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On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 4 April 2012: You've never been supported, you've never felt safe or secure, so you won't be missing anything. When he is gone, you will feel stronger, you will feel more secure, your life will be happier. He is a burden, without him you will become happy ... (read in full...)
Do all men cheat if given the chance?
Q. Hmm, I'm getting a little cynical-do all men cheat (emotionally/physically) if they get the chance and don't think they'll get caught?? This is the impression I'm getting from DearCupid, from celebrities, from my friends, and I don't like it. I ...
A. 31 March 2012: "The odds of either of you taking additional lovers are 100% regardless of a contract."
There is no human being alive or dead has ever managed to be faithful, because we are only a bundle of chemicals...
Very interesting theory.... which... (read in full...)
Porn and erectile dysfunction?
Q. I have a question about porn and ed. I have come to discover stories of men who have trouble getting erect over a real woman when they have used porn alot. Is that because those porn women are hotter? Would they still have that problem if a woman ...
A. 22 March 2012: Sorry we missed your follow up... "He had to think extra dirty thoughts in his head whilst having sex with me to try and cum. Is this because the porn is hotter?"
Candycane, first you must realise that this is nothing to do with you. It's not... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about porn actresses looking better than me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, to the females, why don't you like you're boyfriends/husbands using porn? My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it?...
A. 17 March 2012: "I meant pictures of just one naked woman it cant be the act then :( " (22-25, anonymous)
Women are more likely to masturbate using books or stories... there are no pictures in them, so what do these women think of? Romance and erotic, read by ... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about porn actresses looking better than me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, to the females, why don't you like you're boyfriends/husbands using porn? My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it?...
A. 12 March 2012: No I asked how you feel, not how you act. You wanted to understand a bit of his thinking, so that's why I asked the question.... (read in full...)
I want to get a credit card ...
Q. i would like to get a credit card but i dont want my husband to know, hes a bit controling.... even though we share a bank account or at least i think we do..... would he be alerted if i got one or used it?...
A. 12 March 2012: How about his family? Does he have a mother or some sisters that you can talk to?... (read in full...)
I want to get a credit card ...
Q. i would like to get a credit card but i dont want my husband to know, hes a bit controling.... even though we share a bank account or at least i think we do..... would he be alerted if i got one or used it?...
A. 12 March 2012: I got a casual way with words and I'm mean. I say things to hurt because I want you to realise how serious your situation is. I don't want you to pretend that everything is all right, because you know it's not. I know you love this man and I know ... (read in full...)
I want to get a credit card ...
Q. i would like to get a credit card but i dont want my husband to know, hes a bit controling.... even though we share a bank account or at least i think we do..... would he be alerted if i got one or used it?...
A. 11 March 2012: Try to ask him for an weekly allowance, that would be a start, make it small, but make him give it to you regularly nag and nag and give him headache, just make sure you get it every single week. Details have been given about how to get a ... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about porn actresses looking better than me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, to the females, why don't you like you're boyfriends/husbands using porn? My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it?...
A. 11 March 2012: Do you ever look at handsome movie stars in magazines? How about pictures handsome music men. What goes through your head then?... (read in full...)
At 21, all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers"
Q. Ive gotten to a point where no women is good enough for me to date. At 21 all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers". I feel I owe it to myself to find the best the world has to offer and I haven't seen it in ...
A. 11 March 2012: "When I meant used I meant the girls who go and sleep around with one guy only to be with someone else 3 days later"
I'm a bit curious about this statement. What do you mean, sleep with one guy and then go sleep with someone 3 days later. ... (read in full...)
How can I trust my husband that he isn't lying about pornography?
Q. I have a couple questions... My husband has been addicted to porn for many years, even before we met, and he has lied to me about it. I have caught him several times both in the act and in a lie. He has lied to me so many times about it and I have ...
A. 11 March 2012: "He has admitted to watching porn as much as everyday or as little as 3 times a week" - That is normal usage and can not be classed as an addiction. Many men and women masturbate at least once a day or more. Some people claim to have sex 5 times a ... (read in full...)
Crush revealed he had a g/f on our date and now he's ignoring me
Q. Hi all I'm feeling pretty upset over this guy I have a crush on. We recently went on a date and everything went well (at least I think so) Before that we've been texting non-stop. I did not expect that because I only knew him for a day. But he was ...
A. 11 March 2012: His girlfriend probably found out and didn't like it. If he has a girlfriend he can't go on dates, that is cheating. If he is still with her, then he wants her, no matter if they is having problems. I am sorry, but he didn't make things clear, he ... (read in full...)
