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Well i like to think i'm a strong gal 29 feeling old/wiser but had my fare share of troubles relationships, family problems , including trouble with my only brother inlaw who once tried to rape me but i think of myself as a survivor infact this made me more determined to complete my studies. i also am a single parent and life is what u make it, smile and the world smile's back i love socializing, i'm a softy . i dream about becoming a social worker and working with others , being from south africa i feel that my son and i have so much to explore by visiting other parts of the world . i also sometimes feel like time is against me i want another child but i want to do it right marry and be happy .

I've lost 5 stone but my vagina still seems fat!

Q.   hi i think ive got a problem with my vagina the thing is it sticks out!! the mound of it really sticks out. i dont no if it is because i was really overweight ive lost 5 stone but that part of me still seems fat. no joking when i lie down flat my ...

A.   18 August 2009: Nothing wrong at all it's beautiful and more cushion for the pushin 'lol. i personally think our vagina's are good looking compared to a man's thingie.... (read in full...)

My sister owe's me money! How do I go about getting it?

Q.   My sister owe's me money since 2006, i keep asking her every month but she promises to give it to me but never does yet she can fix her husbands car every month i am no longer working but that doesn't seen to matter to her and i also have bills to p...

A.   18 August 2009: Crylgo and Vodkaalt thank u so much for ur support and great advice i went as far as getting a letter of demand from small claims court and when i wanted to give her the letter my mother stopped me so telling me i must hold on for her pay day but my ... (read in full...)

My sister owe's me money! How do I go about getting it?

Q.   My sister owe's me money since 2006, i keep asking her every month but she promises to give it to me but never does yet she can fix her husbands car every month i am no longer working but that doesn't seen to matter to her and i also have bills to p...

A.   18 August 2009: Crylgo and Vodkaalt thank u so much for ur support and great advice i went as far as getting a letter of demand from small claims court and when i wanted to give her the letter my mother stopped me so telling me i must hold on for her pay day but my ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can get from the doctor that would enhance my breasts?

Q.   Im so sick of being depressed about the size of my breasts. Ive hated them for years as they are to small. And I promised my parents i'd hold back on surgery until I was 20. But even now I still hate looking at my self in the mirror I want clevage. ...

A.   17 August 2009: Hey seems we two of a kind and after having a baby i'm still the small size i was , look at it this way gravity won't bring us down or sag or google breastassure theirs tablets to enhance and a lotion to help too, I want to try it out too , a bit ... (read in full...)

Is he playing with my feelings, or does he really love me?

Q.   Hai, well,i have a boyfriend,and i really love him.Its just tht..whenever i needed him,whenever i have a problem,whenever i want to talk to him,he's not always there.He said he loves me and all,but Like last month,i really didnt expect him to forge...

A.   16 August 2009: Hey need more info first is he married, what work does he do and when last did u see him???... (read in full...)

My ex baby daddy wants a quality night with me.

Q.   My son's father and i have both moved on after he ran off with a lady of 40 and married her , my son is now 7 and i am 29 and his dad is 27 thing is i'm seeing someone else and since he came by the other day we realised our feelings are real strong, ...

A.   23 July 2009: Well i decide to make the move and told him it's tempting but i'm in a happy place and i can't do it but he said he believes that if u love someone enough to let them go and wait for them to return it obviously doesn't work that way so he'll keep ... (read in full...)

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

Q.   Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me ...

A.   21 July 2009: Our situation has gotten better since all the great advice ur'll all gave me, Echo the open relationship was the best ever i need to give u guys better insight see before we started dating we worked together i never noticed him until he became my ... (read in full...)

What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?

Q.   I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...

A.   21 July 2009: I was 18 and finished with school when i first had sex and it was with a steady boyfriend we were dating for a year already and i was on the pill and he used protection and was really gentle but i never enjoyed it when he was done i bled a bit and ... (read in full...)

I read his emails and I think he will cheat! Why do men cheat?

Q.   hi my boyfriend cheated on me during the first year we were together, i stayed around and convinced myself that we all make mistakes, but, i also found out his password to his email account, and since then i have occasionally had a look about and ...

A.   20 July 2009: I'd love an answer to that too , we females try to be the best we can to them but get treated like dirt , it seems the e-mails indicate that he intends to get to no her better and she is probly taken , as women have a flirtatios nature without ... (read in full...)

My wife isnt horny enough for me...Any suggestions?

Q.   My wife isn't horny enough for me. She beautiful and has a great bod for 50. But she's a tom boy. She's not affectionate or feminine. I am just a fat overweight husband that looks at my wife and fantisizes. We are intimate about once every ...

A.   18 July 2009: Sounds like a fine woman u got, my boyfriend has a belly got to admit his a horny buggar but i don't desire him much as he doesn't satisfy me much. his penis seems to be our problem but i've never told him that, when he sit's up and wants me to ride ... (read in full...)

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

Q.   Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me ...

A.   18 July 2009: Well we live in the same country, same city before we say each other atleast thrice a week for the least with the work he does it involves lot's of traveling but surely he should make time once a year ain't on, and still he never replied to my sms ... (read in full...)

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

Q.   Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me ...

A.   17 July 2009: Well echo i decided to sms him today , told him i forgive him for my b/day and asked how his mom is doing, well she's doing okay then we started at it him begging saying sorry again , i explained that it's been a long time coming coz he makes no ... (read in full...)

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

Q.   Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me ...

A.   16 July 2009: silent echo i'd love to take him back, and support him in every way i can but what if he keeps coming up wit this 3some story knowing how it makes me feel. We hardly spend any time together the last we were together was January so i dunno and yes ... (read in full...)

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

Q.   Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me ...

A.   16 July 2009: Thank you to all 3 of u for ur helping me i'm about to give u an update on our relationship status special thanks to old man, echo and anonymous . He admitted to forgetting my birthday as his been in hospital with his mother up until today he ... (read in full...)

Sister and husband moved in with family and its a real mess!

Q.   My problem is family related, my sister recently moved back home with her 4 kids and her unemployed lazy husband , i still stay here at home with my parents , she's been back for about 2 months now, i guess i'm thinking of moving as soon as i get a ...

A.   29 June 2009: Thank u stax Gina! :-) his 1 of those guys that get jobs but doesn't want to work he hasn't had a j o b in 3years , I'm hating it, as i feel like an outsider my kid went this past weekend to his dad and my sister actually told me she's not ... (read in full...)

My ex the baby daddy, a friend and my current boyfriend.....

Q.   Hi cupid i recently went on a kinda date with this guy, and his personality attracted me, my little boy came along with us, well it all went well i loved the way he respected me , thing is his 46 and i'm only 27, what if he bores me or so on i've ...

A.   26 June 2009: Good day laura sorry 4 confusing no the 46 yr old is another my boyfriend is only 31 pls help , DO U THINK I MIGHT END UP HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY CHILD'S FATHER... (read in full...)

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