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My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 24 September 2007: My condolences go out to you, I am so sorry. God will look after him, as I am sure he was a good man. Love Dusky xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 24 August 2007: Sorry Hattie, But I don't agree with you wanting to publish this poor girl's misfortune. Don't u think she has enough on your plate without u PATRONISING the poor girl.
I suggest you go elsewhere and try another cheap and tacky way to sell a stor... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi everyone. Right now I feel sad as David has finished with me, as he is still in love with his ex who lives in Finland. He says he is not ready to date anyone at the moment and doesnt want to see me anymore or contact him even if I wanted to be ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 10 August 2007: Hey guys I still feel physically sick as to what Robbie has done to me, I keep getting mental pictures of him and this woman,ie being in each others arms, making love. I can't bear it, plus I don't get to see David very much as his job is on the ... (read in full...)
My gf's complaining and crying constantly is wearing me down! What should I do!?
Q. I do love my girlfriend, but she is swallowing up my life. She constantly complains about everything i do, and cries for many hours on end, and expects me to talk with her until she feels happy again: normally many hours into the night. I have 6 ...
A. 10 August 2007: This girl is emotionally draining you, to a point where you are clutching at straws as to know what to do to please her. Ask yourself this, What has she ever done for to make you happy? Can't remember?. I think you need a complete break from ... (read in full...)
I left him a message 5 days ago and he hasn't got back to me, I feel silly; what should I do now?
Q. ok following advice about this guy i would like to be friends with he works around the corner from me we always smile and say hi blah blah, well i did want to follow the advice and just ask him out for a friendly drink but i just couldnt do it so i ...
A. 9 August 2007: Hi why don't you go and see him where he works, and say something like "There is a great pub that has been recommended to me by a friend and I was wondering if you would like go and check it out with me if you sometime when you are not too busy". If ... (read in full...)
How can I control my sexual urges? I want to wait before my boyfriend and I have sex
Q. I sort of have mixed feelings about sex right now, and I'm confused. I am very attracted to my current boyfriend and I love him very much, and I am really tempted to have sex with him (I'm a virgin, but he isn't pressuring me at all, this is just ...
A. 9 August 2007: Its natural for you to feel this way, it means your hormones are active, and at certain times of your menstural cycle round about 7-14 days you may experience that you feel more sexually aroused hence the uncontrollable urges. When eventually you do ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I do not fancy him anymore and cannot face having sex with him, he does not turn me on at all, in fact it is more of a chore. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 17, I am now 23. At the time I did not think that anyone would like me and was happy that someone did. Recently I have been getting a lot of attention from men and it makes me wonder if I settled down too ...
A. 9 August 2007: Its a classic case of meeting someone at a young age and have outgrown them. I don't think its a good idea carrying on in a relationship if you find sex with your partner repulses you, you are depriving him of sharing something that is a beautiful ... (read in full...)
Is there still a chance for me even if I get to 40 years old?
Q. Hi everybody, i am now 36 years old, i've got my past, i also have my 3 children from the past. im taking care of them alone finacially, everything. i got separated from my last relationship last 3 years ago. i never been married. this time i have ...
A. 9 August 2007: Irish 49 you look bloody marvelous for 51. I will be 40 in December, there is hope for me yet LOL What is your secret?... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that?
Q. I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that? What is so wrong about it? What is everyone's opinion on me? ...
A. 9 August 2007: Most people look down on porn models, because its one step down from prostitution, there is nothing wrong with you its totally your choice. Maybe people especially women feel threatened by you, and think that you are portraying womanhood in a ... (read in full...)
I am 12 and I want to have sex without being caught
Q. iam 12 and want sex i just moved dont know any body. Who can i have sex with and not get caught?...
A. 9 August 2007: When I was 12 sex never came into the equation. You are far too young to have sex, it involves a lot of emotional as well as physical baggage, (if thats the right word). Anyway if you do wanna get physical take up a sport that you enjoy most at your ... (read in full...)
He has no sex drive and he looks at me like he 'hates' me. What is up with this guy?
Q. i was going out with this guy who has been burnt by a couple of women he has no sex drive i dont think he has any interest in sex period but the 2 times he has pleasured me in other ways i get this feeling that he hates me at that point its like ...
A. 9 August 2007: Irish 49...... you mean mysogonist not narcissists.
Mysogony means dislike of women
Narcissists means vain.... do you remember the tale of Narcissis who fell in love with his reflection? I think he is in greek mythology.... (read in full...)
I know my bf isn't cheating, so why do I keep looking for the signs and getting angry at him?
