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Hi my name is Rose, I am a 41 year old mother of two lovely kids and have a lovely 15 months old grandaughter. Being on cupid has become a kinda hobby of mine. I like helping other people with their problems, it shows me there are always people that are worse off than yourself. I have made quite a few friends on here THANKS GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.

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Boyfriend problems, am I overreacting? He neglected me on my birthday!

Q.   of course I didn't expect to have a party or anything like that. I live with my boyfriend, so I expected him to at least do something nice. I don't care about a gift, I just wanted him to be nice/thoughtful because he never is. So I got home from ...

A.   2 October 2008: If he was my bf I would have CHEWED HIS ASS BIG TIME!! Did you drop any hints about what you wanted for your birthday or how you wanted to spend it? If you are looking for a guy who is more thoughtful and romantic, then I am afraid he AIN'T TH... (read in full...)

I'm the other woman. Your opinions?

Q.   i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i current...

A.   1 October 2008: How about putting yourself into his poor wife's shoes? You are a typical homewrecking mistress, who thinks of nothing of getting what she wants out of someone elses man and do not care who you hurt. To him you are some cheap tart, who is onl... (read in full...)

My abusive boyfriend dumped me and I'm devastated!

Q.   My abusive boyfriend dumped me and i am devastated and torn i know it was for the best but im consumed with pain and confusion because i did everything for him i forgave him for cheating on me and getting his ex pregnant then cheating on me with ...

A.   28 September 2008: Darling why do you want this loser back into your life? He humiliates you, cheats, lie mentally and physically abuses you. This was not love, this was a complete and utter nightmare and you my darling deserve better. Please be on your own for ... (read in full...)

Should I Marry Someone That I Am Not 100% attracted to and may become fat in the future?

Q.   Should I marry a woman that I am not entirely attracted to and might get fat in the future? She is one of my best friends and has everything I want in a woman... but I can tell she does not work-out enough to maintain a healthy body and always finds ...

A.   28 September 2008: Look mate even men's bodies alter as they get older, you will not have a nice honed body when you reach middle/old age. Your matabilism slows down and you store more fat than your average twenty something. Why would anyone in their right mind mar... (read in full...)

He hates one of my children for no reason! What should I do?

Q.   I have been going out with my partner for 4 yrs and have 2 children from a previous marriage.Two years ago i left my home to live with him some 60 miles away. All was well we get on just slendid but he hates one of my children. A few months ago he ...

A.   21 September 2008: Oh my God woman, don't do anything that is solely on his terms and as for him hating your child, that is totally unforgivable. I would dump this nasty bully and find a real man, who realises that your children are very much your life. ... (read in full...)

My 15-year-old friend is having sex with her 38-year-old uncle! What should I do?

Q.   My 15-year-old friend is dating her estranged fathers brother who is 38! They've had sex at least 10 times and she thinks she has fallen in love with him! This is disgusting! It's incest! At her party he was acting all sleazy around her, ju...

A.   21 September 2008: Report this pervert to the police, he is nothing but a paodophile and should be locked up. ... (read in full...)

I'm a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl...

Q.   i am a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl..im also impotent but manage to satify my girl in other ways..we love each other very much..i have tried to end it with her...for her sake but she wont have it...am i being selfish in ...

A.   21 September 2008: No disrespect here dear, but you are old enough to be her grandfather. This young lady needs a young virile man who can satisfy her every sexual need. You should have known better than lead her on especting to have a relationship with you.... (read in full...)

I'm used to my girlfriend forgiving me after I abuse her, but this time she's fed up. What do I do?

Q.   Hi everyone. I've been with this girl for 3 years now. We have a child together. I love her dearly and want to marry her. She does everything for me. She let's me want for nothing. We have the same religious background which is wonderful (first girl ...

A.   19 September 2008: Oh my God where do I start? You young man sounds like an egotistical, nasty, hypocritical bully! How dare you judge her of what ever past relationship she had before you and call her vile names. What gives you the right to sit in judgement? ... (read in full...)

He wants a baby, I think I'm still too young, what should I do?

Q.   I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now, we have a house and a dog, he is ready for kids i am not. We argued about this early this year and in the end to keep him i agreed to start trying after our holiday in september.(yes he ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hey I agree with the others on this!!! If you are not ready for motherhood then wait until you 110% ready and don't give into his emotional blackmail either. Relationships should be built on compromise and not just do things to please each him... (read in full...)

