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On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 4 April 2012: You've never been supported, you've never felt safe or secure, so you won't be missing anything. When he is gone, you will feel stronger, you will feel more secure, your life will be happier. He is a burden, without him you will become happy ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 7 March 2012: "My Dad says he can see he is protecting his money because our relationship has been volatile but that was due to him not me. " (unhappy scared wife)
Since it's the money your thinking about.... This guy is so protective of his money, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 5 March 2012: Your always welcome babes, I know you got no-one else to talk to and I'm not surprised to hear your still with this "man". So things are getting a little bit better, not a lot, but just a little bit, but the guy is still awful and can't be fixed. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 22 November 2011: I'm quite good around kids, and most of the time, I'm not afraid to discipline, even if it makes their parent's uncomfortable. I'm experienced, so I know ways to talk to them without it being a problem. You can't discipline for everything, and you ... (read in full...)
My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...
A. 17 November 2011: I like the fact that you are trying to find out all the ways you can get pleasure in sex. Good on you for putting no limits on yourself.... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 17 November 2011: Another thing.. look at the reality of your situation.. your only seeing the guy once a week... you don't really know if you can actually live with him. What will be your feelings if you see him every day? What bad habits and attitudes has he ... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 17 November 2011: I met my guy at 18... spent 18years with him.. now I'm single.. Celtic Tiger didn't mean it won't work, more that it PROBABLY won't work. We don't want to crush your dreams, but the statistics show that young love mostly doesn't last. You both get ... (read in full...)
Self-conscious because he seems to pay attention to the parts of my body that need toning
Q. For men (and women who can relate): When I am intimate with my boyfriend, he tends to grab onto my "cushions" - I'm a bit of a voluptuous girl (130lb, 5'5) and I guess it makes me uncomfortable that he is grabbing onto my thighs or tummy because it ...
A. 17 November 2011: Relax and change your thinking. You don't like your body, but he does.. and when it comes to women's bodies, men are smarter than us. He likes you fine, you are soft and womanly, no wonder he wants to touch. We women always want to hate ... (read in full...)
Am I controlling?
Q. I was analyzing my own behaviour the other day and I began to wonder if I was controlling or not. I dont have to know where my boyfriend is or what he is doing at all times. I am fine with him having a social life. What does bother me is no...
A. 17 November 2011: Nope, your not controlling, your in love and you worry about him. That's a deep kind of love your able to feel. It's a bit like being a mother. Don't worry, I'm the same, guys like it, but at the same time they hate it. Like a said, it's a ... (read in full...)
No man wants to get married, they can't stay committed to one woman, and ogle my female friends! Thats what HE said!
Q. First off, this is a bit long so thanks to any for reading! Im not sure if I am overreacting or not. My boyfriend and I are approaching our 5 year anniversary and have lived together for over 4 and a half years. He swept me off my feet, convinc...
A. 17 November 2011: He's older than you. It was exciting for him having a young woman to love, that stroked his ego and made him feel big, but now you are growing up, he is starting to feel threatened. You are leaving school at last, and turning into an adult woman, ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 17 November 2011: Hey natasia, I do remember one time we had a post from a young kid who was living in the garden shed. He said his stepmother had said that he and his sister had to live there.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex every night, he doesn't. How can I lower my sex drive?
Q. I need some serious help, I have a very high sex drive, I want to have sex with my husband every night before bed, but he isn't the same way. Is there anyway I can lower my sex drive? I don't know what else to do, I've tried getting my husband more ...
A. 17 November 2011: So you guys used to have sex a lot. Marriage does tend to slow down the sex life it's normal. Psychology says, first we fall in love, and the chemicals in our brain make us horny and we want sex all the time. It's kind of like an obsession. It's ... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 17 November 2011: I got nothing more to add... celtic tiger said it all. Ask him to see you an extra day. Step back and stop worrying and let the future take care of itself. We older people can tell you from experience, life has a way of messing up any grand plans ... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 17 November 2011: Hey, you never mentioned kids. She's probably tired. You just came here to talk about stuff that is bothering you. Avoiding dealing with some other issues. You need to fix that too.
