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Hi Im here to help if I can, Most of my adult life people have come to ask for advise, I think its because I have been in quite alot of situations or as I like to look upon them as learning experiences, I do not judge we are all different, It is our differences that make us special...Feel free to message me anytime..with lots of love MANDY :) XXX Angels dont always have wings, They sometimes live down the road with the kettle on, ready to listen to your worry's Or if ya lucky one may take you out for a pint and a game of pool :)

Hi to all my friends and to those who send private mail, I havent at this moment got internet connection. Only from my phone, I will get back to you so please dont think I havent bothered after reading your problems I will do my very best to help and get back as soon as poss. Thankyou for your patience :O)

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Being friends with the ex

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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...

LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...

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She won't accept that her weight is the reason men are not interested in her.

Q.   My girfriend and I have a very close friend. She is a wonderful girl. It's always the same scene with her. She meets a guy, they are really into each other for a few days / weeks, then the guy realizes how heavy she is and distances himself. (I'm ...

A.   26 June 2010: Hi Hun Well she may be happy in herself, You are not saying she is dangerously over weight, You are not saying you are concerned for her health..You are telling this woman that unless she sheds a few pounds she will not find love... That will not... (read in full...)

I'm 10 weeks pregnant but I don't feel anything towards this baby...why?

Q.   Hi guys, Im wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar. I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now, and everything is perfect with us. I know we're meant to be together. And although it wasn't planned, I found out I pregnant. ...

A.   25 June 2010: Hi Hunny First your hormones are all over the place at this moment, Plus if you have had depression in the past it may have something to do with the way you are feeling.. The best advise I can give to you is to go and speak to your doctor..... (read in full...)

I'm in a difficult situation with my wife...and I'm thinking about leaving her..

Q.   For the last 12 weeks I have been considering leaving my wife of 2, emotionally up and down years. I'm an immigrant and don't have many 'close' friends to discuss my/our problems. I'm seeking advice. Situation: I immigrated to the US over two year...

A.   23 June 2010: Hi Hunny If you are feeling this way you have to talk to your wife and really explain what you are feeling and wanting out of this relationship and out of life, The sooner you do this I feel you will feel better.. It sounds very much to me as if yo... (read in full...)

What's wrong with my relationship?

Q.   this is probably going to be a long one. im so lost. i feel like im going out of my mind. i really need some advice from someone else on what to do stay with him and deal with it or leave or better yet how to fix it. first off some background ...

A.   14 June 2010: Hi Hunny It sounds to me as if all his behavior at the beginning of your relationship is now affecting the here and now. Because he was flirting and talking with other girls and making out so on he feels insecure as if he is capable of doing that... (read in full...)

We are in an argument...how do I fix it?

Q.   Hi, im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and we've been together for a little over a year now. We have always had a very good relationship for the most part with only a couple bumps along the way. Lately it seems like she has been taking me for grantid and ...

A.   9 June 2010: Hi Hunny I think talking will help alot, I suggest you go somewere away from your homes and each take turns in saying what you feel is going wrong without the other saying anything untill the other is finished, This will prevent arguments occu... (read in full...)

Can stress and anxiety manifest itself like this?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm really in need of some advice. I recently found out my boyfriend had been cheating on me for a long time while we were together and I ended things. Ever since, I've been through a million emotions and needless to say, very str...

A.   13 February 2010: Hi Hunny Yes absolutly something like this can lead to depression and with that comes tiredness headaches and alsorts of other things..It happened to me when my hubby did it, It was an awfull year.. Go visit your doctor and explain all you symptoms... (read in full...)

He used me as a substitute girl! How do I teach him a lesson?

Q.   we've been relationship for 6months.before relationship he told me he has a gf 3yrs ago,she cheated him and went to overseas with her new bf. i comforted him and later we're in love. then later i found out that he still keep in touch with his e...

A.   13 February 2010: Hi Hun Unfortunatly I think you will just have to try and learn from this and become stronger as that is the best revenge you can get anytime.. Never try and get revenge it would just show you cared and he new that and yes he did the wrong thing by... (read in full...)

