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On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 4 April 2012: You've never been supported, you've never felt safe or secure, so you won't be missing anything. When he is gone, you will feel stronger, you will feel more secure, your life will be happier. He is a burden, without him you will become happy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 8 March 2012: Just remembered something....my mum once dated this handsome guy, and although she's known for feeding everyone, including the homeless, she complained about him eating her food. She gave him the number of a Chinese restaurant and told him to call ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 7 March 2012: You don't like when he takes your food, and you get irritated when he asks, and the suggestion that he brings his own food isn't very sensible.... do you see why your getting advice to leave him because you don't really want him there. Men are not ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 7 March 2012: "My Dad says he can see he is protecting his money because our relationship has been volatile but that was due to him not me. " (unhappy scared wife)
Since it's the money your thinking about.... This guy is so protective of his money, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 7 March 2012: I've just seen your follow up, and yes this guy is not right for you, you don't sound like you want him in your house. People are bought up differently in regards to how they treat guests. In my culture we have the opposite problem of not feeding ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to buy myself a sex toy?
Q. Am I allowed to buy a sex toy? I'm in a relationship with a man who has suffered with extreme premature ejaculation for the past two years. He has given up trying to do anything about it even though when he was on medication it was starting to ...
A. 6 March 2012: Women should be by a sex toy whether the man agrees or not, no man has ownership of your vagina. If you want to use a sex toy because he has a sex problem he refuses to fix, then I would pleased if you do so. He can sit there with his penis ... (read in full...)
My friends girlfriend wants to end their relationship because he used to watch porn
Q. So I have this friend (yes folks, it actually is a friend) who's going through something that neither of us can seem to really get our heads around. His girlfriend of over a year sent him a random text yesterday, immediately stating that she ...
A. 6 March 2012: Some women are like that, they have hate the thought of pornography or the thought that a man might have any thoughts in their mind about any woman but them. Even if you don't watch pornography, because they know that many men do, they will never ... (read in full...)
He's bipolar and has anger issues, should I stay or leave?
Q. I know this is still a decision i need to make myself,but i really need help. This guy i have been dating for only 3 months is bipolar. When we started dating i let him know that i wasn't going to tolerate smoking and alcohol because i don't like it ...
A. 6 March 2012: It's not the bi-polar that is the issue, it's the fact that you are very different people and you have different intrests and different ways of dealing with anger. Your boyfriend is not dangerous in anyway, bi-polar doesn't make you a dangerous ... (read in full...)
I can't stop looking at porn and engaging in conversation online with women on sex sites daily.
Q. Even when I am in a loving relationship, I can't stop looking at porn and engaging in conversation online with women on sex sites daily. I also masturbate daily. My first wife left me (18 years ago) for this reason, and my second wife is divorcing ...
A. 6 March 2012: You do sound like you have some type of sex addiction, you've have managed to damage two relationship over this and still you cannot stop. I suggest you contact your doctor and ask to see a counsellor as soon as possible. You need to find out why ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 6 March 2012: If he's staying the weekend he will be starving if he's not allowed to touch your food. If it's late at night all the shops are probably closed and so there is no food available. If he has to carry a box with food, he might as well bring toilet ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about this. I can't discuss this with my parents, but can I just have one 'one night stand'?
Q. Hello Everyone, I have been bought up very distant from boys and because I went to a christian primary school think that I should only have sex with another virgin and this should be who I marry if it happens before I get married. But now I am 1...
A. 6 March 2012: Heads up's to Degan... When do you know you are ready? Here read this link.
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/ready_or_not_the_scarleteen_sex_readiness_checklist
I had a quick look, and you don't even seem to pass the first item? ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about this. I can't discuss this with my parents, but can I just have one 'one night stand'?
Q. Hello Everyone, I have been bought up very distant from boys and because I went to a christian primary school think that I should only have sex with another virgin and this should be who I marry if it happens before I get married. But now I am 1...
A. 6 March 2012: "I stop worrying about never losing it..."
Your 16, not 60, you've just become legal, so why you worrying about "never". You haven't even given yourself the chance to meet more guys and get to know them, nope the first guy you look at your rea... (read in full...)
