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Hi my name is Rose, I am a 41 year old mother of two lovely kids and have a lovely 15 months old grandaughter. Being on cupid has become a kinda hobby of mine. I like helping other people with their problems, it shows me there are always people that are worse off than yourself. I have made quite a few friends on here THANKS GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.

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Is having no sex unhealthy?

Q.   Would it be unhealthy to remain a virgin for my whole life?...

A.   26 April 2008: I can't imagine livimg life without sex. It keeps me happy, healthy and it is the most wonderful exercise to keep you body toned. I would sooner have a good passionate sex session, than running the marathon or working out at the gym. (NO I AM NOT A ... (read in full...)

Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out now?

Q.   My husband had an emotional affair with his personal trainer. He claims they were just good friends but she had a key to his apt., and there were many texts and calls over a period of several months. Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out ...

A.   26 April 2008: Hang on .... BIG ALARM BELLS ARE RINGING!!!!. If your husband has given the keys to his flat, this seems more than an "EMOTIONAL AFFAIR" to me. How come you guys don't live together if you are married? He is seriously pulling the wool over your ... (read in full...)

I discovered he keeps erotic photos of his old girlfriends too, so now I feel less special to him...

Q.   Hello, I am 47 year old young widow and am dating a 39 year old for seven months now. While I always knew he had dirty photos of his old girlfriend's in his computer, it never bothered me, but I did wonder...... also- he has taken dirty photos of ...

A.   24 April 2008: I am dating a Greek Cypriot guy too, but he never divulges in my sexual past. He always says past is the past and it is me thats his girlfriend and that is that. Greeks tend to be highly sexed, (well my fella is anyway) lol. He does not have ima... (read in full...)

My problem is our exclusive sex life became unexistant since engaging in the "swinger" activities!

Q.   hi i have been seeing my bf since last november stated fantastic he was all over me .then after 1 month nothing he never hardly touches me .we now go swinging and he does everything with the other women ,i have asked why not me but he wont ...

A.   24 April 2008: Get rid of this guy, he has no respect for you and its obvious he would sooner have sex with another woman than you.... (read in full...)

Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?

Q.   I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...

A.   24 April 2008: She is just kinky and enjoys what you call Sado Masochism. Loads of people have some sort of fetish, eg rubber, feet, high heeled boots etc. If you are not comfortable with it just tell her.... (read in full...)

We are 16 yrs old and we want a baby! I want to be with her forever.

Q.   I am 16 and my girl is 15 goin on 16 and we both want a baby......I want to stay with her for the rest of my life and we been 2gether for a year and 2months, We really know what we want it's just things changing my mind.....people who told me how ...

A.   24 April 2008: Hey I have got an idea!!!!! Why don't you guys get a VIRTUAL REALITY BABY FOR A WEEK and see how you guys cope?? I bet you won't last FIVE MINUTES. Babies are a 24/7 commitment, they may be cute and cuddly, but also they are demandin... (read in full...)

How does a doctor check a female to see if she has an STD?

Q.   How do doctors check females for an std? Does it hurt? I'm not going for a check-up or anything, I don't need to, but I'm just curious. I've heard they insert a tube up a guy's urethra (spelling?) and that doesn't sound too pleasant! So what about a ...

A.   24 April 2008: Swab and blood tests. Dusky xxxxx.... (read in full...)

Do you believe a married man when he tells you what a witch his wife is?

Q.   To women who are having an affair with a married man. Do you believe your married man when he is telling you what an evil B*tch his wife is and how you are so much nicer and how much he loves you?...

A.   24 April 2008: No I don't believe him he only wants to get his wild oats and is probably getting them from his wife too.... (read in full...)

I shouldn't want to be with someone that thinks I would do such a terrible, disgusting thing! But...I feel empty without him!

Q.   My boyfriend of 5 months just broke up with me four days ago because he thought I was cheating on him. I was not. I tried everything I could think of to prove to him that I wasn’t cheating on him and never have. He knows that I love him and I ...

A.   24 April 2008: I think you need to get to the bottom of his accusations, has he been cheated on before? This is a question you must ask him, if he has then tell him that you are not like the other girls. Explain to him and say "Where would I find time to cheat... (read in full...)

We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of ...

A.   23 April 2008: Kick his sorry ass to the kerb!!!!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is so mad at me for accidentally shutting off my cellphone!