Do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap?

Q.   do people think that 25 years is too big an age gap? I am engaged to my boyfriend who is 25 years older than myself. My only problem is my mother does not approve. I just want to see what other people think as I would like to be able to see it from ...

A.   1 September 2008: Darling there are two sides to a coin. The first side is you are of child bearing age. Does your man have any children? If so does he want to be a father again in the future? Has he already been married and would he want to get married again if... (read in full...)

He has turned from Prince Charming to a big jerk. What should I do about this

Q.   I am a single mother of 3 and I met a guy who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. He was a complete gentlemen and took me out and treated me like a princess. Well, 2 months have gone by and he has become a total jerk. He made my ...

A.   30 August 2008: I think your 14 year old daughter is right, he is an utter jerk. He has no regards whatsoever about people's feelings, he made your son cry just because he wanted to win at a game. Say if you do get serious with him and his attitude gets worse, t... (read in full...)

I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?

Q.   hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before ma...

A.   29 August 2008: The question is.... What do you want to do and what is your opinion on sex before marriage? No one has a right to preach to you what to do with YOUR BODY. There are to many nosy busy bodies sticking their noses into other people's business, saying... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?

Q.   okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but...

A.   29 August 2008: What a mature young lady you are :D This is a breath of fresh air to read a young teen saying she is too young for motherhood. There are far too many children being raised by young girls, who have no financial means to raise their children. You s... (read in full...)

I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!

Q.   okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused...

A.   29 August 2008: Hey before you go into her room next time KNOCK!!! She is growing up to be a woman, she needs her privacy and masturbation is completely normal.... (read in full...)

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

Q.   About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

A.   29 August 2008: Hold on did I read right? You actually prefered the sister when you was dating your wife, but you settled for second best? Why on earth did you marry her and living a lie? I think your lovely wife and child deserves better than you two DOG... (read in full...)

I think my girlfriend was not a virgin when I had sex with her and I don't know what to do!

Q.   my girlfriend was having two boy friends at her past . i think she must have sex wih them because when i had sex with her there was no bleeding and my penis got easily entered her vagina and i hav heared that for the first time sex its just ...

A.   29 August 2008: Have you asked your girlfriend whether she was a virgin? Besides what difference does it make whether she was or not? I didn't bleed when I first had sex neither. I think you should accept her for who she is and not what she did in the past.... (read in full...)

Is this Turkish man trying to con me or is he for real?

Q.   I met a Turkish man (A bar owner 20 years younger than me on holiday) He tried it on sexually with me but i told him i do not sleep with some one i do not know. Next day he told me he wanted a future with me and wants me to move to Turkey. He said ...

A.   29 August 2008: Steer clear of this Conman!!!... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   29 August 2008: Question... Why are you still with this guy? We have all advised you against this FAT UGLY PERV, yet you still let him abuse you. Sounds like you are enjoying this as much as he is, otherwise you would have ran a mile ages ago.... (read in full...)

Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!

Q.   What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...

A.   29 August 2008: How did you find he is your half brother?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hit me, but now threatens to kill himself if I leave him. Help!

Q.   My bf and I get on good normally bt when we argue.. WE ARGUE.. we shout scream evrything but today he punched me.. I was in complete hysterics and tried to leave but he locked me in and I eventually managed to leave when his mate came in. He phoned ...

A.   18 August 2008: I am with all the Aunts on this one, leave him and don't fall for his emotional blackmail.... (read in full...)

I keep breaking up only to go back and become confused again!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years im 21 and he is 25 and we have broken up 3 times all done by me. He is a great bloke but i just got bored as he is quiet, but sometimes we get on great. We broke up for a week recently and i went out on afew ...

A.   14 August 2008: I don't think you are ready for any kind of relationship at the moment. You don't 100% sure of what you want and you keep messing this poor guy's head breaking up getting back breaking up getting back. Do yourself a favour and be by yourself... (read in full...)

My friends said he was just using me for sex and I asked him if he was. Now I can't take back what I asked. Help.

Q.   I'm 16 years old, and I have a friend who I have slept with on a number of occasions. The thing is, because of things that have happened in the past, none of my friends approve of me being friends with him. Because of this, they constantly tell me ...

