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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 28 September 2008: you want to seduce your bro? And this question you asked on a previous date ?????
Ok. Im want only male teachers or males who work around highschool females. I want to know is there ever one time when you think of your female students. like im ... (read in full...)
Should I end this before I do something bad...or should I stick it out?
Q. My boyfriend thinks the world of me. He cries when he talks about how much he loves me, and there is no doubt in my mind that I love him too. We finish eachother's sentences and take the words from eachother's mouths. It feels as though we've rea...
A. 25 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Are you not on any contraception, As if you were and he used a comdom then than cuts the chances of pregnancy...If on the other hand you are, Are you taking the right one for you love i'll pop a link in just incase then get on to how you ... (read in full...)
Is it common for women to cry during or after intercourse?
Q. I have heard that women sometime cry during intercourse or after sex. Is this common? What does it mean? I appreciate your time....
A. 24 September 2008: Hi hunny
The girls are right the relationship im in now is a very good and loving one and ive cryed on occation at the closness and the bond I feel spiritually. This is before an orgasm has even taken place love, Also it has happened after orga... (read in full...)
I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 24 September 2008: My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?
Plus hunny did you not get enough answers from your last post... (read in full...)
I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 24 September 2008: Hunny this is plain cruel, What should i look for or do? You should look to your parents for help and advise, And you should do nothing but let this teacher do his job! TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXX... (read in full...)
I’m utterly devastated, I did admit to him I had made mistakes in the past, but he became very disrespectful and nasty to me, and in the end he dumped me. Is this what I deserve for trying to be perfect for him?
Q. I admit I had made serious mistakes. And I never denied this to anyone. For starters I lied to him about my past when he asked. I lied because he was jealous much, and I kind of expected an awful reaction to the truth. I lied, but told him the truth ...
A. 24 September 2008: Oh sweetheart stop your crying hunny, His behavior is not justified at all this is mental abuse hunny..You know my fiance has never asked about my past and I have never asked about his we know certain things but these things are just that in the ... (read in full...)
We're Christians, my wife doesn't dislike sex, but she doesn't like it, we have sex very seldom, how can I fix this, what am I supposed to do?
Q. ok I dont understand this and I know it probably sounds like every other question that guys ask about sex, but....My Wife doesn't like sex, and doesn't seem like she is ever going to. She doesn't dislike it, but she doesnt like it. During the first ...
A. 24 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Has your wife been brought up in anyway to be made to feel sex is dirty? I undersrstand your religion hunny and in some cases the woman can as she grows be told certain things by her mother or parents, Not in a nasty way but it still can ... (read in full...)
Would it turn you off if your new guy was in a serious relationship with one of your close friends?
Q. me and my ex girlfriend (lets say "Jen") were together for 4yrs, and engaged for 1yr during that period but ended up breaking up. Its been 8months since we broke up and we have stayed very close friends. I asked Jen about one of her friends ("Er...
A. 23 September 2008: Hi Hun
If this were me and Id set you two up then Id have probably told Erica my friend about the relationship and the fact that you were a nice guy but it just didnt work out for us so to speak..If they are that close it would be suprising if jen ... (read in full...)
We're together now but I'm worried about how my violent ex might react!
Q. hey guys i have another question. sorry i know i bug u guys so much but please help. ok remember the guy that i toll u guys about well yeah we re going out now. but now we have a problem. well am scared that when my ex finds out he is going to ...
A. 22 September 2008: Hi Hunny
I have found a link that goes through alot of advise for you as you are no longer with you ex you will have to go down to the end of the page for more help in assisting you with other ways of making sure you are safe there is a phone line... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't very ambitious and uses his mother's credit card to pay for our dates. What do I do?
Q. Ok. Here's my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 27 and he's 29. We both live at home. I work full time while saving money to purchase a condo. I have worked ever since I was 16 years old. My boyfriend on the other ...
A. 22 September 2008: Hi Hunny
You have a big problem because as long as his mum is giving him everything he needs then there will be no insentive or desire to work or try for even his dream job, He will have it in his head "oh I can try it another time no hurry"
If hi... (read in full...)
I got drunk and broke most of the windoes at my school, why is my friend offering to help me?
Q. hate my life .All the teachers hate at my school my guts. My family is poor (we don't have a lot of nice things). One night I got so drunk that I broke most of the windows at my school with baseball bat. I can barely remember it. When told one ...
A. 21 September 2008: Hi Hunny
You are going through some major issues at this moment and have been for along time from your post love, This friend told the truth and she protected you because sweetheart she is a true friend. It is so hard when you have been treated badl... (read in full...)
