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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
This question has 16 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 13 June 2008: Sorry to hear your mum isnt well hunny, He spoke to you for awhile concerned about your mum so thats a good thing love..That bit you put about he said you were right he has to learn to take things easy can I ask what and how this was said love? At ... (read in full...)
Been together for 4 months..is it too soon for a baby?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby. Is it to soon? Am I too young? I've known my partner for 4 years because he used to work at the stables I used to go to. I love babies so much i've always have ever since i can ...
A. 13 June 2008: hey hunny
You get a job you relly care about and one day when your older and a little more settled then babys can come along, it took me 3 trys before I got my girl..You enjoy your life with david hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXX... (read in full...)
Can he really change after sleeping with an escort in our marital home?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 15 years, my husband never showered me with the love and affection I craved for. We have 3 beautiful children. I went away with the children and found out that he had an Escort in our house two days in a row. When I ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Oh how awfull for you, You will need alot of soul searching for this one sweetheart, He brought an escort into your home for two days..Oh my I just canot belive what you must be going through...You said your husband has never shown you much... (read in full...)
Did he give me his business website, in hopes that I would call him?
Q. i have met a guy on myspace and we clicked and have spent hours on instant messenger, we have not exchanged phone numbers yet but have made tenative plans to met in the future. he owns his own biz and gave me his website address, this has his ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Why dont you just mention the next time you speak on facebook that now you have his work number would it be alright to call him as you would love to hear his voice..When he gave it to you did he mention he was showing you the biz hunn... (read in full...)
Gallbladder problem. Will I regain weight?
Q. ok so I have gallbladder issues and since I've been having gallbladder issues I've lost weight.When they remove my gallbladder will I gain my weight back?...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Your doctor should have gone over all your worrys and concerns with you, If you have any questions that you need to no do not be frightened to ask, So I would suggest you speak to a parent who will know all the imformation or should do or a... (read in full...)
I had my copper coil misfitted and did have unprotected sex before my first check up - your advice, please!
Q. Okay, 6 weeks ago, i got the copper coil, which was painful to have put in, (im 17 and never had a child) and then at my check up yesterday they found it actualy was half way out meaning i wasnt protected at all. I have been having a lot of unprotec...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi Hunny
This is not right at all, You have not been treated Professionally at all...If the nurse thought there was a chance that you may be pregnant then she should not have inserted another coil... (read in full...)
Am I being just another married man who wants to have his cake & eat it?
Q. I should start by saying that this is going to sound very stupid coming from a 57 year old man, but it is honestly causing me a great dilemma. Over the last 6 years we have spent many fantastic holidays in Phuket, staying in the same res...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You got seduced hunny by a woman who most definatly knows what she is doing..This is her job I would put money on that. Alot of these women see an english man going on holiday alot and think he has money and that is all they are inte... (read in full...)
Is it possible to live alone for the rest of my life and be happy?
Q. Hello, I broke up with my first boyfriend yesterday, and now I never wanna fall in love again. He was my first love. But he hurt me because he was so judgemental of my past. I posted earlier about how he thinks I'm a slut. For the record, I was a ...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You said He was trustworthy, loyal, kind, sweet, we had loads in common, he respected me!!!!!!! You also said he was so judgemental of my past. He thinks I'm a slut. Hunny how could anyone be kind, sweet and respect anyone if they judg... (read in full...)
Falling for the wrong one!! What do I do?
Q. I love a guy and hes with a good friend I practically hooked them up but the more time I spent hooking them up the more I fell in love with him. What do I do?...
A. 11 June 2008: Oh hunny
Are they happy together? You got them together and now you really wish you hadnt these feeling must be awfull for you, I can understand, You dont no who your going to fall for love and when your helping someone out and getting to no that... (read in full...)
I finally can love again but I'm confused by this guy's mood changed - he's nice to me every now and then but usually acts like he doesn't care!
Q. Okay my ex boyfriend passed away sometime back and after a long time I've found myself actually feeling something for someone else.. This guy is 5 years younger than me.. He's really nice to me every now and then but most often he behaves like he ...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi Hunny
To be truthfull It sounds as if he is enjoying the making out side of things sweetheart, He could also like you very much, At 18yrs old alot of young men can be all over the place when it comes to commiting to one person. (Im not sayi... (read in full...)
Risks while being on the contraceptive pills?
Q. my question is, is there any type of risks you can have while being on a pill that is supposed to keep you from getting pregnant? please let me know of all the risks you know of....
A. 11 June 2008: Hi Hunny
I found you a link that gives you all the information that you will need....