Online girlfriend upset me when she said she had sex with her boyfriend
Q. I was online dating with some beautiful woman on some social network, we had wonderfull time chatting to each other, I told her that I like what I'm doing with her, and she is really pretty, in the long run I became attached to her, we talked about ...
A. 11 March 2012: What answers do you need. She has a boyfriend already, your just some guy on the internet who she will probably never meet. If she is unhappy with her boyfriend, she will leave him and get another boyfriend who lives near her, who she can kiss, ... (read in full...)
Online girl told me my intensity was too much and I needed to "dial it back" since we had never met. Why did she have to be mean?
Q. Recently, I got an American girl interested in me on dating site. She is 31 and half ,I'm 32. She added me on msn messenger and we also talked over the phone once. I expressed my feelings for her and she didn't say loves me but told me that she ...
A. 11 March 2012: "Dial it back".. she means back off and go slower, you are making her scared with all this talk of love. She doesn't know you and you don't know her, it's just as if you go up to a strange woman in the street and ask her to marry you.
You'v... (read in full...)
FWB has frozen me out. Is his ego that fragile?
Q. Ok, hope I can put this down in some sense making way, might be quite long so thank you in advance to anyone who can be bothered reading it all.. I've been seeing this guy from my home town for last few months. It was never going to be serious as...
A. 11 March 2012: I think he probably liked you too much and wanted to move things to a more permanent basis. You aint interested in that, and so he went off the idea of relationships.
Then you guys had disagreements about a lot of stuff.. so now he's got no prope... (read in full...)
Four days of no contact -- and we're supposed to marry next month?
Q. hey...i have written messages to my bf's ex and his good friend to whom he says was just an friend but they used to say love you and blah blah... and i wrote message to his ex being himself from his account that now i love my girl more and don't try ...
A. 11 March 2012: You behaved badly, the guy is probably frightened that you are a jealous manipulative person who will ruin his life.
Even now you refuse to apologise. You think you have the right to steal his identity, lie and manipulate and make people think ba... (read in full...)
My body screams for sex but he just pushes me away
Q. I'm sexually active for 2 years now and my current boyfriend is the only one i've been with. We only have intercourse 4 times in total and I literally beg him for intimacy. I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go ...
A. 11 March 2012: There is no changing. He is not doing this to punish you. This guy is either gay or isn't interested in sex. This will not change, marriage will make no difference, you still will not get sex.
You cannot change, you can't stop feeling horny an... (read in full...)
She even flirts better than me!
Q. I have a very serious problem – I’m insanely jealous of a girl I know who is hotter than me, smarter than me… She is successful in everything she does, but absolutely EVERYTHING! She is the national champion at Math, she competes in Physics, she’s ...
A. 10 March 2012: You wrote here before.. but last time it was just the guy you wanted. Now it's not the guy, you just want to beat this girl and come out a winner. Everyone gets jealous from time to time, but you sound obsessed. She isn't trying to do anything t... (read in full...)
He's A Gamer! ..Which means I come second
Q. My boyfriend is a gamer. we live together. I love him, but he spends so much time on his ps3, i find myself becoming resentful. I don't mean 1-3 hours per day, i'm fine with that! I'm talking 6-10.. whenever he's not sleeping or working, he's ga...
A. 10 March 2012: Sigh, gamers are hard, same as people who like football, or who play golf or do anything obsessively. The problem is, some of these people will claim to be in training, some of them guys who play football will eventually get on a team, some gamers, ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong because on our 1st official date I turned down giving oral sex?
Q. Dear Cupid, So i've been seeing this guy but not for that long. We've hung out briefly and last night he took me out on an official date. After dinner we left and went to a park to check out the view and went back to the car. He kept asking if I...
A. 10 March 2012: Of course your not wrong, these guys are sleeze balls. If you have sex with them or give them head, I bet you never see them again. Because they ask everyone for sex, they are probably diseased, you have no idea where that prick has been. Dece... (read in full...)
I feel so undeserving of him! He's a 10 and I'm a 3. What do I do about it?
Q. At 21, after 1 serious relationship, I think I have a little idea on what kind of man I would want to date. I know of this guy who's extremely funny and easy-going that everybody enjoys being around him. There are so much more about him that are ...
A. 10 March 2012: I know of this guy who's extremely funny and easy-going that everybody enjoys being around him.
If this is his character, then he will find it uncomfortable to be worshipped, he will want a woman who isn't scared of him and who is proud of herse... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend ejaculate all over my stomach?
