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Any weight loss tips?
Q. I am a teenager and would like too lose weight. Im a size 10 and would like to be atleast a size 8. Maybe I wont be because of my frame but I dont want excess fat. Love handles, Belly fat and leg fat. Im starting a diet tomorrow which ive done once ...
A. 26 February 2008: All I can suggest Hun is eat sensibly and exercise regularly. But if you want to tone up do exercise on the running machine or exercise bike as this is likely to burn off more fat. Make sure you get sound advice from the people who work at the gym ... (read in full...)
After having intercourse, I get very dry
Q. This is a rather private problem I've been having and I'm not sure what's causing it. After the first time I have sex in one night, my vaginal area becomes very dry. I'm not sure what is causing this problem. I'm emotionally ready for sex the ...
A. 26 February 2008: Make sure you use a good lube before you have sex.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: Anal sex can be highly dangerous, it can damage your rectum and you are more likely to catch Aids. I liked Ask older sister's answer, maybe you should stick a dildo up his anal passage and tell you whether it hurts or not.... (read in full...)
More MMF fun - some advice needed.
Q. Didn't think it would come to this and I probably know the answer but need to be told it from outside observers. Anyway, I'm in my thirties, and I'm pretty sure that I've fallen in love for the first time (I've been in relationships before, but not ...
A. 26 February 2008: What is she a porn star or what???... (read in full...)
How do I get the balance right so I don't scare her off??
Q. OK, I started seeing this girl who lives near me back in November. I am 34 and she is 26. Up until Christmas, things were great. We got on so well, we clicked and there was an obvious attraction for both of us. Things couldn't have been better a...
A. 26 February 2008: She seems to be blowing hot and cold on you. She knows whatever hurt she has caused you, that you are gonna take her back come what may. I think you should put your foot down and refuse to be used when it suits her, as she seems to expect you to ... (read in full...)
I unloaded my stress on him, so he broke up with me and started to drink. What now?
Q. I don't know what to do, I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. We have always had a very exciting relationship, with really strong emotions. But last week I was so stressed out and I took it out on him, which I felt so guilty about. ...
A. 25 February 2008: You seem confused about your age dear !!!!... (read in full...)
How to convince my wife to have kinky sex? And also suggest a MFM threesome?
Q. OK here it goes. I would like to know what I can do to get my wife to have kinky sex. What I mean by that is I would like her to put on a strap-on on and screw my ass. There are other things i would like to do with her but she shuts me out everytime ...
A. 25 February 2008: I am gonna be really old fashioned and say keep your threesome fantasies in your head and not make it become a reality. This can be a recipe for disaster in any relationship and can create problems. Have you ever had gay sex before? If so why did ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl I met on Valentines, but she hasn't respned to my texts in 2 days. Do you think she likes me back?
Q. Ok on valentines night i went to a dating quiz night with a female colleague from work. really i went to keep her company as she is desperate to meet a man, and she had no one else to go with. To cut a long story short a girl turned up who ...
A. 25 February 2008: Wow, normally its the other way round and women start fretting about why guys do not get in touch with them after two days and go into panic mode.
I'm sure she does like you, but as the other aunts have said you do not want to come over as cling... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he will dump me if I ever cut myself. Now I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Help.
Q. My bf was recently telling me how a friend of his broke up with his gf because she was cutting herself. I was shocked that someone could break up with someone they are supposed to love when they need them so much. I was even more shock to hear my bf ...
A. 25 February 2008: Irish you are so right about having the choice of being with someone who has emotional issues. I lived with a guy for 7 years, who is a manic depressive. One minute he is happy and we do fun things together, the next the slightest thing would ... (read in full...)
He broke up but he will not explain why until he considers I am ready to know! Should I give him a b-day present?
Q. well this guy told me that he liked me during the Christmas holidays last year, we got to the same college , but we broke up after a week. i still dont know why he broke up with me, he wont say it because he said that hes going to tell me when im ...
A. 24 February 2008: Or Sweet F**k All. Which is more than he deserves.... (read in full...)
He broke up but he will not explain why until he considers I am ready to know! Should I give him a b-day present?
Q. well this guy told me that he liked me during the Christmas holidays last year, we got to the same college , but we broke up after a week. i still dont know why he broke up with me, he wont say it because he said that hes going to tell me when im ...
A. 24 February 2008: I know what present you can get him SFA. Sweet Fanny Adams.... (read in full...)
Can this relationship be salvaged?