Q.   My BF...!!! He's mad because of something so stupid! Today I was in a hurry, and my mobile fell off my purse... it went off and I couldn't get it to work, so I just left 'cos I had classes. I didn't get the phone working until I returned home. W...

A.   23 April 2008: OMG your fella is such a baby!!!!... (read in full...)

He wants to date other girls and to continue to date me as well. Is he really interested in me?

Q.   i dated a guy twice two weeks ago. when he called me for our third date, i reminded him that i was not comfortable dating a man who was dating other women at the same time, he didn't say anything at all at that time but later on the same day of our ...

A.   23 April 2008: Ditch him I find a guy who only wants you.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?

Q.   What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...

A.   22 April 2008: To previasc, for you information I lost my virginity at 18, and having sex at this young lady's age is far too young in my book. She is not emotionally mature enough to handle a sexual relationship, neither is she physically mature enough. So please ... (read in full...)

In my head I know I shold move on but I can't seem to, I still hold on to hope. Any advice??

Q.   My heart is broken. I feel lost. My ex bf of 3 yrs broke up with me just over a wk ago and left me for another woman. We had a difficult relationship towards the end but it still didn't prepare me. just before valentines day he told me he wasn't...

A.   22 April 2008: Oh Hun you are so much better without this TOTAL DICKHEAD. He betrayed you in the most worst possible way, you can never in a million years trust a dirty rotten cheater like him who used you for his own selfish gratification. He listened to ... (read in full...)

Why did my online boyfriend delete my photos on his myspace profile?

Q.   i have an american boyfriend, and i am from philippines. im 24 and he's 20. our relationship is still going on but always argue with something. im just really curious, after 5 months he deleted my photos on his myspace profile. but still says there ...

A.   22 April 2008: Have you guys met each other ????... (read in full...)

I'm not ready to lose virginity yet because I'm waiting for marriage but the girls I hang with all think I'm weird

Q.   im 19 yrs almost 20yrs very attractive well educated n sexy.n guys do think im well pretty..so i do get guys...but im still a virgin..im not ready to loose it yet because im waiting for marriage but the girls i hang with all think im weird..and when ...

A.   22 April 2008: How about if we play cupid on here and fix you up with Southern Man?? He will think his birthdays and Christmases have come at once.... (read in full...)

Should he stay a virgin?

Q.   Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...

A.   22 April 2008: Jamey I think you have to get your facts right, before you start calling people dirtbags. Tellulah simply asking people's opinion on a guy who is very religious and occasionally posts his letter on Dear Cupid whether fornication and adultery is a ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind about going on the pill?

Q.   Hi all! me and my gf have been together for and 3 months now. We are very much in love and the sex is amazing. there is however, just one problem, my gf always forces me to wear a condom. She says that she can't risk getting pregnant and says tha...

A.   21 April 2008: If she does not want to take the pill, then she can have a coil fitted. Ask her gynocologist about other methods of contraception, if your girlfriend is adamant about not taking the pill. Personally myself. I had the coil fitted a year ago beca... (read in full...)

My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?

Q.   What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...

A.   21 April 2008: One- You are underage and he is breaking the law if he does have sex with you. Two- Do not get pressured into having sex, if that is all he is interested in. Three- Having sex at such an early age can lead to cervical cancer later on in life... (read in full...)

How do I tell my Mom about getting engaged? We are young...

Q.   hey there all in dear cupid land. me and my boyfriend have been together almost 11 months and are going away for my 18th birthday witch is in two weeks (he's also 18) we have been talking about marriage for a while but latly its been alot more s...

A.   21 April 2008: Whoh what is the hurry of settling down and getting engaged. Take it from me who got married at 20 and also had two kids by the time I was 22,and then divorced at 29 .Your mum has your interests at heart and does not want you to rush into anything... (read in full...)

My reflection makes me feel sick. I can't make eye contact and talk to people because of this!

Q.   i seriously hate the way i look - my reflection makes me feel sick n i cant stand myself most days. some people say im ugly, others tell me i have nice eyes n am pretty but i still see an ugly girl when i look in the mirror. my main problem is ...

A.   21 April 2008: People who tell other people that are ugly, are shallow,nasty and egocentric jerks. It is an absolute myth that people only go for looks, there are other qualities that attract people eg sense of humour, personality, how they carry themselves and ... (read in full...)

My son is dating a very troubled girl, a teenage mother that is into alcohol and drugs. How to guide him in the choices he is making?

