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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!
Q. i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hunny Im glad I could help I was worried that my words may come across as harsh and I didnt want that love as this is not my intention ever ... After you have been through so much your best interests were only at heart YOU TAKE CARE AND I HOPE LIFE ... (read in full...)
Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!
Q. i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi Hun
I read and re read your post, And all these problems you have been through being your g/f should she not want to be understanding no matter what if she loves you..You text but didnt ring her is this why her insecurity came out? Then once it w... (read in full...)
Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!
Q. i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I havent much time so I will talk with you later as well if you wish, Maybe sweetheart if you wrote a letter telling her the truth about how you were down with all these problems and family things and this is why you did not want to talk... (read in full...)
Thank you DearCupid.org
Q. Hey guys! It's Carrie216 here. I've been on this site now for only a little over a month. But you know what? I am so grateful for it. I've learned valuable lessons from this site that were extremely beneficial. By reading through other articles w...
A. 29 July 2008: Hunny your very right in what you say it was good to read your veiws hope to here more of them TAKE CARE OF YOU LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
My sister ruins everything for me!
Q. my sister really winds me up, she ruins everything for me and when i say everything i mean EVERYTHING shes such a tart! shes 13, yes only 13! and shes going out with a 17 year old who shes been with for 3 months and is already having sex with him, ...
A. 29 July 2008: Sweetheart take a deep breath please I no were you are coming from ok Im the eldest and my sister well she was not the same as you have descibed yours but she did get away with alot of things that I got blamed for and at your age same as my sister 3 ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girl's new male friend?
Q. Well this is kind of a follow up but new problem. my girlfriend and i been having few problems of late. we still love each other but something obviously wrong though. i lied to her over something silly to avoid an argument over a new male friend ...
A. 29 July 2008: Hunny I no you want to talk more anyone would, The only way you are going to find out if she is true to you is to stay alert but try to keep busy for awhile (not long give it time) If she misses you maybe this will make her think..There are no 100% ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girl's new male friend?
Q. Well this is kind of a follow up but new problem. my girlfriend and i been having few problems of late. we still love each other but something obviously wrong though. i lied to her over something silly to avoid an argument over a new male friend ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I can understand your worrys and concerns and Im going to say the more you tell her the more she may go out with him and not take you seriously, I no this may sound strange and I really do understand but if you two have been having prob... (read in full...)
What can I tell my brother so he can see reality and learn from these failed relationships?
Q. my name is ariana. however, this question doesnt pertain to me persay. my brother is 16 and has been in a new relationship every year almost. and he just had another breakup. however, its always the girls who seem to break up with him. mostly its ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi Sweetheart
Your a sweet sister, Ive got 2 boys hunny and at that age its boldly go were no man has been before if I can also remember that far back to my teens :)
He will learn in time by his own mistakes in life but it wont do any harm to have ... (read in full...)
Is my guy gay or bisexual?
Q. I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He's five years younger than me, and has only dated two other women other than myself. One relationship was 100% online; the other was a live-in gf and that lasted four years. So, here's the thing. He ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi Hunny
He may well have thoughts of that nature but is yet to embrace them for fear of being rejected in the world, And then he may just be bisexual and not really no what to do. The only thing hunny as he may be plain straight is to talk with... (read in full...)
How can I cope with my terminally ill father?
Q. my dad's going to die within the next year... i don't think i can cope anymore....
A. 26 July 2008: Oh hunny
You are so young and my heart goes out to you and your family so first may I say Im so sorry to here of your pain, My darling I no how you feel, You think you will not cope because it is heartbreaking and you feel helpless but you are stro... (read in full...)
Why do my testicles ache?
Q. This is bit embarassing but what might cause my balls to ache? They have ached in the past when I've been seriously turned on but not had sex however they seem to ache at times every day for past few days. I have been masturbating but even so am ...
A. 26 July 2008: Hi Hunny
This could be nothing but then again its always wise to go and see a doc to make sure love so book an ap as its so hard for us to say just what it could be better being safe and getting a pro to check this out hun TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXX... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my big nose appear smaller?
Q. Im a girl, Im 15 and really, really self-concious about my nose. Its just too big. It makes all my other facial features seem out of proportion and worst of all it makes me really, really ugly. I hate it. I hate the comments I get about it. I avoid ...
A. 26 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Im sure you are very pretty love and sometimes we all at some point in our lives worry about certain parts of our body I used to worry when I was younger as Im shapped like a boy very slim no breasts so on but the older you get you feel... (read in full...)
I'm really sad that I don't love my wife anymore. I was hurt at work and she doesn't support me!
Q. been with wife 18 yrs, we have 4 kids,15,12,7,4.luv them dearly.but don't love wife anymore.nothing about her.i was hurt on the job? no support finanical,with the kids. want work,except part time.feel very let down by her.living off settlement,feels ...