Q. Please help before I lose him!! Ok I need serious help here. I am being extremly paranoid and it's ruining my life. I'm depressed all the time. Long story short..... I am always suspecting my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have no concre...
A. 9 August 2007: When is it gonna get through to you this man LOVES YOU ,please don't take what has happened to you in thepast out on your boyfriend. And as for your boyfriend giving you his passwords to his accounts, that is a sheer invasion of his privacy and ... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 9 August 2007: Yeah I know what you are saying, but what next? Violence?
I am not saying he will hit her, all I am saying is that he has not even a shred of respect for her if all he does is verbally abuse her. Make her see this sort of behaviour is UNAC... (read in full...)
He called her a b#@#h.
Q. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, my mate helped me through it; I cried to her and she listened. She has got a bf of 22, she is 18. He swore at her (the f word) and last night she told me he called her a b***h. What advice, if any, should ...
A. 9 August 2007: Give her advice that no woman should put up with being called vile names. And to Re-think about her future with this pathetic excuse of a man.... (read in full...)
Does he think i'm not interested?
Q. After our second date i-mailed him the next day saying how much i had a good time and i hope w can meet up again soo, he replied the next day and said he hope we can meet up sometime again and when am i available. He then wenton saying how he had a ...
A. 9 August 2007: So what are you gonna do while he is out for god knows how long following his favourite team? Twiddle your thumbs? Sorry to sound so blunt, but what he is trying to tell you is, Don't hold your breath waiting around for me, he certainly not gonna ... (read in full...)
He's violent when he drinks.
Q. please help me ive just split up from my boyfriend im so gutted i love him so much we have spent alot of time together he has alot on his plate i have been with him for a year and a half he has never settled with any of his past girlfriends he gets ...
A. 9 August 2007: We all have a lot on our plates, But we don't get PISSED and beat up people we are suppose to love. Stop making excuses for him, and PLEASE find a guy who loves you, and looks after you, not some NASTY BULLY who thinks its right to communicate with ... (read in full...)
After 5 years, last night he said he loved me, while having sex, for the first time ever! Where did that come from?
Q. Hi! How is everyone today? Okay, I have a question for you all, being I am unable to find an answer no matter where I go or who I ask. So, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now. We were more like best bed buddies up until one year ...
A. 9 August 2007: This young man sounds like a nice guy. I get the feeling maybe he was shown very little affection as a child and was rarely or not been told that he was loved. This probably stems form childhood,where there is very little affection in the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 9 August 2007: Oh darling that is wonderful, I really wish you both all the best. Your beautiful letter moved me to tears,you have coped very well Everyone on Cupid are all proud of you both for being so brave and courageous. Love Dusky xxxxx
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Lack of sex and she is in contact with her ex's.
Q. Ok, this is a bit of detailed problem, but bear with me, I feel if i set the scene a little it will give the scope for better advice (well I hope because I'm really at my wit's end). I've been seeing a girl since last september when we started ...
A. 8 August 2007: Oh darling she really is leading you a merry dance here isn't she. I'm sorry that she aborted your baby,that must have been quite a blow for you. She is bad news I am afraid to say,it seems she cannot commit to anyone,and doesn't care who she hurts ... (read in full...)
He went on holiday with his ex, but says he wants to be with me when he returns!
Q. Long story, Short version! I met a great guy, but he had a gf! After seeing him for 3 months he left her, not for me because he did not want to be with her! A month later he asked me to go away with him on holiday and I could not as I have ...
A. 8 August 2007: Get this waste of space out of your life, he clearly has feelings for his ex. He wants his cake and eat it, when he returns do not attempt to listen to his pathetic excuses.
Tell him that you moved on, and is dating a REAL MAN who is unavilab... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: Thank you guys for all your support, it is most appreciated
I am gonna think twice and let my head rule my heart. Btw David is romantic he bought me a small gift on our first date. Robbie only bought me heartache.... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: No I slept with Robbie long before David came along. I would never do that to David in a million years.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 8 August 2007: Wow your letter totally blew my mind away, plus I am shedding a few tears reading and replying to this.
I think it is a lovely idea to get married,though I think having a baby at such a young age will not be such a good idea. But if you and your... (read in full...)
It's been seven years, and I can't get over him
Q. hi, 7 years ago, i met this guy online and he said some pretty sweet things to me, like he loved me and stuff. we went on a date, and i used him, i asked him for money, i thought it was a one night stand. he stood me up for our second date. a...
