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My boyfriend is bipolar. Is there a chance that we will be ok if he takes his meds?

Q.   I would have been with my boyfriend a year as of the 23rd. Throughout the whole relationship he has had what appeared as trust issues. Looking through my facebook/phone, accusations, and bad thoughts that he said he "couldn't control", running ...

A.   7 May 2013: Sorry about the delay been busy... Glad that things worked out for you ok. As for me.. heck, bi-polar gets easier.. so there's hope for me and him. Hoping that me, you and him, get all the happiness the world has to offer. Your a strong se... (read in full...)

Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing

Q.   Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...

A.   21 December 2012: Mr goodguy, thanks for your update... Eight months later and you still sound angry and bitter. Have you considered a divorce?... (read in full...)

Relationship is going down hill, after boyfriends comment about my weight!!

Q.   Good day! Well what I am asking is down to this situation here me and my boyfriend of 8 month have decided to take a break after a long argument that blew the holiday to pieces. About a month ago we had wonderful holidays together. whiles watchi...

A.   2 September 2012: I feel he's a a piece of sh*t and a bloody idiot.. I was wrong You deserve better The way you look and feel is your business This guy has problems in bed, and isn't very honest Sigh... cry.... then realize, you're the one who is lucky. This... (read in full...)

Relationship is going down hill, after boyfriends comment about my weight!!

Q.   Good day! Well what I am asking is down to this situation here me and my boyfriend of 8 month have decided to take a break after a long argument that blew the holiday to pieces. About a month ago we had wonderful holidays together. whiles watchi...

A.   1 September 2012: Your big, and he's still with you and he wanted you when he met you... as I said, that's your issue to deal with.. he doesn't really have a problem with your weight, he thinks your beautiful enough to date. I'm aware the topic is sensitiv... (read in full...)

Porn and insecurities

Q.   I need help. I know that there are a TON of porn and strip club questions out there, I know. But I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and it has been great. We get along so well, we have a lot in common, e...

A.   1 September 2012: "I want to be his everything; his fantasy, his dream girl or whatever, just like he is mine." This may be a big problem.... it's impossible to be the only thing in a person's world. It's slightly obsessive in a way. You and him are part of a co... (read in full...)

Porn and insecurities

Q.   I need help. I know that there are a TON of porn and strip club questions out there, I know. But I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and it has been great. We get along so well, we have a lot in common, e...

A.   31 August 2012: "Men, if your wife or gf came to you with this type of question, how would you feel?" As you notice, few men bother to answer questions on porn anymore. If you don't like porn, leave him If you don't like porn, ask him to stop and if he doe... (read in full...)

My ex now flirts with me and claims he married his new wife for the wrong reasons

Q.   im 23 years old and a single mom. my sons father and i didnt work out because we had a lot of resentment towards each other during the pregnancy. now that we have gone through court and its been a few years for us to mature some we realize the mist...

A.   31 August 2012: What should you do.... GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND LOOK AFTER YOUR CHILD.... A married guy flirts with you, that's all this is... He's still having sex with his Wife... and your fooling yourself if you think he married her only because of some ... (read in full...)

Relationship is going down hill, after boyfriends comment about my weight!!

Q.   Good day! Well what I am asking is down to this situation here me and my boyfriend of 8 month have decided to take a break after a long argument that blew the holiday to pieces. About a month ago we had wonderful holidays together. whiles watchi...

A.   31 August 2012: "I don’t feel like playing games to be honest" Unfortunately, you do like games, you get upset by honest people, and you aren't being honest with yourself. Your happiest when people tell you that everything is perfect and you are wonderful. "D... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me? I don't understand.

Q.   I'm 33 years old mother of 3 been married 12 years husband has looked at porn since he was a teenager. At first I was mad about it then realized He wasn't gonna stop no matter what. So I accepted it even though it hurt. He has told me when he ...

