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Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 27 February 2012: "The ENTIRE base of your arguments rests on the idea that prostituted women choose to be there"
People can read for themselves, that I'm very careful not to generalise like this. For instance, I don't think all "johns rape and murder their cl... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 27 February 2012: "The 68% isn't wrong, similar studies by governments have found similar numbers.... " I don't know about similar studies for which you don't provide details... I am directly challenging this figure and the original work the research came fr... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 26 February 2012: I can't argue with your campaign to wipe out prostitution because it is impossible. Rape is forcing someone to have sex against their will and it is illegal. Prostitution is a contract to have say for gain and financial reward and in many ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 26 February 2012: "There is no way to make prostitution safe." - There are statistics and then there are statistics.
Prostitution exists in every single society, at every single point in history, it is as old as human beings. Attempts to ban prostitution througho... (read in full...)
Is it possible my boyfriend is too interested in my mom?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been dating this guy for about 10 months now and recently I'v noticed something peculiar. Whenever he meets my mom, he really 'looks' at her when her back is turned. He even asked me about my parents sex life once when we wer...
A. 26 February 2012: Display text Sorry, but I would find this creepy. Now I know it's normal to find other people attractive, and that includes my mother or some stranger on the street. Guys look at women, women look at guys, none of that causes problems for me. Mo... (read in full...)
I had an abortion and am still grieving-but my boyfriend seems not to care, what should I do?
Q. I need some help to stop feeling angry with my bf about our abortion. I know readers might judge me for having an abortion, that's ok, I judge myself, I know I did the wrong thing, I feel guilty every day and regret my decision greatly. I'm trying ...
A. 25 February 2012: I am gonna be the harsh voice here babes, and it's not because I'm anti-abortion or think you did the wrong thing.
What concerns me is about your understanding of responsibility. You say your boyfriend didn't help you to decide, but how could he... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 25 February 2012: I'll derail the thread as well quickly... sorry it's about legalised prostitution... I'm unsure.. I want women safe (and of course it's more secure to work in a house with bodyguards rather than on your own in a house or in the streets) But, the ... (read in full...)
He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you ...
A. 25 February 2012: Life is a risk, and this guy is definitely a gamble.. you know what your doing and are willing to take the consequences or the great rewards. I wish you tons of luck and happiness.... (read in full...)
What sort of Mom says these things to her own daughter! Advice, please!
Q. So I'm a 21 year old woman who still lives with her parents. I've always had horrible self-esteem. I very rarely see myself as beautiful, and it feels like calling myself pretty is pushing it a little. I always get compliments on my hair, my own ...
A. 25 February 2012: The Buddhist have a saying, "Water can destroy a mountain, drop by drop, year by year the mountain will crumble away"
Good advice for dealing with mothers, belly fat and anything else. Pick one solution and stick with it, over time you will not... (read in full...)
Torn between boyfriend and home
Q. I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has bee...
A. 25 February 2012: "Maybe it's because I'm a Londoner" (smile) London is very crowded at the moment, so I'm a bit biased. Where to live says something about your goals and ambitions in life and that's why this is a big issue to both of you. You want to move bac... (read in full...)
He doesn't have money for gifts so I asked him to write me a love letter
Q. Hey my name is Rosey. I'm in a long distance relationship of 3 years. I'm very grateful for having a loving man that truly cares about me. We plan on getting married after we both finish school. We are the bestest of friends and there never goes a ...
A. 25 February 2012: Love letters are one of the most difficult to write, without you sound like your copying someone, or using overused phrases, or sounding like your going of your head.
Many songwriters don't even use the love word anymore, because it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Would you believe a guy who had a one night stand but said he wanted a relationship with you?
Q. How come men have one night stands with some women, and decide to have relationships with other women?. What makes the women that they have relationships with different to the ones that they have one night stands with?. I don't understand it. Also, ...
A. 25 February 2012: Women have one night stands too. If you don't like people who can separate sex and love, who can enjoy sex and then go off and get married and be totally faithful, then don't date them. People have one night stands for many reasons.
If the guy ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't there be more to life than this?
Q. Do you ever think that you should be doing more in life? I have in the past waisted so much time partying and being selfish, no that I am clean and sober I just feel as If I should be doing more than just working, crazy huh?...
