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writes:I am 29 and have two kids both boys. I am seeing a guy who is 23 and still lives with his mom and dad. We want to be together but his family doesn't want us to be. He says he has to obey his parents. Which if he was a child I would understand but he is 23. So we still talk and see each other when possible. And that doesn't happen much. Should I wait for him to grow up or move on?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 April 2010):
Realisticlaly, this guy just isn't ready. He is an adult and should be making his own decisions. I think you need to move on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 He is not the right material for you . If he cannot decide for himself , he has not grown up yet.
There could be problems too with his parents who will control his life and make your life hell.
You are setting up for a big disappointment.Better to nip the problem in the bud.
He may grow up a little or he may not grow up at all.
Find an older and more matured man who will take care of you and your kids.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Move on. It's incredibly difficult to enter a relationship when young children are involved. You need a far more mature man to handle it.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (11 April 2010):
I would look for somwone else -for all you know he says this because he feels that you are to greater commitment. Males at 23 are still very immature in the main!
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