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I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!
Q. I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...
A. 19 April 2008: Darling you are twenty years old???? Surely you should know by now that you should use condoms only once and not three or four times. I think you need education on contraception my dear xxxx.... (read in full...)
Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?
Q. Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if ...
A. 19 April 2008: I lived with someone for almost eight years who was not very experienced albeit older than me. He held very conservative views about sex, he did not like oral sex of any kind and did not know how to french kiss. It was like kissing a tortoise ... (read in full...)
Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?
Q. As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...
A. 18 April 2008: Oh Tellulah what you said is BRILLIANT. I wish I thought of that lol. People on here must think us Brits are barking mad xxxxxx.... (read in full...)
He says he hasn't cheated on me or met with anyone. what do you think?
Q. What should I do. I have been married for 14 Years. We dated two years before we got married.Well last year my husband started acting weird. It all started when we switched cell phone companies. He started playing games on his phone. Then he decides ...
A. 18 April 2008: In my opinion I think your hubby is playing away. He is certainly showing all classic examples ie getting a video/camera mobile (cell) phone and not letting it out of his sight etc etc.
Give him an ultimatum if he contiues to take the p*ss and... (read in full...)
Can "shemales" become parents?
Q. I have 2 Questions 1. Can Shemales become pregnant 2. Could Shemales make a Lady Pregnant...
A. 18 April 2008: There are people in this world called Haemaphrodites, born with both sex organs. You might say go F**K yourself PMSL... (read in full...)
Can "shemales" become parents?
Q. I have 2 Questions 1. Can Shemales become pregnant 2. Could Shemales make a Lady Pregnant...
A. 18 April 2008: Oh another thing if you a man turning into a woman then NO you can't get pregnant as you will need a uterous for the baby to gestate xxxx... (read in full...)
Can "shemales" become parents?
Q. I have 2 Questions 1. Can Shemales become pregnant 2. Could Shemales make a Lady Pregnant...
A. 18 April 2008: If a guy is in the process of becoming a woman and still has his tackle intact then yes he can make a woman pregnant.
If a woman is in the process of becoming a man and does not have a tackle intact then yes she can become pregnant.
Sorry I... (read in full...)
Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?
Q. Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if ...
A. 18 April 2008: I feel it is high time you guys sat down and discussed the intimate side of your relationship, don't you?
There are thousands of couples who don't communicate about their relationship, they just simply go through the same tired old motions and get ... (read in full...)
Why does he keep flirting with my friend!
Q. every time me and my boyfriend hang out with one of my best friends he seems to always flirt with her. whenever we arent with her he says we should go hang out with her. what should I do???...
A. 18 April 2008: Tell this Bozo stop flirting with my friend or you are HISTORY. Better still when you hang around with his friends flirt with them like mad, see what reaction you get out of him. If he gets mad then simply turn around and say "Honey what is sauce ... (read in full...)
He's giving me mixed messages-Should I leave him alone or am I overreacting?
Q. I met this really nice guy at a company party 2 1/2 months ago. We got along very good, and things seemed nice. We went on our first date to a nice restaurant, and after went back to his apartment and ended up having sex. Since then, we have been ...
A. 18 April 2008: If he likes being around you,then why does the dates that you guys arrange falls through? Sorry but this guy is dangling you on a piece of string, because he has got what he wants from you ie SEX now he is just left you on a cliffhanger wondering ... (read in full...)
Going to write her a letter. If this was you, what would you write?
Q. I want to write a letter to my girlfriend and I need some good ideas. My girlfriend lives in Southern California and I live in Northern California (about 400 miles away). She is currently 5 and 1/2 months pregnant with my son. She is with her family ...
A. 17 April 2008: Pregnancy can make you emotional and moody,as your hormones are all over the place. Go over to where she is and have a good talk with her, right now she is in no fit state to conversate with you over the phone if you are 400 miles away and you ... (read in full...)
How frequently is it healthy for a guy to have sex?
Q. hope all is well for whoever visits this site as much as i do. Pliz ladies and gentle men i have one hell of a dielma! How frequently is it healthy for a guy like between 24-30yrs to have sex, as in with a chic? Even then is it possible for a g...
A. 17 April 2008: Well Honey my motto is...... Its not the Quantity of sex that counts but the Quality of sex that counts.
My boyfriend and I don't see eachother that often, maybe once a week perhaps. He works very long and tiring hours, but boy when we do get toge... (read in full...)