A.   17 July 2012: If he's looking at other women when your out, no wonder your insecure. You need to have a good talk with him. This is not just porn, your guy isn't making you feel like your the woman who lights up his world. Tell him how hurt you feel, by the ... (read in full...)

I can't get over my jealous feelings about his texting with his female best friend!

Q.   So today, I read my bf's text messages (he let me) between him and his girl best friend. They haven't talked for a few days, but I'm bothered. Keep in mind that he's not the person to really text, and when he does, it's short and to the point. ...

A.   17 July 2012: Ex's can be great friends... and I say this as someone who spent hours today with my ex's current girlfriend... As she likes to say "we are adults and we know the score"... and I was happy to tell her, he said (my ex, her man) "my girlfriend is th... (read in full...)

I found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way.

Q.   Found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way. Its a shock. I like him a lot but I feel like running and fast. He already has two! I have no kids and though I love them I have no desire to have them now or to be a stepmom honestly. I know ...

A.   17 July 2012: Heck, missed the other two.. two and two make four.. girl keep your drawers on, you gonna be rich and famous... this guy has enough kids that soon he can open a school on his own.. Sorry, but loser, poor, to remain poor because he likes kids mor... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is bipolar. Is there a chance that we will be ok if he takes his meds?

Q.   I would have been with my boyfriend a year as of the 23rd. Throughout the whole relationship he has had what appeared as trust issues. Looking through my facebook/phone, accusations, and bad thoughts that he said he "couldn't control", running ...

A.   17 July 2012: Where was we From my experience... nope, don't get normal Tablet's help with the worse, but as he gets better, he won't want to take them, so you have to fight him on that, tablets are important Don't let him get tired or stressed.. I'm ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is bipolar. Is there a chance that we will be ok if he takes his meds?

Q.   I would have been with my boyfriend a year as of the 23rd. Throughout the whole relationship he has had what appeared as trust issues. Looking through my facebook/phone, accusations, and bad thoughts that he said he "couldn't control", running ...

A.   17 July 2012: Sigh.. time to embarrasess meself, this is hard. I'm diagnosised with bipolar. The head goes screwy. I know what the doctors say, but I feel fine, I think they is wrong. So I stop the tablets sometimes, and things get funny and I know somethin... (read in full...)

I can't get over my jealous feelings about his texting with his female best friend!

Q.   So today, I read my bf's text messages (he let me) between him and his girl best friend. They haven't talked for a few days, but I'm bothered. Keep in mind that he's not the person to really text, and when he does, it's short and to the point. ...

A.   17 July 2012: Ok babes, I know this hard, but stick with me..... Do you want the guy to love you only? And is he allowed female friends? But if he loves you only... how the hell can a text steal him away? Love is strong and can't be destroyed so easily, (n... (read in full...)

I found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way.

Q.   Found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way. Its a shock. I like him a lot but I feel like running and fast. He already has two! I have no kids and though I love them I have no desire to have them now or to be a stepmom honestly. I know ...

A.   16 July 2012: Big hugs, this must be a big shock. Your looking for a guy to love you and settle down, and this guy has baggage and responsibilities and can't ever be just yours. Girl, you report as 18-21, that's so damn young. You aint gonna die until your 6... (read in full...)

New boyfriend admitted he can't get an erection because of my weight and I'm devastated....Help!?

Q.   I have an incredible new boyfriend I really like, but he has trouble getting and keeping an erection, and the reason is.....my weight. We are incredibly drawn to each other on so many levels- intellectually, emotionally, etc. He says he finds my ...

A.   22 June 2012: Cheer up honeypie, the aunts are right. There is no reason not to suspect that this man has a broken penis. You will probably lose the weight and he'll still be unable to perform. This is his problem not yours. But he sounds truthful (in a ce... (read in full...)

Can't deal with your lover's sexual past? Why not leave her / him if they have different morals to you?

Q.   Hi guys AND girls, I've read a lot on DC about retroactive jealousy, or "his / her sexual past", and people having problems with it. Some very smart people here have made some very good suggestions on how to deal with it. The thing is, that i...