I'm a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl...
Q. i am a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl..im also impotent but manage to satify my girl in other ways..we love each other very much..i have tried to end it with her...for her sake but she wont have it...am i being selfish in ...
A. 21 September 2008: Hunny I agree with waz and diovan 100% if you are happy then go with it, Love comes in so many different ways and suprises us when we least expect it to..Take no notice of anyone who judges you hunny it is for no one to judge another in life as we ... (read in full...)
I'm used to my girlfriend forgiving me after I abuse her, but this time she's fed up. What do I do?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been with this girl for 3 years now. We have a child together. I love her dearly and want to marry her. She does everything for me. She let's me want for nothing. We have the same religious background which is wonderful (first girl ...
A. 19 September 2008: Hi Love
This is a very spoken about subject, The man gets to fool around before settling down and the woman is supposed to remain untouched for this knight in shining Armour to come along and sweep her off her virgin feet!!!!!WELCOME TO THE 21 CENT... (read in full...)
Jealous but not for the right reasons
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five years. I have a huge jealousy problem. Everyone here will think I am crazy, and I am a little, but you have to understand realising the problem is the first step, but I am having a hard time getting over it. ...
A. 19 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Its ok dont panic, Yep this is something you have to understand and deal with but you will sweetheart, Its a good thing that he has a loving and caring family and he loves them to bits but this does not mean he loves you less, When you see ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, but I've been an ass to her... what do I do?
Q. I was with a girl for two years, i really love her, but sometimes i was rough on her... as in i was a bit of an a**hole. Just of recent we broke up, she has sex with other men right away... Heres the clincher, she still comes to me with advice, she ...
A. 18 September 2008: Hunny everything that your saying here is honest and true to your heart, As I said before you could show this to her so she knows just how your feeling about things. Of course things are not going to be straight forward you have been through alot ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl, but I've been an ass to her... what do I do?
Q. I was with a girl for two years, i really love her, but sometimes i was rough on her... as in i was a bit of an a**hole. Just of recent we broke up, she has sex with other men right away... Heres the clincher, she still comes to me with advice, she ...
A. 18 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Maybe she slept with others straight away to hurt you as she was feeling so hurt love and in most cases the women only do this for a little love but they obviously get more..She may also not wish to tell you she still cares for fear of bein... (read in full...)
I'm sick of his behaviour and I want to break up with him, but how do I end it?
Q. My boyfriend has been ignoring me constantly recently, acting like hes mad at me and being either distant, or sarcastic and patronising when we do talk. Even though i still care about him, his behaviour is making me miserable every day, i'm getting ...
A. 16 September 2008: Hi hunny
It sounds as if he has major anger issues, He hates his ex for finishing with him, well she probably did it for the same reasons..I wouldnt put up with it, Next time you have contact tell him you would like to meet up make it a public plac... (read in full...)
Why wont he respond to my booty call?
Q. When you have slept with someone 2 times and both know it is just for sex.. then why would he not respond to my booty call? The sex was great and he is definately not in a relationship. help. ...
A. 16 September 2008: maybe he wants more than you do and then got upset because you left love, That sounds more like it..So he feels you may not care so is ignoring your calls, bit of a game going on by the sounds of things love ... (read in full...)
Why wont he respond to my booty call?
Q. When you have slept with someone 2 times and both know it is just for sex.. then why would he not respond to my booty call? The sex was great and he is definately not in a relationship. help. ...
A. 16 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Maybe he has found someone love, He may not feel the same as you, Also he could answer your calls when it suits him there are many reasons why sweetheart dont take it to heart just move on and have fun.. TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXX... (read in full...)
Worst birthday EVER! How can I lift my mood?
Q. I had a totally awful birthday! For one, my grandma's brother died on Friday, and the funeral was today. But second... I love my "ex" more than anything. And we have had our issues, mostly because there's a lot he can't tolerate from the time ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hi Hunny Im sorry to here of your pain, You mention you b/f can and is very hurtfull to you. What you actually said was something which shocked him as if he is acting this way then he is being mentally abusive..To call you names and make you cry ... (read in full...)
He hates himself because he isn't female... how do I respond to this?
Q. I know this guy who hates himself because he isnt of the female gender. He is always saying this and I have no idea how to respond to this. He is straight which makes this even weirder. He has practically no confidence either so this could be a ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hi Hunny this is a little to close to my heart as Ive been through this with my ex husband he hated himself but also hated women for having something he couldnt have or wouldnt even try getting help for...And this caused alot of abuse..Your friend ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend suffers from depression and he acts like he doesn't want us to be together anymore... Is this normal?
