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Is my girlfriend easy?
Q. my girlfriend told me what she did before we met telling me how she let a guy fuc` her in the as` on the first night .she tell me this when we are fighting as she know it hurts me. she just told me she had 4one nightstands a guy told me she was easy ...
A. 26 March 2012: How old is this girlfriend, and how long ago was she doing this wild sex thing?... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 24 February 2012: Nicole, I know he's trying to convince you that this girl is a nutcase with mental problems, but...... Why did he keep the video? If she's as crazy as that, wouldn't he have turned it off right away, deleted it and blocked her..
How come you... (read in full...)
Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...
A. 24 February 2012: Oh dear, me and my hidden prejudice, thanks anon for putting me right.. missed the part about you being a girl.. That makes a small difference, not because you and her are doing anything wrong, but she might not have declared that she is gay and m... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 23 February 2012: "Me and Jed spoke and he provided me with the explanation that she didn't know he had a girlfriend and because he was talking to her she got the wrong idea" (Nicole X)
Nicole why didn't he tell her he had a girlfriend?... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 23 February 2012: They had to be talking sex talk for her to send such a video.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!
Q. My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...
A. 22 February 2012: I'm still reading, but again don't understand the problem. If he's posting naked women onto a blog, he's not using them for sexual purposes, he's not masturbating over them, he's not using them for his pleasure, he's filling up space on a page and ... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 22 February 2012: Sorry JHA, read too quickly.
Talk, learn, understand, compromise, love.. yep, for both husband and wife it's always the best way.... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 22 February 2012: I know JustHelpinAgain.. not criticism meant, just wanted to make things clear for other people who may not understand such things. "OP herself saying she had already 'given' her body to others before her husband." This statement is the cor... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 22 February 2012: You ever heard the term "misery likes company", you two remind Graham about what he has lost, so he want's to destroy you. He's not acting like a friend right now, he's being selfish. That's why I say the best thing you can do is to be happy and ... (read in full...)
He texts me with smiley faces. Does he want to pursue a relationship?
Q. So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and ...
A. 22 February 2012: When did this nice night happen. How long has it been since you've heard anything from him.
Your comment "I'm falling for you", that was fine. You said how your feeling, but it's vague enough to not promise anything concrete. All it says is ... (read in full...)
Fiance called off our wedding and there was no warning! Help!
Q. Yesterday, my fiance called off our wedding. I never before believed the people who say 'It came totally out of the blue'. 'Surely', I used to think 'there must have been signs. Arguments, tensions, disagreements, pressure. Things that led ...
A. 22 February 2012: Sorry, *hasn't dumped you... (read in full...)
Fiance called off our wedding and there was no warning! Help!
Q. Yesterday, my fiance called off our wedding. I never before believed the people who say 'It came totally out of the blue'. 'Surely', I used to think 'there must have been signs. Arguments, tensions, disagreements, pressure. Things that led ...
A. 22 February 2012: If you've known him for 3years and he's always been loving and kind, he wanted the wedding and assure you he loves you, then lets agree it's his anxiety that is doing this. He said he is off to a counsellor, well they will be able to help. He ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!
Q. My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...
A. 22 February 2012: Your boyfriend is posting these "girls of the week" for you. It's for a weekly blog that other guys are reading. Why is it disrespectful to you, are you also part of the gaming group?
I really don't understand. You don't mind if he likes po... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend easy?
Q. my girlfriend told me what she did before we met telling me how she let a guy fuc` her in the as` on the first night .she tell me this when we are fighting as she know it hurts me. she just told me she had 4one nightstands a guy told me she was easy ...
A. 22 February 2012: After reading a similar story, she could be called an abused and damaged woman who has suffered such terror as you have never known.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had several threesomes and hook ups in her past: liberal open-minded girl or just a slut?
Q. Well, I know this topic comes up a lot but here I go anyways: I'm dating this girl for the last 5 months. She has been always open about her attitude about sex, and admitted to me that she has had a lot of threesomes, hook ups and ongoing on and o...
A. 22 February 2012: "it seems that the boyfriends at that time weren't "Dad" material" (ManInTheBox) And the sensible woman knew at that time she would have been an unfit mother and would have badly damaged her own child.... What would she have done to the child, if... (read in full...)
Why was anal sex so comfortable for my wife but now its not?
Q. I always fantasized about anal sex, and my wife used to give me a little anal, which kept me happy. But things have changed and I don't know what to do. Lets go back in history. Before our marriage, she told me that she wanted to save her vagin...
