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Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?
Q. im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...
A. 20 June 2008: Yes Lady of Sorrows, I agree some guys like skinny,blonde beautiful women. I wasnt being arrogant at all, the point I am putting across was that men ALSO go for women that are brunette,redheads,mousy coloured hair thin women curvy women fat women ... (read in full...)
Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?
Q. im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...
A. 19 June 2008: 1. Not all men are attracted to blonde women, red heads and brunettes are the new blonde
2. Men find curvy women are more attractive than their skinny counterparts and want something they can cuddle up to.
3. Beauty is in the eye of the behol... (read in full...)
He's breaking up with me so...is it okay to still have sex with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I are going to break up on a mutual decision even though I dont want to but he doesn't want the pressure of having a girlfriend. We still love each other more than anything in the world though. Is is alright if we still have sex? ...
A. 19 June 2008: He if he thinks you are not good enough to be his girlfriend, then he is not good enough to have you full stop.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?
Q. I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Lol Colloroy loved your knobjockey expression xx.... (read in full...)
Is this abusive behavior. I feel useless !
Q. After a wonderful one year relationship i moved in with my girlfriend. Now it seems i can't do anything right. She criticizes me for the littlest things like how i fold the bathroom towels, the way i wash up and dry, how i make the bed, where i ...
A. 19 June 2008: Are you sure you are not living with Monica Geller from Friends. Wow she sounds like a right control freak.... (read in full...)
She's 21 and wants to party alone before the ring...
Q. Ok, I was 21 she was 17, everything was happy. Fast foward 4 years and some and now I'm 25 and she's 21 we've been living together for 2 years and she's just perfect for me. I tell her I want to get engaged just a week or two after her 21st bi...
A. 19 June 2008: I think she wants to test the waters before she settles down with you, but the more pressure you put upon her the more you will drive her away. Go and party with your own buddies without her and vise versa.
There is no hurry, just go with the flow... (read in full...)
Should the child always come first before a relationship?
Q. Should the child always come first before a relationship? I am dating a widowed guy with a kid who prefers to give up sex with me if his daughter (seven) wants to sleep in bed with us that night. He doesn't ask me if I mind first. Every major li...
A. 19 June 2008: Honey if you have sexual needs and you don't see your bf from one month to the next, then move on and find a guy with no children who will meet your sexual needs...... THERE PROBLEM SOLVED!!!!!!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend mimicked the noises I make during sex! Am I right to be angry/
Q. Hi All, please help The other night me and g\f were having drunken sex when she suddenly laughed, joke about the noises i was making and then started mimicking the noises i obviously make during sex IE grunting etc When she did this i just ...
A. 14 June 2008: Oh by the way when he has reached climax.... He does a face like the Scream mask just like in the movie lol.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend mimicked the noises I make during sex! Am I right to be angry/
Q. Hi All, please help The other night me and g\f were having drunken sex when she suddenly laughed, joke about the noises i was making and then started mimicking the noises i obviously make during sex IE grunting etc When she did this i just ...
A. 14 June 2008: My fella puts on a fake American accent when we get it together. Like... "Yeah baby you are soooo good". My fella mimmicks me when I make a noise, which I find very amusing. Come on take a chill pill and stop taking yourself too seriously.... (read in full...)
Should the child always come first before a relationship?
Q. Should the child always come first before a relationship? I am dating a widowed guy with a kid who prefers to give up sex with me if his daughter (seven) wants to sleep in bed with us that night. He doesn't ask me if I mind first. Every major li...
A. 14 June 2008: For God sake woman will you stop WHINING!!!! This poor little mite has lost her mummy, of course she is going to be insecure because she does not want to lose her daddy. A child should always come first and YOU my dear should deal with it or move ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you date her and kiss her? She was forced to perform oral sex by a previous boyfriend.
Q. If you see a beautiful girl that you really like and she also attends college. But she tell you that she was force once in the past to perform oral sex by a guy she was dating. she said she end it with the guy immediately after that. These are my ...
