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Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 29 August 2008: Question... Why are you still with this guy? We have all advised you against this FAT UGLY PERV, yet you still let him abuse you. Sounds like you are enjoying this as much as he is, otherwise you would have ran a mile ages ago.... (read in full...)
He sleeps separately from his wife and I've waited 2 years! Why won't he give me a time frame?
Q. I've been in love with a man for 2 years who is married. He loves me very much, wants to marry me, and plans to move out of home. I believe him - don't think it's just another married man has an affair episode. He sleeps separately from his wife ...
A. 20 July 2008: He sounds like a good Catholic!!!! Not!!! Cathlics are suppost to be against adultery, or does his Catholicism only comes out on special occasions like Christmas and Easter? If he tells you that he is not sleeping with the missus, I bet your botto... (read in full...)
Put simply, how can I make him love me?
Q. I was broken up with a few weeks ago by my first serious boyfriend-the person I first told "I love you". I think it might have been due to the fact that I wanted to spend too much time together (read; too needy). I've never been a clingy person, and ...
A. 19 July 2008: Spending to much time with your partner can get stale. I believe the recipe for a successful relationship is to give each other personal space and not be too clingy.
My motto is... Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You cannot make a pe... (read in full...)
Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?
Q. I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it ...
A. 19 July 2008: Darling for all you know he could be a paedophile grooming you as his victim. Don't what ever you do give out your phone number and please please please do NOT agree to meet him.
Does your parents know that you are talking to strange men on the n... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to stop having sex and says other guys are hot. Is she going to break up with me?
Q. I think my girlfriend of 6 months ( were both 18) is going to breakup with me soon but she claims she doesnt want to. I dont know if this girl is a person who is good for me. I feel like I love her and she claims the same about me but she just makes ...
A. 19 July 2008: Frank B Kermit is right. Ditch her before she ditches you.
Other men are welcome to this shallow little girl my dear.
Find a nice young lady who is loving, faithful and does not belittle you.... (read in full...)
My violent boyfriend has cut contact with me. What do I do?
Q. hi all im really lost rite now and nees some advice a week ago me an my bf had a huge row he pushed me to the floor so i got up an slapped him an told him never 2 put his hands on me again well he went mad an tried 2 choke me i was terrifed i i ...
A. 16 July 2008: Keep away from this scumbag my dear!!!! You had a lucky escape, he could have killed you. I think you should report him to the police for attempted murder.
Has he ever been violent before? Once a wife beater is always a wife beater. Just thank Go... (read in full...)
Did he get angry because he didn't have sex with her and felt he had wasted his time?
Q. My daughter has just asked me advice but living in a different age cant help her really - so can you please? She has just returned from a holiday with a friend of hers. She met a young man who wanted sex but she held back which is very admirabl...
A. 16 July 2008: Your daughter did ABSOLUTELY RIGHT not to have slept with this PRAT. If he humiliated my daughter like that, I would have gave him a piece of my mind not to mention a slap around the face.
I hope your daughter is not beating herself up about it... (read in full...)
Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.
Q. Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...
A. 15 July 2008: This man is abusing you in the worst possible way. He is extremely dangerous and he has sex with you whether you like it or not. Darling what this pondlife is doing to you is pure and simple R-A-P-E.
Now he wants one of his disgusting cronies ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex five times in two days?
Q. The only time I get to spend with my boyfriend is on the weekend. We live far away and we work on the weekdays. We’re both in our late 20s so we are not little kids. Is it normal to have sex 5 times over 2 days? It feels like we’re making ...
A. 14 July 2008: Sex five time in two days healthy???? Hell yes!!!... (read in full...)
Sex without Protection
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time in our whole life without protection and he just pulled out. I feel like he didn't pull out in time because we did leave it in a couple of times. He also had ejaculated the day before. Am I pregnant? ...
A. 14 July 2008: Just Two words Poster..... Use Protection!!!!... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: What is the deal with George Clooney girls???? Not my cup of tea at all!
Dear Poster your missus has as much chance of sleeping with George Clooney as I have sleeping with Johnny Depp. In other words ZILCH CHANCE!!! (Oh well a girl can dream I ... (read in full...)
I happened to see my son masturbating and don't quite know what to do about it!