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/contraceptivepills.htm
I hope this helps hunny TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
How I found my true love
Q. This is the story of how i met the love of my life February 3rd my boyfriend soon to be husband the next year left the province to look for work to support us after a month we were ready for me to follow him out to where he was residing Ma...
A. 11 June 2008: Well hunny
congratulations you just made me cry, I was not expecting to come across a story like that first thhing in the morning just ready to answer a few problems..What a blessing to read something so happy first thing. You have helped me toda... (read in full...)
I feel I'm too young to be tied down to this fading relationship,but I'm worried he could talk me out of breaking up with him..
Q. dear agony aunt, i am 18, and i have been in a relationship with a 21 year old guy for the past year and a half. he's a really nice guy, but we have issues and small fights on a regular basis. not over anything really serious, just trivial things. ...
A. 10 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You cant live your life to please other people, To be truely happy you have to love what your life is about and you dont sound as if you do, You are worried if you finish this he will talk you around or get depressed..What about you feel... (read in full...)
Torn between a jailbird husband and my more stable lover. I need advice!
Q. Dear Cupid I am a hard working 50 years old young women, lol. I am searching for some good advice . I have been married 10 years, but has been in and out of prison the majority of those. When he did time I did time with him.All that I have bee...
A. 10 June 2008: Hi Hunny
I agree with tellulah, You husband has constantly kept you there with false promises he really has not been around and its easy to fill someones head with these promises if you want someone to be there for you while you are in need. And ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him who is girlfriend really is and how to make him realize she needs to go?
Q. I am 21 years old and approaching my senior year of college. This past year, I went through a bad break up and only got through it because of the support from friends. One friend in particular, my best friend, Mr. X. Mr. X saw me through everythi...
A. 10 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Well he confides in you sweetheart as you did in him, He may have feelings for you this is true it does not sound as if he is very happy with his g/f calling her annoying and needy this really is not what would seem to be the love of his ... (read in full...)
My friend is concerned about "acting married" when he is not...
Q. My friend has asked for some advice about his girlfriend. They are in a serious relationship. He cares for her deeply and is considering proposing. He is building his first home and living with his parents. He is 30 and she is 22. The problem: when...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You tell him that he needs to sit and talk with his g/f and explain that he cares about her a great deal but during the times that he has to be up for work early that she must understand that he is not being uncaring when he asks for her ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hunny forget about him for 1 minute and read a little of the self esteem link I sent you, you are going round in circles..GET STRONG BEFORE YOU HAVE ANY CONTACT! Be a different you..If you have to have contact which I wouldnt but if you need this ... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive read all the answers and it took me a life time :) But it was worth it...Women and men are different..But not all scientific method seeks to explain the events of nature...Its impossible for every single person to be expected to act ... (read in full...)
My long distance girlfriend broke up with me, it's so hard and I've nobody to talk to as I would only confide personal details to her...
Q. Hi, I meet a girl a long time ago on the internet and we started to like each other. I live in the mid west and she lives on the west coast. We started going out becuase we discovered we were almost perfect for each other. We started to fly back and ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Oh my heart goes out to you, long distance relationships must be so hard on the couple its hard for me to understand how it would work as Ive never had one and I live on a small island...You seem to have put everything into this rela... (read in full...)
I know him for a week and fell madly in love with him. Should I give it a try?
Q. I have met someone on holiday and fell madly in love with him and he has fell in love with me too.....i havnet seen him for a week but i am sleeping round his house on saturday....we live 2 hours away from eachother....i really want it to work ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi Hunny
There is no harm in giving something a try you met someone you like and he likes you..Holiday romances are had by many hunny and when you come back home its not quite the same but if you do want to get to know this person better the only... (read in full...)
Been together for 4 months..is it too soon for a baby?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby. Is it to soon? Am I too young? I've known my partner for 4 years because he used to work at the stables I used to go to. I love babies so much i've always have ever since i can ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You may have known your partner for 4yrs but you have only been together as a couple for 4 mths and I think this is far to soon to be thinking about having children. Yes they are cute they look lovely all snuggled up in there pram but when... (read in full...)
How can I live with him happily when the nightmare of him cheating is still is fresh in my mind?
Q. When my husband and his ex(a woman he had sex while being married to ME)sketched a smile in between them I was watching.This made me go mad and the horor once I was terribly sick of it started rewinding in my mind.I still hate him for this reason.He ...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Im not suprised you feel this way, Have you and your husband spoken openly and honestly about what happened and have you though of some counselling to get you through this..My husband cheated on me and he was gone, No second thoughts just... (read in full...)