Pictures of couples make me feel so alone. What to do??

Q.   I get jealous when I see pictures of couples (like on facebook)...I just realize I'm alone. :( I then get mad at the thought of thinking how this one girl played a bunch of games with me 5.5 years ago. I really haven't had a gf...I get angry and ...

A.   11 February 2010: Hi Hun It sounds to me as if you dont trust women because of what this girl did to you 5yrs ago.. I can understand if you have been played around and hurt that you will be left feeling very angry at times, I also understand when you see other ha... (read in full...)

Is it ok to have friendly phone sex with a classmate when I have a boyfriend?

Q.   well...im in a committed relationship...its been 7.5months..me and my bf really love each other..i want to ask that is it ok to have friendly phone sex with my classmate?(we actually don't mean it,its just 4 fun)i mean is it ok or whether i will be ...

A.   11 February 2010: Hi Hunny I havent read any replys so Im answering your question. in my own words.. The thing here is you say you are inlove with your b/f so why would you need this excitment with another male. I would say to you, If your b/f was doing this how... (read in full...)

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

Q.   So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...

A.   26 December 2009: Hi Love Thats what Im here for sweetheart :) Im glad you have mannaged to sort things out..Its so hard when you like someone and they know this and really take the piss...You are better of waiting for a decent young woman with respect and a litt... (read in full...)

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

Q.   So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...

A.   22 December 2009: Hi Hun Id forget about this one sweetheart, Not that long ago a young friend of mine thought he had a date with a lovely young girl she just took the piss with her mates and by the sounds of things this young woman is doing the same..Let it go Yo... (read in full...)

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

Q.   So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...

A.   19 November 2009: no probs chick anytime, Im still running away lol!!!!! u Take it easy :)... (read in full...)

Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...

A.   19 November 2009: Hi Hunny I have been were you are now I understand, You must find help hunny..I no you say you havent got anyone I understand but you have your friend who is worried and she is worried for good reason..Im sending you help lines http:... (read in full...)

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

Q.   So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...

A.   19 November 2009: Hi Hunny I agree with Tisha, You sound very grounded for your age and thats a compliment hunny as Its hard being a Teenager these days... I have 2 sons and have watch with amusement and horror at times about the way they go about certain things i... (read in full...)

How can I learn not to take everything personally?

Q.   I'm sensitive and react easily to situations or things that happen or what people say. Most of the time my family or close friends preface things by saying, "Now don't get upset, but...." and then they tell me. I feel bad because they have to say...

A.   9 November 2009: Hi sweetheart Sometimes we are just us and made a certain way, You are a very caring person so get upset very easily..I no someone else that used to and still can be like that ( Mmmmm ME :) You probably take things to heart because to care so much... (read in full...)

Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?

Q.   I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages ...

A.   19 October 2009: (bloody thing went all funny) :) Where was I PFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!! you say you dont look and I really believe you as when I was younger I was just like you...But as you get older your veiws change and if you get stronger and get all that self co... (read in full...)

Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?

Q.   I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages ...

A.   19 October 2009: Hi sweetheart First please dont allow this to make you feel you are second best and do not allow this to make you feel even the slightest bit insecure (hard I no) These are just visuals and he is young and will brag about looking and this will make... (read in full...)

Is it weird for a girl to enjoy porn?

Q.   i'm a girl, with a pretty damn good sex life, but i secretly love to watch porn. is that weird? my ex thought it was hot, but he was very open and adventerous, to "normal" guys is it weird for me to like to watch porn?...

A.   26 September 2009: Hi Hunny No it is not wierd at all, Just because most feel a good Jackie collins novel will do the trick well!!!!!!Lets face it women like visuals to.. Watch what you want hunny its a free world.. I always think why is it that so many feel men and ... (read in full...)

Since I found out I was pregnant he's changed...should I have an abortion so things get back to the way they were?

Q.   how do i remain happy about being prego when he is so unhappy. he said that he will be okay just take time but i feel him slipping away from me. we dont talk like we use to we dont smile are snuggle. im wonder if i should kill my first child. like ...