A. 25 July 2008: Hi Sweetheart
Loosing your job through anything and not getting help other than benifits will and can get you very down. Four children are alot of resposability for you both and if you were hurt then your wife surely would have wanted to be ther... (read in full...)
Help! I have a week to choose between two girls.
Q. I am currently Dating 2 girls at once, I hate this situation..It's kind of complicated...I only want 1 GF but I can't decide between the 2...Here's the background: I dated gf1 for 8 months (pretty decent relationship) She cooled off and she brok...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi Love
You need to search your heart not your mind, within yourself you must no without all the she likes this or the other one likes that and its so hard to choose. Like the last post said hunny close your eyes and think from deep within hunn... (read in full...)
I don't think there were holes in the condoms but could I be pregnant?
Q. The last period I had was June 23rd, after a weekend at my boyfriend's house when we had sex twice. The condoms ddint split and I checked them after by blowing them up to see. He has been staying at my holiday home for just over a week now and we've ...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi Hunny
It sounds as if all the condoms were ok hunny and I would think you are maybe quite worried so this can stop your period from arriving on time, But you should have your period this week sometime, If by any chance you dont then get a test... (read in full...)
I have a feeling something is wrong, do you think I could be pregnant?
Q. So, I am on birth control and I have never had an issue with it, I have been on it for about a year now. I went to visit my boyfriend this past Thursday, and I had taken the pill that day as usual. Friday I forgot to take it, we had sex twice. ...
A. 23 July 2008: YOU WILL SEE MISSED A PILL whoops sorry caps on...go to that love and then there is a guide to all pill types ok TAKE CARE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I have a feeling something is wrong, do you think I could be pregnant?
Q. So, I am on birth control and I have never had an issue with it, I have been on it for about a year now. I went to visit my boyfriend this past Thursday, and I had taken the pill that day as usual. Friday I forgot to take it, we had sex twice. ...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi Love
Take a look at the packet instructions and guidlines for missing a pill....Ive found a link for you sweetheart.
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/articles/article.aspx?ArticleId=831#
Hopefully you will be on your period by tomorrow or the d... (read in full...)
How can I stop my hormones getting in the way of finding a great girl?
Q. I am a teenage guy, sixteen years old now, and I want to find the right girl for me in the future. I find that hormones really get in the way of finding who I truly like for personality and who I like just because of sex. Can I find true love, or is ...
A. 21 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Love is out there hunny, At your age your hormones will be all over the place and one part of you will fight the other part of you, To be strong is an amazing feat sweetheart you dont want to sleep with someone for the sake of it you want... (read in full...)
I feel unappreciated. Am I only staying with this guy because I feel obliged to?
Q. I am getting married in less than a year ( I think so anyways)and my fiancee and I have been together for almost 6 years now and have a 4 year old. I am completely stressed with everything that I have to do. I do not feel appreciated at all and some ...
A. 21 July 2008: Hi Hunny
You really sound very unhappy and this if its not changed in the times you have given it to change well sweetheart it does not sound as if things will. You could ask for couples counselling and see were that takes you hunny, But from what... (read in full...)
Any good food for losing weight, that you could recommend?
Q. So i've recently decided that its time to loose a few pounds, meaning like 30 or so. I'm not obese, but i do have a little extra fat around my stomach and thighs... I've been working out like running and doing ab things, but do any of you know like ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Cutting out fat from your diet will help alot, you need you omega 3 which you will find in tuna salmon and any oily fish your body needs this type of fat but fats such as marg and butter and fatty meats can be taken out chicken grilled rice... (read in full...)
Help. I've shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend.
Q. help. ive shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend. we are no longer going out. but i feel really devestated showing nude pics of my girl friend to a friend. i feel as if i gave up my love away to someone else. help....
A. 16 July 2008: we are agony aunts not magic fairys we canot take it back for you, you did it you learn from it or you dont simple as that thankyou ... (read in full...)
Help. I've shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend.
Q. help. ive shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend. we are no longer going out. but i feel really devestated showing nude pics of my girl friend to a friend. i feel as if i gave up my love away to someone else. help....
A. 16 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I cant really say much sweetheart to make you feel better as you are now feeling the hurt from your actions, I suppose when you showed your friend the photos you were mad, upset and thought it would be a laugh. Its not though hunny when... (read in full...)
Are issues with my dad interfering with my relationships?
Q. I Have soo many problems with relationships.. they dont last! we'll some people dont know what their problem is well i do! i have really big issues with trusting men because of my dad. he didn't want nothing to do with me since i was 3,...
A. 15 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I would go and see a counsellor before you search for you father sweetheart you need to talk this through with someone all your thoughts and fears, I no how you feel I met my biological father when I was in my 30s and belive me it was not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me. I need help but I can't get it
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We had a very very different relationship. We were always fine, we argued alot but never anything more really. He is bipolar, very badly. He lives with his mom. He has been to a councelor but stopped ...