I have been married for 10 years but not feel satisfied emotionally nor physically.
Q. I've been married since 10 years. I am not satisfied not emotionally not physically. I tried my level best to add spice in my marriage but cant get success. I am tired and frustreted because of lack of sex as well as emotional private time. Now a ...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You need to talk with him, it sounds as if there is a problem he may not be telling you about.. Or he feels your unhappiness and doesnt know how to make things better..You both need to sit and talk together...It sounds as if you dont Comm... (read in full...)
I want to strengthen my PC muscle
Q. ok so i wanna strengthen my PC muscle, I've tried everything to find it and have no idea what i'm looking for I've stopped the flow when i urinate but can't feel anything and i've even put my finger up my bum and tried it that way Problem...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi Hunny
I found you a link that will help....
http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/kegelsmen.htm
This should give you some good ideas TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Family problems coming between my relationship.
Q. Ive been seeying my boyfriend for the last 6 months, hes the most amazing guy and we have always had such a close relationship. Just recently ive had family problems which have been really upsetting me, its put me into a bit of a situation where im...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Oh it so horrible when your so hurt or worried and the frustration just seems to get to you so much you take it out on the one you love, You could kick yourself for doing it but I no were your coming from hunny, If the situation at home... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 5 June 2008: sweety you really do have to start thinking of you now...Its going to grind you down day after day thinking of this all the time and of him...I sent you a link on coping with a breakup..But your self esteem and confidence needs a lift as well hunny ... (read in full...)
I had anal sex, is there any possible way I might be pregnant?
Q. I'm 16, My boyfriend and I have been messing around and have only had anal sex! I have missed my period and I'm very moody! It there any possible way that I could be pregnant? Please help I'm so scared!...Thank You...x...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Here is a link that will help it also goes into safe sex as you can get std's having unprotected anal sex love its better to be safe always....
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_get_pregnant_from_anal_sex
I hope this helps clear up ... (read in full...)
We just have sex. Why can't I say no?
Q. Sorry this is kinda long but i really need some advice and please no rude answers!! There is this guy who I lost my virginity to. he's 21 and I'm 18, we're both in college. we have a lot in common and he said that he liked me but just got out of a ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hunny Im glad that made you feel better, have a read of that link sweetheart it really is a fab one TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
We just have sex. Why can't I say no?
Q. Sorry this is kinda long but i really need some advice and please no rude answers!! There is this guy who I lost my virginity to. he's 21 and I'm 18, we're both in college. we have a lot in common and he said that he liked me but just got out of a ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi Hunny
This guy knows what he is doing and your confidence is so low at the moment your letting him because its the only time you feel close to him..You have to build up that self esteem, Ok so you lost your virginity to this guy it doesnt mean... (read in full...)
I have no idea how to exercise my pubococcygeus muscle... any sugestions?
Q. ok so i have no idea how to exercise my pubococcygeus muscle I can't even find it, when i stop my urination flow the need to pee just disappears and i feel no muscle at all :S I really want to exercise it but have no idea how??? :S What o...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive found you a link that should help...
http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/kegelsmen.htm
Hope this is of some benifit to you, TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: Im not suprised your miserable hunny to have a breakup via e-mail is the same as having your guy breakup over a text message, if he can do this without any thought of your feelings and just run then he is a coward...Yes you pressured him and no he ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 4 June 2008: Its been two weeks with no contact at all, I personally would leave it hunny, I no its hard but if he hasnt bothered at all then its time to move on with your life sweetheart and start thinking of you again..Im sorry to here of all your pain TAKE ... (read in full...)
Sad and confused
Q. Hi all, just wanted to share my story, and maybe get some advice, or new views on this So I can deal with the hurting… A year ago, I met a girl and we became rlly good friends. However, after a few weeks of hanging out a lot we started to get a ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi Hunny
This girl was so very confused and I would say that even though you did your very best to show her kindness and caring and love. That her depression was down to her situation with her ex and she couldnt stop having feelings for him even... (read in full...)
I cheated on him but don't feel guilty, am I crazy?
Q. First of all, I am a good girl. The girl most likely to succeed, least likely to ever do anything wrong. I have often been picked on by others for being so straight laced. The other night, however, I cheated on my boyfriend. I would say that I...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi Hunny
I dont think your nuts love, But I would ask yourself if you are in the right relationship, I would really have to ask myself if I should be with this guy at all as If it was me I would think I wasnt happy and content and if I felt noth... (read in full...)
Can I work out the date I conceived?