A. 13 June 2008: This poor girl was violated in the worst possible way and you have the audacity to push the blame on her. I think you have a lot of growing up to do, she does not deserve an ARSE HOLE LIKE YOU!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me at his birthday party! He thinks I was 'easy' in my past!
Q. I'm so hurt and angry! My bf of almost 2 years is having a birthday party tomorrow. Ok, it's not exactly a party, it's just that his friends and classmates have planned to take him clubbing tomorrow night. The thing is, this guy is so hung up...
A. 13 June 2008: Here is a great present for your boyfriend..... SEND HIM A BIRTHDAY CARD THAT SAYS..... DUDE YOU ARE SO DUMPED GOODBYE AND GOOD RIDDANCE.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a superficial boyfriend?
Q. I have been dating a guy for about 3 months, and things were going pretty fabulously. We both use "Love", and we both talk about the possible future together. Then we were doing a "relationship status check", and he said his only issue with the ...
A. 13 June 2008: I will tell you about my experience.... My ex partner of eight years used to make fun of my weight callong me Fatty Boom Boom. ( I was 10 stone and 5ft 4). Now I weigh approx the same and my present boyfriend thinks I am sex on legs. Its your bf who ... (read in full...)
My BF is a very abusive person, swears at me and even tried to strangle me. Is he iterating his father's violent behaviour?
Q. My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship but recently he's started to sort of bully me..ie pushing me pull my hair etc, nothing to serious. However, the violence seemed to escalate further just last week as we had been out at a pa...
A. 11 June 2008: Darling he cannot get away with making excuses about his behaviour and blame it on his past. If you don't get out of this relationship he may even kill you..... Do you want to be beaten or strangled to death or do you want to live a happy fulfilled ... (read in full...)
I can't perform in the bedroom (I'm disabled) but its too embarrassing to tell her that I can't make love to her...what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend's fallen out with me and won't talk to me properly and I was wondering if anybody could offer me some advice. I'm disabled and really can't perform in the bedroom... my ex-girlfriend saw other guys on the side for that so there wa...
A. 11 June 2008: Hun What is your disability? The reason why I ask is that having a disabilty shouldn't neccessary affect your sexual performance unless you suffer from impotence. Please give me more info pls. xxxx... (read in full...)
My husband told me he wants my breast to be bigger!!
Q. My husband once said to me he loves my breasts to be a little bigger. I want bigger breasts too coz when my period is over I have much smaller breasts. *tears* Any help?...
A. 11 June 2008: How would he feel if you said you wanted your husband to have a bigger penis? I think he would probably feel insulted and feel that he does not satisfy you. Am I right?
If you want bigger breasts then do it for yourself and not for hubby. BTW what... (read in full...)
I think I bothered him to much with all my texting!
Q. I was dating my boyfriend for 4 months and everything was going good. He was txt`n me multiple times a day, every day. I was in no doubt that this guy was `into me`. He lived about 50 miles from me, and i don`t drive, so he was alwyas coming to see ...
A. 8 June 2008: Why don't you do a bit of detective work and take a train to his hometown to see what this guy is up to.... (read in full...)
How long to wait for him to change?
Q. HI, I am a 20 year old in love with a 26 year old guy. We have been together since the last 2 years. From the beginning it has been like our relationship started by him telling me that dont expect any commitments of marriage. This is my first...
A. 8 June 2008: Darling do not waste another second with this eejit, he is not husband or boyfriend material. Find a guy who will love you for who you are, and not criticise you for who you are.... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex and I'm scared
Q. Last night, for the first time, i had unprotected sex with a bloke i dont know. im scared i may have a std or that im pregnant. i already hve a 3 month old daughter and i dont bellieve in abortions- im really scared to go to a gum clinic in case ...
A. 8 June 2008: Hun, I agree get the morning after pill. Next time practise safe sex. Ok?... (read in full...)
I get horny during my period. My boyfriend won't...
