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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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My boyfriend is somewhat of a control freak. What do you think?
Q. I have LIVED with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I'm almost 22 and he's almost 25. He's somewhat of a control freak I guess you can say. When we first got together everything was good..of course. As I started making friends and those friends wanted ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi Hunny
I think you need to live your life and experience things for yourself without being told what to do. There is no way on this earth that I would let anyone bark orders at me like this hunny, Be home at 9 you are an adult who works hard and ... (read in full...)
He kidnapped me and now talks in terms of marriage. Should I tell him I don't want to?
Q. I'm 16 and I recently met this guy, he seemed so nice and sweet and now we are living together. He's 25 and he has a good job and a girlfriend but he tells me he doesn't love her. I used to live at home but like the knight he is, he rescued me from ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi Hunny
Ok hunny I can see you dont wish to leave him, But dont let him pressure you into anything you dont wish to do if your not ready for marriage or sex then tell him love if he really does love you then he will listen and understand. It stil... (read in full...)
He kidnapped me and now talks in terms of marriage. Should I tell him I don't want to?
Q. I'm 16 and I recently met this guy, he seemed so nice and sweet and now we are living together. He's 25 and he has a good job and a girlfriend but he tells me he doesn't love her. I used to live at home but like the knight he is, he rescued me from ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi Hunny
This is very worrying, You talk of him kidnapping you so your parents dont no were you are sweetheart.. This sounds to me like a controlling siuation, He has a girlfriend he has taken you with him from your home you are a minor. I no your... (read in full...)
I feel like my choices are to settle for a man I don't love, or be alone forever. Any advice?
Q. I am a 30-year-old professional woman and I am devasted because it's been a very long time since I have had any tangible dating prospects. I'd like any advice or feedback on how to best handle this incredibly and increasingly painful situation. A...
A. 19 August 2008: Hi yanna
I can see how frustrating and upset you are hunny, You sound like a lovely young woman, My advise to you is to relax enjoy your life and maybe dont look so hard hunny..You may think this is crap advise. The turn of the coin is Ive had 3 ve... (read in full...)
I had my period a week early, and it hasn't finished properly.
Q. hey.. i had my normal period, but it was a week early, it was for like 9 days, then it stopped, however im still bleeding every now and then.. what could this be? ...
A. 18 August 2008: well that was as much use as a chocolate teapot eh! pop in Periods, irregular hun and hopefully it works XX... (read in full...)
I had my period a week early, and it hasn't finished properly.
Q. hey.. i had my normal period, but it was a week early, it was for like 9 days, then it stopped, however im still bleeding every now and then.. what could this be? ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive found you a link that explains alot...
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/articles/article.aspx?articleID=410
If this does not settle hun get it checked out TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Am I going to get my period soon? I've been having these pains!
Q. ok this is a embaressing question ok here goes well lately i have been having sotmach neck head back pains welll is this meaning i will get my period sooon or what i am just haivng these pains i truly dont know any answer willbe cool oh yea im10 ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hi Hunny
It could be period pains but hunny talk with your mum or a relative and get an appointment for the doctor to make sure ok darling its always better to get a doctors opinion if your in alot of pain sweetheart TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MAND... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?
Q. Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of ...
A. 18 August 2008: Hi sweetpea
Does he really need to be still seeing her hunny, Is it not you that now needs some time together, after all you have been as solid as a rock for him is it not time he was there for you now..write me if you need a chat love TAKE CARE... (read in full...)
Why do adults always focus on mistakes their children make?
Q. wy do adults always focus on the mistakes theri children do? why do they always get angry when we don't always agree with them? i know their looking out for us but isn't it a bit too suffocating?...
A. 16 August 2008: Hi Hunny
Im an adult (well thats debatable actually) personally I dont focus on the mistakes my children make as its part of growing up and learning so if they do make them and they will, Just as I did and do. Then its all good learning hunn... (read in full...)
Our love is fading. I just want to make things right.
Q. Im so tired of him thinking that he is the only one that has to go through things. Maybe it's time for him to start thinking about others rather than himself. It hurts when he denies my love. He believes that im cheating on him, which is surely not ...
