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I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: Dear female anonymous reader. How would you feel if your own mother shagged your boyfriend?????
Over the moon ?????? No I didn't think so!!!!!... (read in full...)
I don't think its possible for me to have sex because I am so tight...what is wrong with me??
Q. I don't know what is wrong with me. I have never had sex but i don't think it is possible for me too anyway. I am so tight i can't even put in a tampon without it hurting too much to bare. I have tried fingering myself to see if it was possible and ...
A. 20 February 2008: I have read this letter before a few weeks ago plus you seem confused with your age too.... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: Morale dilemma????? Huh!!!! you can't even spell the word "Moral"!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: You have got to be the worst mother I have ever come across. You knew full well he is dating your daughter, yet you schemed your way into bed with him just because he flirted with you. Irish and all the other aunts are right, this sort of behaviour ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to end it....? Is he afraid of being hurt??
Q. I love my boyfriend and he loves me. He cried and told me he is jealous when i go out with my friend(male), now he want to end our relationship. Could you tell me why and is he afraid of being hurt?...
A. 20 February 2008: In my opinion he is being controlling and manipulative, by dictating to you about who you should be friends with. What an absolute wuss this guy is by turning on the waterworks and emotionally blackmailing you to end your friendship with this other ... (read in full...)
We had an affair since I was 13, I want knew things now but am worried about losing this man
Q. Hi there, I am a 21 year old woman and when i was 13 years old i started working at my local restaurant where i met my boss. Work was a much more stress free environment compared with home life and when my boss came onto my i just went with t...
A. 20 February 2008: Irish's answer is absolutely spot on. This man took advantage of your innocence, when you was going through a bad period with your family. He was far from being supportive and violated you in the worst possible way when you was at your most ... (read in full...)
We flirted, we messaged... but it's dull! How can I make this more interesting?
Q. Hello I've met a girl through a "meet me" application on the internet. I've started messaging her, but how can I make it more interesting? I don't want her to find me boring just because of how we're e-mailing. Basically, I "sent her a flirt" and...
A. 20 February 2008: The next time you email her, I would type something like this. Hi there my name is ........., I think your ad is great, I also like (whatever movie or music taste she happens to mention that she likes). If you would like a chat here is my addy so ... (read in full...)
I dream my girl cheated on me, am I being paranoid?
Q. i recently had a dream of my girlfriend cheating on me. and in the past i have always been very reluctant to trust any girl that i have been with, including my current girlfriend. we have been together for nearly 16 months now, and no strong trust ...
A. 20 February 2008: Yes I do think you are being paranoid and looking too much into your dream. Your girlfriend has not given you any indications of cheating on you, she told you how she got the mark on her arm saying her friend who happens to be male had done it cos ... (read in full...)
We used to treat each other with little respect and now I get butterflies whenever he comes near me! Why??
Q. A bit of a shallow question I know and I feel really bad asking about it. Theres this guy I work with. Never been attracted to him. In fact we have a bit of history or "not getting on." As I've said, never found him attractive, but lately we ...
A. 19 February 2008: He doesn't have to look like Brad Pitt, for you to be attracted to him. I think you may have found his mature approach on having a good working relationship attractive and also how he carries himself.
I think that is rather a good quality of a pot... (read in full...)
I was suggested a threesome with my mother and her lover, when this woman found out I was bisexual!
Q. Hiya all so iam 18 years old and i realy badly need HELP!! when i was 11 my mum left my dad for a women at her gym. I live with my dad and he realy hates the both of them so i now live with my mum and her lover. we talk about...
A. 19 February 2008: What do you mean what should you do? Surely you are not serious about having a sexual relationship with your mother and her lover. OMG that is sick and your mum's lover is way out of line by asking you.
Find yourself your own lover and get thes... (read in full...)
Don't want to leave my feelings unspoken too long before she finds someone new, but should I tell her now, after her recent break up?
Q. Hi. My (female) best friend has just (about 6 weeks ago) broken up with her boyfriend of two years. Since then we have been spending quite a lot of time together and I feel like we've become even closer than we always have been. The problem ...
A. 19 February 2008: The only thing I can suggest, talk to her and ask if she is ready to date anyone at the moment. Six weeks is not too long to get over a relationship and she is probably still raw from the break up. If and when she is ready, then tell her you really ... (read in full...)
Vaginal noise, really embarassing. Why does it happen?
Q. Hi, I have quite an embarrising problem after i've had sex. Well the thing is, during sex air seems to get trapped in my vagina and afterwards it all comes out! It sounds like i've broken wind but i honestly haven't! It's really embarrising and i ...