A. 8 August 2007: Thanks AuntyEm for your support. When I read this letter I nearly fell off my chair with TOTAL AMAZEMENT lol.... (read in full...)
It's been seven years, and I can't get over him
Q. hi, 7 years ago, i met this guy online and he said some pretty sweet things to me, like he loved me and stuff. we went on a date, and i used him, i asked him for money, i thought it was a one night stand. he stood me up for our second date. a...
A. 8 August 2007: Hang on a minute, let me get this right, you go on a first date with a guy you met online.You used and ask him for money cos you thought it was a one night stand.
Then surprise surprise he stood you up on the second date, what the hell did you expe... (read in full...)
I have a really mean boyfriend!
Q. I have a really mean boyfriend. He keeps blaming me for everything. He's so paranoid and keeps calling me names and it's getting harder and harder to endure. He's really sweet when he's nice but he's really terrible on his bad days. And I ...
A. 7 August 2007: Tell him if he continues taking his frustrations out on you, he is gonna be history. You don't need to take that crap. I lived with a guy for 7 years who was exacatly the same as your guy,he would be nice as pie one minute, the next he would lose ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering, how long should an orgasm last... and other things about female twiddling
Q. Hi im 17 and i feel like a loser for asking this but im not sure how to masterbate? Ive always been a late developer and felt embarssed about sex but now im ok with it and ive been masterbating for a few years but ive never once "cum". What am i ...
A. 7 August 2007: I started masturbating around 11 years old, I must admit I was naive and did'nt understand why I was doing it but it felt good. My parents were not very liberated and told me it was a dirty thing, which I think is wrong to tell an adolescent as it ... (read in full...)
How do I stop over analyzing my online relationship?
Q. Hi! I've been talking with a guy online for about 7 months now...recently he had to move to Japan for work, and I knew I wouldn't hear from him for about 10 days until he got a phone and got settled there... I've become very close to him, dispite ...
A. 7 August 2007: Wow just seen the piccie of your cyber guy HOT OR WHAT "You Go Girl" lol... (read in full...)
I know that boys "cum" sperm but do girls come? What is it? Confused!
Q. Hi i was wondering, do girls cum? I thought only boys came because well its sperm but what is girl cum ? Do they cum during sex? If they do where does it go because the guys penis is up there i dont get it. Or is it only some girls who come? or do ...
A. 7 August 2007: In a nutshell yes girls do cum, they secreet a white fluid similar to the male semen. Not all girls come, some may find it difficult to have an orgasm at all. Hope this info has helped you My Dear.... (read in full...)
He's gone and played the "open relationship" card!
Q. My boyfriend just talked me that it is ok to have sex outside of the relationship as long as you are not sharing any feeling with this other person. In other words, sex and love does not go together and having casual sex is ok. I replied by saying ...
A. 7 August 2007: You don't have to put up with this,he has already made it clear you guys are not gonna be exclusive. If I was you I would make a hasty exit, and leave him to it, cos at the end of the day he is the one that is gonna catch STD not you. Find someone ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake and snooped on him.
Q. I was supsecting my boyfriend was somewhere else...i snooped on him and found evidence that sugessted he wasn't telling the truth. I then asked a male friend to call his ex and ask for him - he wasn't there and the evidence i had was wrong. it wa...
A. 6 August 2007: Ouch!!!!,where did he say he was going? Hopefully he may have an innocent explaination as to where he was, maybe there had been a change in plan for his destination so instead of being at place A he was at place B.
What made you suspicio... (read in full...)
I can't get it right on top.
Q. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now.. however when it comes to sex, he seems to be doing all the work. For some strange reason i just cant do it right on top. how and what do i do? I want him to enjoy it, he says he does but he ...
A. 6 August 2007: Relax if your man says he enjoying it, you must be doing something right. Tell each other what turns you on, he will love you for it, it shows you are taking an interest and you are not laying there thinking of England.
Here is a tip for when nex... (read in full...)
We've traded our lovey-dovey affection for sex!
Q. here it is Ive been seeing this man for two months. The first month we had no sex, and I was trying to wait longer than that. I sort of tooted my horn so to speak about my values and how I really enjoyed the "getting to know you" stage. So anyway...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey enjoy it while it as much as you can, this guy is sooo into you Lucky you!!! At least he is not using you and is courting you still. Women give their right arm for that for a guy like that trust me. Sex is a great way of showing that you care ... (read in full...)
Married for a year, no longer in love with my life. In love with someone else!
Q. I've been married for a bit over a year and find myself no longer in love with my wife. I find myself in love with someone else who I know has feelings for me but because I'm married I haven't persued this individual as much as I would like. I went ...