A. 22 February 2012: Sorry anon, my advice was sharp, I like cindycares didn't really believe your story. We get things wrong sometimes like many human beings. Glad you came back and explained, and don't feel ashamed, this is a sex and relationship site, we have heard ... (read in full...)
What keeps people in marriages when they are no longer in love?
Q. When you have been married to your husband for 35 years and are no longer IN LOVE with him but Love him as a person, is it possible to continue to stay married? What is it that actually makes a person stay in a marriage where you are NOT IN LOVE ...
A. 22 February 2012: "I would get up in the morning and have coffee and chat with her on her porch it was one of the best weeks of my life. I felt relaxed and I felt like I was myself." It's impossible to get very good advice when you don't explain anything. So pe... (read in full...)
If cheated on will the man suddenly find the woman sexually unattractive?
Q. If you made a mistake and was found out for cheating, can it make a man go from finding you very sexually attractive, into not finding you attractive any more? Can men change just like that? How do you pull them back? Any one ever been through this?...
A. 22 February 2012: Yes, if you cheat on a guy, he won't see your pretty face and body, he will just see your ugly heart. He will be disgusted by you and will push you away because in his mind he'll see you having sex with another man. It's not a man thing, women ... (read in full...)
Oral sex saved for a special occasion?
Q. My boyfriend has been asking me to give him oral sex for a little while, and I finally brought up the courage to do it for him the other day. It was spontaneous and romantic and everything I imagined it to be. Since then, He has asked me a coupl...
A. 22 February 2012: Rationing sexual favours like this for no good reason always ends up with built up resentment and anger. It won't feel special when you finally decide to do it, what it will feel like is controlling. Suppose he said, "not gonna tell you I love ... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for a man to ask a woman if she is bowlegged while at work when it is in plain view?
Q. My lady and myself are engaged in a heated battle so I left and found this site while trying to remain cool. I love my lady but at times she acts as though she doesn't have a clue. My lady is bowlegged and it is very noticeable. Is it appropri...
A. 22 February 2012: For you.. please go and apologise to the lady for your controlling behaviour. You have no right to monitor who she talks to and demand she act just like you want her to, she is not a toy or a doll. For her, the man she is speaking to is r... (read in full...)
Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...
A. 22 February 2012: Stay well clear of her. Have nothing to do with her at all. I have a very good friend, known her since we was kids. When we was young and going out to parties, she had this boyfriend who was always trying to control her, never seem to want to ... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 22 February 2012: "Hey, and whats so wrong with girls that get drunk and have sex with strangers?" (JustHelpAgain) It's dangerous to get drunk and have sex with strangers. Your not in control, you can end up getting raped, you won't have enough strength to figh... (read in full...)
How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?
Q. Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...
A. 22 February 2012: Sigh, my post came after your follow up. You've said your piece, and as you see, the aunts here can sympathise with your views, and we are all different people.
As I said, the young are like this sometimes... until he then becomes a father a... (read in full...)
I think he masturbated on me thinking I was asleep!
Q. Hi... My boyfriend courted me for almost three months (said he's okay with it and he's glad to wait). I told him that if he ever break my trust, I'd break up with him. I also told him that I don't want to break my family's reputation becau...
A. 21 February 2012: If you don't want a guy to be sexual with you, never get into bed with him, don't sleep next to him, even if there are a million people in the room. Men and women are different, he could have been half asleep and aroused and not even knowing what ... (read in full...)
My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!
Q. Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took m...
A. 21 February 2012: Of course I'm a feminist, aren't you, it says so on my profile. Do you have a problem with feminism for some reason? If your asking do I hate porn, do I hate men, or do I have jealousy or insecurity issues... nope, none of that. But I didn't think ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?
Q. Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...
A. 21 February 2012: As you say, you've never seen him act like this before and your not one to interfere. Hopefully this is not his usual behaviour and after a word from you he won't act like this again. I have a feeling he probably doesn't see anything wrong because ... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 21 February 2012: OK, how about not tackling the issue head on. Wait until he is ranting and raving, or is making noise about your ability to enjoy orgasm. Then calmly get out of bed and put your clothes on, or wait until he calms down and runs out of steam and ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 21 February 2012: Didn't know we could do split seconds, yep it's more quicker than that.. and yes there's also a quick check for any signs of illness, but a lot of that is talked about before, and then your gonna use condoms, but in split seconds you still look for ... (read in full...)
Why was anal sex so comfortable for my wife but now its not?