A. 19 February 2008: That happens to me while my fella and I when we get passionate. We just make a joke out of it and have a damn good laugh about it. Stop worrying this is normal, I know its embarassing but hey you can have a laugh in bed as well as out of bed with ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont go down on me
Q. My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 7 months. She has always said that she thinks sucking dick is disgusting. However she said that she has done it in the past to other guys. It is really starting to bother me everytime we talk about ...
A. 19 February 2008: She may have had bad experiences in the past going down on a man and is traumatised by it. I think you are being selfish, by giving her conditions like, if she cared for me or she may find me unattractive. This has absolutely nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
He takes offence when I don't swallow his cum.
Q. I tried really hard to talk to my boyfriend about him cumming in my mouth, because he loves the thought, but whenever he has in the past, I've had to stop myself gagging. I don't think it's the taste, but kind of the gooey texture.. I just don't ...
A. 18 February 2008: I think swallowing semen is ewwwwwww!!!!. As Tisha said throw up and make gagging noises. Nice one Tisha LOL.... (read in full...)
Is his watching horror films just a "bloke thing" or should I be a bit worried about my husband's state of mind?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a question about horror films. My husband loves to watch them, including some pretty gory, ultra violent ones. I don't like them but I will watch them sometimes although I don't like the really bad ones....
A. 17 February 2008: I am a huge fan of horror movies and of a very sound mind. So relax, it does not mean that your fella is gonna turn into Norman Bates. My fave horror movie has to be The Omen movies. There are a lot of women out there who like horror movies and I am ... (read in full...)
Inevitably in between waxes the aspect is not totally shaven, and my bf cannot stand hair! Is he in minority? What do guys usually prefer?
Q. My boyfriend likes all pubic hair completely shaved/waxed and he can't stand even a tiny of bit of facial hair. I do wax but obviously in between waxes some hairs do grow back (I'm talking about my face here). Is this the norm or is he in the ...
A. 17 February 2008: Why are you shaving and waxing your pubic and facial hair just to please him for? What you do with your body is entirely up to you not him.
Next time he makes you wax your pubes, tell him to pay for it out of his own pocket and put his money wh... (read in full...)
His cheating was not... cheating, as we had decided we didn't have an exclusive relation. After I found out I went angry, will he contact me again?
Q. I recently found out the man I've been sleeping with for 3 yrs was sleeping with another women. We weren't BR/GF we were FWB. Needless to say when I found out I blew upa nd said very hateful things to him. I apologised afterwards and have left ...
A. 17 February 2008: You may hate me for saying this, but do you not think you guys too old to be f**k buddies. Don't you want to settle down and have a partner in your life. I think you should have a little self respect and not be there just to be used as a sexual ... (read in full...)
My bf is somewhat ugly and I'm not sure I fancy him. What to do?
Q. hello i am having a boyfriend problem.see i like him but hes a bit ugly i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't think i fancy him ?? what shall i do?? ...
A. 17 February 2008: Why are you dating him? Are you dating him out of sympathy?
You are doing him no favours being with him, if you are not remotely attracted to him.
I think you should finish with him and let him find a young lady who will appreciate him more and... (read in full...)
Help from the Ladies - Why can't I get cleavage with a B-cup?
Q. I can't get cleavage even though I'm a B-cup! Okay, my left breast is full B and my right breast is about an inch smaller, a small B. Is this why I can't wear a bra or low cut blouse and get cleavage? I also have a fairly wide shoulder span...
A. 15 February 2008: Hi Tisha I have D cups and they are rather pert for a woman of 40 lol. To get the killer cleavage go for push up bras, I have a great one designed by Calvin Klein which cost a fiver at a snip in TK Maxx. Make sure you buy a bra that fits you ... (read in full...)
I slept with my boyfriend's best mate!
Q. Please help me, I slept with my boyfriend's best mate at a party at his house, I love my boyfriend very much but I think I'm in love with his best mate and I think about him a lot but I love my boyfriend to bits as well. My friends have told me I ...
A. 15 February 2008: Sorry Maverick, but if a so-called friend of mine slept with my boyfriend I would be mighty pissed, suffice to say she would be an ex friend of mine and he would be kicked to the kerb.
Friends are meant to stick with you through thick and thin, be... (read in full...)
I slept with my boyfriend's best mate!
Q. Please help me, I slept with my boyfriend's best mate at a party at his house, I love my boyfriend very much but I think I'm in love with his best mate and I think about him a lot but I love my boyfriend to bits as well. My friends have told me I ...
A. 15 February 2008: Does your boyfriend know of this sordid deed you did with his best mate? Call me old fashioned, but aren't boyfriend/girlfriend's best mate a no go area and should not even go there. Some girlfriend you turned out to be, going behind your fella's ... (read in full...)
