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writes:This guy and I have sexual chemistry towards each other. We hooked up a few times but it hasn't really gone anywhere because we both havent really wanted anything or really talked about it. He always watches me whenever we go out or else stays near a group that im close by. One night at the bar this one other guy who knows us both but doesnt know our past told me he can tell we have something going on because we have some major eye contact. It got me thinking because I didn't known other people could see it. One night the guy was texting my friend, also one of his roommates telling her how badly he wanted a gf and how every girl he likes doesn't seem to like him. He was drunk and getting pretty emotional. Then he came home later and i was other there hanging out with her and since we were downstairs he went up to watch a movie. I later went up for some water and he pulled me to the couch and had his arm round me as we talked a bit. Later he told me he was going to go to bed so then i helped him down and after a bit my friend and i went in to his room an she started cuddling him because she could tell he was still upset.I didnt know what to do so i layed on them both and then got uncomfortable so i rolled to the other side of the bed. Eventually he rolled over and started holding me real close, and kept pulling me closer. Once my friend left he had kissed me sweetly and then things progressed. This time the sex wasnt like anything we have had before. It seemed more intimate and meaningful and not just a regular lay. Once we finished he kissed me on the forehead and said goodnight. What does that mean? We kiss usually during, but he has never kissed my forehead before. Was it all just because he was sad or is he actually starting to grow something for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2011): He is falling in love with you.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 He sounds like he's looking for a girlfriend.. but your just giving him sex and it's a FWB.
Thing with a girl doing a FWB (sex only no-commitment) the guy doesn't really see her as the type of woman to make into a girlfriend. So he's lonely, and the only woman he has available. Your getting the sex, and he has to cuddle you because there is no one else.
If he thought of making you his girlfriend, he wouldn't be cuddling your friend. If you want a chance of tying this guy down, you got to stop sleeping with him, go back to being friends. This will give him a chance to look at you with new eyes, as a possible girlfriend rather than a body to hold at night.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 a kiss on a forehead I regard as tender and wonderful. It is one of my favourites. it can be given anywhere. It is not demanding. It embarasses no one. But it sure signals that you are special. Or it should.
If the kiss was given in genuine appreciation then I would regard it as a very positive sign.
I think it was a spontaneous gesture on his part.
And your words, "It seemed more intimate and meaningful" tell me that both of you were feeling a more special vibe than before.
Keep an eye on his actions when sober. I would want to see him as similarly kind to you when sober.
But all the indications are that he has some tender feelings for you.
Watch his actions to see if he is really genuine in his feelings towards you. But it does seem a promising response on his part.
Hope it goes well
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