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Two women, one big choice!
Q. Hi there, It's the old story: two women, who to choose? Just want some perspective. I met a girl Rachel (28) in June this year online. She is a pretty girl. We talked on MSN for a month or so and on the phone. She said that she wasn't ready fo...
A. 12 December 2007: If you are not keen on Samantha, please tell her and stop wasting her time. What has Samantha's past got to do with you anyway? I think you are way too judgemental. I dated a good few guys before I met my current boyfriend on line too and no way ... (read in full...)
He's a two-faced hypocrite. How do I deal with it?
Q. I don't know whether my bf is bad or if its all my fault. I am 18 years old, my bf and i have been together for 7 months. At first our relationship was great, i felt so happy...but things have changed now... My bf says that if I leave him, kno...
A. 11 December 2007: Get rid of this LOSER!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I didn't find swinging as thrilling as he did, and I don't want a bloke touching me. How do I get to understand why he likes it?
Q. ok i will be as detailed as i can, been with my partner 20 years in the summer he told me had been with a few prostitutes he only told me coz he had fallen for one!!!! anyway i said i will try and forgive him we have talked and talked it turns out ...
A. 11 December 2007: Find a guy who want you and you only. Ditch this creep.... (read in full...)
Should I have let my older boyfriend fondle me? It made me unconfortable, but was I just being childish?
Q. I'm a female. I have a boyfriend called Ricky (not real name)he is 24 and i am 16 (i know big age gap but he and i get along really good). We ain't made out yet but he wants to. I went to rick's house when his parents were out somewhere and we did...
A. 11 December 2007: I agree with Harshbutfair, you are way out of your depth by dating a guy who is eight years older than you. Men his age expect intimacy and clearly you are not ready to handle an adult relationship. Wait a good while before you find another ... (read in full...)
I'm working on getting over the break up and visuals of other women being with him, I feel robbed, betrayed and angry, help!
Q. Alright I have been on this off and on for a few weeks to see if anyone is going through something similiar and if I could get some info off of theirs. Found one or two, but not exact so im just going to go w/it. I broke up w/my boyfriend of 2 y...
A. 11 December 2007: I think you had a lucky escape from this guy. Move on and find a man who trusts,loves and appreciates you.... (read in full...)
Does a mistress respect a man who leaves his family, for her?
Q. I have heard of some women dating men who are not available. How does a woman feel if that man left his wife and kids for them. Do they respect that man and does the relationship usually work out?...
A. 9 December 2007: Men that leave their wife and family for another woman are dispicable rats and are very much likely to do the same to their mistresses when a new and younger model comes along. These guys are insecure about themselves, simply because they want to ... (read in full...)
He said it wasn't working and I want to talk but he won't...any suggestions??
Q. Help. My new boyfriend txt me last nite and said it won't work and that we should be mates. We've not had sex so in a way im glad i did not get that close but i really want to talk to him about things. The thing is he wont talk and txt me back beca...
A. 5 December 2007: No find another man.... (read in full...)
She said she could not come to lunch with me today but offered to meet up next week. Is she trying to avoid me?
Q. hi. today i asked my crush if she wanted to go for lunch. she said that she couldnt today but offered to meet up next week. We get on well together andwork together in our practical groups and i'll walk her home. do you think that she is tryi...
A. 23 November 2007: Hey hold on she did offer to go on a date with you next week, so all is not lost. She is not avoiding you at all, as she did offer to meet up with you next week, so stop beating yourself up my dear. If you show yourself too desperate, you will lose ... (read in full...)
How can I control my libido?
Q. I've just divorced and met this guy, seems genuine so I go for him. I am 47 and he is 18 years older than me. Sex with my ex-husband was non existent in the last year before we divorced. This man is 18 years older than me but unbelievably good in ...
A. 23 November 2007: Amen to what Uncle Phil says. Let me tell you I am dating a guy who is six years younger than me and I am 40 in December. Sex with a younger guy in my experience is far better than guys who are older. So before I get lynch mobbed by older guys, I am ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he come to see me?
Q. My boyfriend and I we have been dating for over 6 years, he lives in the UK and he is married, I am living in France and I am single. We do care about each other and we do trust each other. We get on well even though we are far from each other. ...
A. 23 November 2007: For God sake you are a grown woman, not a lovesick teenager. You have wasted 6 precious years over this buffoon, who does not give you one ounce of commitment. When are you gonna wake up an sniff the Cappucino sister, this guy is dangling you on a ... (read in full...)
Am I right or is he wrong?