I feel trapped! I married the wrong guy
Q. I married my now husband after 8 years of dating. We didnt live together first. So its been a year now and I feel trapped that i've married the wrong guy. I knew all about him before we married but only since we started living together did i r...
A. 6 March 2012: "I married my now husband after 8 years of dating"... I'm sorry to be rude, but what were you and your husband doing for 8 years? How come you never noticed these things about him? Being adventurous, liking to drink, them kind of things are hard ... (read in full...)
Lots of sex, but he's still into porn?
Q. Hello all, My bf and I have been together for a bit over a year, we live together, and are generally very happy. My one concern with him is that he watches porn. Not a whole lot, but sometimes. We have sex most days and we do our best to live out...
A. 5 March 2012: Women says: If you love me you'd give up porn. Do you love porn more than me?
Man says: If you love me you wouldn't try to change me. Do you hate porn more than you love me?
I wonder who is gonna win, who loves who the most?... (read in full...)
We hardly have sex anymore, I've been so patient but I wont beg for it! Now there is another woman ready and waiting, so what should I do?
Q. Amazing girl. Energy. Youthfulness. First 18months Average sex was 2 or 3 x a DAY for first year. Next 6m was 3/4 times a week Then we broke up for a number of reasons. Some jealousy and insecurity issues for me. Some nativity and insensitive issu...
A. 5 March 2012: Nope the other aunts are right, it's too much hard work for a woman who you've already broke up with once.
You deserve a woman who treats you good and makes you feel sexy. This girl aint doing these things, so let her go find someone else. U... (read in full...)
We hardly have sex anymore, I've been so patient but I wont beg for it! Now there is another woman ready and waiting, so what should I do?
Q. Amazing girl. Energy. Youthfulness. First 18months Average sex was 2 or 3 x a DAY for first year. Next 6m was 3/4 times a week Then we broke up for a number of reasons. Some jealousy and insecurity issues for me. Some nativity and insensitive issu...
A. 5 March 2012: "At the rate when we started I asked her do you want to be casual or open ? No. Fine - lets fcuk. No/ I can't just like that It's not about the physicality alone -I need you to WANT me as much as doing the act" (anonymous male 41-50)
Is this the... (read in full...)
Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?
Q. Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...
A. 5 March 2012: I've used porn solo and in relationships, but what I actually prefer is erotic books and romances. To me the sexual feelings are the same, and I don't find sexual toys a turn on.
It's a difficulty question you ask. Many women hate porn for... (read in full...)
He asked if I wanted to be FWB, I really want to but I'm scared because I'm a virgin! What should I do?
Q. So I've been pretty good friends with this guy for a year. We had an instant attraction and we both have wanted to be just more than friends but he had a girl friend at the time so nothing happened but he's now single. We've been flirting and ...
A. 5 March 2012: "...he said they haven't been sleeping in the same bed or anything and whenever I see him he's complaining of how tired and sore he is from sleeping on the couch...." He tells you some stuff and you swallow it whole. You don't know the woman, ... (read in full...)
We hardly have sex anymore, I've been so patient but I wont beg for it! Now there is another woman ready and waiting, so what should I do?
Q. Amazing girl. Energy. Youthfulness. First 18months Average sex was 2 or 3 x a DAY for first year. Next 6m was 3/4 times a week Then we broke up for a number of reasons. Some jealousy and insecurity issues for me. Some nativity and insensitive issu...
A. 5 March 2012: "At the rate when we started I asked her do you want to be casual or open ? No. Fine - lets fcuk. No/ I can't just like that It's not about the physicality alone -I need you to WANT me as much as doing the act" (anonymous male 41-50)
Is this the... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend thinking of another girl when he masturbates?
Q. I found out from a friend that my when my boyfriend masturbates he thinks of me. But he also said he thinks of someone else but that person doesnt mean anything to him and I mean more than the other person Well if that person doesnt mean anything ...