A. 6 August 2007: Are you sure its love and not lust you feel for this woman?
Your poor wife she is totally oblivious of your infatuation NOT LOVE you feel for this other woman, why did you get married to her in the first place, when you had no intention of makin... (read in full...)
Slept with the ex and all the old feelings have come flooding back!!!
Q. My ex broke up with me and i was devastated because i was deeply inlove with him. After going through alot of pain, i managed to pick myself up but still stuggled to accept and come to terms with it all. Its been about a month now. A couple of days ...
A. 6 August 2007: This SWINE contacted you when he knew full well you were at your most vulnerable stage of getting over him. As soon as you saw him drunk,alarm bells should have rang as loud as Big Ben, I would have walked out and gone home, this was the stage when ... (read in full...)
He can't cum, even after an hour.
Q. me and my b/f have sex for like an hour and I can't get him to cum is there something wrong with me...
A. 6 August 2007: An hour???? Wow lucky you !!!!! LOL. Look there is nothing wrong with you. Some guys have problems with ejaculation, cumming too fast/slow, stress can be a major issue because when it comes to lovemaking, people are not mentally in tune with their ... (read in full...)
How do I stop over analyzing my online relationship?
Q. Hi! I've been talking with a guy online for about 7 months now...recently he had to move to Japan for work, and I knew I wouldn't hear from him for about 10 days until he got a phone and got settled there... I've become very close to him, dispite ...
A. 6 August 2007: Aww I am so pleased for you I really hope everything turns out great for you guys. What does he look like in his pictures is he cute? lol. I wish you and your cyber guy a long and happy future together. Keep me and Aunty Em updated. ... (read in full...)
We're on a cooling down period... should I contact him or wait to hear?
Q. i have been with my partner for 7 weeks, but i feel he has been distant with me although he still sees me, the other day i asked if he wanted to finish, we agreed to a cooling down period, i am worried that he may not contact me, should i contact ...
A. 6 August 2007: Take things more slowly with him, if you come across too needy it will freak him out. After all 7 weeks is not very long for any relationship to develop, Rome was'nt built in a day, give each other space seems perfect sense. Go out and have fun ... (read in full...)
How do I stop over analyzing my online relationship?
Q. Hi! I've been talking with a guy online for about 7 months now...recently he had to move to Japan for work, and I knew I wouldn't hear from him for about 10 days until he got a phone and got settled there... I've become very close to him, dispite ...
A. 6 August 2007: Aunty Em I like your indian folk tale what a wonderful way to look at this situation and you certainly gives sound advice.
I really would like this letter to have a happy ending and that you and this guy finally meets up and fall in love. But what... (read in full...)
Should I have sex before I'm married?
Q. Okay I need help from all the other Christians!! I have a problem and it is really worrying me. I am a Christian and I really want to wait until I am married to have sex, but, I am worried that I will be tempted. And I want to do the right thing by ...
A. 6 August 2007: Salad Barbarian What a load of old BOLLOCKS you are talking. You are putting the fear of god in the poor girl by telling her if she does give into temptation,saying she won't lead a good fulfilling life. I was brought up in a christian house and I ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex boyfriend? Cut off all contact?
Q. Hi there, im finding it very hard to get over my ex-boyfriend. We split up about a month ago. I was very much inlove with him so i was devastated when he broke up with me. he didnt really give me any valid reasons so it was very hard to accept it. ...
A. 6 August 2007: What a cruel thing to do to a person!! He breaks up with you without giving any reason, then comes back with his tail between his legs, sleeps with you gives you false hopes about any reconciliation and to top it all ignores your texts. This ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling insecure because of his porn habbits and his online buddy. Help!
Q. Ok well I'm very insecure about myself and I'm 17. The other day I found that my boyfriends been watching porn and that really makes me feel bad about myself. I never even look at other boys in 'that way'. When I told him I knew he just denied i...
A. 5 August 2007: Size 10 and 5ft 10 sounds fine. Never question your appearance, if your boyfriend really loves you he will accept you for who you are. It sounds a bit iffy if he has loads of pictures of this other girl, and talks to her online, if you are not happy ... (read in full...)
Without asking, how do i know?
Q. how do know if she wants to have sex without having to ask her?...
A. 5 August 2007: It depends on how long you guys have been dating, if its just a short while I would wait. Its a bit hard to access because you don't tell us how long you have been seeing her.I'm sure she will let you know whether she is ready or not.... (read in full...)
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