A. 25 February 2012: Not crazy at all.. you've spent a long time taking from others, it's time you gave something back. Go and do some voluntary work, work with kids, work with the disabled. When you give you'll find that empty hole in your heart that says life is ... (read in full...)
Wondering if my marriage is based on a lie?
Q. hey aunts and uncles, im so fed up at the moment, my husband lies to me so much, little white lies but im thinking if he can lie about something so simple, what else can he lie about. So hes been going to a martial arts class twice a week, so...
A. 25 February 2012: Are all his lies involving his friend, or is there other stuff?... (read in full...)
Do ALL guys watch porn?
Q. I know this is a bit obvious to ask but really and truly do all/most guys watch porn? (And I don't mean constantly just even every once in awhile) Of course there are some individuals who don't of course, but if you're dating a nice, quiet, shy, ...
A. 25 February 2012: "i just wish people would stop thinking there is some science behind it,"
Tell that to the Kinsey institute, and the many other institutions studying sexuality. It's funny that humans study everything, but somehow sexuality for you must be exclu... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mom still buys his underware!
Q. I know some of you may find this question a bit ridiculous, but it's been driving me mad! My 27 year old boyfriend has never bought his own underwear. His mother buys them. She sends him boxers for every holiday. He has Halloween boxers, Christma...
A. 25 February 2012: Sorry that we are different from you and find your guys behaviour normal. Can't tell you how to confront him because the guys I know would find you strange and confrontational.
Best way to get round this, is to clear out all his underwea... (read in full...)
He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you ...
A. 25 February 2012: I'll agree with anon below me. It's the beginning of the relationship, only 6months. Make sure you don't get pregnant or give your heart away too quickly. Other than that, your still getting to know each other, see what happens. But be prepared ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix? Any thoughts?
Q. OK here's a question up for debate, not asking for help just your views on the subject. Random I know lol. DOMINATRIX Do you think it's prostitution to be a dominatrix woman/man. ( for anyone who dont know what that is, it's where someone...
A. 25 February 2012: A Dominatrix is a sex worker, just like a stripper is a sex worker, so are women and men who do nude shots. None of them get touched, however their jobs are based upon their ability to give sexual pleasure. Beating men, pissing on men, giving them ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and he's 27, plus I lied to him about being a virgin....how do I approach the sex situation?
Q. So i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks - we've met up about 3 times and i really like him, he seems decent and nice - baring in mind i usually have terrible luck with guys. The only issue is that hes just turned 27 and im 18 in a couple of ...
A. 24 February 2012: What is going to turn him off is all your lies. And you can't hide these things, he'll know you lack experience as soon as you go in the bedroom, and he'll find out your age one day and that will make it worse. Go tell him the truth, but prepa... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: No jackojacko, find out how to contact her and privately make sure she's ok. As the aunts have explained she has a lot more to lose in this situation than you do. A kind word would be nice. Being willing to be seen with her in public would do a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mom still buys his underware!
Q. I know some of you may find this question a bit ridiculous, but it's been driving me mad! My 27 year old boyfriend has never bought his own underwear. His mother buys them. She sends him boxers for every holiday. He has Halloween boxers, Christma...
A. 24 February 2012: I'm another one who doesn't know many men who buy their own underwear. All the men in our family get underwear, handkerchief's, aftershave or ties. The lucky one's might get a bottle of whisky. Not sure what else to buy them, so that's what they ... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: It's a possibility Jackojacko, that's the problem with life, such things have consequences. Explain to the new girl if you want to date her. Possibility exists that she might already know if everybody is sharing the party video. She might not ... (read in full...)
I just want to know, to anyone who has depression due to a chemical imbalance as well as past events throughout life... does it ever go away?
Q. Hi guys.. So I found out in October 2011, that I have dysthymia disorder. I have a really hard time talking to people other than my mom (who is my bestfriend despite a lot of shit she put me through when I was a child) about how I'm really feeling ...
A. 24 February 2012: Not being mean babes, ok, this is how I understand it so far. Some people have the depression gene, or the manic gene, or gene's for mental problems. That's why bi-polar and depression can be tracked far back in family history. They've also found ... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: Jackojacko,
You do know you can't recover them tapes, and it's unlikely that people will ever delete such a show. Unfortunately that's the penalties of our modern technology, now everyone has a movie camera in their hand. You could track do... (read in full...)
He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...