Q. I met this man during my divorce. I am 47 and been together for 6 months. I have Christmas at work but not allowed to take partners. He said we will be over if I go because he doesnt like it. He always emphazise he is a one on one person. He ...
A. 20 November 2007: I agree with Waterloo sunset, this guy is trying to run your life,he is a control freak period. He also has serious trust issues too, if you don't start standing up to him he will walk all over you. Go to your Christmas party and to hell what he ... (read in full...)
Together 3 months, we argue constantly and there is an 8 year gap between us. Are we doomed?
Q. I have been with my bf for 3 months now and we constantly argue about alot of things. There is an 8 year gap between us im younger than him, the age doesnt really borther me but what does is his constent yelling and going off at me when i do ...
A. 19 November 2007: I lived with a guy who was exactly like your guy, the slightest thing used to trigger him off and constantly undermine me. If this guy continues to yell at you, tell him you will finish with him if he does not stop. This guy has serious issues with ... (read in full...)
Insecurity?
Q. My boyfriend has been going through my phone lately. He says, this is something all couples do. I said no it's not!!! He wanted to read my text messages and I didnt want him to. I dont want nobody looking through my phone. When we would talk over ...
A. 15 November 2007: This guy is invading your privacy,and it is not what all couples do. Next time he asks you to read your messages, call his bluff and ask to read his text messages and see how he reacts. I bet you my bottom dollar he won't let you.... (read in full...)
Maintaining your innocence and how to deal with people who would verbally hurt you for it.
Q. i am a 26 year old male and a virgin still, but sadly years ago i havd dealt with various of my peers saying pretty blataint, hurtful and overall devestating comments to me just for being a virgin from my high school days up until my early 20's. i ...
A. 11 November 2007: One question. Are you holding on to your virginity, for someone who is worthy to take it? There is nothing wrong with that, because some people tend to lose their virginity just because of peer pressure and they perceive sex as something they are ... (read in full...)
My husband demands sex in a demeaning way because I earn more money. What to do?
Q. I have been married for two years now, and I do love my husband. Least year, my husband realized just how much more money I make them him and at first, he was just resentful. It then leered its way into our sex life, and he only wanted to be ...
A. 7 November 2007: This creature you are married to is not a man but an insecure little jerk who thinks it is funny and clever to humiliate you, just because you earn more money than him. Surely with you knowing that he was not a gentleman with his ex, would have made ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what to do. His ex and kids don't know about me
Q. I am very jealous of my boyfriends kids and his ex. he was with her for nine years and they broke up in 1998. His kids or his ex do not know about me, and he tells me its none of her business. I don't have any kids and I think something else is ...
A. 7 November 2007: Why should his ex know anything about you? Its none of her business, as for his children knowing whether you exist or not is a different story. I would have thought three years down the line you would have met his children by now and have some sort ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend going off me? please help..
Q. Hey,I recently got with this guy, he is absolutly gorgeous, i cant quite believe he is with me to be honest! We have been together 15months he likes a drink and sometimes gets quite drunk, he has pushed me a couple of times and got a bit spitefull ...
A. 6 November 2007: He maybe good looking and have all the girls drawling over him, but its not them that has to put up with his crap, its you. Please find the courage to dump this creep, who is nothing but a bully when drunk. Ask yourself this ,are you prepared to put ... (read in full...)
He's cheated before and tells me about all the girls he "could" get, is he trying to make me jealous?
Q. I'm 21 and have been seeing my 20yr old boyfriend for 6 months. He's an attractive guy, intelligent, and arrogant. He tells me that he used to cheat on previous girlfriends but has matured since he found me.. a sweet girl he can trust. However he ...
A. 6 November 2007: Where does this guy get off? By saying the girls at work all fancy him and he could have them if he wanted to. He sounds like an insensitive jerk by the sounds of it, by blowing his own trumpet. If I was you hun, I would kick this guy to the kerb ... (read in full...)
Does a woman get a choice of whether she can have a Caesarean or not?
Q. if a person is pregnant do they ever get a choice of whether they have a caesarean section or not? my cousin is 6 months pregnant and shes scared of going through the birth. All answers would be appreciated, thank you...
A. 5 November 2007: Hi I remember when I was at school watching a birthing video, and came away thinking I am never gonna have a baby because the image of a woman giving was like a scene from a horror movie. Ten years later I gave birth to my son who is 19 and eighteen ... (read in full...)
I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?
Q. i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...
A. 30 September 2007: How can you call anyone your lover if you have never met him? He is just your cyber buddy. I had a very similar experience, this guy I spoke to online was very charming but he lived in the states and I live in the UK. So chances are he has met ... (read in full...)
13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.