Q. I wonder if any of you could help me. My boyfriend who is one year older than me always withdraws from me during sex and ejaculates and squirts it out all over my stomach. I am just wondering if anybody has experienced this before? Is this an ...
A. 10 March 2012: 1. He watches too much porn and thinks this is normal 2. He is very frightened about pregnancy, so is adding the withdrawal method 3. He wants to see his semen on you, harmless sign or possession, strokes his ego 4. He wants to check how much ... (read in full...)
Porn and erectile dysfunction?
Q. I have a question about porn and ed. I have come to discover stories of men who have trouble getting erect over a real woman when they have used porn alot. Is that because those porn women are hotter? Would they still have that problem if a woman ...
A. 10 March 2012: That's abuse of porn and masturbation, they have wanked themselves silly and now the penis doesn't work. It's nothing to do with the pictures or porn, it's too much masturbation on their own so they don't know what to do when they get a real woman ... (read in full...)
How can I trust my husband that he isn't lying about pornography?
Q. I have a couple questions... My husband has been addicted to porn for many years, even before we met, and he has lied to me about it. I have caught him several times both in the act and in a lie. He has lied to me so many times about it and I have ...
A. 10 March 2012: A month porn free and he's showing you the evidence. You can probably trust him that he's been porn free for a month... Unfortunately a month is not very long. He's lied about porn before, then he will probably lie about it again... lets se... (read in full...)
My mother told me if my b/f doesn't convert to our religion there's no point to be with him
Q. Hello... Ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and almost 4 months now. We both love each other so much.. Theres one problem though.. Im a Muslim and hes Catholic. My family is religious and his is not. He met my mother today for the first ti...
A. 10 March 2012: Don't mention anything more about your boyfriend and marriage, wait for a couple of years until they get used to seeing him around and finally get the message that you are not leaving him for anyone else. Yes Muslim parents can be strict about mar... (read in full...)
I want to get a credit card ...
Q. i would like to get a credit card but i dont want my husband to know, hes a bit controling.... even though we share a bank account or at least i think we do..... would he be alerted if i got one or used it?...
A. 10 March 2012: You have bigger problems than a credit card if you husband won't let you earn money, won't let give you any money and you and your kids are wearing rags. This is domestic abuse, you are practically a slave. What would you do if one day he decid... (read in full...)
At 21, all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers"
Q. Ive gotten to a point where no women is good enough for me to date. At 21 all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers". I feel I owe it to myself to find the best the world has to offer and I haven't seen it in ...
A. 10 March 2012: Your update still doesn't make it better. In your head women are either "leftovers" or "dating material", you don't seem to think of them as "fellow human beings". You only seem to relate to women as objects for you and other men to "use up". Do ... (read in full...)
My body screams for sex but he just pushes me away
Q. I'm sexually active for 2 years now and my current boyfriend is the only one i've been with. We only have intercourse 4 times in total and I literally beg him for intimacy. I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go ...
A. 10 March 2012: One guy brought up an important point.. how old is your boyfriend.. If he is in his 50's, there are a couple of stories that I would like you to read, because there are 2 women that were in your situation and they come from similar countries like ... (read in full...)
My body screams for sex but he just pushes me away
Q. I'm sexually active for 2 years now and my current boyfriend is the only one i've been with. We only have intercourse 4 times in total and I literally beg him for intimacy. I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go ...
A. 10 March 2012: "I really love him and understand that he respects me and doesn't want to go further until marriage" Do not marry this man, for some reason he has problems with having sex with a woman. He could be gay, he could be asexual (no sexual desire, d... (read in full...)
14, pregnant and don't know what to do
Q. hello to cut to the case i am 14 and i think i am pregnant. my boyfriend is 15 but doest really know how to react. my mom and my step dad are going to flip out. i dont know what to do. so my question is, if i am pregnant at this age what rights do i ...
A. 10 March 2012: 1. Stay calm, panic just makes you dizzy.
2. Take pregnancy test, either from chemist, (you have to buy it) or from planned parenthood, (address should be on the web)
3. If you are NOT pregnant, do not have sex without condoms, contact planned ... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about porn actresses looking better than me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, to the females, why don't you like you're boyfriends/husbands using porn? My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it?...
A. 10 March 2012: *searches memory banks* - with pictures you use more imagination, and you are still left thinking about the act. However, I don't think you even use the person in the picture to imagine with, they are just a trigger a starting point, you use your ... (read in full...)
Do all men cheat if given the chance?
Q. Hmm, I'm getting a little cynical-do all men cheat (emotionally/physically) if they get the chance and don't think they'll get caught?? This is the impression I'm getting from DearCupid, from celebrities, from my friends, and I don't like it. I ...