Q. If a FWB arrangement ends for whatever the reason (ie couldn't handle other people being involved) and the person got hateful and then apologized does the FWB ever have a chance in restarting? What makes the other person come back to the one that ...
A. 24 February 2008: Thanks Irish!!!! So you mean in other words F**k buddies. Right??? Lol.... (read in full...)
Can this relationship be salvaged?
Q. If a FWB arrangement ends for whatever the reason (ie couldn't handle other people being involved) and the person got hateful and then apologized does the FWB ever have a chance in restarting? What makes the other person come back to the one that ...
A. 24 February 2008: What does FWB mean ?... (read in full...)
Attracted to my abusive ex, why?
Q. I have a 3mth old baby with my ex-boyfriend. He left me when I was 7 mths pregnant. He just came back into our lives after his baby was born. perhaps out of guilt or something? We have had to go to court and the judge ruled he needs to have ...
A. 24 February 2008: Tread carefully. Sorry about that lol.... (read in full...)
Attracted to my abusive ex, why?
Q. I have a 3mth old baby with my ex-boyfriend. He left me when I was 7 mths pregnant. He just came back into our lives after his baby was born. perhaps out of guilt or something? We have had to go to court and the judge ruled he needs to have ...
A. 24 February 2008: Please put your baby first, having this guy around you without supervision because of his raging behaviour is dangerous. Do you really want your child to be in that environment? He sounds very unreliable and not very good father material, as he has ... (read in full...)
Why is he doing this? I would love to think he's in love with me...
Q. Dear All, I am a 25 yr old girl and I have a unique problem. There is a celebrity i was crazy about [like most of u are about celebs] and was quite active on his fan sites [esp de ones he frequented passively]. Now, before i joined the for...
A. 24 February 2008: Someone needs a lesson on how to spell. Den is spelt then, dat is spelt that. Go back to school and learn how to write properly.... (read in full...)
Normal weight loss or not?
Q. heyx i am 15, 5 ft 3 and last week i weighed in at 9 and a half stone. i lost 14 pounds since then, which means about 2 pounds a day. What does this mean? Am i normal? i have dieted all week, but only eat less and exersised abit more. I know the...
A. 24 February 2008: Please do not lose anymore weight, eight and a half stone is what you weigh now is fine. If you want to maintain this weight, then I suggest you eat sensibly,exercise and not crash diet which is what you are doing now. There are so many people out ... (read in full...)
Could you give me advice on how to broach the subject to him without embarrassing him or making him feel worse?
Q. I started dating my 34-year old boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother's) when I was 15, and we've been seeing each other for about a year now. I've been really happy with him so far, and I feel like he's not only my boyfriend but a casual friend as ...
A. 24 February 2008: Sorry to say this but he is a paedophile and can be done for statutory rape. What does a man of 34 want with a girl of 15? Answer sex!! He should date women nearer his own age not a child, who does not know her own mind.
You are very young an... (read in full...)
Torn between my nasty boyfriend and a sweet friend.
Q. i need some serious help here guys... so ive been with this guy for almost 2 yrs now but he's controlling and he's not that nice to me... but he treats me good too so i don't know. but then i was talking to this other kid and he makes me happy but ...
A. 24 February 2008: That has got to be the worst thing to say to his girlfriend. "You are not the one that I want, but you will do". OMG words fail me, he is using you as a stop gap until someone else comes along. I think you kinda know the answer yourself the question ... (read in full...)
How to find the strength to end a six year affair?
Q. Unfortunately I have been very foolish in that I have fallen deeply in love with an older married man. I know it is wrong and that I am wasting my time, but it now feels impossible to end as the feelings get stronger and the bond between us ...
A. 23 February 2008: How can you call this an affair if you don't have sex?
I thought you said that you are intelligent woman, this is a friendship you have, surely? Am I missing something here?... (read in full...)
Dating a guy who is a father of a 1 month old. Should I break up with him?
Q. im in 13 and in high school and im dating this guy hes 18,but he has a 1 month old baby.people tell me to break up with him....i dont know what to do...
A. 23 February 2008: I agree with all the aunts on this one, he already has a baby to bring up. What the hell is he doing dating a 13 year old girl. Please do not have sex with him either, or you could end up pregnant yourself while he is out gallivanting with all and ... (read in full...)
How can I make this work without scaring him off or making him forget about me?