Q.   Help! I had a phone call from the Mother of my son's best friend ( a guy). I did not know this but I was told my 16 year old son is dating a girl who seems very troubled. She is into alcohol, drugs and she has 3 little kids. She is 17, and is one ...

A.   21 April 2008: My God three kids at the age of seventeen, i just hope and pray that your son uses contraception and does not make her a mother for the fourth time. I can understand your concern especially with her being on drugs and alcohol, I am a mother myself ... (read in full...)

Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.

Q.   I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...

A.   20 April 2008: You are putting yourself in a very dangerous and vulnerable situation,there are serious nutters out there who can attack,rape or murder you. If you want to get money to pay you for school get a part time job, ie bar work,waitressing ANYTHING... (read in full...)

Are these bumps du to shaving or an STI?

Q.   I have small bumbs on my vagina and they are SO itchy that its hard to sleep at night time. I havent had sex for 6 months so i dont think thats its an STI. Its so itchy and so hard to sleep and i dont know how to get rid of it. I shave so im not ...

A.   19 April 2008: I really think you are too young to be having sex, and should get these bumps checked out by your GP.... (read in full...)

How do I deal with their teases that became annoying after a year?

Q.   Okay, alot of guys i know think i look like 50 Cent, the rapper, and they always call me "CURTIS' because they think it's funny...and whenever me and one of the guys are alone, they say i don't really look like him..i just don't understand...i told ...

A.   19 April 2008: Hey my son is an absolute fan of 50 Cent. I know it can be annoying when people call you Curtis because you look like 50 cent, but think of the chicks you can pull because of your resemblence of him. I have been told I look like Geena Davis a few ... (read in full...)

I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!

Q.   I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...

A.   19 April 2008: Darling you are twenty years old???? Surely you should know by now that you should use condoms only once and not three or four times. I think you need education on contraception my dear xxxx.... (read in full...)

Can a fleshlight provide good sexual training?

Q.   Hi all, I am 24, still a virgin. As I have moderately high sex drive and do not want to visit hookers or embark on one-night stands, I usually use sex toys (such as the Fleshlight) for masturbation purposes as I am kinda sick of using my hands, ...

A.   19 April 2008: I saw a documentary a few months ago called "Guy and Dolls" on Channel 4. It was about men who purchase these life size dolls to their own specification ie big tits,blonde hair, shaved pussy etc etc, to have sex with and not have real relations with ... (read in full...)

Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?

Q.   Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if ...

A.   19 April 2008: I lived with someone for almost eight years who was not very experienced albeit older than me. He held very conservative views about sex, he did not like oral sex of any kind and did not know how to french kiss. It was like kissing a tortoise ... (read in full...)

I'm 12yrs old and I like my 38yr old band teacher! I want to kiss him, help!

Q.   I really like my band teacher. he ALWAYS hugs me and kisses me on the head. he's like 38 and is my neighbor! he's not married. he always really open to me, like he'll tell me if something is bothering him. at the dance a song came on that we love ...

A.   19 April 2008: No don't kiss him, you are only a kid and he is a grown man. So stop acting like a Lolita and find a boy your own age.... (read in full...)

Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!

Q.   So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...

A.   19 April 2008: HOW DID THIS SICK POST GET PASSED THE MODERATORS???????... (read in full...)

How much is too much for a blowjob to be given in one night?

Q.   How much is too much for a blowjob to be given in one night? I gave the guy I was seeing 3 times in 1 night because I caved in to his demand. He was moaning and I was turned on although I don't really enjoy putting his penis in my mouth. But I ...

A.   19 April 2008: No one should be pressured into giving anyone oral sex. You don't mention whether he does any favours for you in the bedroom, whether it is based on his pleasure or both. I think guys that demand sexual things done to them is a huge turn off, if ... (read in full...)

Please help me help my sister!

Q.   Heya. My sister, Steph (16) met a guy on the net last may, and she is obsessed with him and wants to meet him! Im really worried that he will turn out to be someone other than what he is saying he is! Please help me help my sister!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...

A.   19 April 2008: Tasha you sound more streetwise than your older sister Steph. You are right he could be a pervert,but as Emily said if she does have her heart set on metting this guy then I suggest she should go with friends.... (read in full...)

I'm stuck having feelings for 2 very different guys with different feelings for both...Do I go for mental or physical attraction?