A. 16 August 2008: Hi Sweetheart
I read you post twice and thought if only you showed this to your b/f it speaks volumes..You have to speak with him hunny sometimes when we feel we are loosing someone the truth is the only way they will understand Its not the way it s... (read in full...)
My husband went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have discovered all kinds of things on Facebook from his 18 yo 'friend.' Guess where he went away.
Q. My husband and I have been having some marriage troubles...he went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have recently gone onto Facebook and he is on there too. I have discovered all these sexy, love, suggestive bumper ...
A. 15 August 2008: Hi Hunny
oh my heart goes out to you, Sweety your not paranoid this is happening..q1605 has it right love. You have all the proof you need dont sit there feeling as if you are wrong, Tell him you no whats going on.. I would pack a bag and go and ... (read in full...)
He's a heroin addict, I finally kicked him out, did I do the right thing?
Q. Well how do i start, my partner has been a heroin addict for two years, after false promises and hope that he would get better i have found out that he still is on it, he lies to me about what he is doing. It is so upsetting because we can be so ...
A. 14 August 2008: Yes hunny I believe you have done the right thing, He can get help if he wishes to and go to a rehab centre if he went to his doctor..There is only so much you can do for a person with addiction. If you are there all the time then he will not even ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of leaving this controlling guy because of his threats
Q. I have been in this realtionship for 10 years. We have had alot of problems. When I first met him we dated for like 2 years and seem to be the sweetwst guy on earth. When we got married it all seem to change slowly a little at a time. When he was ...
A. 14 August 2008: Im going to keep intouch love untill we sort this out Ive got to go to work now if you want to message me please do I'll help in anyway I can, Ive got intouch with others that can help XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I'm scared of leaving this controlling guy because of his threats
Q. I have been in this realtionship for 10 years. We have had alot of problems. When I first met him we dated for like 2 years and seem to be the sweetwst guy on earth. When we got married it all seem to change slowly a little at a time. When he was ...
A. 14 August 2008: Sweetheart you have to get out, I cant say enough how dangerous this man is.....
http://www.hopeforhealing.org/ER_Links.html
I found this site Im hoping some of my american friends can help more...You have just explained my abusive marriage... (read in full...)
How do I handle a friend who has a crush on me and is being incredibly needy?
Q. I have a friend (Pal) who has become increasingly needy over the past few weeks. He calls me everyday, and always expects a long conversation. He asks my advice on everything, from whether it is ethical to become involved with someone if you don’t ...
A. 13 August 2008: Hi sweetheart
You have just got out of a stressfull relationship this in itself should be enough for your friend to understand you need some you time...When you can and are relaxed enough invite him for a coffee and tell him you would like to talk... (read in full...)
How do I get over these nerves and just enjoy the new relationship?
Q. I've been really good friends with my friend *Rupert* for years now. When we're together I just feel completely relaxed and at ease and he's always the first person I go to when I am upset. Somehow whatever else is going on in my life, when I go ...
A. 13 August 2008: Hi Hunny
You just have to relax a little sweetheart it is a strange move going from feeling happy great and relaxed with your mate to then being intimate..But the good thing about this relationship is you know each other so well, You bonded befo... (read in full...)
She's 13--does the age difference matter?
Q. ok.. so this girl i like is 13 and im 16 does age really matter?...
A. 12 August 2008: I dont belive age to matter but I think at this age 13 people will feel it much to young love, You have to consider her family her friend your family your friends.. and if you really do care for this girl then you have to respect the fact she is ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me interpretate this dream?
Q. Okay, my dream starts off with me running around in this old abandoned school house. I used to go to school there but it's now closed. I dreamed I was in this room alone and I saw this picture on the wall. It was of Jesus and he was wearing the ...
A. 11 August 2008: Hi Hunny
Do you have any bad experiences from being at your old school hunny, Are you at this moment or have you been interested in the ouija board? And have you or family or friends been brought up to attend church? I ask you these questions as a... (read in full...)
Why do I hurt during sex?
Q. I'm 16 and I lost my virginity about a month ago. ( didnt bleed but it was the 1st time ive ever had sex) Every time Ive had sex since then I hurt really bad when my bf goes deep and I cant figure out why. I'm worried I could have some kind of ...
