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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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Is my friend in trouble? Do you think I should call?
Q. My friend who´s in military and living across the country wrote me down today asking how I was. He´s married and I do know his kids from his 1st marriage went over there and payed him a visit. Well, his daughter told me she didn´t spent a nice time. ...
A. 4 August 2009: Hi Hun
I think that if something has happened he may feel either he wants to keep it quiet at this moment or he just doesnt feel able to talk about it love..The good thing here is he has got you to talk to, So I would be the lovely friend you are ... (read in full...)
I got rejected!
Q. I got rejected by this guy that showed interest in me. After I met with him for our date, I couldn't eat or sleep normally for a week because I was that into him. He said he just wanted to be friends. I'm still hurt and I don't know how to get over...
A. 4 August 2009: Hi Hunny
I no how your feeling rejection of any kind can hurt so much, What you dont need to be thinking about right now is the hundred questions you are asking yourself everyday as sweetheart it may not be one of them..The reasons for why he just... (read in full...)
How would you feel if you were in her shoes? What did I do wrong?
Q. me (i'm a girl) and this girl has been friends for a while and around november i told her i was bi..and she said its just a phase..and then like 4 months later i told her that i had no interest in boys..and i was lesbian and she started to accept it ...
A. 30 July 2009: Hi Hunny
Well Its all a little confusing, When you first told your mate you thought you were bi she told you maybe you were going through a phase..(maybe you thought she is never going to understand) Then 4 months later you explain that you have... (read in full...)
Bleeding during sex?
Q. Does anyone have any ideas on why I've started bleeding during sex? This has never happened to me before, it's only been the last 3 or 4 times. Sometimes it's really heavy and sometimes it's just spotting but it's really worrying me. I know it could ...
A. 21 July 2009: Im glad that link helped hun and I hope you feel better soon and everything is ok WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
THe only reason I got with her is because I thought she was easy
Q. My girlfriend has kind of a sluty past, and I know shes a freak. Infact the only reason i got with her was becuz i heard she was easy, which she was extremely and also REALLY REALY FREAKY, but then while we were sitting in bed she told me a bunch of ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hi Hun
You said your g/f was freaky by that I take it you mean unusual in the way she behaved?
If really bad things happened to her, Then this can account as to why she appeared and may have been so easy as you put it..
If someone has only bee... (read in full...)
Bleeding during sex?
Q. Does anyone have any ideas on why I've started bleeding during sex? This has never happened to me before, it's only been the last 3 or 4 times. Sometimes it's really heavy and sometimes it's just spotting but it's really worrying me. I know it could ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hi Hunny
Ive found a link for you...
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/bleedaftersex.htm
As you said you are going to the doc so thats the best thing I think I hope this link helps with love mandy xxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Pregnancy scares!
Q. I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have ...
A. 19 July 2009: oh I so glad for u hunny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Why did he put in so much effort for the first 3 months, only to now act like this?
Q. alright guys i am confused. so this is going to be long. please give me some opinions though. so i have been sorta kinda been with this guy for 5 months so i met this guy who works at the airport in my hometown, when i had a really long layo...
A. 16 July 2009: Hi Hun
First Id say to you give him space leave him for awhile just let him do his work and dont contact him at all...If he is stressed with family issues and all the hrs he is working then he may feel slightly pressured..
If he wants you he will ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy scares!
Q. I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have ...
A. 16 July 2009: Hi Hunny
My advice is to get a pregnancy test as soon as possible, You may be getting cramps and sore breast from your due period but from what you have said Id get the test..Once that is done then you will hopefully no were you stand..You can phon... (read in full...)
What does a guy from Kansas have to offer a girl from Italy?
Q. note: i am changing all details and painting the picture/situation accurately to find advice/suggestion...should i fight for her. title: Boy from Kansas meets girl from Italy. She's 33 and i'm 36. ...we dated for 3 years, i'm 36 and to be as m...
A. 7 July 2009: yes mate do it!!!!!!!
You never know you could be living in italy in 2yrs time, Go for it hun. Wot have you got to loose at this moment NOTHING!!!!! sweep her off her feet mate, Show her how much you are willing to do for her and win this girl back... (read in full...)
What does a guy from Kansas have to offer a girl from Italy?
Q. note: i am changing all details and painting the picture/situation accurately to find advice/suggestion...should i fight for her. title: Boy from Kansas meets girl from Italy. She's 33 and i'm 36. ...we dated for 3 years, i'm 36 and to be as m...
A. 5 July 2009: Hi Hunny
You love this girl and by the sounds of it she to loves you..The fact that she lived in and has been brought up in a different country to me are neither here or there...Yes different cultures have different values and of course diff... (read in full...)
Should I get my husband's permission to apologize to my ex?
