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Without asking, how do i know?
Q. how do know if she wants to have sex without having to ask her?...
A. 5 August 2007: It depends on how long you guys have been dating, if its just a short while I would wait. Its a bit hard to access because you don't tell us how long you have been seeing her.I'm sure she will let you know whether she is ready or not.... (read in full...)
Should I move on or keep trying?
Q. It will be 6 months since my boyfriend and I seperated after 5 years together. The last 2 years had been complicated as we moved to different ends of the country for work and personal reasons but always with the intention that this arrangement was ...
A. 5 August 2007: Blimey he did'nt waste much time finding a replacement did he? How can you love someone online through conversations? its not possible unless you have actually dated the person a long while. I am so sorry he has let you down, you will be wasting ... (read in full...)
Is he too clingy or is it that I just have commitment issues?
Q. My boyfriend is starting to really annoy me. He phones and texts me ALL the time, and tells me he loves me and that i'm perfect and the hottest girl he has ever seen and stuff like that. It was really nice at first, but now i'm being put off a li...
A. 5 August 2007: Gosh your guy is really into you, Lucky you. No but seriously you should point out to him gently, can he call/text you every couple of days or so, reassure him that you really like him and that you can't always get back to him immediately as you are ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that my 2 year old niece has been abused and therefore masturbates when she goes to bed.
Q. My niece is 2 years old girl and whenever she goes to bed she puts her hand under her and humps the bed... kind of like mastubation. people always wonder why she does this and im not sure if she is being treated right. she is locked in the room ...
A. 5 August 2007: To all the people that have critisised me on this page, PLEASE DON'T. We all don't know the fully story of this two year old girl, only by what we have read. As advice 247 points out it is rare for a 2 year old to masturbate, I am a nursery teacher ... (read in full...)
He put money in my card, when i had already told him what i wanted.
Q. should i be upset when my fiance ,who was told 3 months ago what i would like, doesn't get me a birthday gift and pops the money inside my card to buy something myself? i'm feeling justified in being incredibly disappointed and upset am i wrong?...
A. 5 August 2007: Aww give the poor guy a rest at least he remembered your birthday, some guys nowadays don't even do that. But next tell him " Honey you know that lovely bracelet (or whatever) I saw in the in the store I would prefer you to get it for me so I can ... (read in full...)
Got asked out (in Tesco), got embarrased and told him I had a boyfriend, which I don't... now I regret it!
Q. I was shopping in Tesco last week and was asked out by a lad.He was so polite and friendly but Im such a very shy person that I got embarrassed instantly and told him I had a boyfriend(even though I dont).Now I regret it so much and wish I had taken ...
A. 5 August 2007: Supermarkets are a pretty good places to check out single guys, but don't beat yourself up about turning him down, I mean he did put you on the spot. If hypothetically you do bump into him again, smile and say hello, if you get a positive response ... (read in full...)
My husband-to-be has just told me that he may have another child with another woman on the way!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we are suppose to get married next year. His ex-wife called me and told me that he has another child with someone else. I asked him about it and he said he's not sure if its his and that he's ...
A. 5 August 2007: He should have been honest form the start about this child,regardless of whether its his or not. Nine months seems a very short time to deciding to get married, especially to a guy who hides things from you. Look at the bigger picture here my dear, ... (read in full...)
Will there be a chance that I have a healthy, happy baby?
Q. Today I just found out that I am pregnant. I am not sure how far along I am, since my period is extremely irregular. Doubts run through my mind when I think about keeping this baby because 1) I am a smoker, 2) I am taking Isoniazid (INH) for my TB ...
A. 5 August 2007: I would check with your doctor about the medication you are taking, whether or not your baby is in danger. Please stop smoking for your baby's sake, statistics shows you that expectant mothers who smoke have a greater chance of giving birth to ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that my 2 year old niece has been abused and therefore masturbates when she goes to bed.
Q. My niece is 2 years old girl and whenever she goes to bed she puts her hand under her and humps the bed... kind of like mastubation. people always wonder why she does this and im not sure if she is being treated right. she is locked in the room ...
A. 5 August 2007: You are absolutely right to be concerned, it sounds as though she maybe being abused. I have never come across a 2 year old masturbating in my entire life, there is no way she would know about this kinda stuff unless she has been shown. As for being ... (read in full...)
I find myself resenting him for being so perfect?
Q. Am I just not cut out to be with a "good guy". I'm in a relationship all the girls in the magazines say they want. He's clean cut, financially stable, knows all the right people, takes me to all the right places etc. But, I'm bored. I even find ...
A. 5 August 2007: This man is a Control Freak to the point of being ANAL. It is very unrealistic to mould someone into something they're not. I guess there is something exciting about "Bad Boys" they have this sense of danger,Im not saying you should date someone ... (read in full...)