You two should maybe have a talk about the things that are... (read in full...)
My best friend tried to have sex with me, but I don't want to! What do I do, who do I tell?
Q. Hi I'm 16 and I have a guy friend who I joke with a call my best friend. Well he knows me better than other people and we used to be close till he got a girlfriend who hates that I'm his "best friend". Last year december me and my best friend (bf) ...
A. 16 November 2011: This is attempted rape. The guy is a rapist and one day he will hurt someone badly. Tell your parents. Don't talk to the guy, don't have anything to do with him. If he comes near you again SCREAM RAPIST.. YOU DIRTY RAPIST...
I would love you... (read in full...)
What comes first, friends or girlfriend?
Q. I am 19 and my boyfriend the same. This is his first relationship, but not my first. We have been together almost 5 months. I have a problem with him putting his friends before me. I value friendships myself, and think friends are important, and you ...
A. 16 November 2011: No.. his view of relationship isn't screwed up, but you don't want the same things at the moment. This is normal at his age. You want to be around him, but he wants to socialize and be with his gang. It's only been 5months, that's a new ... (read in full...)
She said to me during sex "would you just finish" after only 10 minutes! I always thought lasting longer was better....
Q. hi their. I have confidance issues when it comes to how long i last during sex. I always please my partner though oral and hands before sex as she doesnt orgasm through intercourse. Once she had cum we moved on to the sex. I was prolonging cumming ...
A. 16 November 2011: I really must take time to read stuff properly.... "I always please my partner though oral and hands before sex as she doesnt orgasm through intercourse." 30minutes of oral sex.. then you want to go at it all night even though she won't have... (read in full...)
Questions about contraception....
Q. I am going away with my boyfriend next month and I am really excited! :D I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months officially now and it is going great! We never argue and it's well... perfect :D Recently I went on the pill, we are both virgins...
A. 16 November 2011: You can contact the nurses at the NHS by telephone 24 hours a day, they can answer any questions to do with your health. No you can't take the pill and the implant together, you will overdose on the hormones. I don't know much about the implant, ... (read in full...)
He's continually embarrassed me and abandoned me
Q. I have moved across the country, away from all of my family, for my boyfriend. We moved from Florida to Oregon so that he could have steady work to support us and our 3 children. When we arrived here after a week of being on the road with a 5 yr ...
A. 16 November 2011: Tish is our sensible aunt... consider carefully what she has said.... (read in full...)
He's continually embarrassed me and abandoned me
Q. I have moved across the country, away from all of my family, for my boyfriend. We moved from Florida to Oregon so that he could have steady work to support us and our 3 children. When we arrived here after a week of being on the road with a 5 yr ...
A. 16 November 2011: The family sound awful... so it's disrespectful for you to want to put your kids down to rest.. What about the 3month old... Don't children need sleep..
Damn.. now I'm getting angry and I can't swear here. Aren't there any children in his family. ... (read in full...)
Everything went great, he took me to his house, I met his mom...but then he tried to kiss me and I freaked out! Now he's gone from calling and texting me everyday to nothing!
Q. I am a freshman in college. I met this Cuban guy in the Finacial aid office and I have been thinking of him ever since...... I had a little crush on him. Two months later I saw him again at the library, and he said I wonder why I keep running into ...
A. 16 November 2011: You like him, and he sure likes you, not every girl gets taken home to meet mum. Your young, and not experienced, so you reacted badly when he made a move on you. Somehow, it sounds like this guy likes you for your personality, not just your ... (read in full...)
She said to me during sex "would you just finish" after only 10 minutes! I always thought lasting longer was better....
Q. hi their. I have confidance issues when it comes to how long i last during sex. I always please my partner though oral and hands before sex as she doesnt orgasm through intercourse. Once she had cum we moved on to the sex. I was prolonging cumming ...
A. 16 November 2011: There are no rules to sex. Yes sometimes longer is better, but not always. When you are tired, you sometimes just want quick sex. You must not get uptight, sex is supposed to be fun. Only one thing, does she orgasm with penetrative sex. Many ... (read in full...)
I hate my boyfriend's son and ex!