Q. I am a mother of 2 kids, 11 year old boy and 8 year old girl. My husband is on a business tour and will be back only after two months. Couple of days back I happened to see my son doing masterbation in his bedroom. He does not know that I have seen ...
A. 11 July 2008: Do and say ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!! It is the most normal thing to do when you are growing up and your hormones are raging.
I remember when I was 11 and my parents caught me masturbating, they told me that I was being dirty and wanted me to stop.
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My soon-to-be-ex husband sent me a text telling me I wasn't to look at him or speak to him when he picks up the children. Should I just toughen up?
Q. I posted a question a few week ago about my soon to be ex husband not speaking to me or having anything to do with me because of lies I told in the past. I got lots of great replies with people saying it is a waiting game, just give it more time. ...
A. 6 July 2008: What a childish little baby he is. If he cancels the last minute, because it involves being at your house. I would go to a solicitor and tell them that you want to sort out proper access to the children.
Refuse to have this prat inside your hou... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm too old for all the men out there!
Q. i keep reading that men prefer younger women and this is starting to panic me as we're all getting older and i haven't yet met the man of my dreams! I'm worried it'll get too late. At which age do women lose their appeal to men?...
A. 6 July 2008: Darling, You could be sending the wrong signals to guys, surrendering the fact that you are too old and and look miserable. Guys love confident women who feels good about themselves, but also not arrogant. If you are going to shy away in a little... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm too old for all the men out there!
Q. i keep reading that men prefer younger women and this is starting to panic me as we're all getting older and i haven't yet met the man of my dreams! I'm worried it'll get too late. At which age do women lose their appeal to men?...
A. 5 July 2008: I am old as the man I feel.... He is 34 and I am 40 lol.... (read in full...)
What can I do about his controlling mother?
Q. Please could anyone offer me any advice? My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son and my problem is my boyfriends mother.. She has never approved of our relationship and is very protective of her son. To be h...
A. 5 July 2008: First of all your boyfriend needs to GROW SOME BALLS and stand up to his domineering mother. He is a grown man relying too much on his MUMMY, needing her permission to lead a life of his own. I really think that you guys need to have a serious talk ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish or should I go out and have some fun?
Q. im 18 yr old n been seeing a 29 year old for ova a year. ive miscarried a baby by him n i love him with all my heart. the nly problem is i dont feel good enuff in bed for him, since we moved in together he seems really lazy not even cookin for ...
A. 5 July 2008: Babe you are too young to be tied down to a BOZO like that!!! I have a daughter the same age as you, who goes out and has fun with her friends quite often. I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Have you supported each other since your sad ... (read in full...)
He thinks a woman's only goal is to steal a man's money...how do I break up with him?
Q. he lives at home and ive suggested we buy a house but he says he wont because women are only after money and he would prefer to get his own, he doesn't ever want kids and i do, he never wants to get married because women steal the mans money. im not ...
A. 4 July 2008: Oh my God I have read quite enough!!!! Get rid of this WASTE OF SPACE!!!!! He is making it clear that he does not want a future with you, he makes you have two abortions, he won't celebrate your 21st birthday.
The best birthday present for you ... (read in full...)
When will he propose properly??
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we see eachother every few months.We are very much in love and he we have spoken about marriage and children etc..He has even asked me to marry him via text and email ...
A. 2 July 2008: Ha Ha I totally agree Dr Vendetta, I thought exactly the same thing.
Dear Poster, he should have arranged a candlelit dinner for two and went on bended knee, not propose via text or email. How unromantic!!!! I would have told him to get his ass ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?
Q. Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been ...
A. 2 July 2008: I know what I would do to this man...... short of castration. Men like him are totally disgusting and should be locked up.
Honey this guy is far too old for and will be done for statutory rape, find a nice young boy your own age, not some per... (read in full...)
He's suffocating me and calls me names when he's upset! He always apologizes but it happens again, what should I do?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is almost 20. I completely adore him but he smothers me so much, it's suffocating. He won't let me have friends unless he knows everything about them. He questions me every time I meet a male (friend or stranger) as to ...
A. 2 July 2008: Honey get rid of this waste of space !!!!!... (read in full...)
What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?
Q. I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...
A. 29 June 2008: Its kinda like saying....Maybe I should dump my girlfriend because I like heavy metal music and she hates it and prefers classical music.