Q. I always fantasized about anal sex, and my wife used to give me a little anal, which kept me happy. But things have changed and I don't know what to do. Lets go back in history. Before our marriage, she told me that she wanted to save her vagin...
A. 21 February 2012: Disagree lady cares, elements of truth in there somewhere.
Your wife wasn't a virgin, she'd been having anal sex for a long time with some other guy. For some reason she thought that if she didn't have vaginal sex, she remains a virgin. ... (read in full...)
Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?
Q. Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally tortur...
A. 21 February 2012: He is an ex, she is an ex, that's the end of the story. I'm sorry you and the neighbour are hurting and in love, but love doesn't give you possession of anyone.
Ok, yes, the two ex's are planning their wedding next week. What now, what can you ... (read in full...)
Could my baby look like my lover?
Q. If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?...
A. 21 February 2012: Is this the old "trying to trap guy" trick. The one where you sleep with someone and get pregnant, but when he run's away you sleep with someone else and convince him he is the father. Cheater's also use this. Cheat on my husband, get pregnant ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?
Q. Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a ...
A. 21 February 2012: Not sure why you haven't said something in the begining. You've just been watching all this and saying nothing, why not, this is your son and you brought him into this world, isn't it your job to provide guidance. If a man friend, a brother or ... (read in full...)
After being raped, are women ever able to enjoy sex?
Q. Nearly three years ago I was raped, so I have never had sex other than that one time. I have started a relationship with someone and I like him and he respects me, but I don't want to have sex. Do other women actually want sex after rape or do ...
A. 21 February 2012: It is very, very important for you to find happiness and love. It is best if you can recover your sexual feelings, either alone or with someone else. Therapy is the best way, but that's already been mentioned. You need to get back your power, ... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 21 February 2012: I liked the last bit.. get your boyfriend to get one of his single friends to take Graham off your hands.... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 21 February 2012: mmm... ok, start the clock running one second, colour, (good check for arousal) two second, length (how will this work) three seconds, width (as above) four seconds, any birth marks (markers for kissing) five seconds, is it bent or st... (read in full...)
B/f gave me his password to facebook but I seen messages I didn't like should I talk to him about them?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about a month now, and he gave me his facebook password yesterday when i was at his place. I looked at some of his private messages when i was with him at his place, but i looked at some more when i got home too,and ...
A. 21 February 2012: Your boyfriend was crazy to give you his password. Now your worrying about women he met before you even existed for him. You've been looking and looking and all you can find is one missed date, probably like you said when you first met and the ... (read in full...)
Relationship gets worse - emotional girlfriend is never happy about what I do
Q. Dear all, I am together with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and we moved together 6-7 months ago. She is in a medical doctoral program (class based) and I am in a Engineering doctoral program (research based) as well. School is very stressy for...
A. 21 February 2012: Is it possible to go and talk to her. Tell her your very unhappy, you can't seem to please her, you love her, but that doesn't seem to be enough. Tell her what you told us, the problems she seems to have with you, her criticisms about the way you ... (read in full...)
My G/f screamed at me publicly because I was looking at this gorgeous redhead on the train!
Q. Hi guys and girls im a bit of a chump - thats how i feel right now atleast... i made my girlfriend a beautiful silver necklace for valentines, took her away to a hotel/spa for the weekend, she absolutley loved it, as a treat for me she took m...
A. 21 February 2012: Yep beautiful people are hard not to look at, man or woman, they is just beautiful.. But you didn't just look, you looked 4 times, you noticed her nail varnish, her rings.. Yep, I know, you didn't have anywhere to look, like maybe into your ... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 21 February 2012: "I dont trust this guy and i think he would try his hardest to make my bf cheat!" You need to back away from the situation, relax and breathe. Your so angry at this so-called friend, it sounds like your spending all your time thinking about h... (read in full...)
Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?
Q. Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically fo...
A. 20 February 2012: Why didn't my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to make a complaint? Because you are very lucky woman that the policemen were so kind. You have stated over and over again that you wasn't being harassed, you made contact... (read in full...)
What is the opinion on a 40 year old man who has never been married or engaged?
Q. I have a question for the ladies.. what do you think of 40 year old men who have never lived with a woman, been engaged, married, etc. would you question if they are boyfriend or better yet.... husband material? This conversation came up at work ...
A. 20 February 2012: Does this 40year old guy read books? The other stuff is unimportant, very easily fixed.. but the book thing is important to me.... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 20 February 2012: No we didn't read your previous post, because you didn't tell us you wrote one.. we are not mind readers, there are tons of people posting every day, 24hours a day. No other post showing up... you must have posted anonymous. So we don't know an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suddenly gone crazy over my male friend being at the party with me and now he is ignoring me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and half years. And I love him more than words can say. He has the potential to be an amazing partner, friend, lover, etc. But, he has put me through a lot in a short amount of time. Everything from ...