Q. Hello! My boyfriend and I had been together for almost two and a half months now. Everything seemed fine, but then he confronted me and told me we had to break up. I didn't cope with it very good. I didn't realize what had happened, because I didn't...
A. 23 February 2008: You say he is sexually attracted to you, but is not in love with you. Please what ever you do, don't let him use you otherwise you this will make your problem even painful as it is.
You are worth much more than being some guy's sex toy, it will ... (read in full...)
How can I make this work without scaring him off or making him forget about me?
Q. Hello! My boyfriend and I had been together for almost two and a half months now. Everything seemed fine, but then he confronted me and told me we had to break up. I didn't cope with it very good. I didn't realize what had happened, because I didn't...
A. 23 February 2008: I am so sorry my darling, that your boyfriend finished with you. But you must be strong and get on with life, as you are very young and have a whole life ahead of you before you settle down with Mr Right. I am glad you saw sense not to take your own ... (read in full...)
I do love my husband but he revealed to me after marriage he is against having children, time is running however so what should I do?
Q. I've been married for 3 years and have reached a stage in life where my biological clock is ticking. i feel the need to have babies but my husband doesn't agree. when we were dating he never mentioned that he didn't want children..but now he is ...
A. 23 February 2008: Does he give any reason why he is against having children?
Maybe he had a bad childhood or he is just not the paternal type. It seems strange that you guys never discussed this before you got married, do you two ever communicate about each othe... (read in full...)
White stuff in sexual activities... help, is it normal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over a year and he's only the 2nd person I've slept with. We have a great sex life but my self confidence drops as sometimes when he fingers me there is white stuff on his fingers. It doesn't smell and it's not cum, ...
A. 23 February 2008: It sounds like vaginal discharge, you tend to secrete more when you are ovulating.... (read in full...)
We were best friends til he met someone. I tried to forget him but I cant. What can I do?
Q. I have best friend. we've been so close untill he met his new lover. I tried to forget him, but I can't. My heart always feel hurt when I didn't meet or talk with hi. Last time we met, he looks at me just like a lover. Full of love. When we f...
A. 22 February 2008: How come you two never got it together??? You guys sound so compatible from what you are saying.... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by telling him she isn't into him?
Q. Hey, I need some opinions on my situation. There's this girl I know who has been getting textx from a boy all the time, and you can tell he likes her. Problem is though, she hates him. He annoys her and she complains about him all the time. For ...
A. 22 February 2008: I think she should told him she was not interested to his face. What I don't get is, if she hates him so much, how come he has her phone number? If i wasn't keen on a guy, the last thing I would do is let him have my mobile (cell phone number). If ... (read in full...)
If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?
Q. I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin? Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my famil...
A. 22 February 2008: I am disurbed that your parents keep passing the buck back and forth, when you ask about sexual matters. It is little wonder than Britain has a very high teenage pregnancy rate because of ignorance and lack of sex education. Your parents should b... (read in full...)
Me and my fiance are christians. Should we have sex before we marry?
Q. I've a fiance whom we've been dating since last year.She and i are christians,is it good for us to have sex since most of the time we spent together?We were organising for an outing but how will we spend our time during that outing,will we sleep ...
A. 22 February 2008: I think it is very sad when religions dictate to people on how to live their lives. Its your body,your mind,your business and your life, nobody but you and your fiancee should say in the matter.
I am Christian too, and I live my life the way I ch... (read in full...)
Was it really an accident or is he just playing games with me?
Q. hi everyone, i just got conffused, i mate this guy on a job trainig two months before, and we r getting close to each other, he used to come to my room in the evening and we talk for hours, we share secrets and everything. and one night on our get ...
A. 22 February 2008: He is playing games with you...... Move on and ignore this guy from now on.... (read in full...)
My partner tried to choke me and I'm wondering if I should give him another chance... he says he'll never do it again.
Q. My partner tried to choke me on one occasion and I am wondering if I should give him another chance. He says he loves me more than anything but he panicked and he's so sorry and says he will never hurt me again. He wants to get married - we were ...
A. 22 February 2008: If you marry this guy, you will endure domestic violence. Sorry is a very easy word to say, get out or he will do it again and again. This man is very dangerous and could have killed you, no one should put up with that man or woman. Domestic ... (read in full...)
I was forced to stop being in touch with a close friend because of my grilfriend's paranoid personality. Is this right?
Q. After my girlfriend asked me to end all contact with a very good friend of ours, because we fancy each other, I am feeling heartbroken and depressive that I have lost such a close friend. I was forced to stop being in touch with said friend beca...