I need some tips on going on top during sex. I'm really rubbish at it, just feel silly jumping up and down!!!
Q. Girlies I REALLY need your help. I know this is a bit personal but I need some tips on going on top during sex. I'm really rubbish at it, just feel silly jumping up and down!!! Every time I start on top my man rolls over and swaps places so I'm ...
A. 5 August 2007: I love going on top of a guy, you kinda get that sense of power, that way a woman can control the penetration. Next time your fella switches positions, say "hey honey show me how its done talk me thru it". See what I am saying here?, I am sure he ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always shaves down there when she goes on a night out with friends. Should I be worried?
Q. Ok this is quite a personal thing really but I need some advice/opinions. My better half and the mother of my child goes out on the town fairly regularly once a week to every other week. She always shaves herself down there before going on the town ...
A. 5 August 2007: I shave mine into, what we girls call it into a brazillian
style for hygiene purposes. I don't think there is anything to worry about, I mean you would'nt want your partner to have a Sherwood Forest growth down there would you? I don't mean to soun... (read in full...)
Can somebody please tell me what she might be thinking?
Q. Hi, it's just me. I'm still feeling fairly possitive today, despite the fact that I dreamt that me and my ex were getting back together last night. I woke up thinking: Right, a step forward.. What can I do to sort this o.... Oh, it was just a ...
A. 4 August 2007: I think this young lady is still carrying a torch for you my love. But lets look at the bigger picture here, you seem like a caring and dedicated young man to me, my guess is that she is still pining for you, that explains why she has kept your ... (read in full...)
Ex has emailed and now all the old feelings are back! What do I do?
Q. I really need people's opinions on this, so please help if you can..... i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...
A. 4 August 2007: Words fail me about a guy like this!! First he dates you,takes away your virginity, then dumps you like toy that he has got bored with.
My love, you are not the first person he will use for his own gratification, and you sure hell won't be the l... (read in full...)
he is still going out with my best friend and she is in love with him. But he has been talking to me about breaking up with her. What should I do?
Q. I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me a lot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that ...
A. 4 August 2007: There is a Golden Rule in my book, NEVER date your friend's boyfriends or ex boyfriends come to that.
1. You will lose your friend.
2. How would you react if your Best Friend started dating your man ?
3. Friends are for LIFE, Men just come an... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over this or should I leave?
Q. Hi I am 33 and have been married 11 years, we have two children and I am pregnant with our third child soon. I have found out that my husband who is the same age as me has had an affair with an 18 year old girl 'K' who worked a a telephone operator ...
A. 3 August 2007: Oh my god you poor thing, What he did was awful, but I do suggest you see marriage counselor as to why he had an affair and lying about saying it was a one night stand when in reality it was more than that. Being pregnant should be a happy time for ... (read in full...)
Really like this guy, but I lack confidence. What can I do?
Q. Hi there, bit of a juvanile question but here goes. Im 32 years of age and there is a guy I like he works in my building (large building) and I notice him on regular occasions in the canteen or in the lift etc, I have never spoke to this guy and ...
A. 3 August 2007: My darling I thoroughly recommend buying a book called "HOT RELATIONSHIPS" by Tracey Cox priced 9.99 it is my bible. She give great advice on how to attract a guy you like and more. I'm afraid I am like you I could never approach guys. But you know ... (read in full...)
how can i find a boyfriend fast and be attractive to men?
Q. hi. i'm single and just cant find a guy. i'm a nice girl but even the guys in my life dont want me- even those i've known for a while. no-one ever hits on me or notices me. how can i find a boyfriend fast and be attractive to men? i want to get ...
A. 3 August 2007: I think it depends how you come across to guys. Here is a few tips, get a friend of yours to take you out on a girls shopping spree. Buy a few items of clothes that will get you notice and I don't mean slutty that will attract the wrong kind of guy. ... (read in full...)
So I'm not jealous about porn, looking at other females or anything.. is anyone else out there like that??
Q. I see that probably about 90% of females are really bothered by porn and I kind of get it but at the same time I don't. I know some of my friends are this way but is anyone else out there not bothered by it? or bothered by anything for tha...
A. 3 August 2007: Hey its refreshing to hear what a loving girlfriend you are. I used to look at porns with an ex of mine. We used to laugh and play Spot the fake boobs and get turned on at the same time. As long it doesnt spoil your relationship. THATS FINE... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: If you really love your girlfriend you will keep it in your pants, while she is away. End of ........ (read in full...)
Me and my mum don't get along. What can I do to repair this?
Q. Well me and my mum are not close. I mean like I don't want to tell her anything. I can never tell her anything and I am starting to hate my mum. She doesn't know what to do cause I lock myself in my room and don't talk to anyone. All I want to do is ...