A. 15 July 2008: Hi Sweetheart
Ive been out today with my friend who is manic depressed love he takes his medication because he knows it is the best form of treatment and he does not want to hurt others, He is always asking if he has said the wrong thing for fear... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on fisting me and having rough sex even though I have had many operations 'down below' and it causes me so much pain
Q. so i think i need some advice cause i am not sure what to do. my fiance and i have been together for a year and a half. we are deeply in love and he does everything under the sun for me. i couldnt ask for a better man. but we have a few sex issues. ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hunny
You love your fiance I no but hun he is doing things to you that can damage your health and not only that but is acting in the most disrecpectful way to you, You say he is so nice but from what I have read hunny he is not a very nice pers... (read in full...)
Should I trust him again after he vanished with no apparent reason?
Q. me and a guy ive knew have just started "talking" but like a year ago we used to talk then and he must of just totally forgot, but yeah i went with the flow. last time we talked he blocked and deleted me with no reason what soever i tried calling ...
A. 13 July 2008: well hunny at least you no now he isnt going to change and hopefully u can move on with ur life TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
If I tell my mother I'm pregnant I think she'll kick me out of the house!!
Q. Im 11 years old and i think im pregnant ifi tell my mum i know she will kick me out of the house. what should i do??...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi Hunny
First of all please can you give more details sweetheart what did you actually do I no this may sound stupid but It would give us a better idea of how to help LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
My friend is short so he is ridiculed many times, how can I help him?
Q. my friend is very small and so gets hormones injected into his bottom. people at my school make fun of him and he is really uset about it. what can i do to help?...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi Hunny
This is not his fault and the thing about these stupid people that take the piss is that they are the ignorant ones hun, You just need to be there for your friend give him confidence tell him he is worth more that that lot put together whic... (read in full...)
Love at first sight. I screwed it up! Now I need help.
Q. Hi, Thx for reading this! I got to know of a sweet girl at school and I really liked her. I've been praying for a chance to meet her and I DID! She gave me her no. first, I did so back. It was magical. However, I texted general smses like how ...
A. 11 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Nothing when wrong as you say she may have freaked out a little, Give it a little time hunny and if you get to see her start by saying hi then hopefully she will understand there is no pressure..She may have felt a little under pres... (read in full...)
I don't even like him watching television if there's a girl with a short skirt on!!
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 1 year and 3 months. i often argue with him because i have become so paranoid! he does'nt look at girls but my mind thinks that he is. i don't even like him watching television if theres a girl with a short skir...
A. 11 July 2008: Oh sweetheart
You are right when you say this can end relationships but more importantly why have you got such alot of low self esteem hunny, This is your main problem your lacking in confidence and self esteem so therefor you think that any othe... (read in full...)
I think there is something going on with my friend, how can I help?
Q. Hoping someone can help here. I have a very good friend who I am worried about. She went through a divorce last year. Her mom is in a nursing home and she insists that her mom will not last the year but her mom seems fine. More troubling is the fact ...
A. 11 July 2008: Hi Hunny
It seems as if her life has completely changed sinse the divorce and she is a little all over the place and even confused hunny she may be feeling just fine but from what you have said it all really depends on how well you know her and Im t... (read in full...)
How do I tell my sister I don't like her husband-to-be?
Q. My older half sister is getting married for the second time in just a few weeks. Me and my younger sister are not very happy about it. We were very much attached to our original brother-in-law. (who we have had zero contact with for the last two ...
A. 11 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I no how this must feel for you, But your sister is moving forward with her life and her choices are what make her happy love, I no you feel that her getting married on the anniversary of you little cousins death not right, But maybe she ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this bullying and nastiness?
Q. hi everyone I am not sure if this is the right place to come but I seem to have run out of places for help. Ok my problem is this. I am an Australian girl who is living in England. The problem is I hate it, my dad is here for work for another 2 ye...
A. 10 July 2008: Oh hunny
These girls are jealous bitches Im so sorry you are going through this you must talk to someone sweetheart..Have you got a teacher you can confide in and you must sit your mum down and explain the situation. I know you have tryed but real... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of what might happen, should I date this man?
Q. A man has asked me to date several times . I don't know should I accept ? It is said that girls have been raped by the man while they are have a date. For this man,I am just first time to meet him in the college. I am a open-minded girl ,easy-...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi Hunny
You say that you have been told that girls have been raped by this man while on dates. This is word of mouth from people around you people that no him more. Now Im not one to judge at all but depending on certain information why would peop... (read in full...)
Where do I go, to learn about a woman's anatomy, and how to please a woman sexually?
Q. Hi I am 16 yrs old and I have never had sex or done anything more than making out with girls, even though I have had a few sort of longterm girlfriends (7.5 months the longest... its long for my age I think). I'm not abstinent so to speak but the ...
