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I know that boys "cum" sperm but do girls come? What is it? Confused!

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Question - (7 August 2007) 57 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi i was wondering, do girls cum? I thought only boys came because well its sperm but what is girl cum ? Do they cum during sex? If they do where does it go because the guys penis is up there i dont get it. Or is it only some girls who come? or do they just come rarely? I mean do girls come like guys come in sex and do they do it at the same time during sex?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010):

of course girls come!!!!!!!!!!! I thought everyone knew that but apparently not

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

Yes,I just got finish coming and we do it at the same time! And we both cum!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010):

Yes, we do. I'm sure not all women can, but I definitely do. I cum maybe three times before I have an orgasm. I cum by rubbing my clit hard and fingering at the same time. Usually works.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010):

well my curious friend...girls do get 'wet' as some would say so i would say yes.i mean have u ever got so excited???my question is how much? do we come as much as guys?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010):

haha clueless men.

yes MOST girls do cum

no it does not matter how intence you are in bed

no size does not matter

yes it maynot always happen

girls who do cum can produce both white and clear cum that does depend on size.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010):

Due to the most recent answer and me not understanding a word of it, and that I have read about most on this page I'll throw my answer in here. And since people like to tell stories I'll do mine too :)

Yes, girls do cum. Some cum white, while others cum clear, and some possibly do not cum frequently or at all. I came to this forum for I was giving my girl oral pleasure(her on top) when all of the sudden this thick white stringy fluid dropped into my mouth. At first I was all confused and wondering what the hell is this? I figured it was cum and proceeded. I finally came here and found out that is what it was.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (14 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntOne thing I am saying is sure, a fact.

It is that female's cum or ejaculation is not the same as male.

Male face fatigue, switch off, his pleasure have height with ejaculation and fall with completion of ejaculation.Male's body and all connected part loss the ability to sense the magic of sexual touch for certain spell of time.

Ir is not the same with female. Female can manage longer to longest love play, and hit game point of pleasure many many time...Female's body has such wonderful gift from nature.

I suggest all female to check, through introspection and extrospection.

Female do have same sex organ [clitoris] as male, only differ in size, local and mode of function, but not in its pleasure giving function. Female's sex organ [clitoris'] generate same pleasing function as male, but it cannot switch off through ejaculation is fundamental difference between male and female sexuality.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010):

Yes girls do cum i have experience and i see their real semen on her vagina which was spurt out,while i had sex with my girlfriend.Dont think so every girls will cum out like that.But in my openion every girls will cum out if we stimulate their clitors to an extreme.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

All girls come,but its only visible when a girl is being fingered because they "squirt" the sticky natural lubercant that makes a girl "wet" in her panties.Even if a guy has his penis in her vagina,it can be seen to,because his penis will be dripping with the lubercant if not his own.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

I believe girls do come. With me and my wife, I think I feel some sort of fluid, not discharge. Theres just a point where the fluid comes at the same time, just like guys. After that, shes done.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

i have a question. at what age do girls usually start to "come"? & what is it, does it look like sperm or something?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009):

Yes girls come too. Just as much as boys. It's vaginal fluid, not sperm obviously. It happens when sexually aroused. Girls come also when they masturbate. They can also wake up all wet with a clitoral erection. It doesn't happen to every single girl on the planet but most of the time yes.

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A male reader, brian646 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

brian646 agony aunti am 38......i had heard that the G spot on a woman is what produces a gal to shoot stuff out....i am a first believer....i am really big....soooo.......not gonna get graphic on this.....but.........yes.......a gal can shoot fluid.........

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009):

usually when im masturbating i start off just feeling wet but as i keep rubbing my clit i produce more and more fluid until it just starts spilling out of me. mine usually is a clear thick fluid and it gives me a feeling of euphoria.

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A male reader, cogs11 United Arab Emirates +, writes (27 March 2009):

let me put this for you clearly.When girls cum,they secrete a kind of liquid and this is necessary for "lubrication" during copulation and the girl gets an uncontrollable orgasm.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

They cum, but it's not at the same time and they can cum a lot more and longer than guys. From what I understand the girls "cum" (idk what it's called) goes into the penis. That or it just like flies out the vagina.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

You are right, males cum sperm. Females cum, but they cum for lubrication purposes (because the egg stays inside the female's body). When a female cums during sex, it is usually to make the intercourse more comfortable for both the male and the female. The larger the penis, the faster the thrusts, and if the female has little sexual experience, the more lubrication is needed. Lubrication allows for the penis to easily slide into the vagina. Some couples decide to use "lube" to make it more moist because some females become easily "dried out", and "lube" can also increase sexual excitement for both partners. If there is little or no lubrication, it makes it hard for the penis to penetrate the vagina.

