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I have an issue with her about losing weight
Q. I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relation...
A. 14 February 2008: Hi anon reader. PMSL means ( Pissing myself laughing).... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm being selfish here?
Q. Dear Cupid, Am I being selfish? I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years and we have a son together. now the whole time that i was with him all he really spend on me was about 100-200 dollars. THE WHOLE TIME. he dont work or anything...
A. 13 February 2008: Let this lazy good for nothing get up from his fat lazy ass and find himself a job, so that he can pay for his own clothes,haircuts and ipod. You have one child to look after not two and spend your money on your son for God sake. He has ... (read in full...)
I want to trust him but I'm not sure if I can...
Q. Hi. I'm sixteen almost seventeen and have a wonderful boyfriend. Problem is I can't trust him. We've been together about 5 times before within the last 3 years, and everytime we broke up it was him who stopped the relationship. Our longest time ...
A. 13 February 2008: It seems this little boy that you call a wonderful boyfriend is not ready and mature for a relationship. You are too young to be tied with someone and should be thinking about your studies.
There are plenty of more fish in the sea, when the time... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to meet cheating fiance?
Q. Hello, I've been dating this guy for over a year. We've talked about getting married this summer and having children. Then, this happens... He recently cheated on me and I found out about it. Since then, our relationship has been st...
A. 13 February 2008: If you have any second thoughts of going back with him, then I suggest that you move on.
He had no reason to cheat on you, so why the hell should you give this cheating toerag another chance? He has shattered all your dreams of marriage and chil... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend a blowjob without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend has phimosis which means he can't pull his foreskin back without it hurting him. I want to give him a blow job but am unsure how to do this because of the phimosis and I really don't want to hurt him. Any ideas on the best way to do ...
A. 13 February 2008: I have never heard of this condition called Phimosis. Is there any way that he could have circumsision to cure this problem. Eek I feel sorry for the poor guy, I think you guys should put the oral sex on hold until he gets his problem sorted. Hope I ... (read in full...)
Should I go back home, or stay for the man I love?
Q. Do I go back to South Africa or do I stay with the man I love? I came to London with my two children one of which's father lives in London and we live with him. I was with him 14 years ago and we sadly parted. Now we are back in his life four...
A. 13 February 2008: I think you should kick his sorry ass to the kerb. He you give this guy an inch and he takes a mile. What has he done to make this relationship the second time around work? The answer, nothing. It makes me wonder why you ever got back with this guy ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like doing things for my fiancee and she's pregnant, am I unhappy? What should I do?
Q. I don't feel like doing things for my fiancee and she's pregnant, am I unhappy? What should I do?...
A. 13 February 2008: Be a man and look after your pregnant fiancee she needs you. I rest my case.... (read in full...)
I have an issue with her about losing weight
Q. I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relation...
A. 13 February 2008: Since you are 50 years old. What does your gf say about your middle aged spread ie fat gut? pmsl!!!!... (read in full...)
He wants me to prove myself by dancing for him....any pointers??
Q. This is for the females that like to fulfill their mans fantasy or wishes. Or for the Men out there that know what they want with a sexual dance. Has anyone ever danced for their boyfriend or husband before? If so, please help me because my boyfr...
A. 12 February 2008: Don't get pressured into dancing for him just to prove that you love him. In a way this is kind of emotional blackmail, sure having his lover dancing provocatively is most guys fantasy, but don't be cajoled into it.
Confidence comes within a... (read in full...)
How to guess which women are okay with an age difference?
Q. The women I most often have chemistry with are usually in the 20-24 age range. Why? It might be that I'm basically young at heart. It might be that my values and culture are closer to Generation Y than Generation X. But at the end of the day, it ...
A. 11 February 2008: Don't lie about your age. Age is a number and should never be an issue. You should take people as they are and not worry about age, as I feel they will not be put off if you are honest with them in the first place. Its fine to date women who are a ... (read in full...)
Am I going over the top being so opinionated with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now. We always have fights and disagreements and we quarrel sometimes. I must admit we are both strong characters and when we get angry we both hit the roof. I am now feeling drained about the ...
A. 11 February 2008: I don't think you are being opinionated at all. If he wants to waste his money on the hovel he lives in, then so be it. I would ditch this nasty, manipulating jerk and find a guy who values your opinion. Why should you care about his living ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of his ex permanently from our lives??
Q. I joined this site last year complaining about my partners ex, she's still being a bitch, slagging me off at regular intervals and now she's taken to sending mail to my address for my partner. We've been together for 13 months now and still she gets...