A.   5 September 2009: Hi Hunny This is something quite personal,You have to think very carefull about what YOU!!!!Want. Having an abortion is not easy pain free and so out of the way as the word may seem...When I was young and I mean 16 I found myself pregnant, This was... (read in full...)

He won't let me break up with him

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have lived together for the last two years. He is generally a nice guy, but I am certain that I want to break up with him. I am not really enjoying the relationship as I feel I should be, we are ...

A.   29 August 2009: Hi Hunny This is hard as I can see from your post, But if you are so unhappy then you must talk with him (even if he chooses not to listen) Just ask tell him you need to talk its important and then tell him just what you have said here. Then love... (read in full...)

What are your stories on getting revenge on a cheating ex?

Q.   I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?...

A.   28 August 2009: Hi Hunny I dont think you will get many telling you these kind of storys, I think revenge is not sweet at all...I no when you have been hurt you feel anger and want to hurt the other person but I believe that you being the better person and lear... (read in full...)

What should I do so we can be best friends again?

Q.   I have a friend who i have know since i was in the 4th who was my best friend(im 19 btw). but after the 8th grade we lost touch because i moved to another school and im in my second year of college and only seen him twice since the 8th grade, and i ...

A.   22 August 2009: Hi Hunny Could you send him a card wishing him well and congratulating them both on there engagment, Adding that it would be lovely to catch up. Then hopefully he will get intouch Hope this helps hunny with love n hugs Mandy xxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

He seems insensitive - should I dump him?

Q.   Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...

A.   20 August 2009: GULP! Seriously get away from this man he is a complete an utter dick head I wont mince my words hunny..He has treated you absolutly terrible. He thought you were lying!!!!Lying about something like that, What a twat..Im sorry I really did take a sh... (read in full...)

He seems insensitive - should I dump him?

Q.   Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...

A.   18 August 2009: Hi Hunny I went out with someone who said to my daughter "If you want sympathy its next to syphilis in the dictionary" She was 7yrs old...He was gone! Your grandmother past away sweetheart for you this is a terribly sad time and if you ask me h... (read in full...)

How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

Q.   Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...

A.   16 August 2009: lol! behave... Its not the size, It has never entered my head. when Im with someone I love and care about, Thats all that matters. Saying that my first husband was rather large and it could hurt, So the problem there was not as much sex as we co... (read in full...)

How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

Q.   Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...

A.   16 August 2009: A...Fine B...Fine C...Run ... (read in full...)

Things to do to keep your mind off of your ex.

Q.   - Whine - Rake your carpet - Baby oil the floor - Critique "Three's Company" - Listen to a painting - Play with matches - Buff your cat - Race ferrets - Paint your house - Have a formal dinner at White Castle - Read Homer in the original Gree...

A.   16 August 2009: LOL!!!!!!:)XXXXXX... (read in full...)

While we had broken up she slept with someone else....and I can't stop thinking about it. Help!

Q.   My girlfriend and I had a bad break up with no intent to get back together. While we were broken up, she thought I did not care about her and I thought the same as she did. we became started talking to each other between our break up, but very ...

A.   15 August 2009: Hi Hunny You two broke up with no intentions of getting back together, She has told you the truth love she could have said nothing..She loves you enough to tell you the truth and try again. What is there to forgive? I think that if you really love... (read in full...)

How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?

Q.   Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...

A.   14 August 2009: Hi Hunny Has your g/f told you other things about her ex? Did he bully her in anyway? Was she scared of him? Or was this just all ok with her..I was bullied by my second husband quite badly and he used to ask all the time for threesomes and he also... (read in full...)

He said he used to pretend his ex wife was me in bed, what does that mean?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. our relationship has been kind of complex. we dated when we were younger for several years. then it ended and he married someone else. through a series of events we got back together ...

A.   14 August 2009: Hi Hunny What he means is when he had sex with his ex he thought of you..simple as that, So he really didnt get over you love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)

Any advice for teen relationship, and a possible breakup at hand?

Q.   Before you begin to read, I must warn you the following might sound childish, and I may even sound stupid. I just ask you put that aside and just try and help my regardless. I'm fourteen, and almost four months ago, I started dating this boy. It'...

