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I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 30 April 2008: Here Here Doctor Vendetta I could not have put it better myself. Dusky xxxx.... (read in full...)
Would you feel a bit rejected, even though it was first night sex?
Q. Ok guys, if you had amazing sex after a first date after loads of talking. You sent her lots of messages saying how fantastic it was and you wanted to continue with it. But, the girl suddenly backed down a bit and said she was unsure and confu...
A. 30 April 2008: Oh my God you are such a Bunny Boiler!!!!!! How many times have you posted this letter?????? I am getting bored zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.... (read in full...)
I'm 17yrs old and ready to have a baby with my boyfriend. He'll do it to make me happy but I know he's not ready!
Q. i'm 17 years old, and I live with my grandparents and my boyfriend of two and a half years who is also 17. I want nothing more than to have a baby, I know all the responsibilties because I grew up with my sister who had a baby at 17. I think i'm ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi Leanna, I am relieved that you took all of our advice, but babies will never fill the lonely gap. If anything it will make it worse, you would be alone with a baby while your friends are out doing what most teenagers do..... having fun and you ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we ...
A. 28 April 2008: Get off your FAT ARSE AND GER A JOB. I hope your long suffering girlfriend finds a REAL MAN, so he can love and nurture her.... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 28 April 2008: No it is totally unacceptable. Laura how would you like it if your partner hit you ???/ Are you gonna stand there and take it???? Yeah right whatever!!!!!... (read in full...)
How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?
Q. My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...
A. 28 April 2008: YOU ARE SO UP YOUR OWN ARSE THAT YOU CANNOT SEE WHAT DAMAGE WOULD DO TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND IF SHE FOUND OUT WHAT A DICKHEAD YOU REALLY ARE!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Would great sex make guys want a relationship?
Q. Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...
A. 28 April 2008: Why under value yourself and fuck a man on the first night?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....
Q. is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...
A. 28 April 2008: Hey Eyes wide open I was gonna say about the foreplay gag, but you beat me to it Lol.... (read in full...)
She is 15 and pregnant and says I'm the father!
Q. Im 21 and met this girl things were going fab. We had sex and i thought i fell in love. Then she tells me she is pregnant and im the father and also she is 15!!!!! She told me that she was 18 i still had a problem when she said 18 but i dealt with ...
A. 28 April 2008: Well you was stupid enough to sleep with her without using something called...... Whats that name???? Oh yes contraception. If you had your doubts about her why didn't you keep it in your pants?
There is an old saying........ Fools rush in where... (read in full...)
Would great sex make guys want a relationship?
Q. Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...
A. 28 April 2008: You have posted this letter already!!!!!! ... (read in full...)
Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?
Q. Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...
A. 28 April 2008: Because women are cheap enough to put it on a plate without thinking about the consequences. If they want a long term relationship, then they have to respect themselves and hold out as long as possible, that way the guy does not get the wrong ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to go back to being just friends when you have had sex?
Q. I can not work out this one night stand I had. Well I met this guy on a social networking site. But, it is just a site if you want to go out for the night you post your plans up and see if anyone wants to join you. Lots of ppl use it for dating. A...
A. 28 April 2008: You are putting yourself in a lot of danger by meeting these guys and having sexual liasons with them. Why are you cheapening yourself for a like this?
Is it your intention to have no-strings sex or are you wanting something more? This guy clea... (read in full...)
Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!
Q. Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...
A. 28 April 2008: Your fella is an insensitive jerk........ Get rid of him.... (read in full...)
Opinions from both genders pleas, how do I prove my love for her?
Q. I have a tuff situation i have this girlfriend that loves me very much and i love her with evry breathe i take . she is perfect in every way . now id like opions from both genders please . alright i was down the other night and just wanted to run ...
A. 28 April 2008: Aww female reader that was a beautiful poem.... Its nice to see that romance is very much alive.... (read in full...)
He has a habit of planning our date than change his mind to go out with his friends. What should I say/do?
Q. I recently started dating this guy. We have been together 4 2months and he has already started thinking long term. However, he has recently moved into a flat with three other girls, one of which he had feelings for at the beginning of the year. I'm ...
A. 28 April 2008: He may say that he wants you, this is translated into but I don't want anyone else to have you. Kick this unreliable loser to the kerb.... (read in full...)
I'm 17yrs old and ready to have a baby with my boyfriend. He'll do it to make me happy but I know he's not ready!
Q. i'm 17 years old, and I live with my grandparents and my boyfriend of two and a half years who is also 17. I want nothing more than to have a baby, I know all the responsibilties because I grew up with my sister who had a baby at 17. I think i'm ...
A. 28 April 2008: I advised a young man a few days ago about him and his teenage sweetheart wanting a baby.
This is the advice I gave him.......... Hire yourself a Virtual Reality doll for say about a week or two and see how you cope, but no cheating do not get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he loves me and doesn't care if we never have sex again. Should I believe him? I have a low sex drive!
Q. my partner and i have been together for nearly six years. over the last year or so, my sex drive has completley vanished. its very rare i feel "in the mood". my boyfriend tries to initiate sex a couple of times a week, to which i just ignore him,...