Q. I have a condition called delayed PTSD. I started showing symptoms of it with one of my ex's when we were dating.( I think that's when it started, not sure, maybe earlier before we were dating.) Now that I am married and have been for 11 months, I ...
A. 22 June 2009: Hi Hun
Im glad you got some help and you have sent your message, I do hope you feel better very soon WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXX... (read in full...)
Should I get my husband's permission to apologize to my ex?
Q. I have a condition called delayed PTSD. I started showing symptoms of it with one of my ex's when we were dating.( I think that's when it started, not sure, maybe earlier before we were dating.) Now that I am married and have been for 11 months, I ...
A. 21 June 2009: Hi Hunny
I understand how you feel as Ive had post traumatic stress for quite awhile now, and yes it does get better much! much! better..It really does I feel so different now than I did yrs ago..Im happy now love, I hope this gives you some hope... (read in full...)
Found a video tape of my husband and my best friend's husband having sex, where do I go from here?
Q. I came home from work last night to find a video tape by the side of the sofa with a note attached from my husband saying "Hope you enjoy this and missing you loads. John* xx". My husband was away on business at the time when this happened. I p...
A. 12 June 2009: Oh my goodness sweetheart
What a horrible way to inform you of what has been going on!!!!Coward!!!
you have that tape, Not that you would wish to see it again so Id pop it somewere safe for the moment.. (This is just I would have thought there wa... (read in full...)
Would this be considered cheating or unfaithfull?
Q. Well over the weekend my husband and his co-workers threw a retirement/55th B-day party for his work friend "Corey" that they threw at the beach. We had games,alcohol,food and all the typical beach party gear.When we were playing volleyball on a few ...
A. 6 June 2009: I dont think counselling is needed here..I feel hunny you just need to veiw this from the other angle...Your down the beach with your best mate and she is coming on to your husband while he is past out. While you are passed out! bit wierd dont you ... (read in full...)
Would this be considered cheating or unfaithfull?
Q. Well over the weekend my husband and his co-workers threw a retirement/55th B-day party for his work friend "Corey" that they threw at the beach. We had games,alcohol,food and all the typical beach party gear.When we were playing volleyball on a few ...
A. 3 June 2009: Hi Hunny
Fantasys are fine but this was a bit more, To this day does he know you were awake? This was not good behavour!a gentleman touching you when passed out its invasive to say the least..I could go alot futher...
HNNY DONT GO THERE! Yes its ... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying to make this relationship work?
Q. Should I keep trying to make this relationship work? I have known my partner for 9 years. We are in late 30s ealry 40s. We nearly got together twice before but remained close friends and then finally three years ago we did. She had many partners...
A. 1 June 2009: Hi Sweetheart
I havent read any of the other answers. From what you have written you seem to be a very reliable trustworthy helpfull understanding person and alot more....The thing here is this woman feels it is ok to do anything she wishes caus... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy she likes him or to ask him out?
Q. i like this guy named Pedro and I think he likes me also..The problem is that he is shy I noticed that when he talks to me he gets nervous. I know he won't make the first move because he is shy..So I'm thinking about asking him out.OR just telling ...
A. 27 May 2009: Hi Hunny
No its not wrong, I dont think so, There are alot of shy men and women out there so go for it chick good luck with love n hugs mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sneaks out of bed to watch porn!
Q. Well I know this kind of situation has been bought up on here before, but would feel really appreciative if i could have some answer's personal to me. See the thing is I escaped an abusive relationship with my ex husband, for example controll...
A. 22 May 2009: Sweetheart
I have been through an abusive relationship were porn was used as a form of sexual abuse, That wasnt the main thing by far. But reading your post let me tell you I inderstand your feelings 100%
Now I wouldnt allow a computer in my house... (read in full...)
Please help - am I losing my mind?
Q. Hi, I am a 37 year old married woman with a good job and an outgoing personality. I enjoy being with people but get so anxious and nervous about going out and meeting them, that I whip myself into a nervous frenzy and usually try to cancel things a...
A. 12 May 2009: Very true the last answer..
as for the professionals helping i have taken their advice with a pinch of salt as their main preoccupation is putting bipolar people on antipsychotics so they lose their drive,
They did this to me, I didnt need t... (read in full...)
Please help - am I losing my mind?
Q. Hi, I am a 37 year old married woman with a good job and an outgoing personality. I enjoy being with people but get so anxious and nervous about going out and meeting them, that I whip myself into a nervous frenzy and usually try to cancel things a...
A. 12 May 2009: Hi Hunny
It sounds that there alot of issues that you havent had closure with love, This can cause depression and social phobia and it certainly sounds like you are going through a tough time..Ive had a simiular thing I had panic attacks when I we... (read in full...)