A.   14 August 2008: I would say you are using each other for sex, simply because you are not in a proper relationship and in a friends with benefits arrangement. I'm sorry if I sound a teensy weensy bit old fashioned here, but what is wrong having sex in a loving c... (read in full...)

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

Q.   Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...

A.   13 August 2008: Oh yeah I forgot..... Do you really want to date someone who fights you over mirror space? Ever heard of the song sung by Carly Simon? "You're so vain"... (read in full...)

Why is my little girl being left out?

Q.   please can anyone give me any advice 3 years ago i left my daugthers dad because he was very abuseive towards me, i knew that i and most importntly my little girl would be much happier,she now sees her dad every weekend and as he become a really g...

A.   13 August 2008: What a horrible immature little boy your partner is. For God sake the girl is only 5 years old, STAND UP FOR HER WHEN HE SAYS NASTY THINGS ABOUT HER. Sorry to shout, but how do you handle the situation when he criticises her. Now that he has his ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and I fight all the time, but I don't want to dump her in case I regret it.

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. She's my first girlfriend. We fight almost everyday, and make up almost everyday. We talk about it all the time. But she still gets upset about the same things. Also she always wants me to ...

A.   13 August 2008: You guys are spending way too much time together, that is why you guys fight all the time. I think you should sit her down and calmly tell her that both of you should take time out once in a while from each other, I mean it is not neccessary to see ... (read in full...)

This younger girl has a bad reputation. Should I keep seeing her?

Q.   I am using my sisters account on here, she said its fine. I am a 34 year old man. I always go for older women and have been seeing older women for a few months and just having fun, but one got a bit serious and started being a bunny boiler. I have j...

A.   12 August 2008: Let me just say this.... I used to be a barmaid in a pub, but no way did I sleep around like this young lady. I preferred dating guys outside the pub, so that I was not the victim of gossip. She doesn't sound like a very good role model for her ... (read in full...)

Twice we arranged to meet and twice he never showed up. Is he playing with me?

Q.   Right i am a bit confused right now and would really apprechiate some advice, i don't wanna go on but i need to put it in detail for you to understand. I met this guy online about 4 weeks ago, i really liked the sound of him, so messaged him and he m...

A.   12 August 2008: Darling, why are you bothering with this guy at all? He does not have the gallentry to call you in advance to say he cannot make a date. Does that not tell you something? This guy is unreliable, Period. If I was you hun I would look for a nice you... (read in full...)

Are there any other couples still using condoms after getting married?

Q.   My husband and I are married less than a year and we're still using condoms just to play safe. We've tried without once or twice but are too scared. Just want to know if there are any couples who are still using condoms after getting married. Or...

A.   12 August 2008: The coil is best form of contraception, it means you can have sex very spontaneously without remembering to take the pill.... (read in full...)

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

Q.   Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...

A.   12 August 2008: This guy sounds like MY IDEAL MAN.... There are too many beautiful people who's looks are around 9, but there personality is a big fat zero. Actually my dear I am describing you. So what if he is no Brad Pitt, if you don't want him... I am sure ... (read in full...)

I can't make sense of why a man could be so loving but not want to take the relationship any further. Help!

Q.   Feeling confused after having sex with a colleague who I have been friends with for nearly 3 years. We never got together before, since both in long-term relationships but have always got on really well and there was chemistry. In brief, had wond...

A.   12 August 2008: I know why this man will not take the relationship any further..... It's because he has got what he wants and slept with you, cmon love you are a mature woman. Surely you must know that most men have their brains in their underpants by now. Guys ... (read in full...)

The guy I was dating went AWOL. I'm hurt, angry, and annoyed with MYSELF.

Q.   Hi there, Please help...I feel really bad. This guy I was dating went awol. This left me feelings hurt and upset. But the worse was after I tried to call him several times to no avail without a response. I sent him an insulting text. The point ...

A.   10 August 2008: Forget him and move on..... You deserve better!!!... (read in full...)

What is normal breast size for my age?

Q.   is this bad im 13 and i wear a 34C cup size in my bra im just wonderin is there any other 13 or 14 year olds who also wear a 34C or higher...

A.   10 August 2008: 34c sounds fine to me, you are only 13 and still developing.... (read in full...)

How do I steal him away from her?

