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Do you think that one day he will ask me to be his girl??
Q. I've been seein this guy for a long time since November. He's been stayin with me almost since the first night of November. We now live together. He doesnt consider me his girlfriend even though we live together and have sex like boyfriend and ...
A. 24 March 2008: Having two children has nothing to do with him not wanting you as his girlfriend at all, so stop using that as an excuse. You say you met him in November and then moved straight in with him, that was stupid wasn't it?
I think you should have you... (read in full...)
He's 18 years older than me, does he want a wife or a nurse?
Q. I've met this man 18 years my senior while I was divorcing my husband of 22 years. He is supportive and attentive. He makes me feel loved and wanted. I was a bit worry about the age gap. He said it would be nice I could look after him when he ...
A. 22 March 2008: Do you really want to be his nursemaid or a partner?
What a stupid and presumptious thing to say, if you think he may want you as his nurse then I will run very quickly in the opposite direction.
Find yourself a guy nearer your age or he may wa... (read in full...)
My boyfriend would tell people he was my uncle, why is he behaving like this?
Q. Hey Everyone :) iv posted a couple of time about this Guy i really like, i think so much of him. for sum who dont know iv bn seein him for 6 months, yet not in arelationship bcoz he's told me he aint ready for 1 or hasnt got the time bcause of w...
A. 22 March 2008: Dump him !!!!!!... (read in full...)
What use are dads? They just stop you doing stuff.
Q. Dad says I should concentrate on my studies instead of boys. He's always setting rules. Why can't I be like my friends and do as I please, they don't have dads. What use are dads? They just stop you doing stuff....
A. 22 March 2008: If you was my daughter I would have tanned your backside years ago. Your father brought you into this world, to love and care for you not for you wanting to galavant with boys at your age. So show him RESPECT!!!!!
Do you want to end up a teenage ... (read in full...)
He sits with his ex and discusses their past while I'm sitting there! I feel very uncomfortable about it...
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years but the problem is his ex, he spends more time talking to her than what he does to me. She came over one nite and the three of us sat there in my lounge, then they started talking about what it was ...
A. 22 March 2008: Dump this loser!!!! How incredibly insensitive to entertain his ex in your house. I would have kicked this jerk into touch years ago. Next time he leave dirty linen around the house throw it at his ugly face and tell him to do it himself.
You a... (read in full...)
He didn't contact me after the first date, am I expected to take the initiative and... have I given wrong signals until now?
Q. Hi, My friend introduced one guy to me, two days later he dated me out for dinner and movie. On the whole, I considered it was a pleasant date, he's nice and gentleman, despite that at times, we remained silence and I just looked at other directio...
A. 22 March 2008: He may have felt extremely uncomfortable sitting in silence and felt he had to make all the effort, that is probably why he did not contact you. Next time before you go on a date with any guy, buy yourself a dating book so that you can date ... (read in full...)
Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!
Q. hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...
A. 22 March 2008: Big Sis and Miss C are right, he could be a paedophile pretending to be a teenager. Your friends are more streetwise than you and is only protecting you from this person. Don't you think you are too young to think about boys, have fun with your ... (read in full...)
We ended up in bed together, now I haven't heard from him - Should I try to get in touch or is he playing me?
Q. i met an old friend who said he always liked me and i felt really connected to him but played it cool after a few drinks we ended up in bed he walked me to the bus next morning and got my number but he still has'nt rang me that was three days ago is ...
A. 22 March 2008: How can you say you played it cool? You ended up in bed with him, cmon you are a woman in your thirties, surely you must have known the score sleeping with him on the first night. You made yourself to easy by sleeping with him on the first night, if ... (read in full...)
Why is my friend so mean to me?
Q. one of my best freinds keeps on insulting me, she will say somthing about the way i look, once she said "i am fit you're not" and "that boy you like will say you are ugly"at the time i just laughed it off but now thinking about it i feel hurt that ...
A. 21 March 2008: Kick this nasty jealous little bitch to the kerb and find new friends who appreciate you more.... (read in full...)
I felt really confident about myself until finding out that my BF's ex is a supermodel!!
Q. Been going out with this gorgeous guy for the last couples of months and really like him. We spend hours in bed just cuddling, it's lovely. I recently found out that his ex girlfriend was a supermodel. I'm not exaggerating either - she actually ...