His mom is a big thorn in the side of our relationship
Q. Ok I am engaged and we r already planning the wedding but I have one problem....HIS MOTHER! We live together and have 3 kids witch she treats bad. She has told other family members that she don't think I love him like his ex from 5 years ago did! He ...
A. 10 May 2009: Hi Hunny
You tell her you are an adult , That you are a parent and you love your family and if that is not good enough then yes please mind you own business...Dont be pushed round, Dont be attacked for being you.
You are special and she should r... (read in full...)
Depressed and in an abusive relationship, what should I do?
Q. Hello Before i start i want to just say this is a long one so please read carefully. Ok so here goes me and my partner met in august 2006 and in december 2006 we split because my bf was so controlling he didnt like me talking to other guys an...
A. 3 May 2009: Hi Hunny
You no some people take kindness for weakness!!!!And sweetheart you are not weak!!!!!Ive got one thing to say here, You are dealing with a self obsessed man and you WILL NEVER BE HAPPY!!!!
Not only have you had problems in the past tha... (read in full...)
Road trip, bereavement and cancer advice wanted
Q. Dear Cupids, At last my question for you all :D. Very soon i am of to America on holiday with my friend and his wife. We are going to be road tripping around LA – Phoenix – Flagstaff – Vegas areas. However, it isn’t just a holiday, there a...
A. 3 May 2009: sorry ,mate but that just cracked me up pa pa!!!!!!Hope u feel better very soon xx... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a great guy but I feel sad. Is that normal?
Q. Hello. I'm a divorced dad with three great kids. Well my oldest is 17 and she has just started dating a 23 year old man. She has known him for a long time and he's ok. The thing is I feel really happy for her but I feel really sad as well and I ...
A. 28 April 2009: Hi Hunny
Do you feel like your loosing your daughter? Your happy for her but at the same time this sadness is maybe the fact that she is growing up and doesnt appear to need you as she did..But she does and always will hun..Ive got 3 and slowly they... (read in full...)
He loves his daughter, but not her mother.
Q. I know this guy who truly loves his 4 year old daughter and doesn't want to do anything to ruin his relationship with her, but he doesn't love the mother. Is there any way he can still be in the daughter’s life without being in the mother's? Here's ...
A. 28 April 2009: Hi Hunny
Before you go any further, Ever heard the line my g/f or wife doesnt understand me!!!!!So his g/f is no longer any fun..Well she has a 4yr old to take care of sweetheart while he is out and about with you...He really shouldnt be talk... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of chasing him, how can I get him to chase me for once?
Q. I have been dating this guy for the past few months although we never actually established what we officially were. He had to go to the hospital a while back and have some surgery, which was scary, but he has been out for around three weeks now and ...
A. 21 April 2009: Hi Hunny
You really need to cut contact no phn calls no nothing, I no it will be going through your head whats he thinking whats he doing and your mind will work overtime..But If you carry on all the giving and chasing then he knows without a shad... (read in full...)
Is this anxiety normal after a breakup?
Q. I am currently dealing with anxiety and depression after a five year break up. It's really getting me down because I don't feel myself at all. My head will think things that I don't feel inside, and it's really upsetting me because I'm afraid that...
A. 19 April 2009: Hi Hunny
Breakups are different for each of us, It is a form of grieving sweetheart i'll send you a link to read...
http://www.therelationshipgym.com/how_to_get_over_a_break_up.htm
Its a horrible feeling to be left with all sorts of negativ... (read in full...)
Road trip, bereavement and cancer advice wanted
Q. Dear Cupids, At last my question for you all :D. Very soon i am of to America on holiday with my friend and his wife. We are going to be road tripping around LA – Phoenix – Flagstaff – Vegas areas. However, it isn’t just a holiday, there a...
A. 19 April 2009: so pleased hunny that everything went so well for you xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Court injunction out on my ex husband?
Q. How do i get a court injunction out on my ex husband? I was beaten for ten years and he has not seen his daughter now for 4 years. He wants to but my daughter does not wish to see him....
A. 9 April 2009: Hi Hunny
When you were married and the beatings were happening did you involve the police??? If so this should still be logged. I had to get many injunctions on my ex and because he was so voilent it was a case of seeking help from victim supp... (read in full...)
I took the morning after pill in Feb, but am I now pregnant?
Q. i was wondering, i took the morning after pill one hour after i had unprotected sex.it was on february the 24th, 2009. then i felt terribly sick and then in a few days had some spotting. i then saw my period on march the 20th, 2009. i had not had ...
A. 7 April 2009: Sweetheart
The most important thing here is to get to your doctor, It could be a bladder infection..Only your doc can do the nessasary test for pregnancy and water infections , Go as soon as you can to pop your mind at rest love, It sounds as if t... (read in full...)
