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anonymous
writes:I have been going out with my girlfriend now for 9 months and in that time I have been mean to her on occasions in front of her friends which I deeply regret she now tells me she wants a break which we have done for 2 weeks now she just wants to be friends Im really hurting and cant imagine my life with out her please help me
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reader, raiders  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Your girlfriend has probably took all the abuse she can handle, and left you to be able to find happiness with someone else. You now want her back, talk to her wine her and dine her and see if that works. I wish you luck but always remember that a person will only take so much abuse and when they are ready to put an end to it they will. I hope there is still time for you to save your relationship, be-careful from now on on how you handle relationships.
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reader, lolliepopprincess  +, writes (7 April 2010):
...i'm afraid if this isn't the first time, be preparred to lose her for good. if his is th first time. i hope your lucky enough to of found someone soft and gentle. agre to be friends for the time, as this is a reason to stay close and hang out. show her you can love her proppably, drop hints, girls always notice. make sure she get the picture you can love her for who she is and you don't and won' take her for granted. hope i helped. xx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Apologize to her and asked her for another chance. Treat her well and always appreciate and cherish her .In time , she may warmth back to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): Why bother, you obviously didnt love her so whats changed?
You can probably win her back by apologising in a letter and telling her the reasons why you were mean to her.
If you do get a second chance, and you genuinly have changed dont screw it up. You really need to learn how to treat a woman with more respect.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (7 April 2010):
Afraid it is all a bit to late my friend. At your age clearly you have trouble acting maturly. She is well shot of you and you need to take time out and just work out where your going, most importantly why you act like an 18 year old at times?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): Recently, I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years because he treated me poorly in front of my parents and friends. We're back together now, because he understands what he did wrong, and we're taking it slowly, but there's a difference in our relationship and your's. My boyfriend and I are both 20. Degrading your girlfriend at the age that you are is childish and immature. It's for high schoolers. You're not going to get her back easily, as you need to earn her trust after breaking it time and time again. Be friends with her, and prove that you can be a better person, and let her know that you do want to get back together, but take it slowly. You're too old to be playing games like that with your girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): Should be careful next time... Treasure everybody in your life, especially the ones you love because hey, something like this won't get fixed as easily. You need to really step up to get her back and IF you can get her back. You have to prove to her that you're exactly who she loved before. And maybe a hint: DON'T hurt her. She is always more important to you than anyone else so if you have to be mean to somebody, it's not her. You can't control love so if she accually doesn't love you anymore, let her go and go on with your life and try to break up on GOOD terms. It's always the best way and good luck.
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