Q. I really hate the fact my boyfriend has a 15year old son and i hate his ex even though i dont know her.I have very strong hate feelings towards them and i hate it when his son comes to stay.We have been living together for 2 years and i have my own ...
A. 16 November 2011: Wow... hate is a very strong word. Why do you hate his ex and his son? Did they hurt you in some way? I wonder how you would feel if your boyfriend hated your kid the same way?
Your jealous, in a very, very bad way. I suggest you get some cou... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 16 November 2011: Sorry.. your follow up came in late...
3 days with a kid that is not yours, whilst her father stays away. That is not fair, it's not right, no wonder she feels alone and you feel exhausted. If you were a single mother, at least you would kn... (read in full...)
My wife was sexually abused. No one else knows. Is it wrong to spill the beans?
Q. As the subject says, my wife was sexually abused as a child. She was also raped as an adult - possibly more than once. She just confided this in me, although I have suspected as much for a long time now. As a result, she is an alcoholic. She...
A. 16 November 2011: About the family.. Tell them to back off.. Tell them your wife is your responsibility, and an insult to her is an insult to you. Tell them you will not allow her to contact them again, if they don't watch their words and their manners when she's ... (read in full...)
My wife was sexually abused. No one else knows. Is it wrong to spill the beans?
Q. As the subject says, my wife was sexually abused as a child. She was also raped as an adult - possibly more than once. She just confided this in me, although I have suspected as much for a long time now. As a result, she is an alcoholic. She...
A. 16 November 2011: I'm sorry for all the pain this has caused for both you and her.. but please, please, please.. NEVER REVEAL HER SECRETS without her permission. She will be devastated, and it will prove to her that men can never be trusted. See if you can get her ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is working over Christmas - again! I'm furious, help please!
Q. Hi guys, please help, i am fuming! My bf does shift work and he has a responsible role. This year will be our first proper Xmas togther. Let me explain...last year he decided to work a night shift on Xmas day. This meant i got to see him for a round ...
A. 16 November 2011: So tonight he drops the bombshell that he has got to work night shifts over Xmas...
Doesn't sound like he has a choice. Guy has to work, or he will get the sack and be unemployed. Maybe you need to date someone else, whose hours suit you bett... (read in full...)
My wife's son is tearing us apart! What to do?
Q. i have caught my wife's son (21 year old) with large quanities of skunk weed 3 times now, the first about a week after we were married 2 years ago,it turns out that he has been reported to the police on 5 occations by 3 different people on our ...
A. 16 November 2011: I got no problems with weed, but I do have problems with drug dealing. It's not safe to stay, anyone that's in that house can be arrested as drug dealers. The lack of sex is another issue. Does she give a reason, have you tried to fix this. You ... (read in full...)
He's continually embarrassed me and abandoned me
Q. I have moved across the country, away from all of my family, for my boyfriend. We moved from Florida to Oregon so that he could have steady work to support us and our 3 children. When we arrived here after a week of being on the road with a 5 yr ...
A. 16 November 2011: Wait a second... you got 3 kids, and have been together for at least 5years (I guess) Leaving him because of one disagreement is a bit too fast.
It doesn't sound like you were happy to move. Now, I can understand why this all happen. He wante... (read in full...)
What are the best ways to incorporate caring for a dog or cat as part of improving one's emotional health?
Q. Pet ownership is cited to have many benefits for humans. Owning a pet can help reduce stress, improve your emotional health and may even promote faster healing. What are the best ways to incorporate caring for a dog or cat as part of improving one'...
A. 16 November 2011: Cats.. stroke them and talk to them.. Dogs.. take them for long walks... Feed animals daily, wash dog, when you take care of them make sure you also feed and care for yourself. Just watching animals move can help you be calm. They don't get ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable around our house with teenaged daughter walking around in just underwear!
Q. Our oldest daughter is now 15 and tends to walk around the house in just her bra and underwear or nothing at all. My husband and I get on her about it all the time, but she doesn't seem to care. Will she grow out of this or will it get worse? Is ...
A. 16 November 2011: Brain wave.. you got any older male relatives you could invite over for breakfast. Hopefully shame and embarrassment will change the way she thinks.... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable around our house with teenaged daughter walking around in just underwear!