A. 10 March 2012: "I hope it's not true, but am I just being naiive?" Your being niave, because millions of women cheat too. When your reading Dear Cupid, please don't ignore all the women who cheat on their husbands or cheat on their boyfriends or sleep with a ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I don't want my husband's nephew around anymore?
Q. my husbands nephew is down right disrespectful and disgusting and rude. he talks like a sailor, and spits chewing tabbaco and tells his friends he want to have sex w/ me. i hate it when he comes to our house to help my husband work, he not only is a ...
A. 10 March 2012: Your husband and the car can go to his house, or if he car can't move, then there is no reason he has to come in the house at all, just treat him like a mechanic, he fixes car and then leaves. The house is for you and the kids to live in peace.... (read in full...)
At 21, all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers"
Q. Ive gotten to a point where no women is good enough for me to date. At 21 all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers". I feel I owe it to myself to find the best the world has to offer and I haven't seen it in ...
A. 10 March 2012: So your not a troll, and your not kidding, your just a egotistical kid who thinks that your gods gift or something... at 21 or 201 I'm surprised if any woman even wants to shake your hand let alone date you.
You got disgusting manners and your off... (read in full...)
I asked him to marry me on February 29th, but he keeps changing his mind about buying the ring!
Q. i have a problem that some will think im stupid on. I asked my man to marry me on feb 29th and he said yes. we talked about rings and i showed him the ring that i wanted which wasnt alot 150 pounds. He said no problem he would get it for when we go ...
A. 9 March 2012: He can't afford the ring, that's what's happening. So yes he can (he'll starve or sell something) and then no he can't when you have an argument (why should I put myself out after all of this) then he talks to his daughter (yes, don't need teeth, ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I don't want my husband's nephew around anymore?
Q. my husbands nephew is down right disrespectful and disgusting and rude. he talks like a sailor, and spits chewing tabbaco and tells his friends he want to have sex w/ me. i hate it when he comes to our house to help my husband work, he not only is a ...
A. 9 March 2012: Nope, he behaviour is a bad influence on your child, he is old enough to behave better but chooses not to. You as a mother have to do what is best for your kids, until he acts in an appropriate manner your well in your rights to tell him he's not ... (read in full...)
I'm an actress who is in madly in love with an actor I'm working with on a play.
Q. I'm sorry if I sound a little bit confusing, my English is not very representative, but I think you'll get the point. I'm an actress who is in madly in love with an actor I'm working with on a play. I don't know how to approach him. We have great fu...
A. 9 March 2012: If your acting role calls for you to be in love or jealous then use the experience to be a better actress. If you just have feelings for the guy and are jealous about him acting as a lover, then you need to either control your feelings, or quit the ... (read in full...)
I wet my bf's bed, how do I reduce the embarrassment?
Q. I have an embarrassing problem, that i'm almost too embarrassed to ask you all about. Last night I stayed at my boyfriend's house, we've been together 2 and a half years. I woke up to discover I had wet the bed. I was absolutley mortified, as I hav...
A. 9 March 2012: Two and a half years with the guy, don't worry about it. Your not a guest, your not a stranger, your part of his heart and this little thing is so unimportant. What is important to him is when you get upset and cry or when you are hurt. So I know ... (read in full...)
I don't feel guilty about cheating on my wife until she cries, but even then I secretly enjoy it
Q. Hi Ok,i have got myself in a bit of situation, all self inflicted and im not looking for sympathy just advice. I met my partner on line 4 years ago, i was serving in the forces and whilst i was still married, we were not together, i was seeing som...
A. 8 March 2012: Validus, it all sounds a bit sick to tell the truth.. reminds me of the film "Bitter Moon". Not sure why you find this all funny? This relationship is dysfunctional. It's not the cheating thing that bothers me, it's the way you relate to each o... (read in full...)
Can you forgive a person after destroying your trust and crushing your heart?
Q. so my gf had been acting weirdly for months and i found out she had an affair with a man howeever she only saw him 3 times and only had sex once. she was on medications and depressed with an eating disorder and huge self esteem issues and at the ...
A. 8 March 2012: Wish I had seen the nasty conclusion....
I'm not a mind reader, you didn't say anything like this in your first post, so how is anyone to know what you did or didn't do.
You were the one who mentioned you put work first, you were the one who... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 8 March 2012: Just remembered something....my mum once dated this handsome guy, and although she's known for feeding everyone, including the homeless, she complained about him eating her food. She gave him the number of a Chinese restaurant and told him to call ... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about porn actresses looking better than me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, to the females, why don't you like you're boyfriends/husbands using porn? My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it?...