A. 22 February 2008: I feel that she feels extremely threatened by this girl, because you said that you both fancy each other. Hence her forcing you breaking off the friendship. I don't know why you are going out with this girl, if you fancy the other one. I think you ... (read in full...)
His age is holding him back on the sex front and it's frustrating me! Help!!!
Q. I've been with this man 18 years older than me. We get on well and sex with him is fantastic. It's amazing he can have sex with me 2 or 3 times a week. A year on he is not as good as he used to be in bed. I know it's his age. But I am always ...
A. 22 February 2008: Maybe you have tired the poor guy out lol. Have you ever thought of looking up on Google about, sex for the 50 plus. It will advise you about lack of libido, impotence etc and hopefully this will help your man out. I know age is just a number, b... (read in full...)
I deceived a married man to get me pregnant and he wants to be there for us, but I don't want him near us unless he leaves his wife, what is the right thing for me to do in this situation?
Q. I'm a single mom who had been seeing a married man for two years before his wife found out. After she found out, he broke it off with me, and we were both devestated. Then I called him a few times, and we started to see each other again, but ...
A. 21 February 2008: You have made your bed now lie in it you stupid cow !!!!!... (read in full...)
White collar workers (men) - and their (non)interestingness in bed or otherwise? Are these prejudices?
Q. I have got a question for men...who are in some sort of profession e.g. doctors, engineers, lawyers etc etc or into books. I would like to know how is it like living with them...also are they supposed to be boring in bed or otherwise. ...
A. 21 February 2008: How do you expect them to be? They are just normal human beings like you and I. Why don't you sleep with the guys who happen to be in that profession and find out for yourself. Just a thought if you are that curious lol.... (read in full...)
He just doesn't do passion! How can I get him out of his hole?
Q. my fiance has never given me oral and nor has he had an orgasm. This worries me. I always give him oral, he loves it. I've tried to talk to him about it but he changes the subject he also has never given me a passionate kiss, just quick pecks; he ...
A. 21 February 2008: OMG it must be like kissing a flipping tortoise. I couldn't bear it if my boyfriend did not show me any passion when it comes to being kissed, he would be my ex by now. Intimacy is a two way thing, it must be like making love to a corpse (ewww not ... (read in full...)
Are women really embarrassed of their pubic hair?
Q. Is a woman really embarassed if a man or boy sees some or all of her pubic hair?...
A. 21 February 2008: It depends whether you get embarrassed about a guy seeing your pubic hair. I always make sure I am neat and trim down there before I let any man see me naked lol if thats is any help.... (read in full...)
Am I too dependent on him?
Q. Hi, im 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for 8months now. And we love each other since the day we met. Our feelings increase with each passing day. But recently we have been only seeing each other once a week because we both want our...
A. 21 February 2008: Hi Trishara, lovely name by the way. I think you guys need to sit down and have a heart to heart chat about where your relationship is going. Point out that although you both need your space, that you would like to compromise and spend more quality ... (read in full...)
I didn't go out and party "a lot" so my gf left me. Any way I can show her I can be "fun" too?
Q. My girlfriend just broke up with me recently, and she gave no clear reason. Our relationship was fine we were completely fine, but i think it's cause i'm "lame." I admit I don't go out and party "a lot" but I have friends and we go out once and a ...
A. 21 February 2008: Don't beat yourself up about it! So what if you are not a "Party Animal"? You don't have to re-invent yourself just to please a girl, if you do want to have more fun and going out to party. Do it for yourself, I think she really gave you a raw deal ... (read in full...)
This girl has not had other boyfriends before, what should I say on our date?
Q. Hey, I'm 13 in May and i'm going on a date soon im her first boyfriend and i dunno what to do, because every girl ive dated have had bfs before me? help me please =\...
A. 21 February 2008: I did not have my first serious boyfriend until I was 18.
There is nothing wrong with her at all, just enjoy what time you have with her and stop worrying about her inexperience. Good luck dear. Dusky xxx.... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: Dear female anonymous reader. How would you feel if your own mother shagged your boyfriend?????
Over the moon ?????? No I didn't think so!!!!!... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: Morale dilemma????? Huh!!!! you can't even spell the word "Moral"!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: You have got to be the worst mother I have ever come across. You knew full well he is dating your daughter, yet you schemed your way into bed with him just because he flirted with you. Irish and all the other aunts are right, this sort of behaviour ... (read in full...)
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