A. 5 March 2012: People think of all types of things when they masturbate. It could be something from a book or film, it could be some dream they once had, it could be a fantasy about the girl next door, your sister or your mother or the Kentucky Fried Chicken Man. ... (read in full...)
Is it right for me keeping my commitment to my wife and god that I will only love my wife even if it destroys my inner self?
Q. Hello everyone I am 30 years old. I have been married to the love of my life for 6 years and we grew together since childhood. I love my wife; however, lately a close friend of ours for 6 years has been the emotional support for me. She practices ...
A. 5 March 2012: Sorry my earlier post was a bit unclear.
There is a bit difference between a "Poly lifestyle" and a "Open Marriage". In poly lifestyles, you are equally married to more than one woman, and that comes with a hell of a lot of headaches. Muslims ... (read in full...)
Is it right for me keeping my commitment to my wife and god that I will only love my wife even if it destroys my inner self?
Q. Hello everyone I am 30 years old. I have been married to the love of my life for 6 years and we grew together since childhood. I love my wife; however, lately a close friend of ours for 6 years has been the emotional support for me. She practices ...
A. 5 March 2012: Can't you have a compromise. You love your wife but your attracted to communal living. Can't you fill your house with more adults and experience some of the lifestyle without the sharing of bedrooms?
Or is the attraction you want to sleep wi... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a virgin and wants to have sex. Advice to make her first time special?
Q. Hi my girlfriend recently said to me that she felt she was ready to have sex. She is a virgin while I am not so I was really excited. The problem is I've never had sex with a virgin before and I am really nervous about being her first. I mean I love ...
A. 5 March 2012: Lot's of foreplay, I'm talking at least 30mins or more. Try to wait until she is wet before you start. Keep looking deep into her eyes, she'll feel a connection and she'll feel loved, it will also allow you to work out how bad the pain is, and ... (read in full...)
Could I have lost my virginity without knowing?
Q. sex had always been an exciting thin for me as a child. as an adult now, i dislike it. i have always been a virgin i even broke up with my boyfriend because he wanted me to have sex with him. later when i was to try it, my partner was like you are ...
A. 5 March 2012: You might not have a hymen, many women don't. Some are not born with one, some lose their's by riding bikes, horse riding, walking in the street, jumping in the air, having a medical examination or wearing a tampon. The hymen is a thin piece of ... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?
Q. I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...
A. 5 March 2012: OK, so your going to wait and see....
If he's driving pass the house, nothing is stopping you from opening the door and checking for the mail.... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 5 March 2012: Your always welcome babes, I know you got no-one else to talk to and I'm not surprised to hear your still with this "man". So things are getting a little bit better, not a lot, but just a little bit, but the guy is still awful and can't be fixed. ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!
Q. I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. ...
A. 4 March 2012: lol, well you sure cheered me up Shadow Rose, I took a stab and I got it wrong. As you said, your missing your boyfriend, for some reason you've lost contact with your friends, the club isn't going as well as you expected, and you've had ... (read in full...)
Is he thinking of impregnating me?
Q. My boyfriend confuses me again and again...I am 20 and he is 36. We've been dating more than half a year. When it comes to sex, we use the pull-out method. From the first, he stated that he wanted no kids. I shrugged it off since I'm young and ...
A. 4 March 2012: What I think is if your using the pull out method both of you are trying to have children. You don't want to finish school and have some life, you are trying to become a mother, without any thinking or planning. The pull out method is not a proper ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become a negative person, and I don't like it!
Q. I realized I'm kinda a downer sometimes, like I was talking to my boyfriend, and I was talking about how my club was losing all its members, and all I could think about was how much that sucks, and how I wish I had more people coming to club. ...
A. 4 March 2012: Shadow Rose, I was forced to think positively, because I was suffering with depression it was a matter of life and death. Some great aunts at Dear Cupid helped me, they had been through terrible things in life, but still took time every day to help ... (read in full...)
Why would my Bf react in this very strong way when I touched his anal area?
Q. Most men like some anal activity; yes or no?? Is it wrong to insert a finger in your bf anus if you blow him? My bf almost went beserk and told me to NOT do that!!Is he scared that i might find out he had sex with another man....or is he just scar...