Am I being a complete idiot and clinging onto something that isnt going to work.. or is there light at the end of the tunnel?
Q. Okay.. I have been seeing this guy since last July, and we hit it off straight away. He is 10 years older than me and had just come out of a 23 year relationship.. He has 2 children, one of 10 and another 20.. He moved out and rented his own flat. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Hurrah you sound like a very sensible balanced person, I am so glad you have seen the light. There are so many people who come on here and put up with a load of crap and very seldom see the light. Hence they continue making excuses for their ... (read in full...)
My soon-to-be husband sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone, once even asked out a married woman. Am I denial, minimising the magnitude of his habit?
Q. Me and my bf are in a serious relationship and have plans to get married by hopefully next year. There's one issue that has been bothering me though.. he sometimes flirts with women online or on the phone. He has done this a few times in the past ...
A. 17 April 2008: Open your eyes dear, this guy is a player Period!!!
Ditch him and find a guy who does not flirt or ask women on dates. You deserve better than wasting your precious time with this complete and utter bastard.... (read in full...)
Am I being a complete idiot and clinging onto something that isnt going to work.. or is there light at the end of the tunnel?
Q. Okay.. I have been seeing this guy since last July, and we hit it off straight away. He is 10 years older than me and had just come out of a 23 year relationship.. He has 2 children, one of 10 and another 20.. He moved out and rented his own flat. ...
A. 17 April 2008: OMG Where does one start? Ok here goes.....
I think this guy is going through a mid-life crisis and here is why. He has naked photos of women on his mobile, so my guess is he is getting his jollies elsewhere. I mean he has been with his ex for 2... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list
Q. I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Fab idea keep up the brilliant work, Dusky xxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Need help he never rang back
Q. Hi I need advice what to do, been seeing a lovely guy for around 8months, never really argued, treated eachother equally, he rings me all the time, he works away and just got back home and rang me, everything was fine, and he said he had a lot to do ...
A. 17 April 2008: This guy has a lot of anger issues, I mean you ring him up to try and arrange a meeting with you and then he jumps down your throat. He is in the wrong not you, so next time he rings up tell him straight that he has upset you with his behaviour and ... (read in full...)
He's asked me for my patience and support, and to do what I do best: love him. But what if he will never reciprocate?
Q. Okay, so things were going okay with my boyfriend. We'd met up, kissed, cuddled, held hands and been going out for two weeks. In the last few days we'd been chatting every night, and he confided in me yesterday that he was finding them hard, and ...
A. 17 April 2008: Two weeks is not enough to know whether you are right for each other. He is clearly trying to get over his ex, do not rush things. Enjoy what time you have together, without putting on the pressure of that four letter word. Relationships need time ... (read in full...)
My heart is broken into little bits and he wont take responsibility
Q. I apologize that this is very long, i feel i need to explain the events, please if you could, just give me some insight: Our 1 year anniversary would have been next week. I met him, and fell for him right away, he always told me he always knew w...
A. 17 April 2008: You are trying too hard to make this relationship to work and what does he give you back??? Nothing that's what!!!
He comes and goes as he pleases without giving anything return, plus you are being very needy which can scare guys off if you act ... (read in full...)
My heart is broken into little bits and he wont take responsibility
Q. I apologize that this is very long, i feel i need to explain the events, please if you could, just give me some insight: Our 1 year anniversary would have been next week. I met him, and fell for him right away, he always told me he always knew w...
A. 17 April 2008: My God he knows how to dangle you on a piece of string doesn't he? Cut your losses and ditch this guy, he is clearly unreliable and inconsiderate.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lives with his ex, I feel like an outsider but am afraid to discuss it with him!
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and love him very much. However, I am finding things difficult as he still lives with his ex and I feel a bit like an outsider in his life. He recently said that he is happy living with his ex. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Oh my God, I don't know why anyone would want to date a guy who still lives with his ex. Listen Darling if he really loves and cares about your feelings, then he would do the decent thing and move away from his ex.
I kinda get the feeling that the... (read in full...)
I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!
Q. I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...
A. 17 April 2008: THIS IS A SICK HOAX SURELY.......... If not you need a damn good spanking young lady.... (read in full...)
I need to look sexy for my boyfriend....I need help!!
Q. hi i need help from everyone alot of help! so i want to do something very sexy for my boyfriend and i have no idea what to do! ill explain wht i look like so you can get an idea of what he has to look at everyday im 5'5" green eyes pink hair okay ...