A. 21 March 2008: Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, you don't have to be this statuesque blonde with long legs and pert breasts. I am a 40 year old 5 ft 4 curvy 10 stone brunette with stretch marks after having 2 kids and I still get admiring looks from guys, ... (read in full...)
I want him to choose me but I feel like an idiot for waiting on a married man, but I'm not ready to let go, what do I do?
Q. I fell in love with a married man, who loves me back. He travels so while i have been able to see him, I will no longer be able to meet him in these different cities, so I won't be seeing him for a while. And while everything is good between us, he ...
A. 21 March 2008: I am so pleased that you took our advice and finishing with this jerk. The best of luck with the future. Dusky xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is convinced I can't have been in love with him before dating him if I slept with another man in that period.
Q. Before I was with my boyfriend, we were both in love with each other, but each of us did not know about the other one. I had sex with another man, and even though we were not together I feel so guilty, like I cheated on him. Also my boyfriend is ...
A. 20 March 2008: Your bf is a jealous insecure DICKHEAD!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I want him to choose me but I feel like an idiot for waiting on a married man, but I'm not ready to let go, what do I do?
Q. I fell in love with a married man, who loves me back. He travels so while i have been able to see him, I will no longer be able to meet him in these different cities, so I won't be seeing him for a while. And while everything is good between us, he ...
A. 20 March 2008: Uncle Phil has hit the nail on the head with his advice.... (read in full...)
He won't marry me or have sex ...I don't know what to do.
Q. I am 29 and been with my boyfriend which is 37 for eight years. He says he wants to get married but he keeps giving me all kinds of excuses. Also we haven't had sexual relationship in four years. He knows it hurts my feelings. He tells me its ...
A. 20 March 2008: I think you should leave this guy as he does not offer you any stability whatsoever. So what if he hates you for it, don't let this jerk manipulate you my dear.
What would you rather have a guy who gives you love 100% or a guy who makes you feel... (read in full...)
I want him to choose me but I feel like an idiot for waiting on a married man, but I'm not ready to let go, what do I do?
Q. I fell in love with a married man, who loves me back. He travels so while i have been able to see him, I will no longer be able to meet him in these different cities, so I won't be seeing him for a while. And while everything is good between us, he ...
A. 20 March 2008: Right lets cut to the chase!!!!
This guy is strictly off limits and men like him rarely leaves their wives. We get so many posts about people who have affair with married men or women saying that their lover tells them that they love them etc.
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No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now,...
A. 19 March 2008: You are far too young to take on the responsibility of your boyfriend who smokes weed. If you don't want people giving you lectures and you won't leave him, why the hell are you posting this letter????.
Cannibis can make a person act out of chara... (read in full...)
Vampirism!
Q. My fiance and I are into a little bit of the old vampirism. Biting and that's about it. Last night however, we did something for the first time and I'm unsure of how to feel about it. He offered me his arm and told me to bite and draw blood. T...
A. 19 March 2008: What you are doing is highly dangerous.
You can catch HIV or Hepititus from drinking other people's blood, stop this bizarre practise at once.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend borrowed $2,000 from me last year but when I ask for it back he gets mad! What do I do?
Q. Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I been together for 5 years. I make 3X money of what he does, and that is now, cause before he used to make none 'cause he was in school. Therefore I would pay for a lot of things, like restarant, plane ticket, ca...
A. 17 March 2008: OMG Do you have SUCKER written accross your forehead ??????... (read in full...)
If things seem to be going great, why is he not ready to sleep with me?
Q. So, a couple years ago I met this man (man 2) - through my then boyfriend - who I became really good friends with. When my relationship ended, it came out that we (me and man 2) both had feelings for each other. We took it SUPER slow in the begi...
A. 17 March 2008: Hang on to this guy for dear life lol!!!!!
What a refreshing change to hear a man say that he is not ready for a sexual relationship, as appose to guys who want to get inside your knickers at the drop of a hat.
Honey this guy totally respects you... (read in full...)
Should I stop all communication with her?
Q. I'm a happily married man who loves his wife of 3 years a lot. Just last month, she bore me a beautiful son too. I started at a new job in January 2007. Later that year, this lady colleague, A, joined. She was quite attractive looking and I wa...
A. 17 March 2008: For gor God sake man what you feel for this other woman is LUST not LOVE. I would personally keep well away from this woman as well. You say your wife is your first and only woman you ever had as a girlfriend, I think because of your inexperience ... (read in full...)
Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid.