A. 4 March 2012: Most heterosexual men are frightened of anal play. They are frightened it's something that only homosexual men do, and they can react very violently if you touch without permission. Like with women, the anus is a sensitive place and it bloody hurts ... (read in full...)
Is this domestic abuse? Is it safe to stay with my father after his behavior towards my mom and me?
Q. Really important- please read. I'm writing regarding an issue I feel it's really serious. I live with my mother and father; whilst I adore her, I never bonded with my father. He is essentially an extremely narcissistic person, who's the center...
A. 3 March 2012: Thank you for your kind reply and the further details. Again, the only thing I can suggest, is with the support of your mother and the rest of your family is to get your dad to a doctor and check for any possible mental problems. Next contact a... (read in full...)
I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!
Q. Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...
A. 3 March 2012: "But I find myself still very attractive to woman and my husband does not want to hear about it." It's not us that misunderstood, it's you who are now changing your story. Why should any partner want to hear that your attracted to someone else,... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 3 March 2012: "Example... you are a black lady, right , Miamine ?. Suppose that you find your caucasian bf saved on his PC a lot of videos about black women being raped, battered, debased, humiliated. Supposed he has a slave market fantasy and fantasizes about ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 3 March 2012: Probably my problem is I've seen a lot of paedophiles, and spoken to abused children and adults. If I was looking for a paedophile, it would be your husbands, your brothers, the guy at church I'd be looking for. The guy holding the bible or the... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 3 March 2012: It's a big decision you have to make, one that affects your life (and his) no-one else. Just to remind you, the guy has bestiality porn, rape porn, shemale porn and carton porn of kids having sex with adults....
Paedophiles aren't turned on by be... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 3 March 2012: Here is a link I think you should read:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_status_of_cartoon_pornography_depicting_minors
Child cartoon porn is considered illegal in most countries.
I am actually reading the link, and it's a bit more complic... (read in full...)
I am having thoughts of my girlfriend with another man and I am disgusted by this, how do I stop these thoughts?
Q. I have a girlfriend...we have been in a relationship for the past one and a half years...she's everything that I ever wanted and loves me very much...I plan on marrying her when the time is right...we haven't had a full sexual intercourse till now ...
A. 2 March 2012: Sounds like you have insecurity problems and feel that your not good enough for her. You feel inadequate to please her sexually, because right now you've probably not had sex. People have all strange kind of fantasies, it's the nature of the mind, ... (read in full...)
Crush on my teacher....should I seek a sexual relationship with him? Or just let this go?
Q. I just want to go ahead and say I'm legal, not to justify my crush, but to help provide prospective and help those of you wiling to help me give me more accurate advice... And I apologize in advance, this is going to be really long. Alright, so I ...
A. 2 March 2012: Students often have crushes on teachers, it's because of the power imbalance, they know lots of stuff and we make them into hero's.
I once had a brilliant teacher with the most amazing eyes, total genius, he was the only person who actually... (read in full...)
I'm struggling to understand why my husband had affairs!
Q. My husband established two illicit text relationships over a period of two months, he slept with one of the woman after getting seriously drunk. I have decided to give him a second chance and I am plagued with the usual hauntings a victim of an ...
A. 2 March 2012: Let's assume that he's a cheat and not a compulsive liar. Then he has told you the truth. These women boasted his ego, made him feel like a young man again. (I'm assuming he is as old as you) Made him feel like he had a dangerous secret. Then he ... (read in full...)
Does my FWB still like me?
Q. Hi everyone hope you can help me I ended a fwb relationship a few weeks ago as he was treating me very badly he would text after work early hours of the morning wanting to come and e See me for sex that was the only time I ever saw him and I had fa...
A. 2 March 2012: "See me for sex that was the only time I ever saw him..." then he has behaved correctly. Your in a FWB, otherwise known as "lets have sex and nothing else". If you've fallen in love, then it's in your best interests to walk away and have nothing ... (read in full...)