A.   9 April 2012: Ah... and why can I talk to this like this... I'm the type of woman your looking for.. I have had very, very few partners, I'm actually a one woman man..... no man would ever call me a slut.. when I suggested it, they was horrified and upset on my ... (read in full...)

Can't deal with your lover's sexual past? Why not leave her / him if they have different morals to you?

Q.   Hi guys AND girls, I've read a lot on DC about retroactive jealousy, or "his / her sexual past", and people having problems with it. Some very smart people here have made some very good suggestions on how to deal with it. The thing is, that i...

A.   9 April 2012: "But if your female friend did things that most guys think are repulsive then its her own fault the mess she is in." The problem is.. these women can find a million men to fuck them.. and yes, they got problem with relationships, they can only fin... (read in full...)

What size penis do women prefer?

Q.   I am a man aged 34, iam just wondering on what penis size do women prefers. Is big, small or just average and if big how big. What do women enjoy most while having sex. Do they like when a man comes from the back or when he is on top....

A.   8 April 2012: *Them damn curve penis are the worst, they hit on the cervix and cause pain for days* Dear Caller, I hope your getting the message that every woman is different.. it's best for you to have such intimate conversations once you get into the bedroom.... (read in full...)

How do I kiss? (without tongue)

Q.   I dont know how to winch or snog as its also called ? i really want to show my love for a person i really love ( ps : with out tongue )...

A.   8 April 2012: Sorry you is a guy.. I wrote for a lady... Problem is, if your already limiting you type of kissing, then it's not going to be as you expect. I was talking about kissing for lovers, and you are talking about kissing for your grandmot... (read in full...)

How do I kiss? (without tongue)

Q.   I dont know how to winch or snog as its also called ? i really want to show my love for a person i really love ( ps : with out tongue )...

A.   8 April 2012: I love your question. Most people your age get there information from the media and from porn and they know the movements but miss the most important bits. Sex, kissing, and all of what is included, isn't about a goal, isn't about impressi... (read in full...)

Where in Europe is best for filming the beauty of everyday life?

Q.   I know this is a relationship website, but please I really need advice on where in Europe has the best action? (Not in that sense). Basically, I have a film project coming up and I have always wanted to film things that are amazing, so the culture, ...

A.   8 April 2012: Absolutely impossible to tell you what to choose.. You are the producer and director, it's your story and it's you who is telling the story. I'm from the UK, we got the Queen's celebration, lots of gold, history and majesty.. we also got the Olym... (read in full...)

What size penis do women prefer?

Q.   I am a man aged 34, iam just wondering on what penis size do women prefers. Is big, small or just average and if big how big. What do women enjoy most while having sex. Do they like when a man comes from the back or when he is on top....

A.   8 April 2012: Remember, women don't carry tape measures to bed. No woman I know has ever measured a penis, so when we talk about 5-7 inches or 10 inches, I do wonder if we know what we are talking about. Please worry more about technique, words and foreplay... (read in full...)

Anyone with UK experience on child visitation and the courts?

Q.   I need some advice from anyone in the uk that has ever had to go to court so their ex can see their child. I have never stopped my ex seeing my son yet he is taking me to court for access. He wants to have my son from Fri to Sunday every alternat...

A.   8 April 2012: Go to Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) they will tell you about your rights. Everything is about what's best for the child. The courts will weigh up the rights of the child to bond and get to know his father, against the needs of a child to take time ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to remain strictly friends after a break up?

Q.   Is it possible to remain friends after a break up? Are there specific situations where there is no possibility of friendship? Are there any rules? I have never wanted to remain friends with any of my ex's just ended it and moved on, however I am ...

A.   8 April 2012: In my culture everyone remains friends with their ex unless the ex is abusive. As I was told by my dad, if he's good enough to have sex with, why isn't he good enough to keep in your life and send him Christmas cards/phone calls once in a while. ... (read in full...)