A. 24 February 2012: *Nods to chalice... ok understand timeline"....
Correction: original message deleted due to new information
Facebook, will force people to get old pictures out for the new stupid timeline. My friends are starting to put up old pictures fro... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 24 February 2012: Nicole, I know he's trying to convince you that this girl is a nutcase with mental problems, but...... Why did he keep the video? If she's as crazy as that, wouldn't he have turned it off right away, deleted it and blocked her..
How come you... (read in full...)
Do ALL guys watch porn?
Q. I know this is a bit obvious to ask but really and truly do all/most guys watch porn? (And I don't mean constantly just even every once in awhile) Of course there are some individuals who don't of course, but if you're dating a nice, quiet, shy, ...
A. 24 February 2012: The study of sex and sexuality is very, very difficult. How do we know what every single man on earth does. We can't, we can only run surveys about small selection of guys and try to work out from there what most guys could be doing.
From ... (read in full...)
Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...
A. 24 February 2012: Oh dear, me and my hidden prejudice, thanks anon for putting me right.. missed the part about you being a girl.. That makes a small difference, not because you and her are doing anything wrong, but she might not have declared that she is gay and m... (read in full...)
Do you think he is going to live up to his promises?
Q. Hiya Just need some advice please on a current situation... I have a lovely home and a lovely boyfriend who loves me completly - however, he has 3 children. I have told my boyfriend what I want out of life and he has always said he will do it...
A. 23 February 2012: Leading you astray how? As I've said, your not been clear to him or us about what it is you want and what your willing to compromise on?
After 3years what are you worried about. You worried he'll get a flat and then another woman to move in?... (read in full...)
He's sleeping on my couch and wants me back, but I want him to leave because I cant take it anymore! What should I do?
Q. I was 15 when I had my first child and 25 when I had my second and last. Shockingly enough (and I say 'shockingly' because I know how people are), they are both by the same father. However, we did not stay together throughout that ten year gap. We ...
A. 23 February 2012: I'd have dumped after he kicked me and my kid out of the house. That is low.. anyway all in the past now.
He's been on the couch for 2years, why? Either take him back properly or kick him out like he did to you. He can still be daddy, and if y... (read in full...)
Do you think he is going to live up to his promises?
Q. Hiya Just need some advice please on a current situation... I have a lovely home and a lovely boyfriend who loves me completly - however, he has 3 children. I have told my boyfriend what I want out of life and he has always said he will do it...
A. 23 February 2012: If he takes the council flat and stays in it for a couple of years (I think four) he'll be able to buy it at a reduced rate but sell it for market rate. He'll make more money doing that than saving by himself. Also, council house rents are very ... (read in full...)
I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do
Q. hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a gu...
A. 23 February 2012: PS: People saying there should be no age limit, will be concerned when mums and dad's and baby sister demand to come to the prom as your date. Age limits are there for a reason, a prom is a celebration for young people who have recently finished ... (read in full...)
I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do
Q. hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a gu...
A. 23 February 2012: What can the guy do? They dance (ok, that makes you uncomfortable), they drink, and they stand in the middle of a hall with I expect hundreds of people. If he grabs her kisses her or whatever, she'll push him over and walk away. And about ... (read in full...)
Is it just too soon to start a new relationship?
Q. This shouldn't be this difficult. I broke up with the ex January 2nd. The last 3 weeks I've had a really nice, sweet, caring guy in hot pursuit. I've told him several times that I'm in no shape emotionally or psychologically to get into anything ...
A. 23 February 2012: It wouldn't be too soon if you actual could feel something romantic about the new guy, then I would say grab him, if you wait until your totally healed you might not be able to find him.
However, if your clinically depressed and suffering anxiety,... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 23 February 2012: "Me and Jed spoke and he provided me with the explanation that she didn't know he had a girlfriend and because he was talking to her she got the wrong idea" (Nicole X)
Nicole why didn't he tell her he had a girlfriend?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook
Q. My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...
A. 23 February 2012: If your using facebook chat it will keep a record and you can show him that. Same thing goes for IM, it saves all of your conversation history.
If you weren't going to meet up with the guy, why didn't you just tell him and stop wasting his time... (read in full...)
Why don't men want to talk on the phone?
Q. I'm finding this so common with men I meet now, they refuse to talk on the phone. I met a great guy, we went out on 2 dates and had a blast together but we only communicate via text. At one point, I gave him a call but he didn't answer. When I heard ...