Q. Our oldest daughter is now 15 and tends to walk around the house in just her bra and underwear or nothing at all. My husband and I get on her about it all the time, but she doesn't seem to care. Will she grow out of this or will it get worse? Is ...
A. 16 November 2011: Normal.. sounds like teenage rebellion.. the human body is natural and all that.. it is, but not in your parents house. Just keep telling her to stop, and if she won't, then try to think of some suitable punishment. It's best if you deal with it, ... (read in full...)
Just learned that I may not be my son's father
Q. I need to make a HUGE possibly life changing decision. My wife and I are married for almost 15 years. When we met she had just broken up with her ex-bf. We dated for about 6 months when she told me she was pregnant. I did the right thing, and we ...
A. 16 November 2011: Go and talk to your wife.. you can't get a divorce just because some guy who isn't your friend starts saying stuff and gossiping. Tell your wife about what was said. Don't do things in secret. It doesn't say much about your love or your marriage ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 16 November 2011: Ok here goes.. never got a chance for pregnancy. Damn you must hurt. And yes, I've had to walk home from hospital while a selfish guy lay in bed. Ended up with him leaving me when I was sick. Does it mean he didn't love me. Nope, guy just ... (read in full...)
My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...
A. 15 November 2011: We like you kid, and we is hoping and wishing you well... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 15 November 2011: One more thing.. it's been brought up that she may really have issues and you are the only friend she has to talk to. She says she has problems with friends, this is normal, all kids have this, but some kids do have problems with bullying. She ... (read in full...)
I'm married and now my lover is also married I'm struggling to accept she is physical with another man....I don't want to share her!
Q. I am married and had a relationship with collegaue in office. We got along for couple of years well including physically and now she got married to a guy. She says she wants to continue being physical with me but I am finding it hard to accept now ...
A. 15 November 2011: Either you and this woman get a divorce and then marry each other. Or you dump this woman and stay with your wife, you leave her alone to make love to her husband.
I think your problem is called greedy.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to take care of kids, I don't think they're cute, I don't like them or know what to do with them, and I don't want one, ever.
Q. Today I was talking with my mom, and my sister, who joined in, and they said it was wierd that I have no maternal instinct. Every woman in my family, and even a lot of men LOVE babies and kids, whenever there's a baby around, everyone coos over it, ...
A. 15 November 2011: Sigh.. maybe my words were clumsy. A child is made up of the genes of a woman and a man. It is you and him, in the same body, creating a new person. Your child is a mixture of your DNA. That's all I meant, not to say that somebody should have a ... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 15 November 2011: Remember I said the guy could ask for you to stop using the vibrator.. I stupidly thought maybe he was trying to help you get more pleasure. I was willing to give him the benefit of doubt. I took in consideration his "mild aspergers"....
Rubbi... (read in full...)
I don't know how to take care of kids, I don't think they're cute, I don't like them or know what to do with them, and I don't want one, ever.
Q. Today I was talking with my mom, and my sister, who joined in, and they said it was wierd that I have no maternal instinct. Every woman in my family, and even a lot of men LOVE babies and kids, whenever there's a baby around, everyone coos over it, ...
A. 15 November 2011: Didn't mean to offend you anon, that's why I made it clear that some women (and men) feel like this, not all and some women (and men) don't like kids and won't have them. I'm sorry your upset about the fact that some people like children. When I ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose the trust of my b/f's daughter but I do think she pushes the boundaries!
Q. I'm in a relationship (for 6 years already) and my boyfriend has an 11 year old daughter. I'm very lucky in the sense that she loves me very much. We get along great and I feel she trusts me 100%. I, myself, does not have any kids of my own and ...
A. 15 November 2011: Absolutely spot on, your doing great and that's why she wants to be friends. Your not a huggy person, and that's alright, you can tell her that, she's not stupid, she will understand. Continue to correct her behavior if you feel it necessary, and ... (read in full...)
She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?
