he still managed to get intouch some how, He was more than violent, You have to be strong very strong he is b... (read in full...)
Should I trust him again after he vanished with no apparent reason?
Q. me and a guy ive knew have just started "talking" but like a year ago we used to talk then and he must of just totally forgot, but yeah i went with the flow. last time we talked he blocked and deleted me with no reason what soever i tried calling ...
A. 22 June 2008: Hi Hun
Always go with your gut instincts, If your feeling worried just keep this in mind that you have written, Dont go jumping in with 4 feet wait and see how things go and take it really slow love after all he has let you down in the past and you ... (read in full...)
Please love me
Q. I once told my fience that most people would rather be in a bad relationship then be alone, she thought i was crazy. i said this because a good friend of mine is in a relationship where he is not apprieciated and gets talked down to alot. my fience ...
A. 22 June 2008: I liked it jay it makes perfect sense hunny :) xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Question about how straight guys act...
Q. Hey, Got a question about how str8 guys act. i`m a gay man , i`ve written before about this guy, but theres more unsure things about him , or maybe i`m just confused about how the str8 mind works lol this guy makes it clear that his girlfrie...
A. 22 June 2008: Like I did say hunny he may be testing the waters (I did say that eh!) Oh well Im saying it now, You may be right with the way he has been brought up the quick marriage and he may have just conformed to his familys way of thinking which isnt ... (read in full...)
New girl is trying to split me and my friend up
Q. Hi Guys, I'm not being bullied, but my best friend has made friends with this girl in our class, and I like her, and we've been going as a little treesome these past few weeks, it just she seems to think it's funny to get my friend to run of...
A. 21 June 2008: Hi Sweetheart
It can be very frustrating when your young and someone else comes along and spoils a friendship or trys to hunny..The best thing you can do is have a good talk with your friend and explain how you feel and say you dont mind this girl... (read in full...)
Did she actually like me or what? She seemed so normal and cool before I asked her out.
Q. I was friends with this girl for over a year. One of my close friends told me that she wanted to hook up with me, so i decided to ask her on a date. I did, and she didn't give me an answer but was really nervous. She then told me later that she ...
A. 21 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You mention that she is going away this could have something to do with it very much, Maybe she just does not want to get to close to anyone at this moment because if she is leaving in her eyes it would be maybe to painfull..She seems to d... (read in full...)
I always end up with a wrong partner, what am I doing wrong?
Q. Way is it that everytime i think i found the right guy.I allways end up with the wrong one,the partner i have cheated on me so many times and i will like to know what am i doing wrong....
A. 21 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You are doing nothing wrong, They are! dont go back to a cheat if he has done it once he will do it again and if you go back over and over again your giving him the all clear that its ok...You will find someone one day hunny that will trea... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 21 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Your sister needs to go back to the doctor there are more test that can be done to see what the problem is hunny.
Heart tests such as ECG, Holter monitoring, echocardiogram, or an exercise stress test.
A tilt table test. This test checks ... (read in full...)
Question about how straight guys act...
Q. Hey, Got a question about how str8 guys act. i`m a gay man , i`ve written before about this guy, but theres more unsure things about him , or maybe i`m just confused about how the str8 mind works lol this guy makes it clear that his girlfrie...
A. 19 June 2008: Hi Hunny
It sounds to me like he doesnt no if he is able or mable he talks wrongly about his g/f to you but tells her he loves her. He talks openly with you of b/js knowing you are gay so hint hint!!!Would be my thought on this, Maybe he is curi... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hunny
Is the age at the top right? If so what is she doing to an underage child? If the age is wrong what is she doing anyway, This is you brothers wife, Do you not have any thought for your brother...Keep away from her she should not be enco... (read in full...)
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