Q. hi can you help me Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid!!!! I don't know if it's just me as I have had my little boy I don't feel as braw as ...
A. 17 March 2008: I agree with Doctor Vendetta, I have a boyfriend and I look at other guys, but not in front of him of course and I am sure he does the same. Its human nature to look at people of the opposite sex as long it is not blatently in front of them.
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He has a thing about trying to see my panties all the time!
Q. Whenever I'm alone at home with my boyfriend (whether his home or mine), he constantly tries to see my panties from under my skirt or by tugging down the side of my pants. When he just started doing it, it was fine, but he does it literally almost ...
A. 15 March 2008: I have a brilliant idea to stop your boyfriend from trying to look at your knickers. Next time you have company over at your house, swiftly pull down his trousers and pants at the same time so all your guests can see where he keeps his tiny brain. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend is female and we don't get along.. help!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, and we've lived together for 2. We met in college, and his best friend whom he spent almost every day in college with is a female. I was actually sort of friends with her at first, but as soon as him ...
A. 14 March 2008: Sorry to say this, but I get the feeling there is more to this friendship than meets the eye. You say he takes her to parties and movies etc, but does not take you out. Are you 100% sure there is nothing going on between them? She is jealous of you ... (read in full...)
He's in two major relationships, could he still like me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am really interested in this guy but he now wants nothing to do with me. It all started when we were getting to know one another. Everything was going fine...we did get intimate with one another but we didn't have sex. Anyways it...
A. 12 March 2008: He sounds like a right prat. ITS HIM THAT SHOULD GROW UP!!!!... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me ?
Q. 23 years old and i recently have had sex with my new girlfriend. My question is I've had an orgasm but there was little semen in the condom, could this be because I masterbate three times a day? and when i say little semen i mean very little like a ...
A. 8 March 2008: The more you jerk off the less you shoot. Sorry to be crude, but its true. Dusky xxx.... (read in full...)
My husband has a very controlling nature and the past year has got worse...
Q. I have been married over ten years and my relationship is in tatters, my husband has a very controlling nature and the past year has got worse, the physical abuse has stopped but the emotional abuse is just as draining, will he ever change and is it ...
A. 8 March 2008: Leave him End of ............................ (read in full...)
He lied, cheated, stole, and is an alcholic. Why do I want him back?
Q. I was in a realtionship with an alcholic for nine months. we lived together right from the start. I knew what he was like, but yet i thought like everyone else i could change him. He cheated, lied, stole money from me, and treated me like crap. He ...
A. 8 March 2008: Why do you want to put yourself through all the heartache and crap? In my opinion it is time to move on and call complete closure on this "Snake in the grass loser".
Go out and meet people, have fun and take your mind off this guy period. So what ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me a long time ago... Now, I'm considering doing the same. Is that wrong?
Q. I am engaged but i just found out that my fiance cheated on me a long time ago. So i'm really feeling down. I ran into this guy i used to be in love with but we broke it off because of the distance. This old flame wants to meet up and go out but i ...
A. 6 March 2008: There is a saying. "Two wrongs don't make a right".... (read in full...)
He calls me names, gets really jealous, and slapped my leg really hard...is this an abusive relationship?
Q. Me and my bf of 2 years were broken up for around 9 months. He broke up with me. DUring that time, things were very dramatic between us. He would get very jealous at any new guy I meet. A couple times we got into heated arguments and he would te...
A. 6 March 2008: I would leave this NASTY, INSENSITIVE BULLY and get a court injunction against him as he is mentally and physically intimidating you in the worst possible form period.
Why did you go back to him if he treats you this way, did he bully you into goi... (read in full...)
Now that I'm pregant he does not want to have sex. How long a man can go without sex?
Q. My husband of 7 months is just completely off sex unless he is making a baby. Now that I'm pregnant, there is no attention or sexual contact of any kind. When I was pregnant before, he was much more attentive so I know it isn't around me being ...
A. 5 March 2008: This man sounds like he has an aversion to sex with pleasure. Does he say why he abstains from sex and was he like this when you first met? You say you guys have only been married for 7 months, if you knew he was like this before. Why did you get ... (read in full...)
He gropes me in public and then laughs
Q. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of two months keeps squeezing my breasts and laughing hysterically. I don't know why he does this I find it rather embarrassing and degrading. He does it infront of his friends and while we're outside. I have ...