Q. hi everyone quick question when im on my period i get super horny and i want sex but my bf wont have sex with me bc im bleeding how can i convince him 2 have sex with me? plz can anyone tell me what 2 do he wont go into the shower with me when i ...
A. 7 June 2008: OMG that happens to me too. Women are at their most horniest when they are on a period. But my fella will not have sex with me whilst I am on, I don't blame him either as it is messy and very unpleasant.... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 7 June 2008: Darling...... What did you lie about to make your husband act this way??? It must have been something extremely serious for him to bear a grudge against you. MORE INFO PLEASE.... (read in full...)
He hates my whole past...so why does he say he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend dislikes my past... actually hates it. He just hates every aspect of it, he hates every guy I kissed, every guy I liked, every guy who liked me... he even dislikes some of my classmates just because we were good friends and used to hug. ...
A. 7 June 2008: Oh my God..... Your boyfriend is the most insecure, controlling and immature jerk I have ever heard of.
So what you are basically saying is , that every member of the male race that has crossed your path romantically or friendly he hates. What a p... (read in full...)
Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?
Q. I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...
A. 7 June 2008: My philosophy is..... DO NOT SLEEP WITH A PERSON UNTIL YOU KNOW THEIR SEXUAL HISTORY AND THAT HE/SHE HAS BEEN FULLY CHECKED OUT IN THE STD CLINIC.
Otherwise You Reap of what you sew.... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 7 June 2008: Let me give you 20 odd years years experience and insight of men in general and how they think.
1. His girlfriend could have the looks and body of Kate Moss and still he would look at other women eg on pornsites, walking down the road, in a pub/cl... (read in full...)
Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?
Q. I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...
A. 5 June 2008: There is nothing wrong with sleeping with guys on the first date, if that is what you want. But don't expect to live happily ever after, it rarely happens. Its obvious he has got what he wants from you and has had it on his toes.
Q. Are you look... (read in full...)
He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...
A. 5 June 2008: Get rid of this loser!!!! Before he gives you a STI.... (read in full...)
I feel as I am running out of solutions and am considering prostitution...
Q. i want to be a prostitute i am struggling with money at the moment and i need some to help me life and enjoy myself i live in england does anyone no of how i can do it or of any agencies to call ? ...
A. 4 June 2008: Eww Why do you want those dirty lechourous men mauling your body?
You should go to college and get some qualifications, so that you can get yourself a good job. And no I am not gonna give you any tips on how to sell your body on the streets.... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 4 June 2008: You are a very attractive girl, judging by your picture.
Why on earth does he want to look at ugly fake boobed dogs getting it on when he has a lovely looking girl like you?
I say dump him and look for a guy who will only have eyes for you.... (read in full...)
Sexless in New Jersey....
Q. Dear Cupid I've never had sex and this is what one woman said to me, "I'll have sex with any other penis on the planet, except yours". And that's the attitude of every woman I've met. Your (mine) penis is not going in my vagina, ever. So all the...
A. 3 June 2008: Hey I would never go out with a guy who is nasty and beats 9 types of crap out of me. I like a guy to treat me with respect and love me for who I am.
I really don't know why these women treat you like this,except they need their heads testing.... (read in full...)
Sexless in New Jersey....
Q. Dear Cupid I've never had sex and this is what one woman said to me, "I'll have sex with any other penis on the planet, except yours". And that's the attitude of every woman I've met. Your (mine) penis is not going in my vagina, ever. So all the...
A. 2 June 2008: Have you ever had a girlfriend in your entire life? If so why have you not had sex yet? Surely not every female you meet has said she does not want your penis anywhere near your vagina.
I mean a dick is a dick, whether its long,short,fat or thin.... (read in full...)
Sex with a co-worker tips, please no lectures.
Q. I want to know what is the best and easiest way to get a co-worker into bed, skip any moral lecture. How do I do this without embarrasing myself or getting into trouble at work, how could I find out what he thinks of me, without directly asking...
A. 2 June 2008: Ok no lectures...... But why make yourself look cheap?... (read in full...)
Sexless in New Jersey....