How long do you wait to tell your bf and parents that you're pregnant?
Q. Curious.. If the Dr. gives you the Big surprise that you're pregnant..how long do you wait to tell your boyfriend? Is there a right time? I don't want to freak him out until I'm 100% sure..? And the parents? ...
A. 7 April 2009: Hi Hunny
If the doctor has told you, you are pregnant and has maybe taken a test, Are you waiting for a test to come back for confirmation?
If so I would definatly tell my b/f what was going on he has a right to no hun, Hopefully he wont freak ou... (read in full...)
Why do women prefer being on the top?
Q. Well, i have a simple question which i couldn't find the answer by myself. I hope your answers will help me... Do the women have more pleasure and have orgasm when they are dominant? I mean when they are riding or when they are controlling the ...
A. 30 March 2009: Hi Hunny
It all depends on the woman, Not all women can reach orgasm in certain positions and being on top can help this as Gina said..I'm not bothered personally as long as I have fun hope this helps TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
We're "on a break", then he joked we were "Friends with Benefits" ???
Q. 2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I went "on a break". It was his idea since we had been spending too much time together and arguing a lot more than normal. A few days later I asked what he meant by "break" and he said it was that we were ...
A. 24 March 2009: Hi Hunny
It sounds to me as if he is being mean at this moment towards you, Playing with your heart this way.
You have to really think about this as it would not make me happy at all if someone did the same to me, He needs to make his mind up ... (read in full...)
I'm holding on to a shred of hope
Q. I really dont know how to get through this on my own any more, and none of my family or friends seem to know how to help so if anyone out there can tell me something, anything that will make this hurt a little less it will mean the world to me. m...
A. 23 March 2009: Hi Sweetheart
I understand your pain, Sometimes when this type of relationship breakup happens we over analyse every little thing..If only this and if only that...You at this moment need to concentrate on you..Get you well and strong once again and ... (read in full...)
I've changed from a fun person into a paranoid needy person!
Q. Im 27, and scared. I have been in a very fast and intense relationship for 6 months now. I love them more than I thought possible, and now I am terrified things are changing and I will end up being hurt. I need to know how mentally or medicall...
A. 19 March 2009: Hi Hunny
I understand why you feel this way, As its happened to me..Its so very hard to let go and enjoy what you have after awhile as you said the honeymoon period is slowly becoming less and you are both getting used to being together...
To be... (read in full...)
Troubles in the bedroom...
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving ...
A. 18 March 2009: Hi Hun
I'm not surprised you wake up with your heart racing you are not comfortable in sleep, If you cannot twitch in the night without her thinking you are masturbating what are you supposed to do????I would sit and have a talk NOT YELL... (read in full...)
Road trip, bereavement and cancer advice wanted
Q. Dear Cupids, At last my question for you all :D. Very soon i am of to America on holiday with my friend and his wife. We are going to be road tripping around LA – Phoenix – Flagstaff – Vegas areas. However, it isn’t just a holiday, there a...
A. 17 March 2009: Hi Hunny
Expect the unexpected with your friend, He may talk and get upset, You can only be there and be the good friend you are, That's all he needs right now someone to listen when he is ready to talk as emotion is high and he obviously finds it s... (read in full...)
We had dry sex, he had boxers on, I had none.
Q. ok me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile and were planning on gettin married but were waiting on the whole sex thing. but we have dry humpted more then 10 times he has had shorts and boxers on but i havent and yes he has came but from...
A. 17 March 2009: Hi Hunny
The best thing for you to do is get safe and get contraception, That would stop all the worry although its hardly likely but you just never know and to be safe is much better than being sorry, I'll send you a link.....
http://ww... (read in full...)
The mind or the heart - which one would you choose?
Q. The mind teases the heart! My question is what do you think about the concept of The heart teasing the mind? I think this happens but is probably an illusion and really we should listen to our heart because that is the essence of our true feeli...
A. 16 March 2009: Hi Hunny
I feel the balance of both have an affect on our lives..Sometimes our hearts can tell us something is good exciting and feels right. Then our head will tell us not to go into something quite so quick or there may be a shadow of doub... (read in full...)
Husband chats up other women and tries to meet them, what shall I do?
Q. i need help.i am 27 with 3 children and another due soon.for the past 2 years i have constantly found my partner on online dating websites looking for women who live around our area.also he when he goes out he chats up other women,takes their ...
A. 14 March 2009: Hi Hunny
No your not being paranoid and over bearing, Not only should he not be doing this he should take your feeling into account which he certainly is not..You are expecting a child and have 3 to take care of. Instead of going on dating site... (read in full...)
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