A. 3 August 2007: Hey you shoul'nt say things like I hate my mum. She loves and cares about you a great deal, I know you want her to cut some slack and let you do what you want. Why don't you sit her down calmly and tell her how you feel? Say that you would like for ... (read in full...)
Why has he never got in touch with me???
Q. Sorry if this is long winded. I not sure where to start. I'm really hurting. I had been seeing a guy for 4 months and he said he loves me. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He always would text me every day and phoned me most and told...
A. 3 August 2007: Darling you are well shot of this RAT. He is nothing but a cheating philanderer,if he can cheat on his pregnant girlfriend he can cheat on you PURE AND SIMPLE. Do yourself a favour get out there and find yourself a REAL MAN, who is unattatched and ... (read in full...)
I also fear for my life, he has came very close to seriously injuring me in the past.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years, he is thirty and I am 20. I am still growing up and I would prefer to do it alone but I love him and he has helped me immensely. We have a lot of problems, there has been abuse, b...
A. 3 August 2007: I can never understand people who stay with their partners who physically hurts them. All it takes is one slap/punch and I'm out the door. Touch wood this has never happened to me, I don't mean to sound smug. But no-one in their right minds would ... (read in full...)
I've always wanted to be a marine but my girlfriend says she'll dump me if I sign up
Q. so i've decided to stay with my current gf and just wait. love is more important to me than sex. i do have some what of another problem though. i kinda do and kinda dont want to join the army (marines) but my gf said she would dump me if i did. i'v...
A. 3 August 2007: Honey you girlfriend should be supportive of what career you want to acchieve not emotionally blackmail you into staying with her because she doesnt agree with your ambiton. Am I missing the point here? I thought most women are a SUCKER for that ... (read in full...)
He blames me all the time for not being able to move on because the relationship isn't secure cause we keep fighting.
Q. I have been with a guy for almost 7 years (on and off). The other day he dropped me at his house while he went to the gym, then to his mom's for something to eat. Obviously I waited, just watching TV. When he came back (he had been about 2 and a ha...
A. 3 August 2007: What an uncaring, selfish individual your boyfriend is, he treats you like a posession not like a human. He is never gonna change his attitude, people like him bully the weak, woe be tide if someone who stands up to them. This is something you must ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sex drive is decreasing!
Q. I need some advice about my boyfriends ever-decreasing sex drive. He only wants to do it at weekends, I want to do it everyday. We only end up doing it when he wants to and I find this degrading, like he's using me when he wants it. Surely it should ...
A. 3 August 2007: It is hard for anyone to get sexually aroused, when there partner is constantly nagging them for sex. Have you really sat down and discussed with your boyfriend,and try find some compromise about what you both want from this relationship. Its not ... (read in full...)
So do I give up on our relationship or give in to his request (ultimatum)?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He has had about 6 sexual partners before me. He is my first love and I've been brought up to believe that sex before marriage is wrong. He always said he was okay with it but now nearly 2 years on ...
A. 2 August 2007: Wow two years together and no sex, most guys would have given up by now and moved on to get their satisfaction elsewhere. Sorry i am not having a go, save your virginity for marriage by all means, but I think you are being unrealistic to expect your ... (read in full...)
36, still a virgin and have no desire for sex! Am I strange?
Q. I am 36 years old and still a virgin! I have never had any desire to have sex with anybody! I have never seen a real life woman naked (and have no desire to do so, and I am definitely not Gay!!!) Please can you tell me why people have a deisre for ...
A. 2 August 2007: I LOVE SEX END OF ........ If u wanna stay a virgin good luck to you but, don't judge people who do. With two people who are in love sex is a very beautiful thing. Its only some people who make it degrading, ie porn stars and prostitutes.... (read in full...)
He says I'm getting too clingy. What should I do?
Q. Hi My problem is my boyfriend! I have been seeing him a year and a half now. The first year was great, he treat me like a princess and really showed how much he loves me. We've been through a lot and over the last 2 months he has been not so nice....
A. 2 August 2007: DITCH HIM and find someone who cares/loves you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I broke up because we keep fighting but I want him back.
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, he loves me so much , I love him more, but we keep fighting, because he keeps picking on me a lot and he drives me crazy, I want him back, how?...
A. 2 August 2007: I lived with a guy for 7 years who was always nick picking on me for no apparent reason, it got to me so much that I was a shadow of my former self. I lost contact with my friends, my family noticed I was not myself. Do you what? I left the ... (read in full...)
My ex is giving me majorly mixed signals, please help me figure him out!
Q. Mixed Signals!! DECODE!!! My ex boyfriend whom i still talk with everyday (its a long distance thing) says things that confuse me. Can you tell me what you think this all means: " You're hot. youre better looking than that girl. why would i care...
A. 2 August 2007: Darling do me a favour stop dancing to this guy's tune, he does this because he knows he can get away with it. I would keep him at arms length. Date someone else who lives nearer to you and does'nt play mind games with you, you certainly don't need ... (read in full...)