Q. my last period start 2 march then i have no periods till now i check it its positive now i m pregnant and i want to know my concive date i had sex on 13 march 15,16,18 march i visit to doctor 21 may they tell me by ultersound my baby is 11 weeks...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You count around 2 weeks from your last period, They usually use your first day of your last period to give them an idea sometimes they canot be sure it could be a few days either way love....
here is a link for you
http://ww... (read in full...)
We think she's pregnant and don't know what to do!
Q. Hello.. We think my girlfriend is pregnant and were not sure what to do. We had sex just about a week after her last period finished, She is now 2 weeks late on her next period. She is getting weird stomache aches nearly all the time and he...
A. 3 June 2008: just search family planning in the search bar of that first link love that will take you to the page TAKE CARE... (read in full...)
We think she's pregnant and don't know what to do!
Q. Hello.. We think my girlfriend is pregnant and were not sure what to do. We had sex just about a week after her last period finished, She is now 2 weeks late on her next period. She is getting weird stomache aches nearly all the time and he...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi Hunny
The first thing you need to do is get a test and see for sure if she is pregnant, These stomach pains and sore breast could be the period due...But at 2 weeks late you can test now thats the most important thing...As then you will both have... (read in full...)
When I ask for sex, he says no, but what should I do when he asks for it?
Q. i live with my boyfriend for the past two years but any time i ask for sex he says no with the reason that he is either sick or tied but if he ask i dont dont hesisted to give it out because i luv and dont wat him to go out and have sex with ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi Hunny
He refuses you sex, Im sorry But what man would find the need to refuse the woman he loves sex but take it when he needs it!!! And you are worried he may go off with someone else if you dont let him....This guy needs a serious kick up the ... (read in full...)
My girl has suddenly changed, is she going to split up with me?
Q. Ok i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, And during the past few month she has been increasingly getting annoyed with me at being lazy around the house(she dosnt live with me).For example she works hard, long hours and i sit on my ...
A. 3 June 2008: hi hun
sorry there is a few mistakes as in I CANT HELP YOU WITH YOUR FRIDAY!!!! And a few mandy svedish spelling mistakes I hope you understand I pressed send before I checked by mistook TAKE CARE OF U WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
My girl has suddenly changed, is she going to split up with me?
Q. Ok i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, And during the past few month she has been increasingly getting annoyed with me at being lazy around the house(she dosnt live with me).For example she works hard, long hours and i sit on my ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi Hunny
The stress at work must have been there a little before all the shit hit the fan so to speak hunny, So the telling off and the written warning were the nail on the head...She must have had alot on her mind for awahile and maybe this is why ... (read in full...)
He told me he was going to ask me out but, I'm best friends with his ex...
Q. So, I've been talking to this guy a lot, and I believe I like him... but here's the problem..so, I hung out with him all day today.. and he told me he was going to ask me out but, I'm best friends with his ex... so he wasn't sure how that would be ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Its probably a good idea that you didnt go out with him. Yea your upset now and feel you may have missed out on this opportunity, But being best friends with his ex could cause so much upset towards her..The best mates code and all that... (read in full...)
I broke a store's window out of anger, I'm feeling terrible. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi, I posted earlier about my anger issues. Well, the thing is I was infuriated with my boyfriend, at 5 am in the street, and anger controlled me and foolishly I broke a store's window. I punched the glass just because I was out of control. I fe...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi Hunny
You need to focus on why these feelings over power you, You mention anger, embarrassed, failure, ashamed of yourself and even self hate...All these feelings stem from somewere hunny...Its not only looking at your relationship but about your... (read in full...)
Please advise me about protection to avoid an unwanted pregnancy...
Q. okay... i feel stupid asking this but i really want to know , my bf and i are thinking about having sex and my best friend just had sex with his girlfriend, with no condom and is in this.. predicament and i really dont want to be in the same b...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi Hunny
Ive found you a link sweetheart this should help, Always be safe sweetheart....
http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M1_faqs.asp
TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 31 May 2008: I would just send a message saying quite cassual "How are you" kinda thing hunny but dont feel let down if you dont get a reply..Its either waiting for him to contact you or just that quick how are you message..Thats all you can do hunny TAKE CARE ... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: The last post is right hunny...Time to miss you love, I understand your pain sweetheart just give it a little time and no contact let him contact you love, If you need a chit chat message me ok love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.
Q. I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi Hunny
If you are both going through a stressfull time, you wanting one thing your b/f wanting another then the end result can end up like it has with you two....To much pressure sweetheart.. Its not your fault you just want to get your point acro... (read in full...)
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