A. 7 March 2012: "My reasons: because I hate the idea of them getting turned on by someone else who I think is way better looking than me it actually scares me the thought of it?" Is your relationship only based on beauty and sex? If you got a face scar tomorr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 7 March 2012: You don't like when he takes your food, and you get irritated when he asks, and the suggestion that he brings his own food isn't very sensible.... do you see why your getting advice to leave him because you don't really want him there. Men are not ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 7 March 2012: "My Dad says he can see he is protecting his money because our relationship has been volatile but that was due to him not me. " (unhappy scared wife)
Since it's the money your thinking about.... This guy is so protective of his money, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I don't want to think of divorce but wife has secretly been meeting other men
Q. i have been married for 6 years and have two daughters under 5,unfortunately i have had a series of strokes and had to give up work,i have now discovered my wife has joined an online dating site and set a a secret email,i have managed to gain access ...
A. 7 March 2012: There is not much you can do. The wife has no respect for you, and she's a cheat, a liar and a bully. She won't change, she has no reason to. She has no consideration for a man who is sick, instead she sees this as a weakness and a chance to ... (read in full...)
I get made fun of because I'm 21 and a virgin
Q. i'm a 21 year old male, who's still a virgin, and don't know what to do, i'm in this relationship and my girl makes fun of me that am a virgin, all my friends make fun of me that am a virgin and because of that i get lonely and depress and i just ...
A. 7 March 2012: Leave the girl, she's a crap girlfriend, she doesn't show you enough love or respect. Stop talking about your sex life, it's nothing to do with your friends. Don't mention your virginity again. Nobody has to know, it's something that's private to ... (read in full...)
My FWB got married without telling me
Q. i had been seeing a guy for 8 years on and off always me doing the txting, when we met we both had just gone through a divorce him on is second, he had always told me he couldnt ,wouldnt get involved again and we could be friends so we became f...
A. 7 March 2012: Your guy sounds like a professional, he takes your body and your heart and then he also takes your money. I know your heart is involved, but this guy is too expensive to keep. He doesn't like women, he doesn't think much about them, beyond ... (read in full...)
I'm losing my confidence as my bf keeps saying I dress like a slag!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am 18 years old and he is more than 10 years older than me. A massive problem has arised which is my apparent "dress sense". I am constantly called a slag and a attention seeker for wearing what I see ...
A. 7 March 2012: He is trying to destroy you. He is old and you are young, he is frightened that you will leave him one day. So he tries to make you scared of the world, lack confidence and have no self esteme. That's why he tells you about other women who want ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 7 March 2012: I've just seen your follow up, and yes this guy is not right for you, you don't sound like you want him in your house. People are bought up differently in regards to how they treat guests. In my culture we have the opposite problem of not feeding ... (read in full...)
Am I allowed to buy myself a sex toy?
Q. Am I allowed to buy a sex toy? I'm in a relationship with a man who has suffered with extreme premature ejaculation for the past two years. He has given up trying to do anything about it even though when he was on medication it was starting to ...
A. 6 March 2012: Women should be by a sex toy whether the man agrees or not, no man has ownership of your vagina. If you want to use a sex toy because he has a sex problem he refuses to fix, then I would pleased if you do so. He can sit there with his penis ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 6 March 2012: If he's staying the weekend he will be starving if he's not allowed to touch your food. If it's late at night all the shops are probably closed and so there is no food available. If he has to carry a box with food, he might as well bring toilet ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 5 March 2012: Your always welcome babes, I know you got no-one else to talk to and I'm not surprised to hear your still with this "man". So things are getting a little bit better, not a lot, but just a little bit, but the guy is still awful and can't be fixed. ... (read in full...)
Can you forgive a person after destroying your trust and crushing your heart?
Q. so my gf had been acting weirdly for months and i found out she had an affair with a man howeever she only saw him 3 times and only had sex once. she was on medications and depressed with an eating disorder and huge self esteem issues and at the ...
A. 11 February 2012: Yes you can forgive.. but if she has eating problems, depression, lacks self esteem and is on medication, a person like you isn't helping very much, your driving adding to her torment. She sounds like a very sick lady, and instead of helping,you p... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 17 November 2011: Hey natasia, I do remember one time we had a post from a young kid who was living in the garden shed. He said his stepmother had said that he and his sister had to live there.... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 14 November 2011: Your scared so am I... I'm worried about your son.. this doesn't sound good for him at all. Are you so in love with this man that your kids unhappiness doesn't matter at all.... (read in full...)
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