Q. I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...
A. 30 September 2007: Dear Texmex, I'm sorry that you are holding this grudge against your wife for the mistake she had done 13 years ago. Lets be totally frank no-one in this entire universe is perfect, we do all stupid things and make mistakes that we regret later (Its ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 24 September 2007: My condolences go out to you, I am so sorry. God will look after him, as I am sure he was a good man. Love Dusky xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 24 August 2007: Sorry Hattie, But I don't agree with you wanting to publish this poor girl's misfortune. Don't u think she has enough on your plate without u PATRONISING the poor girl.
I suggest you go elsewhere and try another cheap and tacky way to sell a stor... (read in full...)
He mistreated me so much, so why cant I get over him?
Q. for the last year i have been in the relationship from hell. i love him dearly and at times i really thought he was the one (cliched though that is) but i have to admit he is not a good guy, i recently found out he has been seeing someone else for ...
A. 20 August 2007: Get rid of this nasty waste of space !!!!... (read in full...)
Should i change myself for him?
Q. I am 17 years old and fell for a friend of mine (23 years old). i just recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i have liked him for a long time and would really like for us to start a relationship together. the reason i fell for him in ...
A. 16 August 2007: Tell him to find a woman of his own age , if he is so conscious of how you behave. Its him that should grow up not you. Be yourself.... (read in full...)
Is a female orgasm the strong face scrunching/crippling feeling? What actually happens when you get that feeling...?
Q. Is this an orgasm? Is a female orgasm the strong face scrunching/crippling feeling? What actually happens when you get that feeling does the urging feeling just go when you hit the height, is there any evidence of an orgasm apart from that enjoya...
A. 15 August 2007: With orgasms you get that elated feeling where deep inside of the vagina pulsates and you get this incredible sensation and u cum at the same time which is fantastic it normally lasts a few seconds. Yes people normally make facial expressions when ... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell them how embarrassed I feel about being bound and gagged. How do I get myself out of this funk?
Q. I'm 18, off to college in September, was enjoying a last carefree summer. Last Friday evening my boyfriend dropped me off at home around 10:00 after a date. He works nightshifts at a 24 hour supermarket. My parents were out for the evening and I ...
A. 15 August 2007: Oh my god what a terrifying ordeal, don't be embarrassed. Talk to your parents about it,I'm sure they will give you all the support you clearly need. Thank god they didn't physically harm you, but emotional scars will be there for life.
SCUM ... (read in full...)
Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks?
Q. Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks? The other week my boyfriend gave me oral and I think that it's only fair that I give him oral back but I don't know how to get into the mood and I want to know if there ar...
A. 15 August 2007: I agree with anon be careful. If in doubt go down on him with a condom, for peace of mind.... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 13 August 2007: Hi everyone. Right now I feel sad as David has finished with me, as he is still in love with his ex who lives in Finland. He says he is not ready to date anyone at the moment and doesnt want to see me anymore or contact him even if I wanted to be ... (read in full...)
He still wants to keep in contact and we see each other when he is free and we sleep with each other.
Q. I went out with a guy for 3 months then we split up for 2 weeks. We got back together for 6 weeks then he said he wanted to be single. His last relationship was for 10 years. He still wants to keep in contact and we see each other when he is free ...
A. 13 August 2007: Oh my god this sounds like my recent ex!!! I gave that BASTARD 2 months of my precious time for that CREEP. We had what I thought was a great relationship, but he text me one day and said he wanted the single life and dumped me. I foolishly met him ... (read in full...)
A man being nice to me is a sign of weakness!
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up 6 months ago because he cheated on me, however during our relationship he was the sweetest nicest man in the world, although around the time he cheated he treated me in the worst possible way but I just kept running back ...
A. 13 August 2007: I feel sad that you enjoy being mistreated by guys who do not give a damn about you.
May I ask was you ever mistreated as a child? If so that explains why you are attracted to these JERKS and you think this kind of behaviour is acceptable. I pref... (read in full...)
I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?
Q. I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?...
A. 12 August 2007: Hi there my dear,sorry about the brief reply. But this guy is nearly twice your age and if he did take things a step further with you he could lose his job,as that would be abusing his professional position plus it is illegal for him to have a ... (read in full...)
I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?
Q. I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?...
A. 12 August 2007: Nothing just admire him from a distance Honey.... (read in full...)
Should I carry on being this unhappy or leave him now??
Q. hey everyone! Well ive hit a patch in my marriage where i dont know if i should stay or go. I love my husband very much. We've been married 1 year and 4 months hes been deployed for 1 year and 2 months hell be home for RNR next week but all we ...
