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writes:I'm in love with this girl at school. Been about 8 months. I really thought that she loved me too. We used to talk a lot and show signs that we like each other. As months went by, she began focusing on other guys. She talks less to me and dont even respond to letters that i wrote. Turns out, i think she likes some other guy. I dont get it though. He's cocky and treats her like his toy. Meanwhile i treat her like a real person and care about her. Now we dont talk and i feel tension from her. I just ignore her cause i cant take the pain. I Dont know what to do!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): What can I say bro....
Broken heart is something I've grown to live with.....
So, I know what you'll be going through....
It's especially hard when the person who breaks your heart happens to meet you everyday like in a school or college....
anyway, don't worry you're not alone.....
listen to what pepper27 said...
and divert your attention to other things....
Best Of Luck!!!
Take care...
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (21 June 2008):
 Hi Sweetheart
You need to calm down first as what ever you feel at this moment will not change a thing, Your a good guy and she has gone for the bad boy..You ask yourself why hunny and I can not tell you why and Im a girl. I dont no why some girls prefere the guys that treat them with little or no respect to the ones that would look after and care for them. You were her friend and you fell inlove its so hard been in that situation love, You just need to be yourself and have faith in yourself. If she walks on by just say hi and carry on walking if she stops you to talk just talk casually with her. But dont beat yourself up so much hunny that wont do you any good at all. I no your hurting at this moment and I feel for your pain. But nothing is going to change the way you feel unless you make some changes..Start by going out and having fun with some friends and trying to get this off your mind a little, If you keep busy then you wont have time to think so much. Yes I no how hard it is BEEN THERE DONE IT!!!! You cant change what this girl wants to do hunny but you can change how it affects you belive me...TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Only one thing you can do, mate.
Let her go. You can't make someone love you. If she is so intent on being with another man (who I will not judge as I don't know him and you might br trying to paint him badly out of jealousy), then there is nothing you can do about it.
Be a man and move on. There are plenty of women out there and my advice is to find ohne that is over the attraction to danger kinda thing that keeps dipshit women going out with jerks.
Flynn 24
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