A. 20 February 2012: "And I love him more than words can say" (anonymous female 26-29) 1. He cheats on you 2. He disappears and you can't find him 3. He is no help in a crisis, he can't support you 4. You've had to leave him twice because he treated you bad 5.... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 20 February 2012: In the UK, sexual images of naked children under the age of 18 are illegal. Your boyfriend could easily be done for having child pornography and might risk end up on the sex offenders register. I'd tell him that and ask him again what's going on.... (read in full...)
Is the shape of my vagina normal?
Q. Okay, I'm done worrying about this, so I'm just going to ask a few questions about my vagina and whether or not it sounds unusual. I've always thought I looked odd down there, but i figured that was just the way it was meant to look. I find vag...
A. 20 February 2012: Your in the UK, how about you go to the family planning clinic and have a vaginal check up. You'll be able to ask the doctor's and nurses there about what is normal and they will be able to give you reassurance. The thing is, how many vagina's ha... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 20 February 2012: It's not a lie anon man... a woman has muscles and if they are strong she can grip any size and then anything feels big. I don't care what anonymous men say about body parts they don't have. I am a woman and I know what I feel.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had several threesomes and hook ups in her past: liberal open-minded girl or just a slut?
Q. Well, I know this topic comes up a lot but here I go anyways: I'm dating this girl for the last 5 months. She has been always open about her attitude about sex, and admitted to me that she has had a lot of threesomes, hook ups and ongoing on and o...
A. 20 February 2012: I like the way you put things, (except for the word slut) got no problem with how you are trying to judge things. As a conservative guy it sure sounds like your trying hard not to be judgemental. She sounds like a fun, sexually adventurous girl, ... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 20 February 2012: Don't worry about your past, all perfectly normal, common, fun (if done right) and enjoyable. The problem is his and his view of women. Please read the retroactive jealousy link, it summaries many of the discussions and advice on this topic.
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Girlfriend no longer interested in sex at all and I feel like I have to close down a part of myself
Q. Hi, I've got a sort of luxury problem I suppose. I've been dating a girl for a few months now, and everything was perfect. We met up often, texted naughty things, said suggestive things over skype, even went a little further than just that. Had ...
A. 20 February 2012: Picked this link of another post that has come in. It's relevant to your situation and explains what you are dealing with. http://bluegypsy.tripod.com/physical.html (via person123)
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Girlfriend no longer interested in sex at all and I feel like I have to close down a part of myself
Q. Hi, I've got a sort of luxury problem I suppose. I've been dating a girl for a few months now, and everything was perfect. We met up often, texted naughty things, said suggestive things over skype, even went a little further than just that. Had ...
A. 20 February 2012: I bet she's been abused and not only by her boyfriend. Again, there is nothing you can do if she refuses to get help. If she cannot talk, cannot get help and doesn't know how to change, you cannot stay. As you say.. already your feeling lonely, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend no longer interested in sex at all and I feel like I have to close down a part of myself
Q. Hi, I've got a sort of luxury problem I suppose. I've been dating a girl for a few months now, and everything was perfect. We met up often, texted naughty things, said suggestive things over skype, even went a little further than just that. Had ...
A. 20 February 2012: No it's not just you being "boy like". Your girlfriend has been badly abused and she now hates sex and is afraid of it. It's nothing you have done wrong. In the beginning of your relationship she did sex to keep you so you wouldn't run away. But ... (read in full...)
What keeps people in marriages when they are no longer in love?
Q. When you have been married to your husband for 35 years and are no longer IN LOVE with him but Love him as a person, is it possible to continue to stay married? What is it that actually makes a person stay in a marriage where you are NOT IN LOVE ...
A. 20 February 2012: You was in love with him before and you found him attractive enough to produce children. You love him like a friend, but now your repulsed by him physically and you don't want sex. What happened, why did you start feeling like this. You don't ... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: He has the option to ask for a DNA test.. that's his right.
Here's the details for CSA, they'll tell you what your entitled to. http://www.csa.gov.uk/
Here's the details for help from the government for new parents and children http://... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: Your UK.. good
Send him a registered letter (he has to sign for it, so you know it's received) explain about the baby and also explain that you would like him to be in the babies life if possible.
Also explain that he is liable for child suppor... (read in full...)
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