A. 11 August 2008: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia
Hope this link comes out hunny its just a guidline of what can cause pain the doctor can give you more help XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Why do I hurt during sex?
Q. I'm 16 and I lost my virginity about a month ago. ( didnt bleed but it was the 1st time ive ever had sex) Every time Ive had sex since then I hurt really bad when my bf goes deep and I cant figure out why. I'm worried I could have some kind of ...
A. 11 August 2008: Hi Hunny
You really do need to see a doctor, This could be an infection it could be anything ttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia#Symptoms_in_women
This is a link just incase I dont want you to get worried as this may not be the reason at al... (read in full...)
Can one take a fertility test to see who is the father during pregnancy?...
Q. I has sex today and my boyfriend came over and I decided to take a pregnancy test like an hour or two after the test and it came back positive. I am late on my period and I keep getting ill and my boobs are hurting. I don't want to go to the ...
A. 8 August 2008: Hi Hunny
No having sex just before you took the test wouldnt affect it, The hGC hormone in your urine gives the possitive result...
And you really have to wait untill the baby is born to do a DNA Paternity test Mother, Father and Child sweethea... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your boyfriend asks you for time?
Q. Well, I met a guy almost a year ago that was studying for his L-Stats and we became good friends.Although we both liked each other and occasionally would go out for lunch we remained friends. Not knowing what Law School he would end up I tried not ...
A. 7 August 2008: Hi sweetheart
Im happy to help and I hope you find someone thats worthy of your love and caring nature YOU TAKE CARE OF YOU HUN LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I don't think he regrets sincerely what he did, he is only checking that I don't tell his wife of our affair!?
Q. I am starting to move on now from my previous heartache. He's away but still contacting me asking if im alright and always reminding me that things will be alright soon. He always repeat to me that i could find much better than him and he really ...
A. 7 August 2008: Hi Hunny
I would change your number so he canot contact you anymore, If you are trying so hard to move on from this then the calls and constant reminders are not good for you. He is making sure that you are on good terms by telling you he is sorr... (read in full...)
I want to turn my "booty call" relationship into a friendship.
Q. Any tips/advice, i have a booty call relationship with a guy which has been going on for a year come to think of it and im bored of this and looking for a proper relationship but not nessecerily with this guy. been ignoring him for a bit but he...
A. 6 August 2008: I did mean love from you as in you not him hunny ok..Dont take any notice of me im a tad nutty, I hope this all works out fine for you love XXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I want to turn my "booty call" relationship into a friendship.
Q. Any tips/advice, i have a booty call relationship with a guy which has been going on for a year come to think of it and im bored of this and looking for a proper relationship but not nessecerily with this guy. been ignoring him for a bit but he...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi Hunny
DiovanLestat has got it to a tee love just say hey mate this has been great but I need to move on now so lets drop the sex and be mates love u lots love u xxxxxxx Tisha has it on the ball to hunny, Just say it in a kind casual way and hope... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your boyfriend asks you for time?
Q. Well, I met a guy almost a year ago that was studying for his L-Stats and we became good friends.Although we both liked each other and occasionally would go out for lunch we remained friends. Not knowing what Law School he would end up I tried not ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi Hunny
I really think by him telling you you should move on as he does not want to hurt you means you really must move on from this. He cannot promise anything, This is his way of telling you this is not what he wants at the moment as No_N... (read in full...)
My LDR is coming to an end... it's killing me inside. Any advice?
Q. Here's the deal, I am a college student, my girlfriend and I were together for about 4 months or so and then the school year came to an end. We both decided that we wanted to do the Long Distance Relationship for the summer and we both thought ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi Hunny
You really like this girl this is why all your insecurity is coming out and the fact that you know she cheated with her last guy doesnt help much love she wasnt interested in the last guy but she is interested in you, Yes she was hone... (read in full...)
Blood in my underwear after sex, but not my period???
Q. ive had sex before but the last time i did i had little drops of blood in my underwear. this has only happened once and im not on my period. is this normal? what should i think?...
A. 5 August 2008: Hi Hunny
I would book an ap with your doctor to get checked out as bleeding after sex is not normal, To be on the safe side get some test done to make sure everything is ok hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I'm just not coming on my period! Am I pregnant or not?