A. 11 February 2008: I with Richard on this one Hun.... (read in full...)
He cheats and cheats and cheats. What to do?
Q. hi i been wid my partner from last 5 years. Several times he has cheated on me, but i love him more than anything . is this just stupid love? evrytime he gets caught he promises me neva again. this has been ongoing. i have considered leaving ...
A. 11 February 2008: I agree with everyone on this one. Leave the snivelling cheat and get a guy who is exclusive to you. Dusky xxx.... (read in full...)
Should I or Shouldn't I???
Q. I recently met a great guy online. However he lives 1200 miles away. Anyhow, I was supposed to visit him few weeks ago and although he didn't know I had already booked a hotel. (he thought that I would stay with him cuz we do have mutual friends ...
A. 11 February 2008: Woah slow down rewind and stop going fast forward!!!
What is the hurry? Go ahead and go on date with him, but if I was you leave it at that and don't sleep with him on the first date. Yes by all means check into a hotel, but minus him. You don'... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me so badly?
Q. My boyfriend has been treating me really bad and I don't know how to tell him how he's been treating me because whenever I try to tell him he gets mad. He never wants to talk unless we're having sex. If we're not having sex and I try to talk to him ...
A. 10 February 2008: I can't believe any person in this day and age would want to be with a nasty,selfish and uncaring pathetic creature.
He is taking the p*ss out of you and only wants you for his sexual gratification. Do yourself a favour and dump this horrible... (read in full...)
I met him on line, do you think he is a pervert?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need some opinions from people. I have msn and lately some one added me on their msn list. I clicked him/she and asked them and it was a boy. He said he gave me his email. He said he was 17 and I saw his display pic so ...
A. 6 February 2008: Yes I think he is a pervert, and also he maybe a paedophile who is grooming for young girls. So if I was you I would block this nasty person from your msn and cut all contact. You have got to be very careful there are a lot of unsavoury characters ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 & he's 43, is that legal?
Q. im nearly 17 and he is 43 weve been together nearly a year at first i lied about my age but now he knows the truth he still loves me , but is what were doing legal?...
A. 5 February 2008: It seems to me that you are having second thoughts about this relationship, otherwise you would not be asking our opinions.
What is it you two have in common? I have a daughter the same age as you, and would be horrified if she brought a man home... (read in full...)
Should I go through with this marriage?
Q. I need help! I have been living with my fiance the past 2 years and engaged for 1 year. We are supposed to get married in 4 months! I just found out from a friend he cheated on me the first year and a half we were together. He has now admitted to ...
A. 3 February 2008: Ditch him and find a guy who will be exclusive to you.... (read in full...)
22, My mother is ruining my life! What should I do?
Q. I have one more question for the day/night. Ok. My mother treats me like a 2 year old and I'm actually 22 and she baby-sits me and she won't let me do things like go out with my friends or anything. I have to come home at 10 or before she gets home ...
A. 3 February 2008: I think you should be firm with your mum and tell her that you are an adult and should be treated like one too.
Explain to her that you feel you should go out and socialise, if she does demand you that you should be in by ten oclock. Tell her that... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong or should I just get over it?
Q. I'm in a serious relationship with a guy who's 22 and I'm 19. We've been together for 7 months. He's very sweet, kind, emotional and just all around a good person. He's always willing to help me and I know in my heart that he really loves me. ...
A. 2 February 2008: What your fella has done is Statutory Rape and really should have known better. Although that he regrets what he has done, it does not change the fact that he slept with a minor.
If what he has done is totally unforgivable, then I would call thi... (read in full...)
Why is my tampon no longer fitting??
Q. This is mostly directed towards the women, but if you're a guy and you know what's up don't hesitate to make a suggestion. A few months ago, maybe three, the tampons I use (regular tampax pearl) that usually glide right in stopped working for me. ...
A. 1 February 2008: Go to the doctor you may have an infection and explain this problem about inserting tampons to him/her. You can use tampons even if you are not sexually active. Use sanitary towels from now on and make sure when you have a period wash yourself there ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I am afraid of my 54 yr old Therepist
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad for quite a long time so my Mom got me to talk to a counseller. I've been seeing him for a couple months now and yesterday when I saw him I felt really uncomfortable. So he's 54 and I'm only 13. I was ...
A. 1 February 2008: Hi Hun, if you feel uncomfortable with your councellor looking at you in an inappropriate way tell your mother and get her to register you to a different person.