My bf's ex is haressing me....should I tell him and if so how??
Q. Hi...my ex's new girlfriend is harassing me. Should i inform him of her behaviour. We have a child together. I have kept quiet for while now but it gets worse as the days go on....should i tell him and if so how should i inform without sounding...
A. 15 February 2008: Your welcome sometimes I do long replies and sometimes I do short replies depending whether I have got typist's cramp or not lol. Good Luck hun Dusky xxx.... (read in full...)
Is this man worthy of me? Should I stay with him?
Q. I have been married now for a year and things have gone from bad to worse. Its started with me crying on my wedding day when he stood by and watched as his aunt shouted at me. We havent had a honeymoon and there is always an excuse not to go on ...
A. 15 February 2008: Your hubby is a low down creep and should be treated accordingly. Leave this selfish manipulating indidvidual and as for not standing up to your honour when his aunt ruined the most important day of your life by shouting at you is unforgivable.
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How can I compete with the 'train wrecks'??
Q. Before I met my b/f he had a tendency to get involved with what I call "train wrecks", meaning women who were kinda bad, kinda bad for him, unstable, unpredictable, kinda wild, kinda raunchy, didn't have much of an education, sometimes didn't work, ...
A. 14 February 2008: Train wrecks?? Thats a new one on me. Where I come from we call them "Old Slappers". You know, dirty looking, babies by different men, tattoos etc etc. I think you should be yourself, you seem far too intelligent for this guy who gets off being ... (read in full...)
My bf's ex is haressing me....should I tell him and if so how??
Q. Hi...my ex's new girlfriend is harassing me. Should i inform him of her behaviour. We have a child together. I have kept quiet for while now but it gets worse as the days go on....should i tell him and if so how should i inform without sounding...
A. 14 February 2008: Call the police and get warrant served on this bunny boiler.... (read in full...)
I feel like I give so much to this relationship and don't get as much in return! How do I change the balance?
Q. My b/f takes me for granted! How do I stop being such a doormat? Again, this Valentine's Day he did nothing for me. He didn't plan anything special, cook me breakfast...it was just another day. Yet I found the time to get him his favorite ...
A. 14 February 2008: He seems to be oblivious to your feelings here, doesn't he? I think you should sit him down and bring things out in the open. Explain to him that you want 50/50 in this relationship and make it clear to him that you will not be taken for granted ... (read in full...)
I like my best mates boyfriend
Q. hi im in love with my best mates boyfriend !! i have liked him like foreva but i cant do anything about it because of my best friend !! im really confused can yhuu help ?...
A. 14 February 2008: Sorry to say this,but friend's boyfriends is a no go area.
How would you feel if your best friend wanted to have your boyfriend? Find yourself your own man and leave her's well alone, or you could end up losing her forever.
Friends are for life... (read in full...)
Do you think I could win her over or not??
Q. Hey. Today I told the girl I like how I feel. I thought she liked me but when I told her her response was "i like you but not in that way. You're like my best friend. I mean thing change and maybe feelings change. I just want to stay freinds ...
A. 14 February 2008: Maverick has given you really sound advice here. Us ladies like to be treated with respect and you sound like a lovely young man. Any lady that captures your heart will be very lucky indeed,I really hope she does respond to your affections, if not ... (read in full...)
Is he waiting for me to call him??
Q. hi,me and my bf been fighting few months ago about me been over social, that i know too many guys. Lately we had a big fight about the same point,we worked it out some how , i changed my phone number and stop meeting other guys but my bf started ...
A. 14 February 2008: Men have a very blase attitude towards relationships. One minute they are all over you like a rash and the next they act like they don't care. Us women are constantly waiting for a call and a text like pining puppies waiting for their master.
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I am thinking about meeting up with this online guy, but worried it might ruin any chances of getting back with my ex
Q. Me and my boyfriends recently split up. I've been talking to this guy online we get on quite well n he seems like a genuinely nice guy. He's 5 years older than me. Im meant to be meeting him tomorrow. But im starting to have second thoughts...
A. 14 February 2008: I think this is way too soon after splitting with your boyfriend. I think you should wait before you make a decision before you go on dates with guys. Call this guy and say that sorry but could you cancel the date, its clear you still have feelings ... (read in full...)
I don't want to make things awkward by asking her out if she isnt interested, but don't want to get stuck in the 'friend zone' if she is!
Q. Hello all, I am 20 and in college and i've got a crush on my lab partner from my BIO class and I dont know what to do. I am terrible at reading women (as i'm sure most guys are) and I cant tell if she likes me or not. We both like see...