Hun!!! Seriously!!!! Is it really a BIG DEAL???? Maybe she doesn't like getting thrown about and scared h... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 29 June 2008: Yes troubletoomuch you have made a very valid point, maybe I am too polite lol. I dated a guy once last year and kissing him was like kissing a tortoise (Not that I tried it lol).... (read in full...)
Very worried about his health! My BF's always only eaten junk food.
Q. I love my boyfriend of nearly 3 years dearly, but i am becoming very worried about his health. Since ive known him, he has always only eaten junk food. Even before we met, he had always eaten junk food and nothing else- he is 27 now- and im worre...
A. 28 June 2008: Emilys answers is absolutely spot on. He is also at risk of getting bowel cancer too, with all the junk food your fella has consumed over the years. Poor diets can make you sluggish, develop diabetes and all sorts of health problems.... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 28 June 2008: There is an art to french kissing! It doesn't have to be disgustiing. Yes I have had guys who are bad kissers, french or otherwise. Never tell a guy you want to show him how to kiss, it will give him a complex.... (read in full...)
How do I snub someone?
Q. Help. I need advice on how to Snub somebody, and when it's appropriate. Examples like how long to do it, what kindof situations, etc. Please help as soon as possible. I would greatly appreciate it!! 3...
A. 28 June 2008: You sound like a right charmer!!! Why would anyone deserve to be snubbed? I think this is sheer ignorance, cos I am sure you wouldn't like it done to you.
Treat people as you want to be treated, with R-E-S-P-E-C-T, otherwise you will find people w... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin - I'm left wondering whether she is or not. My fiance`s past relationship is bothering me.
Q. This question stems from my fiances past relationship and my inexperience with relationships, but before I think crazy things I need your experienced advice. This is a long and boring read so bear with me if you really want to help me. ABOUT ME ...
A. 28 June 2008: What religion are you?
Eastern cultures do tend to frown on people who have a history of relationships before marriage. Western cultures the complete opposite, it would be thought as weird if by your age you have not sown a few wild oats. Don'... (read in full...)
I am suppose to be going on a date tonight, but I don't feel the want to go? I don't know why
Q. I met a guy 2 weeks ago at my local pub. We've kept in touch by txt. I am suppose to be going out tonight with him. He is 30, 7 years younger than me. We have nothing in common, he likes to drink frequently, used to do drugs, and doesn't have any ...
A. 28 June 2008: I would go for that drink with this guy, and tell him you are looking for friendship and not a relationship. You never know he may become your drinking buddy. (Just a thought).... (read in full...)
Do you think he cheated/left 'cos he couldn't take the insecurity anymore?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and were together for 18 months. He left his girlfriend of 7 years for me, who he's cheated on all the way through. He'd also cheated many times on his girlfriend of 5 years before that but dumped her for the next. He told...
A. 28 June 2008: Why would anyone in their right mind want a relationship with a guy like that? You knew what his track record was like before you got together.
I would run a mile from a guy like him, and find someone who is capable of fidelity.
Be very choos... (read in full...)
I have NO facial hair! Is that a turn off to the girls??
Q. Ok, I'm 16 years old, and basically my problem is that I currently have no facial hair!... I know i was a little behind my mates when it came to pubity, but now I'm pretty much the same as them; I have a reasonable amount of pubic hair,...
A. 28 June 2008: Some girls like facial hair and some girls don't! I like guys with a few days stubble myself, but I hate full grown beards! You are still very young and in time you will develop more facial hair, so I wouldn't worry about it.
I'm sure you will hav... (read in full...)
My new online dating guy is ignoring me--what should I do now?
Q. I met this guy through an internet dating site, and we've seen each other 3 times... and had sex. I last saw him last week, and he said he didn't need to go on the site anymore, which I took to mean because he liked me. He said he'd call on ...
A. 27 June 2008: Dating guys after 24 years of marriage, must be very daunting for you. Everybody gives their well meaning advice do this on the date or don't that on a date.
There is really no secret potion to make dating a success, it just that you have to be ca... (read in full...)
Any suggestions of how I can find an appropriate hairstyle?
Q. I Want to change my hairstyle, and have been growing my hair for quite sometime now. im not sure that i want long hair anymore and i want it changed but i dont no what to. does anyone know any good webites that i can look at of can you te...