A. 17 April 2008: Jeans, a nice feminine top (nothing too low cut you want to leave something to the imagination) and a pair of high heeled shoes can make you look quite sexy. Make sure he makes the equal effort too.
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I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...
Q. hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...
A. 16 April 2008: No don't tell him just admire him from afar.... (read in full...)
Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?
Q. As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...
A. 16 April 2008: BLESSED ARE THE FORNICATORS AND THE ADULERERS The Gospel according to St Dusky........... LMAO... (read in full...)
Single mother and finding it difficult to get acquainted to new men, any suggestions?
Q. I am a single mother with two children having a hard time meeting new men. Any suggestions on how to get myself back out there and meet new people?...
A. 16 April 2008: For God sake don't get aquainted with Southern man he is a religious nutter who comes on here and says that people who fornicate and commit adultery will not go to heaven etc etc.
On a serious note there are dating websites for single parents.... (read in full...)
Why do men have such problems with my past sex life?
Q. Why do men i date find my one night stands in the past distasteful?...
A. 16 April 2008: My motto is..... What they do not know won't hurt them!!!!
If you give too much away about yourself, ie your past sex life then men are more inclined to use you as they feel that you are fair game.
Boasting about your one night stands is ra... (read in full...)
It haunts me a lot, the idea that my girlfriend has slept with other men...
Q. I still have a problem accepting the fact that my girlfriend has slept with other men. Three others to be exact. Now, I do not judge her for it. It does not change the fact that I love her. It just hurts sometimes, like if I see a picture of one ...
A. 16 April 2008: Oh for God sake GROW UP!!!! You don't happen to be a friend of Southern Man do you ????? So she has slept with other men 3 times before you, you have had experience as well. So stop being a Self rightious hypocrite and love your gf or find yourself ... (read in full...)
Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?
Q. As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...
A. 16 April 2008: LOOK SOUTHERN MAN DO NOT KNOCK WHAT YOU HAVE NOT TRIED. GO GET YOURSELF A WOMAN AND SHAG THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OUT OF HER. IT IS CLEARLY THAT YOU ARE SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED AND CANNOT GET A WOMAN AS YOU ARE A FLAMING NUTTER!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me 6 days a week and 1 day with another woman!!
Q. I already know the answer here ....just would like some positive words to help get through this... I have been with my boyfriend(X now) for 6 1/2 years...been through the ups and downs, i'm his best friend, I gave him my all - sexually, taken ...
A. 15 April 2008: Listen love if you want to make yourself look attractive, then do it for yourself not for any man.
I don't understand why you want to marry someone if he wants a bit on the side albeit just one day a week. Get some balls hun and refuse to be treat... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 15 April 2008: I hope you practised safe sex, because you are playing Russian Roulette with your health by having sex with a guy that you picked up from a club.
Call him by all means, but if he does not respond to your call, then put it down to experien... (read in full...)
When's the right time to tell her I have a child?
Q. I met a really nice girl about 3 weeks ago and we have been out on one date that went really well, i'm 32 and she is 25. Since then we have been texting each other alot and we are arranging to go out again real soon. I really do like this girl alot...
A. 15 April 2008: Look Hun if you do tell her that you have a son from a previous relationship and she does ditch you, then she is not worth dating. On the other hand she may admire your honesty and would like to take things further. So I would say honesty is the ... (read in full...)
After 13 years, he still has trust issues with me!!
Q. I am in a real mess. Married 25 years. First year a guy friend tried to get next to me, then another one over a 12 year period. Husband knew but I didn't confirm it at the time. He even thinks I have them over our house, because about 20 years ago ...
A. 15 April 2008: Yes leave this hypocrite and find a man who loves,cherishes and trusts you 100%.... (read in full...)
My sister's marrying her BF next year and the family are very uncomfortable with this - he has a record!!
Q. Hi, I have a problem, I live with my girlfriend and my family and I'm worried about my sister - she's 18 and her boyfriend is 34. I already think this is a bit wrong but the thing is he's just got out of prison after being there for three months. ...
A. 15 April 2008: Do you know for sure whether he has actually had sexual relations underage girls that he met on the internet? Because no man in his right mind would meet up with young girls just to be nice to them, unless he was nice to them in a different way (If ... (read in full...)