Q. My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...
A. 15 November 2011: We missed your follow up, that's why we didn't respond. So it's a lack of attention, your feeling lonely. I'm sorry you feel like that, it's not nice. Same as when people stay at work all the time, taking any overtime going, preferring the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 15 November 2011: All the aunts are thinking of you today, and hoping everything has gone alright.. Be well.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex every night, he doesn't. How can I lower my sex drive?
Q. I need some serious help, I have a very high sex drive, I want to have sex with my husband every night before bed, but he isn't the same way. Is there anyway I can lower my sex drive? I don't know what else to do, I've tried getting my husband more ...
A. 15 November 2011: Sounds like you and hubby have different sex drives, and that's alright, you can still be together if there is a lot of love, but it won't be easy and there has to be some compromise. You have to tell him how desperate you feel, he has to ... (read in full...)
I'm willing to have an affair with my doctor, but how do I confirm whether or not he's really interested?
Q. ok so i just got surgery sept and my doctor has always been hot i've know him for 2 years now and now it seems like he likes me he kept telling me i looked and i just smiled so hard we talk about other things besides my health. i feel a strong c...
A. 15 November 2011: Another thing.... HOW THE HELL CAN YOU ENJOY YOUR DOCTORS COMPANY. You don't know him, your not around him long enough to be friends. Your at the doctors because you are sick, and I'm sure you don't have more than a couple of minutes to talk to ... (read in full...)
I'm willing to have an affair with my doctor, but how do I confirm whether or not he's really interested?
Q. ok so i just got surgery sept and my doctor has always been hot i've know him for 2 years now and now it seems like he likes me he kept telling me i looked and i just smiled so hard we talk about other things besides my health. i feel a strong c...
A. 15 November 2011: You are not a nice person. You are going out of your way to try to persuade your doctor to have sex with you. You don't care about his wife or family, all you care about is you. So what the doctor flirted with you, there is nothing wrong in that. ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to take care of kids, I don't think they're cute, I don't like them or know what to do with them, and I don't want one, ever.
Q. Today I was talking with my mom, and my sister, who joined in, and they said it was wierd that I have no maternal instinct. Every woman in my family, and even a lot of men LOVE babies and kids, whenever there's a baby around, everyone coos over it, ...
A. 15 November 2011: No it's not weird, you are still young. If you don't want kids when your older, then tell your husband before you get married. Yep, you might not want or like kids, but many women tend to want a child as a living example of the love they share for ... (read in full...)
Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?
Q. My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always ...
A. 15 November 2011: He does sound like all his focus is on sex, it does suggest maybe an addiction. The other stuff, no compliments, no help around the house, that's more normal. Lazy guy who can't be bothered, and doesn't see why he should try. It doesn't make ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 15 November 2011: Yes it's his baby too.. You are hurting and you want him to be close to you. He is hurting and he wants to forget everything. That is grief, everyone deals with it differently. He is not selfish and you are not being unreasonable. When children ... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 14 November 2011: Why are you with this guy? Is it love or are you scared to be alone?... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 14 November 2011: Your human, and young women are pretty, you have eyes and you can see. Your feelings are normal. As long as you take no action, then who can see what is in your mind. Anyway, you need to get your wife sorted out and you need to be diplomatic. ... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 14 November 2011: I don't like this guy, he causes to much problems.... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 14 November 2011: Your scared so am I... I'm worried about your son.. this doesn't sound good for him at all. Are you so in love with this man that your kids unhappiness doesn't matter at all.... (read in full...)
My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...
A. 13 November 2011: The thing is, your very young, only 22. Many women find sex gets better as they are older. I'm also wondering. You say you sometimes have orgasm during sexual intercourse with him, but you can't orgasm through touching or oral sex. No there is ... (read in full...)
She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?
Q. My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...
A. 13 November 2011: Your girlfriend works in the sex industry. It's not for everyone, but if you have a good body and no educational qualifications it's a very good way to make a living. You don't like it, and that is also natural. Many (if not most people) would ... (read in full...)
She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?
Q. My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...
A. 13 November 2011: Your girlfriend works in the industry. It's not for everyone, but if you have a good body and no educational qualifications it's a very good way to make a living. You don't like it, and that is also natural, many (if not most people) would find a ... (read in full...)
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