Good Luck Hun. Dusky xxx... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't want sex with me anymore...
Q. I am 23yr old and i have been with my fiance for 4yrs. Over the last year or so he has become less and less interested in sex with me all he wants is handjobs. I understand that this might be something he is into but it just seems its all about him, ...
A. 31 January 2008: I think before you and your fiance get married, you and him need to sit down and talk about why he finds sex such a chore. I assume you guys had a good sex life beforehand, as you give him handjobs its obvious he still has a libido.
Ask him if y... (read in full...)
My son is punished everytime my husband drinks.
Q. my husband is the greatest guy in the world until he starts drinking, he loves my son from a previous marraige, but when he drinks it seems like my son is the worst kid in the world and I am the worst mother. I was going to leave him a couple of ...
A. 30 January 2008: What sort of mother are you to accept this sort of behaviour from a guy who is supposed to be your son's role model? Plus you call your hubby the greatest guy in the world, even the greatest guy in the world would not treat his wife and her son like ... (read in full...)
He abuses me emotionally, But I can't leave him!
Q. Please help me. I'm desperate. I am so in love with my bf, I mean I have never been in love like I am now, but things have happened, I should leave him. Things have turned so nasty between us, but I am so in love, I can't actually tell the diff...
A. 30 January 2008: I agree with all the aunts he is nothing but a disgusting lowlife, who needs to be taken down a peg or two.
What gets me is that he calls you a psycho, and yet he spits at you and makes you feel a miilimetre big. He should take a good look at hims... (read in full...)
I want to go on the "Pill", how do I go about it?
Q. need advice on the pill really, i really want to go on it but ive never had sex and never had really bad periods really, thing is i dont fully understand it any advice on the pill plz ...
A. 28 January 2008: I am not a great fan of the pill myself, I find it puts weight on you, you have to keep remembering to take it and has side effects. I had a coil fitted a year ago and has never looked back, for the first three months your periods are all over the ... (read in full...)
She swears undying love for me but I have seen her have cybersex. Am I being unreasonable??
Q. Can anyone tell me why people go to dating sites as single if they don't want to meet anyone? Over almost 2 years me and my partner have had several upsets due to her going on date and flirt sites. No matter what is said the truth is i am always c...
A. 24 January 2008: Don't you just hate double standards? If she is declaring her undying love for you, she has a funny way of showing it. I think you should knock this thing about her flirting, cybersex and going on dating sites once and for all. She is taking y... (read in full...)
I want more than just a kiss now and then. How do I initiate it?
Q. Hi everyone! I have been with a guy for 2 years. It is my first bf. It started as a long distance relationship, but now I stay with him. I am his first gf too! He is a very shy guy. The problem is physically. We kiss each other goodbye every...
A. 23 January 2008: Gosh!!! Where do I start? Ok here goes.
I suggest you guys sit down and have a good old chat, (communication in a relationship is a MUST). Tell him that after two years together, that you would like to get intimate ie making love. He is probably... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 21 January 2008: Bravo I am glad you have seen the light.... (read in full...)
Could extra viginal skin be a problem (thus have to be removed)?
Q. Okay this is gonna sound really wierd coming from a 14 year old virgin girl(and no this is not about me wanting to have sex now. I find that really nasty). Okay well, in my family girls have "extra skin" over vaginas.(like two flaps)My sister had to ...
A. 21 January 2008: Lol thats ok. I just think having that sort of surgery is so unneccessary.... (read in full...)
What to wear for VERY posh dinner??
Q. My boyfriend is taking me to a very expensive hotel in a couple of weeks. I know it's costing in excess of £200 a night, so my reason for panic is what do I wear? We're eating at the restaurant there, and I don't really have any knowledge of what ...
A. 20 January 2008: Go on the Debenhams store website and look at the evening dresses that are advertised on there. They are beautiful and also the designer dresses from Ben De Lisi or Pierce To Fionda do lovely dresses and they do not break the bank balance either.
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How do I deal with a compulsive liar?
Q. my boyfriend lies to me. we've been dating for a bit more than four years he lied once in the first 4-5 months of our rship. he went to a friends cabin for the summer and he spent the time there hanging out with his ex-gf. he lied to me about th...
A. 20 January 2008: I am surprised that you guys have been together this long.
If you find this relationship is emotionally draining, then get out and find some one who you can trust. This re;ationship is built on lies and deceit, he lies abot his exes, he lies abou... (read in full...)
I'm quite shy - any tips on getting out and meeting people?