Does a preferred position say something about a man's personality? (controlling for example)
Q. Just curious...if a man says his favourite position to make love is the doggy style, does it say something about his personality i.e. selfish? From a woman's point of view, I think it is, as the position only enable the man to have full control from ...
A. 14 April 2008: Glad to be of help xxxxx.... (read in full...)
What would be fun for a second date?
Q. I met a girl on myspace, and we have a lot in common. I have taken her out on a first date. We met at a local resaurant and had a drink, and shared an appetizer plate. Then we went to a local pool hall and played pool, foosball, and some ...
A. 14 April 2008: Kay Kay you are a girl after my own heart. I love the beach and picnics in the park. I am very romantic person and dropping heavy hints to my man about doing those things too.... (read in full...)
Does a preferred position say something about a man's personality? (controlling for example)
Q. Just curious...if a man says his favourite position to make love is the doggy style, does it say something about his personality i.e. selfish? From a woman's point of view, I think it is, as the position only enable the man to have full control from ...
A. 14 April 2008: There are thousands of women who love that position and does not feel that it is selfish. This position enhances deep penetration and you can have amazing orgasms too. My fave position is woman on top, that way you can control the movements and the ... (read in full...)
My partner left me after finding beastiality on my computer. I'm terribly depressed and regretful.
Q. my girlfriend found beastiality on my computer as i was looking at it while she was at work. i have never done anything else but look at it. i know it is terrible and gross but sometimes the sickest things turn people on. she left me and told me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: OMG. Curiousity certainly killed the cat with you didn't it? People seem to think that downloading porn of any kind is harmless fun and that they will never get caught out.
I can see why you did it, albeit you would never dream of doing it. You ... (read in full...)
He don't give me money,but I feel he should do that sometimes or buy me things
Q. dear cupid, i've been in a relationship for four months now with a young charming guy,he is 27 n very matured. i get scared sometimes cos of things i have experienced in my past relationships.he is very nice n caring also matured as well,but i fi...
A. 13 April 2008: As The Beatles sang "Money can't buy you love". So do take note dear. Ciao Dusky xxx.... (read in full...)
I never thought this could happen but I've fallen for my brother. How do I tell my friends?
Q. I never thought this would happen but I fell for my brother. We always got along,arguing every now and then like any brother and sister. One day I was fixing to go out with my boyfriend. As I was in the restroom finishing up my make-up(I had the ...
A. 13 April 2008: To the poster and BazookaBob, I think you are VERY SICK PEOPLE. Bob you are a DISGRACE, how utterly appalling that you should give the advice of a woman in her twenties that she should sleep with her BROTHER. You give all the Aunts on here a bad ... (read in full...)
Am I a one-night-stand for her?? Oh, I wish I didn't have sex with her that quickly!
Q. hey people! Here's my issue. I met this girl on an on-line dating site here in Spain. We had one date- and things got along fairly well. She seemed really intelligent (teaches at university) and not at all boring to talk to. I had some...
A. 12 April 2008: OMG What possessed you to have unprotected sex with her? I think that she is a predator, Period and just used you for sex and has moved onto her next conquest.
She made it clear she did not want a relationship and gets bored easily. If I was you ... (read in full...)
What are signs that someone is gay?
Q. out of curiosity what are signs that people are gay?? e.g taking shirt off with crossed hands and over the head. any more?? ...
A. 12 April 2008: LOL Oh Phil your answer has made me cry with laughter!!!
Lucky I am wearing my Tena Lady (Just kidding). Keep all the Aunts and Uncles laughing. YOU ROCK MAN!!!!... (read in full...)
Why is he so selfish in bed, I do everything - but get nothing in return!
Q. My boyfriend is so selfish in bed, our sex is praciticly a routine. I do everything for him, i want to be a good lover to him and i put his pleasure first. He asks me to wear sexy outfits and underwear when we have sex, which is fine with me. He ...
A. 12 April 2008: TELL HIM HE IS A CRAP LOVER WITH A MINUTE WEENY TODGER AND YOU ARE GONNA DUMP HIM !!!!!!... (read in full...)
Can I become an Agony Aunt?
Q. Hey, I'm Chloe, i'm using dear cupid, because i used to love talking to agony aunts, and they always gave good advice when i didn't know who to ask. So i would like to become like that, and help others out from my experience, can i? Chloe x...
A. 12 April 2008: Hey honey welcome aboard and the very best of luck with becoming an Agony Aunt. Dusky xxxxxxxx.... (read in full...)
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