A. 5 March 2008: Next time he does that, squeeze him very tightly by the testicles until his eyes water LMAO.... (read in full...)
I love her, but she thinks I'd damage her image!
Q. Hi guys,i'm in a big big problem... I love a girl and she's my friend... but when i told her about my feelings she said keh though i really really like you but not this, but as a friend...but i'm not even one of her normal friends...i'm not allowed ...
A. 3 March 2008: Who the hell does she think she is? She is treating you like an accessory not a human being, its like she trying to co-ordinate you with her like a handbag with a pair of shoes.
Please do not waste any of your precious time with this shallow,... (read in full...)
Really missing a guy I dated but should I be??
Q. Hi there guys, I wanted to ask you for your advice in regards to a relationship matter. About a year and a half ago I placed an advert in my local home town in a shop window advertising a room for rent in my house and a day or two after I rece...
A. 2 March 2008: He tried to compare you to Eastenders???? Your post makes a great storyline for Eastenders LOL. BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOM!!! (Me doing a drumroll like Eastenders).... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend?
Q. I'd like some advice please. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, moved in together in September. Everything has been alright but these past few months, he has treated me like shit and to be honest, I don't deserve it but I'm too s...
A. 2 March 2008: Yes leave him if he makes you unhappy.... (read in full...)
How can I snoop on my boyfriend's cell phone to see if he's been looking at porn?
Q. How can I snoop on my boyfriend's cell phone to see if he's been looking at porn? How do you find out? Do you look at the Internet options on the phone? Please give me some help, I'm so nosy, but I don't want him to know I looked at his phone-ugh. ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hey if you have such issues with privacy and trust. Let him look at your phone so he can see what you get up to also. No????????????? Well stop being such a nosy parker then !!!!!... (read in full...)
Does anyone know any good sex songs?
Q. does anyone know any good sex songs (non romantic) that would be fun to play at a party?...
A. 2 March 2008: Sexual Healing - Marvin Gaye
I want your sex- George Michael
Sexyback - Justin Timberlake
Ass like that - Eminem... (read in full...)
I don't know what she's doing on her nights out...
Q. I need to bounce this senario of you. What do you think is happening or what I should say or do about it? My girlfriend of 5 months goes out with work friends once or twice a month, problem is I don't know who they are, or where she goes. To make ...
A. 2 March 2008: Go out with your friends and enjoy yourself, stop worrying about what she gets up to. She is entitled to go out and have fun once in a while.
How about you all arrange to go out in a group one night?, that way it will put your mind at rest of ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant via anal sex?
Q. is it possible for someone to get pregnant via anal sex me and my boyfriend have been having butt sex lately trying to be safe and all and he doesnt use a condom. however he does ejaculate inside of me and it usually comes out later on in the ...
A. 2 March 2008: Please do not have anal sex and here are the reasons.
1) You are under age to have sex.
2) You can catch HIV if you do not use a condom.
3) Yes you can get pregnant if the sperm escapes and goes near your vagina.
So please be very caref... (read in full...)
Lesbian sisters?
Q. hi. i am 18 and i am a lesbian. my younger sister is 13 and we are close. i have started to get horny around her and want to know if this is wrong. should i not spend as much time with her?...
A. 26 February 2008: Its amazing when you get SICKOS saying its ok to shag their siblings keep anonymous. Whats the matter are you secretly ashamed??????... (read in full...)
I feel immense sympathy for him thinking he will be alone forever if he doesn't have me, so I can't walk away!
Q. for 3 yrs i have lived with a man who constantly lies to me about his internet activities, i know he uses it as a way to meet to meet people because i have found this out on numerous occasions. he avoids our sex life as a way to punish me and openly ...
A. 26 February 2008: WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH THIS LOSER????? If you believe that he sleeps on the sofa instead of sharing a bed with this woman' then I think you must be incredibly gullible.
Dump him and find a man who is willing to be exclusive to you and not dema... (read in full...)
Any weight loss tips?
Q. I am a teenager and would like too lose weight. Im a size 10 and would like to be atleast a size 8. Maybe I wont be because of my frame but I dont want excess fat. Love handles, Belly fat and leg fat. Im starting a diet tomorrow which ive done once ...
A. 26 February 2008: All I can suggest Hun is eat sensibly and exercise regularly. But if you want to tone up do exercise on the running machine or exercise bike as this is likely to burn off more fat. Make sure you get sound advice from the people who work at the gym ... (read in full...)
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