Q.   I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. How do I steal him away from her?...

A.   10 August 2008: Stealing a woman's boyfriend, is the lowest of the low. How would you like it done to you? Find yourself your own man and do NOT steal someone elses. Don't you have a heart?????... (read in full...)

Will the stretch mark on my stomach accentuate in case of a second birth? Would my partner care? I try to hide it...

Q.   Hi..i am a mother of 5yrs old child. I dont understand why the stretch mark on my stomach is still there and i am very shy to show that to my husband. I am afraid this could turn him off. I try to use lotion everynight but i dont see any ...

A.   10 August 2008: Honey please don't hide your stretch marks!! I have stretch marks on my tummy, through having two kids. Its the trademark of being a mother, I never hide mine to my partner, in fact he doesn't notice them at all he still finds me attractive. I am ... (read in full...)

Why do my boyfriends always stop calling and leave me?

Q.   I am a very hardworking and independent lady. I always go out of my way for my boyfriends. The main thing is every thing seems fine and then all of a sudden ,they just stop calling. I'm not sure why because they never say why. I really need to get ...

A.   10 August 2008: Deema has given you excellent advice. No matter how nice we are to them, its never good enough for these men. Stop going out of your way for these guys, play hard to get and do not drop everything for them at a drop a hat. Men love the chase tr... (read in full...)

My online friend is 18 and I'm 15. It seems be really cares for me but I'm confused.

Q.   ok well i started talking to this guy on the net, we have been talking for a while and ow were going out. long distance relationship isnt really my thing but he keeps telling me his moving here soon. i do believe him but i do have my doubts. his ...

A.   10 August 2008: Have you seen what this guy looks like, ie webcam? He could be some paedophile grooming for his victims. What do you know about this guy? Be very careful when talking to people online, do not agree to meet up with him, unless you take a group of ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking about a baby. If I just stopped taking my pills without telling my boyfriend...?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years I am 22 and he's 21. We live together as well as his brother in a 2 bedroom apartment, but in about 2 months we will have an actual home. Their dad is buying it and we are renting it from him. my guy ...

A.   9 August 2008: All the Aunts and Uncles are giving you great advise here,please take note what they are telling you. I think you should sit down and discuss every type of commitment with him, ie marriage, children and buying a house. You guys really need to ... (read in full...)

Whats the best position to get pregnant?

Q.   what's the best positions to get pregnant?...

A.   8 August 2008: There are no particular positions to get pregnant. But if you are trying for a baby, you can buy ovulation kits at your pharmacy to see when you are at your most fertile.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend broke up with me because she said I'm no good in bed.

Q.   Hey i am a 15 year old male. I recently lost my virginity to a girl who i love she is 3 years older than me, we were going out at the time. She recently broke up with me saying that because i was so bad in bed she ahd to go somewhere else for...

A.   8 August 2008: Good God you are only 15!!!! What does she expect a porn star? Why would you want to get back with a silly little cow, who does nothing but belittle you? Forget her!!!... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend, but he does not want to work, or go to school, he plays xbox 360 all day long, I am 18, he is 20, what can I say to motivate him to do something with his life?

Q.   well im 18 and i have a bf thats 20.I love him alot but the thing is that he doesnt work and doesnt wanna go to school or like basically do anything..All he does is play on xbox 360 the whole day.. 1.How should I tell him to do something with h...

A.   8 August 2008: Aaaaah little boys and their toys!!! Look hun if he does not want to motivate himself away from his X box, there is not much you can do. You have wasted enough of your valuable time with him, go and do other things that does not involve him have fun ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of ten months, likes to be with his friends more than me, when we get together he makes me cry or gets me mad, I am thinking of dumping him, would you?

Q.   SO I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO IS INTO HIS HOMIES MORE THEN ME I MEAN LIKE WE HARLY TALK AND WHEN WE DO HE AKES ME CRY OR GETS E MAD WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 10 MONTHS and I DONT EVEN GET TO SEE HIM BUT LIKE I SAID HE ALWAYS ENDS UP GETTING ME MAD ...

A.   7 August 2008: Homies means the gang who hangs out with him. Yes I would dump him!!!... (read in full...)

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

Q.   Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

A.   15 July 2008: This man is abusing you in the worst possible way. He is extremely dangerous and he has sex with you whether you like it or not. Darling what this pondlife is doing to you is pure and simple R-A-P-E. Now he wants one of his disgusting cronies ... (read in full...)

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