Hope this helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

Yes, girls can cum much the same as men and no, it's rare and not only certian girls can. It all involves stimulation of the g-spot. The easiest way to achieve felmale ejaculation is to rapidly stimulate the g-spot with your finger in a circular patern or side-to-side.

To find your g-spot, insert your finger as deeply as you can and make a "come here" motion by curling your finger. First timers may need to press down slightly with they're free hand just above the "mound" created by your pelvic bone, about an inch above the clitoris. You'll know when you find it -.O then just keep stimulating it and you'll cum. If you can't seem to find it, have your partner finger you in the same manner and they will.

Enjoy. It's quite amazing to see.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009):

Yes girls do cum, as a girl myself i had never experianced this until i got wiv my recent bf it didnt happen straight away but after a few month it did. its usually wen im on top or realy horny. i think its alot to do wiv being comfortable coz i can play wiv myself infront of him he loves it and definatley to do wiv size as he is really big, the biggest out of all my bfs.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

yes girls do come i know for a fact as i do when im having sex with my boy friend at times it is a wonderfull feeling but just coz you dont cum it dont mean the guy aint doing his job right is just that some dont cum its not really commmen unless you know what to do but only last night i came it was very thick and sticky my boy friend loves it see if dont come at first try playing with your self a bit rubbing your self do it for a long time slow for about 10 mins and you should come nif not then try again for longer or just ask your boyfriend to rub you or lick u out slow for long or if want to do it alone put a porn movie and that turns you on more

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

Yes dear girls do cum. It my feel weird at first but you just have to embrace it to be able to understand it. When your alone one night you should try making yourself cum that way you know what your doing when your with the male species.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008):

yes girls do.... i have and it feels good

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008):

Of course girls cum.

They cum a clear fluid from the urethre.

It feels amazing, while orgasm.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

I've known a lot of girls, some cum freely and others just have fun. I dont think you really need to look out for physical stuff, just enjoy whats happening!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008):

Yes, some women can "cum" or ejaculate. Ejaculation in both women and men involves the release of fluid from the urethra — the tube that carries urine out of the body — during intense sexual arousal. About 10 percent of women spurt a clear fluid from the urethra during intense sexual excitement or during orgasm — the pleasurable release of built-up muscle tension that results from arousal and sexual activity. This fluid is very similar to the fluid produced by the prostate gland in men — it isn't urine.

The "prostatic" fluid in women is secreted by the Skene's glands, which are located in the vulva near the opening of the urethra. These glands, though much smaller than the male prostate, are similar enough in function that some scientists have renamed them "female prostate" glands. Other glands may also be involved in female ejaculation.

Hope this information helps!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008):

do girls feel the same thing when they cum as when a guy cums?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008):

well i'm a GIRL so maybe i'd be the better person to answer the question lol. Personally, i have cum when i orgasm. It's a kind of thick, white type of stuff lol. That's sounds really gross - but NOT every girl cums like that. Some can squirt and some can just kinda get 'wet', or even more wet then they were before they orgasmed. Soo there you are hun - yes. girls DO come ... but only certain girls and only certain ways. none are bad ... all are a good sign that the guy is doin his job ;-)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008):

yes girls do cum will i made my girl cum at first she tought it was me but iknow it was not becacse will i don't cum so fast. so yes girls do cum if you was a girl and you cum you will like in

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008):

yes girls do cum will i made my girl cum at first she tought it was me but iknow it was not becacse will i don't cum so fast. so yes girls do cum if you was a girl and you cum you will like in

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

the people that posted above are f****** stupid. of course a girl orgasms but the girl asking the question wants to know if a girl CUMS in such a way that i guy does. and for that question im not sure to be honest. you would have to talk to a doctor or some one who knows human anatomy

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A female reader, misfit08 United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2008):

naturally during sex a girl "gets wet" but some girls come alot of the time, some only rarely it depends how good the sex is.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008):

ya all girls come some day u will 2 just be ready have some fun for your self and see if u come i have seen girls come but i dont know how can any one tell me a answer for that

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A male reader, chana Sri Lanka +, writes (29 June 2008):

ya all girls come some day u will 2 just be ready have some fun for your self and see if u come i have seen girls come but i dont know how can any one tell me a answer for that

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008):

Ya Sis Girls Come when doing sex 2 i have seen it i dont no wat that is but girls cum all girls u will 2 some day some time

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

im really scared that im peeong wen i cum .. is it possible to pee while ur using a vibrator???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Hello.. Just found this site... Thought it was intrestng..