A. 14 February 2008: Awwww arn't you a Sweety! I think you should go and have a nice time to theatre and then go for a meal afterwards. You never know she probably feels the same too. All you can do is ask, if she says yes, great!! and then take it from there. Let me ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my ugly friend or hold out for someone better looking?
Q. my good friend bought me a valentines card and asked me out. i think hes ugly and am a bit embarresed by him but hes also sweet, funny and likes me for who i am on the inside. should i go out with him or wait for my ideal boy who would have my level ...
A. 14 February 2008: Ooooh Hark at Angelina Jolie NOT!!!. I hope your friend finds another person to be there friend and drops a nasty shallow young girl like you. What makes you so superior to this poor young man? In my eyes he is way toooooo good for you. I rest my ... (read in full...)
I am dating several guys at once. I am being honest with them all and not having sexual relations with any. My friend says I am a slut. I'm not, am I?
Q. Hi I came out of a long term relationship around October last year and have recently been going for drinks with a lot of different guys. There's 3 of them. I don't want a relationship right now because I feel I was tied down for a year and I just ...
A. 14 February 2008: I think your friend is being a green eyed monster here, because you are mature enogh to have boys as friends and she isn't.... (read in full...)
Guide to achieving female orgasms!
Q. Because it is Valentine's Day I thought I might do my good bit and spread some love and try to do a good deed today. If it helps maybe at least one person then good. Anyway there are so many different ways that a woman can achieve orgasm and sadly ...
A. 14 February 2008: I already know how to acchieve orgasm with my bf, but thanks for the info.... (read in full...)
Should hate him for what he has done to me?
Q. I don't no where to begin, there has been so much going on in my relationship. He started off really nice, loving attentive, he has always been possessive and at the beginning it was nice. But then he started to control, and be nasty, he blamed me ...
A. 14 February 2008: Leave him. End of ........ (read in full...)
How long should I wait before calling her?
Q. Before I say what happened I would like to say I am a genuine person and not a player! rite.. I was out last nite and I gathered the courage to ask for this girls number. I know her friend and had a bit of a dance with her. I asked if she had...
A. 14 February 2008: Today is Valentines Day its not too late to ring her and take her out for a meal. If she agrees, be sure you buy her a lovely bunch of flowers too. Good luck Hun. Dusky xxx.
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How do I deal with their hurtful remarks?
Q. I have always had a complex about my eyes, they are very sensitive and tend to go red very easily and i have bags under my eyes though not massive ones but i am aware of them. At work the maintenance men who come occassionally have recently being ...
A. 14 February 2008: Report these stupid ignoramuses to their Superiors and have the last laugh on them. I know their comments are cruel, turn round and say to them. "If you can't be civil to me then don't even waste you breathe talking to me and you can get your own ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of always helping things my husband can't do.
Q. I'm danielle,I live here in south korea and I have a husband who has disability so the problems is I'm tired of always helping things my husband can't do....
A. 14 February 2008: Could you please be a bit more specific about his disablity, was he born like that or was he in an accident. I assume that you knew about his disability before you married him. I bet there isn't a day goes by when he wishes that he was more able ... (read in full...)
My life has turned upside down because of him.
Q. Well, there is this guy and he is my friend. and I'm crazy about him. but he just considers me as his sister! But I love him more than anything! and he knows this. I don't know what to do! I'm so confused!! I don't know how to make him fall for me. ...
A. 14 February 2008: Aww reminds me of myself when I was your age. I had several crushes on guys who would not give me a second glance, and it hurt like hell.
The reason why he treats you like his sister, is because he sees you exactly as you as a sister and maybe do... (read in full...)
I have an issue with her about losing weight
Q. I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relation...
A. 14 February 2008: Hi anon reader. PMSL means ( Pissing myself laughing).... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm being selfish here?
Q. Dear Cupid, Am I being selfish? I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years and we have a son together. now the whole time that i was with him all he really spend on me was about 100-200 dollars. THE WHOLE TIME. he dont work or anything...
A. 13 February 2008: Let this lazy good for nothing get up from his fat lazy ass and find himself a job, so that he can pay for his own clothes,haircuts and ipod. You have one child to look after not two and spend your money on your son for God sake. He has ... (read in full...)
I have an issue with her about losing weight
Q. I've been with my girl for 5yrs during which we have had ups and downs. I was getting divorced and it was bitter. I loved her a lot but during all the stress (mostly from my side) the love has eroded. Is this because its a long term relation...
A. 13 February 2008: Since you are 50 years old. What does your gf say about your middle aged spread ie fat gut? pmsl!!!!... (read in full...)
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