Q. Dear Cupid I've never had sex and this is what one woman said to me, "I'll have sex with any other penis on the planet, except yours". And that's the attitude of every woman I've met. Your (mine) penis is not going in my vagina, ever. So all the...
A. 2 June 2008: Next time you get a knock back from a woman about having sex with you....... Say to her "Actually Honey I don't your smelly pussy is worthy of my penis"!!!!
Why do these women say these things? Is it bevause you are not so well endowed or are you ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive and forget the one night stand he had when we had just started seeing each other?
Q. I just got engaged and found out a week later that my fiance had a one night stand a month after we met (2+ years ago). He told me about it bc I asked him and caught him in a lie about it (the weekends didn't match up; I have a better memory than ...
A. 1 June 2008: I believe if you date a guy, you should be faithful from the start and not date/sleep other people. (But that's me I am old fashioned like that I guess).
Why has he only told you now and not two years ago? I'm sorry but if that was me and I had al... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 1 June 2008: In the UK the age of consent is 16, but it doesn't mean it makes it right dating a guy old enough to be your father.
You don't say how long you two have been together, did you guys get together before you was 16? If you did have a relation... (read in full...)
Why do people think we are stupid little girls if we fancy a teacher?
Q. i may sound VERY naive right know but i have to ask this question,why do so many of you call us stupid little girls for liking(loving) our teachers?? we cant chose who we love you know our heart does.what if we really do have feelings for them.and...
A. 1 June 2008: I don't think it is stupid to have a crush on your teacher, but it is very stupid wanting to have a relationship with them.... (read in full...)
Could my fiance be cheating on me if he hasn't had sex with me for 2 months?
Q. Should I be worried if my fiance hasn't had sex with me for 2 months? I give him oral sex, but it also, is very rarely returned. I didn't think a male could go for that long without it. Is he cheating on me?...
A. 31 May 2008: Have you tried initiating sex? I think you should comunicate with him concerning this matter, as you do not say why you guys have not had sex in two months.
Does he give excuses of being too tired or has a headache?
I cannot say whether he i... (read in full...)
Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?
Q. DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...
A. 31 May 2008: SORRY TO TYPE IN CAPITAL LETTERS BUT MY KEY IS STUCK !!!!
NO DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE, BE MORE UNDERSTANDING AND HELP HER THROUGH IT.... (read in full...)
Do you think there is something wrong if a guy asks for sex all the time even though you told him that you were only interested in friendship?
Q. Hey everyone, I know i prolly shouldnt of done this but I did it. Anyway I met this nice guy in school and we became friends. I told him I was not interested in a relationship right now cause I am so busy with school and work. He was fine with that ...
A. 31 May 2008: How can he respect you when all he wants is sex? You crossed the line with him when you gave into his sexual urges.
Did you really want a platonic friendship or a FWB? You seem really confused of what you want from this guy, of course he is going... (read in full...)
I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.
Q. after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a ...
A. 30 May 2008: Darling are you fantasisng about this because your letter is UTTER TOSH!!!!!!! Sex should only be with your husband.... (read in full...)
Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?
Q. Hey sisters and brothers Just a funny one Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES! So, how do you guys feel over here? J...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi Lierin. Anon reader must be blind as they have got your gender wrong and called you "A stupid boy".
Regarding your question.... Not that I know of..... but hey they do usual blokey things like tie the groom to be naked to a lamp post. Women ca... (read in full...)
We are expecting our first child but she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no longer loves me, I cannot imagine being intimate with another woman...
Q. I split with my girlfriend 2 months ago, we are expecting our first child, she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no loger loves me. I feel very lonley very isolated, every night i dream of my ex and i wake up upset beca...
A. 30 May 2008: Oh Hun big hugs for you xxxxx. How disheartening for you to for her to let you down like this. Are there any other reasons why she has split up with apart from not loving you no more?
She may have found someone else, I don't mean to jump to concl... (read in full...)
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