Do girls really cum??

Im confused??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

i cum sometimes...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008):

my girl cums all the time. everytime (almost!) so yes its possible!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

I just found this site. It looks like it explains everything about female ejaculation and a ton of other stuff. Happy reading.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

yes. girls cum all the time they have an orgasm. its actually called squirting. it comes from the same hole from where pee comes but it's not pee . the squirt is a little more thick, and scented with the smell of pusssy. its really wonderfull to get into a squirting orgasm.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

I never use to be able to cum, but now i do and very much so, but i wondered if the cum was pee as yuk as that sounds, but reading this i know it comes from the same hole but different....... so i will keep cumming over and over!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

okay so, the fluid that comes from a girl's vagina is not cum its just lubrication, she comes when it comes from her pee hole?? and does she come when she orgasms? why are women so difficult to understand? haha and i am one myself:P

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

well girls are capable of cumming. its just that not many do. ofcourse it turns me on wen a girl does. makes sex great. i was surprised wen it came out of the pee-hole at first, but boy did that turn me on. if you play with a girl's clitorus roughly, then its higher possibility to make her cum.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Well yes girls cum but not all girls And some can cum back to back.Wen u mack a girl cum U Pull out And She cums Some people think its pee but its not I hav made a couple times And but u hav to do them fast And hit the spot. Hope i anwsered ur qustion Bye

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

girls do cum. but how do you know if it's pee or cum? idk but it feels so good

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

Hey, I was just wondering...is it like cum or something else coming out of my vagina?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

girls can come, though it doesnt happen very often. its usually just an orgasm and wetness. but if its a proper big orgasm you can come. proper nice. xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008):

i personally know that i once came all over my guys penis, and once on his face lmao! it works especially quicxkly if youy have 2 guys or girls and get them to lick you're clitorus untill you cum all over all their faces

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

thanks for clearin that question up. its one i asked myself many of times. hlskitten answer was spot on. its also interestin i think how little guys actually know about this stuff. lets face it the more we know, the more we can do for girls to orgasm. Am I right?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007):

The "white sticky fluid" is not cum it is her becoming wet. When you see or feel a warm liquid that would be the girl cumming. You may think shes peeing but she isnt. If you know how to do things right you can make her cum, and believe me it'll make her feel amazing.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007):

I have seen white sticky fluide in female vaginas and they are very similar to male semen. But I wonder if the fluid which comes out of the pee-hole is urination or some other fluid! Any answers :) Thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

Hi, it all depends what you mean by "Cum". The word can simply mean "to have an orgasm".

When boys cum (orgasm), they usually ejaculate (squirt from the hole at the top of their penis) a milky fluid which is semen. Semen is a mix of sperm and prostate fluids.

When girls are turned on, their vagina produces natural lubricating fluids. These can be clear or milky, slimy or sticky, runny or gloopy. It all depends on the girls monthly cycle or how turned on they are. Lots of people refer this fluid as "girl cum".

When girls have an orgasm, there are two type "cumming" that you are talking about. The contractions of the muscles around the vagina can squeeze the fluids that are already in the vagina out in a bit of a gush.

The other sort is what is known as "Female Ejaculation" which is fluid which is expelled from the urethra (pee hole). Both of these are very different from each other but can happen at the same time. Take a look at other posts to learn more about Female Ejaculation.

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A female reader, puzzled Ireland +, writes (10 August 2007):

puzzled agony aunthey

its true girls do cum and can happen during sex, this usually happens when a girl is arosed.It doesnt go any where it just comes out of the vagina, its a creamy fluid quite like male seman.

short and simple anwer for you.

hope i helped

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007):

Vaginal juices- refered to as cum. Be warey though when these juices and semen are mixed, this can results in the spread of STIs so take care!

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A female reader, welshlass United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2007):

it is true that some girls can ejaculate although not many can, the clear fluid that your vagina produces when you are aroused (almost all girls get this) is what most people refer to as a girls cum

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

In porn films women ejaculate across the room! In reality, not many do. Some women ejaculate, but im not too sure how common it is. I remember talking to a counsellor friend once and we were saying how many guys are left feeling inadequate because of porn films!

Lots of acting, and not a lot of reality.

Most women should be able to 'orgasm' which is more of a feeling than ejaculation.

Lots of factors can effect them not being able to orgasm. Thats a seperate issue though.

C xxxxx

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2007):

duskyrowe agony auntIn a nutshell yes girls do cum, they secreet a white fluid similar to the male semen. Not all girls come, some may find it difficult to have an orgasm at all. Hope this info has helped you My Dear.

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