A. 23 February 2012: I have no idea why men don't like to talk on the phone. But I don't know many guys that do. Saying that, all the men I know will pick up the phone anytime I call, and if they are not there, if I leave a message they will get back to me right away. ... (read in full...)
Men and fidelity.....
Q. do men always secretly want to have sex with other women when they are in a relationship/married...to be specific when they are in love with their partner. are the faithful men faithful because they are obliged to? is it that men have to control ...
A. 23 February 2012: Men can cheat, but women can also cheat, you shouldn't believe that all women are angels. In most relationships I know, it's the women who cheat (and hide it very successfully so nobody knows) rather than the men. Women can separate love from sex ... (read in full...)
Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?
Q. I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...
A. 23 February 2012: I'm very funny about the issue of children. If a man doesn't care about his children, if he doesn't move heaven and earth to see them, if he's not showing pictures of his kids, or sending them stuff on their birthday.... I don't date the guy and I ... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 23 February 2012: Your wife has 3 holes and you've tried 2. What in the hell do you think the 3rd one will do, shoot you too the moon, toss you in the air, make your dick turn into gold? It's a hole, and it will feel just like the other 2 holes. Except, it takes ... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 23 February 2012: They had to be talking sex talk for her to send such a video.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!
Q. My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...
A. 22 February 2012: I'm still reading, but again don't understand the problem. If he's posting naked women onto a blog, he's not using them for sexual purposes, he's not masturbating over them, he's not using them for his pleasure, he's filling up space on a page and ... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 22 February 2012: Sorry JHA, read too quickly.
Talk, learn, understand, compromise, love.. yep, for both husband and wife it's always the best way.... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 22 February 2012: I know JustHelpinAgain.. not criticism meant, just wanted to make things clear for other people who may not understand such things. "OP herself saying she had already 'given' her body to others before her husband." This statement is the cor... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 22 February 2012: You ever heard the term "misery likes company", you two remind Graham about what he has lost, so he want's to destroy you. He's not acting like a friend right now, he's being selfish. That's why I say the best thing you can do is to be happy and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!
Q. My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...
A. 22 February 2012: Your boyfriend is posting these "girls of the week" for you. It's for a weekly blog that other guys are reading. Why is it disrespectful to you, are you also part of the gaming group?
I really don't understand. You don't mind if he likes po... (read in full...)
Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...
A. 22 February 2012: Stay well clear of her. Have nothing to do with her at all. I have a very good friend, known her since we was kids. When we was young and going out to parties, she had this boyfriend who was always trying to control her, never seem to want to ... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 22 February 2012: "Hey, and whats so wrong with girls that get drunk and have sex with strangers?" (JustHelpAgain) It's dangerous to get drunk and have sex with strangers. Your not in control, you can end up getting raped, you won't have enough strength to figh... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 21 February 2012: OK, how about not tackling the issue head on. Wait until he is ranting and raving, or is making noise about your ability to enjoy orgasm. Then calmly get out of bed and put your clothes on, or wait until he calms down and runs out of steam and ... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 21 February 2012: I liked the last bit.. get your boyfriend to get one of his single friends to take Graham off your hands.... (read in full...)
Do I have a point about his flatmate or do I just need to grow up?
Q. Hello, I know this sounds silly but I just cant help but to get annoyed with my boyfriends flat mate. He used to have a long term girlfriend and has broken up with her and since then its like he is trying to get my bf to go out with him all the...
A. 21 February 2012: "I dont trust this guy and i think he would try his hardest to make my bf cheat!" You need to back away from the situation, relax and breathe. Your so angry at this so-called friend, it sounds like your spending all your time thinking about h... (read in full...)
16 year old girl sent pornographic video of herself to my boyfriend?
Q. So... I need some advice. My boyfriend is very nice looking and it isn't just me that thinks it, other girls also think the same. He talks to a lot of girls who he claims are just his friends he goes about talking to them through phone calls, text ...
A. 20 February 2012: In the UK, sexual images of naked children under the age of 18 are illegal. Your boyfriend could easily be done for having child pornography and might risk end up on the sex offenders register. I'd tell him that and ask him again what's going on.... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 20 February 2012: Don't worry about your past, all perfectly normal, common, fun (if done right) and enjoyable. The problem is his and his view of women. Please read the retroactive jealousy link, it summaries many of the discussions and advice on this topic.
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