Q. Whats happening to my relationship. Hi there my boyfriend of almost a year, suffers from very bad depression. At first he used to be very loving and affectionate, untill the last few months he doesnt text, call, or make any kind of a effort. Whe...
A. 15 September 2008: Hi Hunny If your b/f is going through a very bad depression it can cause distance from reality lack of concentration and alsorts of painfull thought patterns love. He is right when he says its not you, I have found you a link to read..It also has... (read in full...)
I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?
Q. I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...
A. 11 September 2008: Im hoping this is a real post and not someone messing around as this is serious if it is true...
Sweetheart you better get some serious advice from the family planning centre near you a.s.a.p and you had better tell your mum. I no this is going to b... (read in full...)
Dodgy Adverts
Q. Hey all Humans bright and cheerful. (And variations there of.) I was pondering round this sight when i was looking at these here adverts which will soon surround the comments and answers this artical gets, and asked myself, "Does anyone act...
A. 11 September 2008: Hi hunny I just came across your profile and read this and thought what a grown up young lady you are, You make perfect sense and yep it is funny these adverts FIND YOUR ONLY REAL LIFE DREAM SOUL MATE TRUE LOVE???????OK!!!!!!But you are right this ... (read in full...)
Are there any Sagitarius women in long-term relationships?
Q. I'm with a Sagittarius woman, and was wondering if there are any Sag who've been in long-term relationships/ marriages/ or are currently married. Unfortunately my theory is that there are very few of you folk in commited relationships, but for ...
A. 10 September 2008: Hunny you cant take alot of notice of star signs in this way, If you look into all the possibilitys and buy all the books you will probably not be suited to anyone. TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXX... (read in full...)
Why do I want to stay with this guy even though he cheats?
Q. so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and ...
A. 9 September 2008: Hi Hunny
You have to ask yourself if you really want to go through this over and over again, The way your question is put he has been cheating for awhile. Have you spoken about this have you asked him why, You wont find anything out if you two dont... (read in full...)
I have disapointed people too many times. What can I do to ammend all of this?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old and for the first time in my life I have hit rock bottom. I use to be a caring, and honest person but for the last year I don't even know who I am. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. We h...
A. 4 September 2008: Oh sweetheart
Your not a nasty bad person, You just got very confused...This is a long distance relationship hunny you can only make certain plans together mostly over the phone or on the computor and then the odd chance you get to see your boyf... (read in full...)
My best friend is mad at me and I don't know how to apologize to her!
Q. okay I have a friend, who i use to be BEST FRIENDS with, i loved her SOOOOOO much, and i still know EVERYTHING about her, its just that, she was normally more popular than me. Then after a bit, she got REALLY REALLY mad at me. And One of MY OTHER ...
A. 1 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Why dont you invite her out or to your house and just talk, Tell her what you have said on here and be open with her hunny, She probably does not realise how hurt you are feeling and if she did then things may be different..The only thin... (read in full...)
Why am I so tired? Is it depression?
Q. Hi, Lately i have been feeling so tired its not normal, all i can think about is sleep. When im awake i feel really down and dont enjoy any of the things i used to, mainly because i have no energy or no happy thoughts anymore. I went to have a b...
A. 1 September 2008: Hunny I would go back to the doctor and ask for more blood tests any possible blood tests that could be done not just anemia, This could be a sleep disorder....I say could be love not is as I cant possibly say the doctor should check for ... (read in full...)
What are some methods of emergency contraception?!
Q. dear friends! I have a huge problem! Had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday. Usually we do the pull out method, however I believe that didn't work. We're afraid she could be pregnant, and we are really worried. Are there any other ...
A. 1 September 2008: Hi Hun
The morning after pill is the only thing love...
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/morningafterpill.htm
The sooner the better, plus a good contraception will be a good idea for future scares love,
http://www.patie... (read in full...)
My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?
Q. Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hi Hunny
To be quite honest I'll answer this question just as I answer all question about teacher student crushes..This man is a teacher he could loose his job if he did anything with a student not only his job but probably his girlfriend as well... (read in full...)
It hurts me that my BF wouldn't have accompanied me to do the abortion in case I was pregnant, should I continue to stay with him, what do you think?
Q. hi all my bf and i had a pregnacy scare a few days ago i thought i might be pregnant i was terrified although im 27 i still live at home and have a job as a nursery nurse and love this . and my folks told me from a young age if i was ever preg...
A. 30 August 2008: Hi Hunny
Your b/f is obviously upset as he had different feelings about the outcome, He wanted to keep the baby if you were pregnant. Plus as you said you had an abortion a few months ago and didnt tell him untill it was all over.. This I would imag... (read in full...)
Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 29 August 2008: Hi Love
I think his frustration is partly to do with it but he doesnt no as he has been programed by mum..This is and will be difficult for him, Yes its great that he can go and buy all these expencive things and not worry about anything of cour... (read in full...)
Our lack of intimacy is putting a strain in our relationship
Q. Hi, It's really hard for me to admit it, but i really don't know what i should be doing in my relationship. I've been seeing my girlfriend for 6months and it's my first ever serious relationship. I'm 22 and she's 19. We are both virgins an...
A. 29 August 2008: Hi Hunny
You no if I hadnt got married at 19 my mother would still have been the same as in what time I should be home even though Id left home before...When you have an over protective parent or in this case grandmother its so hard to please ever... (read in full...)
What if he neglects the baby if I were to tell him? Another girl is already having his child!
Q. I'd want to thank in advance for any readers and answerers, sorry for the lengthy post. I really don't know what im asking for here. Maybe just for your opinion on my situation, or I just need people to hear me out. I don't really have anybody to ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi Sweetheart
Wow what a story, You have done amazingly well hun. Ive had three children and raised them mostly alone apart from help from nanny and pa pa..My daughter was born in a bad relationship my husband was very violent I went into prem labo... (read in full...)
What advice/information do you have about a nooner?
Q. My long time boyfriend and I are interested in having a nooner. What advice/information do you have about them? Could we have it in an office or is it better to come home for it? ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hunny you could jump in the office cupbourd but if ya do make sure the door is well boxed up just incase!!!!:) other than that as TTM said nip home, n go the whole hog have a mornin nooner n night that should keep ya day happy TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY ... (read in full...)
Depressed about my acne, am I using the right products to sort this out?
Q. hi so i have spots and i am really depressed by them i hate them i am currently using a moisturizer and clenzer and exfoliator is this the rite thing to do if it is not can u plz tell me wot t do to get rid or help them improve plz ...
A. 23 August 2008: Hi hunny
my daughters the same age as you and she is going to be starting her period soon and her skin has started to come out in spots and her hair is greasy after one wash..I brought her some clearasil ultra deep pore treatment wipes to clean her ... (read in full...)
I have a history of mental problems and I'm feeling depressed again. Should I end it with him?
Q. Hi, please help. My boyfriend and I have been going out for approximately 3 months.. I have a history of mental problems, such as depression, anorexia, emetophobia/severe OCD, and have always had a problem talking to boys. I would not even s...
A. 22 August 2008: Hi Hunny
You have alot to deal with depression, anorexia Ive been there and with the o.c.d.. And all this was down to me not being able to control the siuation I was in hunny this is when it all started slowly at first untill before I new it it was ... (read in full...)
How could he hurt me by watching pornography?
Q. I honestly believed that my boyfriend was not in the faintest interested in pornography. I have come to know otherwise. I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and about a month ago, found him doing the unthinkable. Prior to this and when...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi Hunny I no this is a late answer but after reading the anon reply I just had to say something..It really is not anything wrong with you, Believe me when I say this, Your guy loves you he is not comparing you with any of these women its a quick ... (read in full...)
I have a lot of trauma from my last abusive relationship even though I've tried my best to recover. Any suggestions?
Q. Hi, I came on here before and got some good balanced advice which was really helpful so I've come back again to ask about a problem. I feel really stuck ... in February my partner of 5 years walked out on me whilst I was unwell (it since transp...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi Hunny There is a post on here that has over 400 questions and answers it is the same kind of thing that you have been through and I though to help you, you may find some of the answers and also how the poster has got on during the last I think it... (read in full...)
I have a lot of trauma from my last abusive relationship even though I've tried my best to recover. Any suggestions?
Q. Hi, I came on here before and got some good balanced advice which was really helpful so I've come back again to ask about a problem. I feel really stuck ... in February my partner of 5 years walked out on me whilst I was unwell (it since transp...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi Hunny
You are going through just what I went through and it took me awhile to get myself back to being the secure outgoing bubbly person I used to be. Its a really hard road as you no, As one day you may feel as if you getting somewere and then... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is somewhat of a control freak. What do you think?
Q. I have LIVED with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I'm almost 22 and he's almost 25. He's somewhat of a control freak I guess you can say. When we first got together everything was good..of course. As I started making friends and those friends wanted ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi Hunny
I think you need to live your life and experience things for yourself without being told what to do. There is no way on this earth that I would let anyone bark orders at me like this hunny, Be home at 9 you are an adult who works hard and ... (read in full...)
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