Q. I'm sick of the boys at my school and I feel like I need to meet new people, but I'm not sure how. I've spent too long waiting for fate, and I want to take matters into my own hands. I'm 18, so legally allowed in pub and bars but its not like I ...
A. 20 January 2008: You seem to be confused about your age here, if you don't mind me saying so. Anyway enough of that.
Meeting guys in pub/clubs is ok, but they are there for one thing and that is to score with the women. By all means go clubbing/pubbing and have... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 20 January 2008: Drop this middle aged Lothario like a Hot Potato. Find a guy who only has eyes for you, you need this creep and the pain that he causes you like a hole in the head.
She is welcome to him, she will find out in time what a two timing rat he really i... (read in full...)
Could extra viginal skin be a problem (thus have to be removed)?
Q. Okay this is gonna sound really wierd coming from a 14 year old virgin girl(and no this is not about me wanting to have sex now. I find that really nasty). Okay well, in my family girls have "extra skin" over vaginas.(like two flaps)My sister had to ...
A. 20 January 2008: Eww!!! Please think twice before you have such a procedure done. I have an extra bit skin too. This does not stop you from having a fulfilling sexual relationship. Your vagina is a very delicate organ, I would go and have a word with your GP abot ... (read in full...)
Is he looking for a polite way to leave me?
Q. hi. I have been dating the most amazing man I have ever met for five months. He is very sincere and upfront about his thoughts and feelings. He has told me he loves me, that he couldn't see himself with anybody else ever, that I can trust him and so ...
A. 20 January 2008: You don't say what has triggered off your depression. Is it that you find schoolwork is getting on top of you? Does it stem from childhood or has there been a death in the family. Whatever it may be, I think you should see a councellor or your GP ... (read in full...)
She's split up with he bf but not said a word...what should I do??
Q. There is someone i like and asked out a few months back. At the time she said that she had a bf but still liked me. She recently broke up with her bf but hasn't said anything to me. I still like her but i don't know what to do! Should i say anyt...
A. 19 January 2008: Go for it!!! What have you got to lose? The best of luck my love. Dusky xxx... (read in full...)
His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies ...
A. 19 January 2008: Sorry Bubbloo I mis-spelt your name.... (read in full...)
His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies ...
A. 19 January 2008: Get out of this relationship !!! You worth so much more than some vile bully constantly putting you down, there is no excuse for his behaviour he will never change. As Bubberloo said you should have walked out on him when he first cheated on you, ... (read in full...)
Tony or Adrien - which do I choose?
Q. Hey I need help. I have two guys I really like ones name is tony and the other is adrien and tony lives here and adrien lives in new york. I've met tony and he's nice but he's very hyper he can't sit still for very long he's very goofy and isn't ...
A. 19 January 2008: As Irish 49 said. Do you think you can really get involved with a guy who has children and an ex wife? I think you should find a guy that does not come with extra baggage unless you are mature enough to handle the situation.
Go and have fun with... (read in full...)
Met a guy off the internet, had sex and I like him. How do I tell him about my son?
Q. I'm 19, and I've been meeting guys off the internet. I've already met 3 this week, I've had sex with 2 of them and realised I like 1 of them. I've met him twice, but we only met for sex. He wants to meet me again and knows I have an 8 month old son. ...
A. 19 January 2008: Glad to have been of help. I still think you should take it on step at a time with this guy and do not show yourself desparate to find a substitute father for your son otherwise you may just shoot yourself in the foot.
I don't think it is a goo... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake by not telling him I am a virgin?
Q. hi everyone, ive recently had my first kind of relationship but it only lasted 3 weeks the guy i was kind of seeing was a lot older then me and more exprienced he had 3 children,anyway i stayed round his house about 4 times and really wanted to have ...
A. 17 January 2008: I don't think you have anything to be ashamed about, this guy clearly made you feel inferior because of your inexperience. Move on and find someone who wants you for yourself, hopefully the next guy will be more understanding and treat you with more ... (read in full...)
Met a guy off the internet, had sex and I like him. How do I tell him about my son?
Q. I'm 19, and I've been meeting guys off the internet. I've already met 3 this week, I've had sex with 2 of them and realised I like 1 of them. I've met him twice, but we only met for sex. He wants to meet me again and knows I have an 8 month old son. ...
A. 15 January 2008: You are going in a completely wrong way to find a father for your son.
1. Meeting them for casual sex is wrong and you can catch a STD off these guys.
2. I think you should concentrate on being a good role model for your son and also concent... (read in full...)
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