What size penis do women prefer?

Q.   I am a man aged 34, iam just wondering on what penis size do women prefers. Is big, small or just average and if big how big. What do women enjoy most while having sex. Do they like when a man comes from the back or when he is on top....

A.   8 April 2012: Most women like average.. too big hurts, and too small is difficult because the woman needs stronger muscles and techniques to gain satisfaction. Average is probably 5-7.. the stories about big penis being the best is what we say to hurt men. ... (read in full...)

After 8 turmulous years I can't put up a front. I'm very upset with my boyfriend's actions!

Q.   I have been in an on and off relationship with the same man for 8 years. For the first few years everything was great, we got along well, had the same hopes and desires for the relationship, lived together etc. The past 3 years have been hell, ...

A.   8 April 2012: The relationship is doomed, it has too much problems and you guys just get together to break up again. You knew that things were bad enough for him to get a flat, your just upset that he's the one that's moving on and you want to leave him first. ... (read in full...)

Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing

Q.   Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...

A.   8 April 2012: If you make someone feel bad, call them names, or stand in judgement like you are their God or something instead of a mere human being... they won't find you attractive, they won't like you and they will wonder why they stay with you. If you ar... (read in full...)

Moved towns for a guy I'm not even attracted, have I made a mistake?

Q.   So I lived in OHIO, im 21, young. I went on this website and started talking to a 30 year old guy, I was hesitant on his looks but still talked to him, After talking to him knowing he wants marriage, kids and to settle down I thought perfect, me ...

A.   7 April 2012: Go home... why the hell are you having sex with a man who turns your stomach, and why the hell are you planning to do this to the day you die because you want someone to call you wife.. Your bloody only 21, you got another 60-18 years before you ... (read in full...)

Can't deal with your lover's sexual past? Why not leave her / him if they have different morals to you?

Q.   Hi guys AND girls, I've read a lot on DC about retroactive jealousy, or "his / her sexual past", and people having problems with it. Some very smart people here have made some very good suggestions on how to deal with it. The thing is, that i...

A.   7 April 2012: The big problem with just leaving, is men who have retroactive jealousy will continue you to have it with many women. We have men on Dear Cupid who make their wives hell because they kissed a guy when they were a virgin. Retroactive je... (read in full...)

I was the other woman and got dumped. How do I move on?

Q.   hi, just joined this site, as i read alot of stories about being the OW. i too was the OW, for 2 years, and stupidly believed he would leave his partner, well, i was the one he dumped after she found out about us, and obviously he denied everythi...

A.   6 April 2012: First you need to take ownership and responsibility for your own actions in this story. You knew there was a woman involved, and so therefore, somewhere you knew that hurt and loss was a possibilty. If you blame and hate him, or blame and hate his ... (read in full...)

Should I just have a one night stand?

Q.   I'm a female in my mid twenties and haven't had sex in over eight months. I am constantly horny and masturbate almost everyday. I have never had a one night stand with a guy because I always feared stds and what not as well as my reputation because ...

A.   6 April 2012: Drunk sex with some random guy won't make you feel good about yourself. The sex might not be that great if your in that condition and you might not even enjoy yourself. How about being less picky, and choosing a half-way decent guy that you know... (read in full...)

Is there a name for my weird fetish?

Q.   Hi When I am in bed at night, instead of masturbating over my crush and thinking about sex with her, I do something a little different. I imagine the two of us together in my bed and holding/hugging each other, but kind of really tightly, like...

A.   5 April 2012: Don't think it's a fetish.. sounds like you like romance and you like to cuddle.. that is not classed as a sexual fetish at all, so there is no name for it. Sounds like you just want to be as close to her as possible, and because there doesn't seem ... (read in full...)

Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?

Q.   So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...

A.   5 April 2012: What about people who have to go hospital because they need close observation for assessment. You can't always be diagnosed outside hospital. And what if he has a breakdown, short and limited mental illness from stress, which gets better from rest ... (read in full...)

Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?

Q.   So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...

A.   5 April 2012: Just to qualify.. In the UK, there is no such thing as a background check, we are not allowed such information. If you think the guy is sick or criminal, you just don't date him. The only way to get such information is to either get to know his ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has history of violence. Am I worrying too much?

Q.   Long story short, I found out over the last couple of days that my boyfriend has a really bad temper. I haven't been dating him for long and i've known hes had a bad temper for a while but i'm now gett...

A.   5 April 2012: Because of the past violence (his and others) and his mental makeup, he will always have to continue to watch his emotions, actions and feelings. This is not something that will ever be passed or conquered, he will have to be aware of his temper ... (read in full...)

Just found out my wife lied to me about everything sexually .....her sexual past is extremely disturbing

Q.   Alright let me first start out by giving you the basics ok my wife and I have been togather 6 years 5years married ,we have 3 kids she had two when we met but the dad was a loser in and out of prison and gangster deadbeat so I became there dad and ...

A.   4 April 2012: I have a feeling, your main problem is that she not as loving as when you met. The woman who would give morning blow jobs now makes you 3 months. The kind and thoughtful woman has been replaced by someone who doesn't care if you are sick... So you ... (read in full...)

Minty tingles while giving head?

Q.   dear cupid, soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head or suck on a breath mint or something like that right before you do it, the mintiness will cause a kind of tingling sensation for the guy. what i want to know is, does it actually...

A.   4 April 2012: Chewing gum gets in the way. Try toothpaste instead. Ice-cubes are usable, but you best be very careful, ice-cubes can hurt.... (read in full...)

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

Q.   Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

A.   4 April 2012: You've never been supported, you've never felt safe or secure, so you won't be missing anything. When he is gone, you will feel stronger, you will feel more secure, your life will be happier. He is a burden, without him you will become happy ... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

Q.   Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...

A.   2 April 2012: Reader anonymous, ignoring things goes two ways... you might have missed some of what I had to say about many people who work in porn and the sex industry, because they CHOOSE to. They aren't forced, they aren't victims, and they don't like ... (read in full...)

I'm flying to meet my LDR fiance in three days and he has said he doesn't love me anymore!

Q.   Hi, I'm 18 years old and I've been in a LDR with my german fiance (who's one month older than me) for 1 year and 5 months. We met for 3 times and spent one full week+2 weekends together in total. We were both virgins when we met but that changed. ...

A.   1 April 2012: This relationship has ended. He has already said he doesn't love you anymore, that isn't going to change, so don't make any permanent plans. We can't stop you from going to Germany, but I don't think he wants you there. You fight all the time... (read in full...)

We got into my argument over my husband's drinking and he hit me!

Q.   My husband and I got into am arguement over him drinking and coming home smelling like alcohol, so the other night he informed me that he was drinking a beer while driving home, that did not sit well with me, all I ask os that he not come home ...

A.   1 April 2012: He hit you. Now you are frightened of him. You cannot stay. That doesn't sound anything like love, that smells like fear, duty and trying to ignore things in the hope that it goes away. Your never going to be able to relax with him, you'll b... (read in full...)

Could anyone help me with ideas as to what I can do to show my appreciation for my boyfriend?

Q.   Ok so i really want to do something nice for my boyfriend. He is wonderful and i appreciate him so i really want to show it by doing something more special than just making him a nice dinner and baking him treats. He does alot for our family and is ...

A.   1 April 2012: PS: Check on the internet for a techniques. From neck to feet. Don't forget the hands and feet, men and women very seldom remember these and they carry a lot of tension.... (read in full...)

Could anyone help me with ideas as to what I can do to show my appreciation for my boyfriend?

Q.   Ok so i really want to do something nice for my boyfriend. He is wonderful and i appreciate him so i really want to show it by doing something more special than just making him a nice dinner and baking him treats. He does alot for our family and is ...