Q.   I'm stuck having feelings for 2 very different guys with different feelings for both... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year, lived together, the relationship was more based around me being attracted to his personality than looks, and we ha...

A.   19 April 2008: If only you could combine the two men into one, amazing sex and fantastic personality. Relationships should not be based on sex alone, you have to have some common ground. I would go for the guy who is more mentally stimulating than someone ... (read in full...)

Should we call it quits if he's not sure if we should move in together?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years i'm moving out in January and he still doesnt know if we're ready to live together? If he's still unsure after two years do you think we should call it quits?? Thanks!...

A.   19 April 2008: I don't think you should call it quits just because your boyfriend does not want to live with you. You can't make him do something he does not want to do, these things have to be discussed properly before you throw in the towel. I have lived wi... (read in full...)

I worried about my internet boyfriend emailing other girls! What do I tell him?

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 weeks and we met on the internet and in person only once.Recently he asked me to check his mail on the internet while he was away and I found a message from him to another girl and he was wanting her ...

A.   19 April 2008: How can you call someone you have only met once your boyfriend? I find it strange that he wants this girl's number, so he can tell her that he is not interested too. Surely he could mail her, as you have pointed out. I think he wants to keep his... (read in full...)

Should I hang on to my online guy?

Q.   Hello. I will be as short as I can. I am pretty much a loner, apart from a few acquaintances, my problem is that I don't like any of these people. I have had an online relationship with a guy for about three years, and I am now holding onto thi...

A.   18 April 2008: Darling do me a favour. Get away from the computer, get a life and find a real person to love. How come you guys have never met? As eyes wide open said,people can pretend to be someone else that they are not and feed you a load of bull shit.... (read in full...)

Am I over-reacting over these nude pictures (he keeps under his pillow)?

Q.   i dont mind my bf watching porn, but i dont like it wen he looks at pictures of naked women as this leads to him obviously fantasiing about them. he promised me he wouldnt look at pictures like that, but the other day i found pictures of naked ...

A.   18 April 2008: This guy seems a bit infantile by having naked pictures of naked girls under his pillow. Tell him to stop or he is history.... (read in full...)

Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?

Q.   As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...

A.   18 April 2008: Oh Tellulah what you said is BRILLIANT. I wish I thought of that lol. People on here must think us Brits are barking mad xxxxxx.... (read in full...)

Should he stay a virgin?

Q.   Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...

A.   18 April 2008: Hi Tellulah, how are you hun? I know who you mean, I wouldn't say he was exactly disturbed per se, but very passionate about what he believes. Which is fine, but I do not want a 25 year old guy forcing down my throat about the rights and w... (read in full...)

Is it ok to have relationship with my aunts ex husband?

Q.   is it wrong to start an extra marital relationship with my aunts ex husband? is he still legally classed as my uncle?...

A.   18 April 2008: I agree with Emily on this one.... (read in full...)

He says he hasn't cheated on me or met with anyone. what do you think?

Q.   What should I do. I have been married for 14 Years. We dated two years before we got married.Well last year my husband started acting weird. It all started when we switched cell phone companies. He started playing games on his phone. Then he decides ...

A.   18 April 2008: In my opinion I think your hubby is playing away. He is certainly showing all classic examples ie getting a video/camera mobile (cell) phone and not letting it out of his sight etc etc. Give him an ultimatum if he contiues to take the p*ss and... (read in full...)

Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?

Q.   Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if ...

A.   18 April 2008: I feel it is high time you guys sat down and discussed the intimate side of your relationship, don't you? There are thousands of couples who don't communicate about their relationship, they just simply go through the same tired old motions and get ... (read in full...)

I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!

Q.   I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...

A.   17 April 2008: THIS IS A SICK HOAX SURELY.......... If not you need a damn good spanking young lady.... (read in full...)

Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?

Q.   As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...

A.   16 April 2008: BLESSED ARE THE FORNICATORS AND THE ADULERERS The Gospel according to St Dusky........... LMAO... (read in full...)

Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?

Q.   As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...

A.   16 April 2008: LOOK SOUTHERN MAN DO NOT KNOCK WHAT YOU HAVE NOT TRIED. GO GET YOURSELF A WOMAN AND SHAG THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OUT OF HER. IT IS CLEARLY THAT YOU ARE SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED AND CANNOT GET A WOMAN AS YOU ARE A FLAMING NUTTER!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

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