A. 28 April 2008: Do you live with your boyfriend? The reason why I ask is some couples love life takes a nose dive because they see eachother almost 24/7 and get bored with each other emotionally and physically. That has happened to me in the past. It is different ... (read in full...)
My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. ...
A. 28 April 2008: Kick this cheater to the kerb!!!!... (read in full...)
Please someone help. Because I'm out of ideas on how to get her to do the sex stuff I want!
Q. Big time marriage problems I'm sort of in a bind. I'm 27 now, and shes 26. I married a nice girl after dating for about 15 months. Before that she had no sexual experience at all. We have been married a year and nothing has improved. We ...
A. 27 April 2008: I just want to add, there are more things you can do for eachother apart from blow/hand jobs. How about romantic candlelit baths, massage oils,caressing and doing things what make you BOTH feel good? Your wife is very inexperience and you should ... (read in full...)
Please someone help. Because I'm out of ideas on how to get her to do the sex stuff I want!
Q. Big time marriage problems I'm sort of in a bind. I'm 27 now, and shes 26. I married a nice girl after dating for about 15 months. Before that she had no sexual experience at all. We have been married a year and nothing has improved. We ...
A. 27 April 2008: You are taking a very Alpha male approach on this are you not? Give the poor girl a break, she was probably raised to think that nice girls dont do those sort of things.
Have you ever sat down for one second and thought of how she feels? No I tho... (read in full...)
Am I right in being uspet with my boyfriend or was he justified?
Q. I just wanted others' views on whether I am right in being upset over this... Last night my boyfriend was with his friends, and I was with mine. I've been having a hard time lately, trouble at home with family, trouble with my job, etc. I've ...
A. 27 April 2008: I'm sorry, but if a person was particularly nasty to me and I was upset my fella would of tore her off a strip and defended my honour.
He is very protective of me and if anybody upset me in his presence he would have given them a piece of his mind... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it
Q. My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...
A. 27 April 2008: I don't think this guy is for you since he cheated on you with a so called best friend. Ok I know you cheated back and two wrongs do not make a right, but your friend sleeping with your boyfriend is no excuse and you are better off without them ... (read in full...)
Will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured?
Q. hi i've been going out with this girl for about 2months now and we'eve agreed to have sex together pretty soon. but will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured? is it any better having sex with a coloured...
A. 27 April 2008: Sorry Anon reader I did not mean any offence.But I do take exception when people with dark skin is known a coloureds.
What is wrong with saying Black, Asian, Chinese etc etc? That is all I am saying.... (read in full...)
I met him online, does he just see me as a sex fling?
Q. I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours about trying to find the right person suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up ba...
A. 27 April 2008: I get the feeling he wants a FWB relationship.... (read in full...)
Does age matter for sex?
Q. Last night I experienced the pleasure of deflowering a young lady aged 18.I felt 20 years younger!! We're mutually keen on having regular sexual intercourse from now on-particularly as neither of us has any ties. Does the age gap matter since our...
A. 27 April 2008: She may be 18, but don't you think you are too old for her.
I am 40 years old and no way would I go for a guy who is old enough to be my son. I have a daughter the same age and I would be horrified if she dated a guy your age.
What do you have ... (read in full...)
Found out my ex-girlfreind was a swinger and had an open marriage before me. Too much drama for me, what'd you do?
Q. First off my ex-wife and i both agreed that we would never bring any other person into our bedroom, no threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs or any other thing like that. We are both too jealous to do that I guess, but i know everybody on here has the ...
A. 27 April 2008: Darling, if you did get back with her I don't think you would be able to trust her beacause of her swinging. You seem like a decent guy and should find yourself a woman who is not too slutty and has more respect for her body.
If you did get her ... (read in full...)
Will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured?
Q. hi i've been going out with this girl for about 2months now and we'eve agreed to have sex together pretty soon. but will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured? is it any better having sex with a coloured...
A. 27 April 2008: BigSis I get the feeling he is from "Red Neck" area of the USA, because of his referal of his girlfriend as a coloured. I am not suggesting one nano second that he is racist, its just he has probably heard his peers call black people coloureds. BTW ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my virginity yet-His persistance scared me so much I thought he was going to rape me!
Q. I had been dating my boyfriend for 7 months im a virgin and he is not. I have done stuff with him eg oral and jerked him off but not sex. He is getting bored. He says he wants to be inside me and cum inside me and stuff but i dont really want to. ...
A. 27 April 2008: Darling!!! What he done was totally inforgivable, and needs to be reported to the police for attempted rape. He will do it again and will probably succeed, he has no respect or morals and THIS ANIMAL SHOULD BE LOCKED UP. He is a would be rapist and ... (read in full...)
Will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured?
Q. hi i've been going out with this girl for about 2months now and we'eve agreed to have sex together pretty soon. but will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured? is it any better having sex with a coloured...
A. 27 April 2008: What colour is she???? Green, Orange, Sky Blue Pink????
Look buddy it does not matter what colour she is, she still has the same attributes as a white woman. I find the word "coloured" very patronising, insulting and outdated. If she is a black woma... (read in full...)