A.   1 April 2012: I swear by body massage. Get a nice body oil, or if you can't afford that almond oil will do. ( you find it in the chemist) Then massage him from his back, shoulders, knees, from front to back. Rub the oil in, and then take time to massage out ... (read in full...)

He says he hit me out of self defense. Should I still even be with him?

Q.   I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 21. 2 days ago we went to a christmas party. i got very very drunk and apparantly made a fool out of him by the way i was dancing ect..we stayed at my parents and when we got in we were arguing. I went into my room and ...

A.   1 April 2012: So sorry that things ended badly for you. But I am glad you are safe now. Thank you very much for taking the time to come back and update us all. There are many women who are reading your post who are in a similar situation. Hopefully your story ... (read in full...)

How do I get people to be jealous that my boyfriend really likes me?

Q.   short sweet and to the point : my boyfriend is extremely liked by many black females . he's mixed but looks black . i'm white . he's really good abt always holding my hand EVERYWHERE we go and good at looking me in my and communication . but ...

A.   1 April 2012: A confident woman never shows jealousy, never gets worried and never shows that she's upset. She just watches the other woman making fools of themselves and smiles at their stupidity. An insecure woman looks upset, acts jealous and upset, g... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

Q.   Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...

A.   31 March 2012: If your partner is looking at illegal pornography than report him to the police. The thing is... people who don't like pornography, never watch it and don't work in the industry, want to tell other people what to do. For some reasons lawmaker... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

Q.   Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...

A.   31 March 2012: Question: Why do men whose partners are given IVF treatment get given pornography to look at? Why does UK newspapers Include a picture of a naked woman everyday? Why do reputable doctors recommend some patients use pornography to improve t... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

Q.   Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...

A.   31 March 2012: The harm caused by an industry wasn't the question that was asked. But yes the sex industry in all it's forms is harmful for many people involved. Likewise the rock n' roll music business and the movie industry. If an industry is found to be h... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?

Q.   Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...

A.   30 March 2012: "Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection" Funny how this question has been re-written... perhaps the OP should clarify and add the word "hardcore" to her original sentence. Also a bit confused about "No woman masturbate... (read in full...)

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

Q.   Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

A.   7 March 2012: "My Dad says he can see he is protecting his money because our relationship has been volatile but that was due to him not me. " (unhappy scared wife) Since it's the money your thinking about.... This guy is so protective of his money, he doesn't ... (read in full...)

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

Q.   Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

A.   5 March 2012: Your always welcome babes, I know you got no-one else to talk to and I'm not surprised to hear your still with this "man". So things are getting a little bit better, not a lot, but just a little bit, but the guy is still awful and can't be fixed. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has history of violence. Am I worrying too much?

Q.   Long story short, I found out over the last couple of days that my boyfriend has a really bad temper. I haven't been dating him for long and i've known hes had a bad temper for a while but i'm now gett...

A.   18 February 2012: Sorry, really should think more talk less... It's the autism, that's the main problem... and therefore, yes, he could be dangerous to you as well. He has problems at home because he is smashing up his mother's house. He needs medical help or ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has history of violence. Am I worrying too much?

Q.   Long story short, I found out over the last couple of days that my boyfriend has a really bad temper. I haven't been dating him for long and i've known hes had a bad temper for a while but i'm now gett...

A.   18 February 2012: Yep, I've known guys like this. Big softies, tall and well built, wouldn't hurt a fly, quiet as a mouse. Yep, an attractive target for bullies who think because he's built big he must like to fight. Went to school with guys like that, I got ... (read in full...)

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

Q.   Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

A.   17 November 2011: Hey natasia, I do remember one time we had a post from a young kid who was living in the garden shed. He said his stepmother had said that he and his sister had to live there.... (read in full...)

On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children

Q.   Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...

A.   14 November 2011: Your scared so am I... I'm worried about your son.. this doesn't sound good for him at all. Are you so in love with this man that your kids unhappiness doesn't matter at all.... (read in full...)

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