A. 12 August 2007: You have two options.
1. You both go to a marriage counsellor and talk your troubles thru with a professional. See if you can both find some common ground with your husband to strengthan the marriage.
2. Throw in the towel,if you feel you hav... (read in full...)
I have a couple of concerns about marrying my older internet boyfriend guy!
Q. Hey everyone, I just made my account on this site last night and thus far, I've answered everything I could honestly. So, can I get a little help? I have a boyfriend of almost a year, and I love him more than anything. He's twenty eight years old ...
A. 11 August 2007: I have a daughter the same age as you, and if she ever got into your situation I would advise her not to jump into anything as serious as marriage. You are far too young, to handle such an emotional lifelong commitment,at your age girls often like ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is wanting sex more, and it's getting rougher - how can I get him to ease up??
Q. My boyfriend is starting to get a little rough during sex and when I tell him he's being too rough, he seems to get upset and offended... any advice? My boyfriend is the biggest sweetheart in the world and we've been together for going on 4 years...
A. 11 August 2007: OH my God sorry your name is Jack lol I meant the name of which you call your boyfriend. Sorry hun x.... (read in full...)
My future mother in law criticises me and is very tactile with her son... should I worry?
Q. I am getting concerned over my future mother in laws behaviour. My boyfriend is 20 and his mother is 40. She is generally ok but makes a lot of personal remarks about the way I look which are not very nice - like my hair is frizzy or my clothes ...
A. 11 August 2007: Oh my God what a bizarre situation this is. I have heard of "Mummy's Boy" but this is taking it to the EXTREME.
Next time she criticises your appearance, tell her she is being very hurtful with her comments. She comes across a domineering,... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is wanting sex more, and it's getting rougher - how can I get him to ease up??
Q. My boyfriend is starting to get a little rough during sex and when I tell him he's being too rough, he seems to get upset and offended... any advice? My boyfriend is the biggest sweetheart in the world and we've been together for going on 4 years...
A. 11 August 2007: SIX TIMES A DAY NO WONDER YOUR'E SORE !!!
When you guys get a quiet moment together, sit him down and have 121 discussion with him,explain to him you love sex as much as he does,but could he be a little more gentle with you as you find it extr... (read in full...)
He's never stayed over my appartment, we've never been away together and I've never met his friends (who know nothing about me)... is there something wrong, here?
Q. Yucky problem.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and love him hugely. I'm in my early 30's with a child who lives with her dad and his wife and he's in his late twenties, we're also from different cultures. He lives with his p...
A. 11 August 2007: When two people get together from two different cultures,it is always difficult, especially if a woman has been married/co-habitated before. How do you think his parents gonna take it? I don't wish to put a dampener on on things here, but you don't ... (read in full...)
MY bf is emotionally abusive, but it's hard to break up with him! Help!
Q. My bf has been emotionally abusive towards me. He tells me no one else will put up with me. He threatens to break up with me to get his own way. Whenever he's not in a good mood he yells at me and makes me feel guilty for anything I do until I say ...
A. 10 August 2007: Leave this nasty piece of work, you can do better than this SCUM BAG.... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 10 August 2007: Hey guys I still feel physically sick as to what Robbie has done to me, I keep getting mental pictures of him and this woman,ie being in each others arms, making love. I can't bear it, plus I don't get to see David very much as his job is on the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 9 August 2007: Oh darling that is wonderful, I really wish you both all the best. Your beautiful letter moved me to tears,you have coped very well Everyone on Cupid are all proud of you both for being so brave and courageous. Love Dusky xxxxx
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I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: Thank you guys for all your support, it is most appreciated
I am gonna think twice and let my head rule my heart. Btw David is romantic he bought me a small gift on our first date. Robbie only bought me heartache.... (read in full...)
I need help getting my ex out of my system
Q. Hi, Everyone I hope you guys can help me. I'm one of the Agony Aunts who has recently joined this column like you helps people with there problems. But right now I am feeling like crap, It shows that I am only human like everyone else. Right her...
A. 8 August 2007: No I slept with Robbie long before David came along. I would never do that to David in a million years.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a year to live, but he wants to marry me and have a baby!
Q. This is kinda a HUGE question and i really need help, my fiancée (we have been together since we were 12 im 19 now) has just been diagnosed with lung cancer and has been told he's got about a year to live basically but they're gunna treat him as ...
A. 8 August 2007: Wow your letter totally blew my mind away, plus I am shedding a few tears reading and replying to this.
I think it is a lovely idea to get married,though I think having a baby at such a young age will not be such a good idea. But if you and your... (read in full...)
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