My FWB keeps pushing me for a threesome and I am just not interested. How do I communicate this?
Q. I have a casual acquaintance that I sleep with. We have been together a couple of years. She sleeps with other people, too, and I am fine with that. The problem I am having is that more and more often she keeps suggesting that we involve the...
A. 2 March 2012: If your relationship agreement/contract allows you to have sex with other people, then tell her not to mention it again because your not interest and it offends you. She is then allowed to go and find two other men to have sex with, and your ... (read in full...)
Do married couples have better sex when drunk?
Q. Do you prefer sex when your drunk as a married couple?. The wife and I Always seem to have the best sex when we have a little too much red wine. The "wildness" comes out! ...
A. 2 March 2012: Drunk is good, very wild, but there's always the danger of falling asleep, also you can get too lazy to try more interesting positions. You are however more likely to lose any inhibitions and want to try everything. Depends on how much you've had ... (read in full...)
Is it true that women never forget their first sexual partners?
Q. I'm a 30 y/o male, got married when I was 28 I have a 19 month old boy. I love my wife and child. But my question is the following: "when my wife and I had intimacy for the first time she made it very clear and reinstated that she wasn't a vir...
A. 2 March 2012: "Since that day I have wondered how does it feel to have sex with a virgin woman?"
I've also never had the privilege to have sex with either a virgin woman or a virgin male. I bet most women haven't either, but most of them don't sit there an... (read in full...)
As much as I love my husband, and as much as I love his company, I do miss having a girl to connect with. Does anyone have any tips on how I can overcome this or find better people to try and connect with?
Q. I like to think of myself as a good person. I put others before myself in most cases. I am responsible and punctual whether it comes to work or my personal life. I give a lot to others and don't expect a lot in return. I have a decent sense of humor ...
A. 2 March 2012: As you say, it's not always easy to find good women friends, that's why a lot of my friends are male. The few women I've connected with, often happens in an instance, because they remind me of myself, or they give of a good vibe that tells me their ... (read in full...)
Is this domestic abuse? Is it safe to stay with my father after his behavior towards my mom and me?
Q. Really important- please read. I'm writing regarding an issue I feel it's really serious. I live with my mother and father; whilst I adore her, I never bonded with my father. He is essentially an extremely narcissistic person, who's the center...
A. 2 March 2012: Your very clear that because of your father's behaviour you have abandoment issues. But did you ever stop to wonder what made your father like this? Obviously he has problems, but your mostly concentrating on his affect on you. What are your ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a pedophile for watching cartoon toddler porn?
Q. Is my boyfriend a pedophile for looking at cartoon porn depicting very young children? We've been going out for 6 months and since we've moved in together I've been secretly snooping on his laptop and have found many things that have disturbed me. ...
A. 2 March 2012: I don't think your boyfriends a paedophile. Paedophiles usually look at sexual pictures of young children (not babies) and they don't bother with shemale's or bestiality, because it's children they are interested in. Bestiality pornography as far ... (read in full...)
I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!
Q. Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...
A. 1 March 2012: Sorry, there is a big difference from your husband having problem with bi-sexual people. He doesn't otherwise he would never have married you. But bi-sexual people who think that this gives them reason to cheat and have sex with other people, of ... (read in full...)
I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!
Q. Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...
A. 1 March 2012: Your not worthless as a wife or a woman, however, you agreed to marry him and you agreed to be faithful. Just because you fancy other women doesn't mean that cheating is right.
Suppose it was him, telling you all about the woman next door who... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?
Q. I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...
A. 13 February 2012: "She also, told me he wished he had not been so foolish to end a 7 yr. relationship and that he really did love me" Men that are happy, in love with you and dying to get married, do not end a 7year relationship, go off with another girl and... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 17 November 2011: Hey natasia, I do remember one time we had a post from a young kid who was living in the garden shed. He said his stepmother had said that he and his sister had to live there.... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 14 November 2011: Your scared so am I... I'm worried about your son.. this doesn't sound good for him at all. Are you so in love with this man that your kids unhappiness doesn't matter at all.... (read in full...)
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