We were in the middle of sex and he ran out to watch a match! Tired of his obsession for footbal!
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been together a year and half now, and everything is great. We have a great time, we're both completely loyal, we both love each other to pieces. I know you're probably thinking "What's the problem here?" The probl...
A. 27 April 2008: BigSis A girl after my own heart lol. I have another idea...... When out sociallising with his mates say, "Bill (or what ever your fella's name is)is so crap in bed that I have to stop him in the middle of a session so I can go and watch Eastenders ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he says it sarcastically at times, I have doubts he does...
Q. hi all.... i have a question ok im madly in love with my boyfriend and he tells me he loves me all the time but sometimes he says it with sarcasm and it makes me think is he just saying it to make me happy? but also we have been trying to get preg...
A. 26 April 2008: I suggest you hold on before you get pregnant, because babies do not always strenghen a relationship. Have you guys sat down and discussed the future properly? There is no rush to commit yourselves take one day at a time before you do anything hasty ... (read in full...)
I complain that he does not care, he complains that I am unkind... What should we do?
Q. Im 24, my bf 28, we are together for 4 years. now we have a lot of problems, we wait to be with each other, but on the other hand, I complain that he doesnt care about me, and he complains that im not kind with him, and i exagerate every little ...
A. 26 April 2008: Sit down with your boyfriend and have an adult discussion without any mud slinging about your relationship. Before you do both of you write down your good points and your bad points and work on things that need improving in your relationship.... (read in full...)
How do I buy a pregnancy test or ask someone to buy it for me without being judgemental? How does alcohol affect pregnancies?
Q. I feel that I'm pregnant. By reading a lot of questions and answers to those who do think they are pregnant, I know that I should consider taking a pregnancy test... I had sex in February, February 12 to be exact. I have been having my period...
A. 26 April 2008: We can send the man to the moon, but kids of nowaday have sex without contraception and get themselves pregnant or STD. Get a trusted friend to go to the chemist with you and buy a test kit. Yes alcohol can affect the baby too.
Good luck and keep... (read in full...)
We were in the middle of sex and he ran out to watch a match! Tired of his obsession for footbal!
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been together a year and half now, and everything is great. We have a great time, we're both completely loyal, we both love each other to pieces. I know you're probably thinking "What's the problem here?" The probl...
A. 26 April 2008: Call half-time in the middle of sex and give him the red card!!! Revenge is a dish best served cold.... (read in full...)
What will he think of my new hairdo?
Q. I feel great!! Went to the hairdresser and got a new hairdo. I've always cut my hair in the past but just decided I wanted something different after all these years with the same look. Also, it's distracting me in a nice way from obsessing with my a...
A. 26 April 2008: My daughter is a hairdresser and changes her hair do as often as her underwear, she is Portsmouth's (Hampshire England) answer to Kelly Osbourne as she is always changing her hair colour too. The latest hairstyle she has got is the assymetrical bob, ... (read in full...)
She is 23 and says she knows nothing about sex. Could this be true?
Q. I am a male 25. My female friend aged 23 says she dont know anything about sex. She dont know what is masturbation and fingering. She doesnt know what sexual urge is.R there such girls present on earth. Is she a girl or what. She says she will lea...
A. 26 April 2008: Is your girlfriend a Muslim???? The reason why I am asking this is because they are forbidden to have sex education at school and this will explain her total innocense of sex.... (read in full...)
We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?
Q. I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...
A. 26 April 2008: I dated a guy last year who I met on line and he was still in love with his ex. Please don't let this PATHETIC EXCUSE OF A MAN USE YOU.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 2 years makes me feel... insignificant. What should I do?
Q. Ok I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. Lately theres been a few things that have really gotten me upset. 1. This morning (I stayed over at his the night before) we both woke up to his phone ringing, it was his friend. When he ...
A. 26 April 2008: Get rid of him !!!!... (read in full...)
Is my relationship over?
Q. is my relationship over. my boyfriend went to sea for three months. in that time i got no letters a few email and a few minutes of phone calls. hes back and says things were weird to start with. i get no thanks for the tings i do for him. i ...
A. 26 April 2008: GED RID OF THIS USER!!! ... (read in full...)
I am SO scared to have sex, I was raised to believe it is bad!!! My boyfriend has been waiting for me for years to express our love in that way, help!
Q. I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was raised in the church and to think that sex is bad. I am scared that I ...
A. 26 April 2008: Listen Hun, Stop listening to all these F***ING PURITANS who think sex before marriage is wrong and dirty. If you and your boyfriend want to have sex then so be it, in my book you are in a loving commited and healthy relationship. Sex is fantastic ... (read in full...)
Is having no sex unhealthy?
Q. Would it be unhealthy to remain a virgin for my whole life?...
A. 26 April 2008: I can't imagine livimg life without sex. It keeps me happy, healthy and it is the most wonderful exercise to keep you body toned. I would sooner have a good passionate sex session, than running the marathon or working out at the gym. (NO I AM NOT A ... (read in full...)
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