Q. hello i really need help im a 15 year old girl and i had sex on the 10th of july and me and my boyriend never used a condom,i was due on on the 27th of july but still havent come on!i have all the period pains but im just not coming on my period!am ...
A. 4 August 2008: Hi Sweetheart
your just over a week late so go and get a test a.s.a.p you could be worrying so much it is stopping your period from coming but there is a very strong chance you may be pregnant. The sooner you find out the better so get that test... (read in full...)
I'm married but lonely! What should I do?
Q. I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to ...
A. 3 August 2008: go on your own hunny you will benifit from it and it will help alot, It may take time but you will get so much out of your system and then be able to think alot clearer about were you want to go with this hun, TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY ... (read in full...)
I'm married but lonely! What should I do?
Q. I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to ...
A. 3 August 2008: Well hunny you have just descibed my first marriage, I no just how you feel I would be excited to talk about anything like you how my day had gone and past childhood experiences just sit together and chit chat like a couple of mates and have a good ... (read in full...)
I've had enough with my abusive boyfriend of six years. What should I do?
Q. I am still with my boyfreind after 6 years..however I still have not met his parents, he has been abusive towards me and I have seen a girl come out of his house twice he says she come to get somthing but I dont beleive that. He doesnt work and I ...
A. 3 August 2008: Hi Hunny
Im going to be blunt its time you left and let this person get on with his selfish life...Abusing you by what you have said cheating although that cant be a for sure but I do belive it a big possibility hunny..You pay for everything he has ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend's brother hate me?
Q. I can really say that this is a relationship question. My relationship is perfect, but I'm a pretty quiet person if I don't know someone. When my boyfriends brother comes over with his girlfriend I never say much more then Hi, How are you? sometimes ...
A. 2 August 2008: Hi Hunny
rcn has it on the ball once again, I dont think he doesnt like you, If he is looking at you when his g/f is no around then this to me is he is admiring you and thats not good while she isnt around. But one things for sure sweetheart he does... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?
Q. Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of ...
A. 2 August 2008: good for u hunny im the same stick by your thoughts sweetheart xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
How can I convince him that I'm not going to hurt him, for I know he likes me and he knows I love him?
Q. hi guys, i've know this guy for a while now, we've been boyfriends a few times but we keep breaking up, the first time it was because we was goin to go to college far away, the second time he told me it was because he has feelings for me,...
A. 1 August 2008: Hi Sweetheart
You could write a letter telling him of your feelings and also that you understand that he may be fearfull of another relationship and put everything in this letter about how you feel and that no two people are the same..Ive had some... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: She is most def using you hunny Im sorry to say, find a nice kind girl who cares for you for who you are not what you spend, Get rid of this one love she is taking the p**s big time, You are worth so much more not all girls are like this she is a ... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: HUNNY THE ANSWER IS A PLAIN AND SIMPLE NO!!!!She is using your good kind nature and the fact that she is popular to get what she wants sweetheart, She cares not for you but only for herself..I hate to sound cruel hunny but she is not a nice young ... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?
Q. Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of ...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi Hunny
Thankyou for your response Devil Spawn, I am in an age gap relationship and not all men live and breath the shallow life....DiovanLestat does have a point love... Is this woman now using the child to keep your husband..You are very unde... (read in full...)
Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!
Q. i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hunny Im glad I could help I was worried that my words may come across as harsh and I didnt want that love as this is not my intention ever ... After you have been through so much your best interests were only at heart YOU TAKE CARE AND I HOPE LIFE ... (read in full...)
Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!
Q. i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi Hun
I read and re read your post, And all these problems you have been through being your g/f should she not want to be understanding no matter what if she loves you..You text but didnt ring her is this why her insecurity came out? Then once it w... (read in full...)
Even if I don't get her back, I'm worried she may go off the rails!
Q. i was with my ex for close to 14 months and i did have strong feelings for her and loved her a lot. however we ran into trouble when i had a combination of problems at work,at home but i didn't want to tell her anything about it all and kept it ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi Hunny
I havent much time so I will talk with you later as well if you wish, Maybe sweetheart if you wrote a letter telling her the truth about how you were down with all these problems and family things and this is why you did not want to talk... (read in full...)
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