A.   14 August 2009: Hi Hunny You sound grown up in the way you speak I like this you no certain things :) This is good, Im going to tell you a secret.. Whatever is written on facebook status wise ignore unless it makes you laugh, There are some weird and wonderfu... (read in full...)

Many of the right symptoms...I think I might be pregnant!

Q.   I feel as if im pregnant!! every day at around 3 pm my stomach starts to really hurt. i am due on my period around the 17th and my boobs are starting to hurt all ready at it is only the 9th. The stomach ace i get daily is really bad but the pain ...

A.   10 August 2009: sweetheart go to the doctor please as soon as possible, Then all your fears will be put to rest, let us no how you get on WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)

Many of the right symptoms...I think I might be pregnant!

Q.   I feel as if im pregnant!! every day at around 3 pm my stomach starts to really hurt. i am due on my period around the 17th and my boobs are starting to hurt all ready at it is only the 9th. The stomach ace i get daily is really bad but the pain ...

A.   9 August 2009: Hi Hunny I cant answer this sweetheart but from what you have said I think you should go and see your doctor..This is the best advise I can give you WITH LOVE MANDY XXX... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?

Q.   I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi Hun There is no problem having a F.W.B I mean what would we do without them? But the only thing that concerns me here is the fact that you are still a virgin and you could quite easy become attached. Anyone can become attached but because this... (read in full...)

Being friends with the ex

Q.   Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...

A.   8 August 2009: Yea that pretty much how it went with me fella hehehehehehe!!!!!!!!!BLESS EH!!!!!!:)... (read in full...)

Being friends with the ex

Q.   Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...

A.   7 August 2009: Good job I had jays voddy or Id have been chasing my own tail mate..It was so obvious that he wanted me back and I was bloody mortified (is dat d right shpellin???)poor jay but once again I just laughed it off and pepper sprayed him lol!!!!!!!!!:)... (read in full...)

Being friends with the ex

Q.   Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...

A.   7 August 2009: Wanted to pop a smile on peoples faces hun :):):):):):) hope it worked. N no do not take sweetys from strange men only beer lol!!!!:) (joking) maybe :)... (read in full...)

I want to get rid of my sex drive!

Q.   Here's the thing - I don't want a sex drive. I don't want to get involved in a relationship because they always make me miserable. No way am I doing the casual sex thing. I really do not want a sex drive. how, how, how do I kill it? I'm a ...

A.   6 August 2009: The two last posts are very good hunny take this advise..I hope u are feeling a little better xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

How do I get it through his head that it's best to wait before we get married? And how long do you normally wait before marriage?

Q.   This summer was crazy, and I don't know where to start. Well first, My boyfriend is in army basic training, but because of a medical discharge he's coming back. He's done with the army for two years (his choice if he comes back). But has said he ...

A.   5 August 2009: Hi Hunny This must be so hard for you at your age...Sweetheart my heart goes out to you...First lets try and help you with your stress levels and find some sort of advise to help your pain levels and then talk about your bf/ http://ww... (read in full...)

I want to get rid of my sex drive!

Q.   Here's the thing - I don't want a sex drive. I don't want to get involved in a relationship because they always make me miserable. No way am I doing the casual sex thing. I really do not want a sex drive. how, how, how do I kill it? I'm a ...

A.   4 August 2009: Hi Hunny You really do sound very down and I agree with TTM.. Some may say this is not a genuine question. Im going to answer as it is as I feel that if this is the life you have at this moment then I would not like to feel this way myself ... (read in full...)

Is my friend in trouble? Do you think I should call?

Q.   My friend who´s in military and living across the country wrote me down today asking how I was. He´s married and I do know his kids from his 1st marriage went over there and payed him a visit. Well, his daughter told me she didn´t spent a nice time. ...

A.   4 August 2009: Hi Hun I think that if something has happened he may feel either he wants to keep it quiet at this moment or he just doesnt feel able to talk about it love..The good thing here is he has got you to talk to, So I would be the lovely friend you are ... (read in full...)

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