I know I should walk away from the old disasterous relationship but what if I get disappointed again.
Q. Hi I have major trust issues in my relationships due to a previous disappointing relationship. My ex and I are still friends and I really don't know why I want to keep the friendship since he was very horrid towards me. I have met someone wonderfu...
A. 2 August 2007: Please don't stop letting other guys getting close to you, cos one guy has hurt you. Not all guys are like that, trust me. Why are you using your ex as a stop gap until another guy comes along, this guy has treated you appallingly. Personally myself ... (read in full...)
I can't keep my bfs - I seem to like them too much and scare them away.
Q. i am really not good at keeping guys who like me. I always seem to like them way to much and scare them off i think. I try to play it cool but then end up texting them all the time, cos i really like them. there is a guy that likes me and i have ...
A. 2 August 2007: Hi Chantelle, I bought a book by the relationship guru Tracey Cox the other day called "Hot Relationships" in my local book store. This girl certainly knows her stuff, Im 1/2 way through it and can't seem to put the book down . Its like she and I ... (read in full...)
My ex bf wants to be just a good friend but I really want him back! What should I do?
Q. Hey everybody. I was wondering if anybody could help me on the update of the ex-boyfriend situation! My Ex recently started talking to me again, to which I did not object, and when he asked why I had been ignoring him, my reply was "I needed time."...
A. 18 May 2007: I'm in a similar situation as you, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. We are gonna remain good friends and I also still have strong feelings for him still too. My advice to you is under no circumstances do you reveal that you are still hung ... (read in full...)
Why do guys ask a girl for her number in a bar or club and never call ?
Q. why do guys ask for a girls number in a club or bar and then never call them? it keeps happening to me, is it because when they sober up they realise how ugly i am or do they later meet better girls after me?...
A. 17 April 2007: Clubs and bars are full of people looking for casual conquests and really not the best places to look for a potential partner. It seems you have very little self-esteem too,saying they might have realise how ugly you are. Beauty is only skin deep, ... (read in full...)
I was sexually abused and now I find my bf looking at child porn!!
Q. Last year I found out on my bf's computer that he was looking at porn... but also he was looking at pictures of 11-15 year old boys.. It broke my heart when I found this. I confronted him about this and the fight ended up as me being the bad guy ...
A. 8 April 2007: Get out while you can away from this sick creep. You have every right to know what he gets up to especially if he has the intention to prey on young boys. I am sorry to hear about what happened to you honey, and if he was a decent guy, the last ... (read in full...)
My dad thinks he might be a conman!!!
Q. hi i am 30 years old and divorced with 2 kids i met this guy who was 24 at the time but was not from around my area.at first he was really positive and wanted to spend time with me but then for some reason he stopped replying to my texts then when ...
A. 8 April 2007: This guy sounds very shady to me, your dad could be right he could be a conman. Why did you lend him money if you were not 100% sure you was going to get it back. Do yourself a favour, cut all contact with him, I get the feeling he has the tendancy ... (read in full...)
I can never come during sex. Any tips on sex toys?
Q. hi everybody i need help. i have a partner but i can never cum having sex. so we have to do a lot of playing. can anyone advice me on the best sex toy going to do the job. x...
A. 7 April 2007: There are different positions you can try out with your partner, that will more likely help you to accheive orgasm. Have a look at google images on sex positions, they give great advice so you and your partner can both have a look and have fun ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm a slut for not saving myself for "the one" !! Am I?
Q. i lost my virginity to a guy i wasn't in love with or in a relationship with (though i was really attracted to him). i have no regrets about not "waiting" or "saving" myself for "The One." to me, the sex was a purely physical thing. does that make ...
A. 7 April 2007: Please honey do yourself a favour ditch this loser and find someone who does not put you down by judging your past sexual experience. How dare he call you a slut, what he did was 10 times worse by having a drunken one night stand, this guy is an ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's been two-timing me with his fiance!
Q. I met a man at work who was in a long-term relationship... we started off being very good friends but then became alot closer until we fell for each other. I kept it quiet and we continued to go to lunch, dinners, drinks together... We got to the ...
A. 7 April 2007: How has this man cheated on you with his fiancee? Surely its the other way round? I think what you and this guy are doing to this poor woman is totally unacceptable, this pathetic excuse of a man is engaged to be married. You should no by now he is ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my male friend, can friends male and female date ?
Q. I am a 44 year old female and I am in love with my guy friend, he is 47 years old. Can friends ( guy and girl) date?...
A. 6 April 2007: It depends on how your man friend feels,don't rush in and declare your undying love for him cos you don't want to jepardise the friendship you guys have, he may not feel the same and you will end up feeling foolish. Unless he gives you signals that ... (read in full...)
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