A. 8 July 2008: JUST GO TO WHAT WOMEN WANT IN THE BEDROOM!!!!!!:)... (read in full...)
Where do I go, to learn about a woman's anatomy, and how to please a woman sexually?
Q. Hi I am 16 yrs old and I have never had sex or done anything more than making out with girls, even though I have had a few sort of longterm girlfriends (7.5 months the longest... its long for my age I think). I'm not abstinent so to speak but the ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I found you a link for a book that may help alot, but after saying that not all women are the same..Sometimes when I read what men think women want I chuckle n grunt my fiance spent alot of time watching certain programes when younger so h... (read in full...)
I'm a drama queen in relationships
Q. Dear aunty What can I say, love is somewhat one of those misteries that I do not seem to understand. Firstly I am typical drama queen when it comes to relationships, mature in my work life but a child sometimes in my personal, I blame my pass bu...
A. 8 July 2008: Oh hunny Im glad you found this helpfull you take care of u 2 with lots of love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
He's addicted to porn but he's perfect in every other way. I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm pretty depressed right now. I've been with my 42 year old boyfriend for 3.5 years. I am 40. At the start of our relationship he was upfront about his porno tapes. About 6 months later when feelings started developing I became insecure with ...
A. 7 July 2008: Im glad hunny that you have come to a decition but please dont think there is huge problems with you ok love..Just think of how happy he makes you how much he loves you and how very happy you can both be WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY ... (read in full...)
He's addicted to porn but he's perfect in every other way. I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm pretty depressed right now. I've been with my 42 year old boyfriend for 3.5 years. I am 40. At the start of our relationship he was upfront about his porno tapes. About 6 months later when feelings started developing I became insecure with ...
A. 7 July 2008: good grief anon are u surrounded by bloody care bears..Im sorry but my ex husband was a f*****g Psychopath who tryed to kill me.. If he had watched a little porn and loved me Id be a whole lot happier than I have been..In fact yea Im a scarlet woman ... (read in full...)
I'm a drama queen in relationships
Q. Dear aunty What can I say, love is somewhat one of those misteries that I do not seem to understand. Firstly I am typical drama queen when it comes to relationships, mature in my work life but a child sometimes in my personal, I blame my pass bu...
A. 6 July 2008: Hunny
You say your partner is unwell, So therefor will need alot of attention help and understanding...Its hard when we to need the same. You seem the type of person who needs alot of love understanding and care and if you are giving it, And feel... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife with a prostitute, did I want to get caught?
Q. I used porn which led to massage which led to prostitution which led to a lot of prostitution. Same story told many times over. I was caught and there is a school of thought that I wanted that to happen. I brought a prostitute to our apartment an...
A. 6 July 2008: You dont love or care about yourself, Some would say you care only about yourself but I believe there are deep rooted problems that you have never probably faced that have nothing to do with women, The women are feelings of wanting needing lusting ... (read in full...)
After I worked so hard to keep our relationship together-he tells me he wants to break up!
Q. I've been in relationship with my boyfriend for now 2years.. I'm 17 and he is 18, everything was perfect till the last 6 months when we started to row and things like that..he said it is because he didn't know if he loved me anymore, because i ...
A. 6 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Im sorry to here of your pain sweetheart, It sounds as if he wants his cake and eat it at this moment he is telling you he loves you but he is also saying that he wants to go and be with other girls for awhile then when he has had his fun ... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 6 July 2008: oh hunny Im glad they have found something so it can be sorted hopefully but they lost a blood test ooooh that makes me mad...you enjoy your holiday and i'll carry on praying for u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 2 July 2008: have fun in the sun (:0) hun xXxXxXx... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 1 July 2008: keep us posted hunny best of luck and lots of prayers love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Should I trust him again after he vanished with no apparent reason?
Q. me and a guy ive knew have just started "talking" but like a year ago we used to talk then and he must of just totally forgot, but yeah i went with the flow. last time we talked he blocked and deleted me with no reason what soever i tried calling ...
A. 22 June 2008: Hi Hun
Always go with your gut instincts, If your feeling worried just keep this in mind that you have written, Dont go jumping in with 4 feet wait and see how things go and take it really slow love after all he has let you down in the past and you ... (read in full...)
My sister keeps fainting. Does anyone know what it might be?
Q. My little sister keeps on fainting. It's pretty scray. She says that it only happens when she's really tired. She'll get up out of bed or from sitting down and a few minuets later she'll hit the deck. I saw her faint this morning (It was the f...
A. 21 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Your sister needs to go back to the doctor there are more test that can be done to see what the problem is hunny.
Heart tests such as ECG, Holter monitoring, echocardiogram, or an exercise stress test.
A tilt table test. This test checks ... (read in full...)
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