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writes:I sort of have mixed feelings about sex right now, and I'm confused. I am very attracted to my current boyfriend and I love him very much, and I am really tempted to have sex with him (I'm a virgin, but he isn't pressuring me at all, this is just how I feel on my own). I feel though, that I want to wait to have sex. We haven't been together that long, a few months, so I just want to get to know him more, to feel more comfortable. So how do I control these urges that I have, or at least how do I make myself feel better so that I don't want sex so much? and Why do I want it so much now when I never have before? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): well it sounds to me that your not so sure but if hes not pressuring u and u like him just do what feels right.how about experimenting with each others body first then take it from there good luck whatever u decide
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 definately start thinking about birth control now! you will be able to control yourself. you can always do other things rather than full sex. i think its great that you're waiting and just remember that it will be worth the wait to have sex with someone you really know and love
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reader, Ileana  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 Hey there,
Take your time and find out about things before you actually do go through with having 'sex' with your boyfriend. Getting aroused is simply a sign that your hormones are working this is most prominent during your menstrual cycle.
Dont forget if you choose to have sex, use protection so you can enjoy it without having to worry.
All my love
Ileana
xxx
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reader, Ileana +, writes (9 August 2007):
Hey there,
Take your time and find out about things before you actually do go through with having 'sex' with your boyfriend. Getting aroused is simply a sign that your hormones are working this is most prominent during your menstrual cycle.
Dont forget if you choose to have sex, use protection so you can enjoy it without having to worry.
All my love
Ileana
xxx
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (9 August 2007):
 Its natural for you to feel this way, it means your hormones are active, and at certain times of your menstural cycle round about 7-14 days you may experience that you feel more sexually aroused hence the uncontrollable urges. When eventually you do feel you want to get intimate with your boyfriend, make sure that you look seriously into using birth control. You don't want any unwanted pregnancy, relax I am not trying to put you off, but this is what I advise my two teenage kids to do.
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