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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone here goes I met a man 9 month ago we ended up becoming fwb.Don't know how it just happened, my feelings for him started getting stronger last week. I told him I liked him and wanted to be his girlfriend. I thought he felt the same as he started making plans for us to go out places and he had arranged for us to go out for my 25th birthday next week. We also had a talk a few days ago he told me I don't text him often enough, so I started texting him more. I texted him sunday he ignored me. I text him monday he ignored me so then I text him wednesday and told him I'll delete his number and he won't hear from me again. still no reply. I know he is ok Because he lives six doors away from me why do you think he did this? I didn't think I would be so bothered but I really liked him. though he wasn't nice with me. he accused me of cheating all the time when I wasn't I wouldn't see or speak to him hardly when we made plans to see each other he would cancel or forget but I'm still upset over him and don't know whywhat should I do as it is so awkward living near each other thank you
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reader, Miamine +, writes (10 December 2011):
 FWB - Sex only, no commitments, you both use each others body, that's all it is. If you have feelings, yes you can tell him. You told him, and now he won't answer the phone.
That's your answer, he isn't interested in feelings or a relationship, he's only interested in the no-commitment sex. He doesn't want any more involvement with a woman who now has loving feelings for him.
The deal is over, treat him as if he was a stranger you once met at a bus stop. Don't forget to delete his telephone number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2011): another fwb problem. yet again its the female. fwb means just that. you have given him easy sex and because of that, he will not see you as relationship potential, just easy sex. there is nothing more to it. let go and next time respect yourself or the new guy wont either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2011): Firstly I didn't think 'cheating' was possible in a FWB situation, your not in a relationship, it's just sex.So really you could have dated as many men a you liked.He had no claim on you.
As for what you should do, do nothing, no contact. Find a man who treats you with respect and try not to get into anymore FWB situations.
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