A. 23 June 2008: Ooops Bubbloo 24 well spotted lol. Sorry Sammy Hun xx.... (read in full...)
I'm I going to be pressured to have sex from all these boys?
Q. i am nearly 14 and i am underpresser about having sex! there are soo many sexy lads that i know, and most of them have asked me out, i have only went out with 1 of them, and there is 9 more lads that have asked me out. the one i went out with said ...
A. 23 June 2008: I applaud you that you want to wait to have sex. I think these boys are just boasting to make themselves look good about having sex. You stick to your guns and wait patiently, I lost my virginity whan I was 18 and glad I waited too. Its your body ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions of how I can find an appropriate hairstyle?
Q. I Want to change my hairstyle, and have been growing my hair for quite sometime now. im not sure that i want long hair anymore and i want it changed but i dont no what to. does anyone know any good webites that i can look at of can you te...
A. 22 June 2008: Hi Sammy before you take the plunge at cutting your long hair, click onto google and find hairstyles that will suit hair, rangeing from long hair to short hair. Chanelle from Big Brother 8 has had her hair cut into a very classy bob and looks ... (read in full...)
She told me she was raped by an ex when she was drunk. What should I do or believe?
Q. the mother of my child told me after 2 and a half years of seeing each other she was raped by an ex when she was drunk. she dosent really know excactly what happened but it has left her in a bad way what sould i do or belive?...
A. 22 June 2008: Be a man and stand by her!!!!! Not question her to see if she is lying about something serious being raped. Drunk or not.... No means No!!!! End of...... Go figure.... (read in full...)
How can he treat me like this after three years?
Q. Sorry to bother everyone again. I was dating a guy for over 3 years and we broke up. Recently, we have just been like seeing each other to see how things go. But when he is drunk, he turns ugly, and speaks to me like crap! I fell out with him, but ...
A. 22 June 2008: Alcohol dependance can play a major problem in any relationship, I know because I divorced my husband over this. When he was sober he was the best husband any woman could have, but when he drank too much he was a vile foul mouthed thug. Please da... (read in full...)
Should I continue to be his girlfriend or should I move on?
Q. Should I stay or should I go? And if I go, how can I cope with the pain and find new love, good love? I've been with this man for almost 2 years. He's been amazing most of the time. Except lately. Long story short, we have issues, I've writ...
A. 22 June 2008: Darling, what ever happens in anybodys past cannot be changed. Your boyfriend is controlling and manipulative, you should find someone who is not bothered about your past. Move on from this silly little boy, who has the brain capacity of an ant. ... (read in full...)
Lack of sexual desire the only criteria to be asexual? Many questions inside.
Q. Given that I can't agree(sometimes even argue) with most asexuals, I wanted to ask some questions. It doesn't seem that asexuals differ much from hetero/bi/homosexuals. Some of them do remain virgins, but others are sexually active and may even have ...
A. 22 June 2008: Surely if anybody is asexual, they cannot bear any sexual contact. For many reasons, eg they have been sexually abused, they are impotent etc. I don't know I am no expert on this matter. Maybe there is someone out there to enlighten me about why ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? Or am I one of those people who can't?
Q. I am fifteen years old, and my ex boyfriend and I we're dating for around seven months. October 12 07 - May 9th 08. We had alot of unprotected sex, and it started in febuary and ended early June. I never have got pregnant but I've had alot of ...
A. 22 June 2008: You are playing a form of Russian Roulette by having unprotected sex, to see if you can get pregnant. Please use condoms.... (read in full...)
My 6 year old caught my husband and I in the bedroom having sex, what do I tell her??
Q. my daughter who is 6 years old walked in the bedroom while me and her dad was having sex and said what are you doing and what i do and tell her?...
A. 21 June 2008: Get a lock put on the door...... Problem solved and no more embarrassments LOL.... (read in full...)
I fantasize and daydream about this TV guy which isn't fair on my boyfriend. How do I stop?
Q. Hi! There is a guy on TV that I can not stop thinking about. He is so breathtakingly beautiful that it makes me loose my breathe every time I see him (yes I know it sounds silly but that is how it feels) But I think / daydream about him all th...
A. 21 June 2008: Just out of curiousity...... Who is this heart-throb you have a crush on? I have had crushes on TV and movies stars past and present like Johnny Depp, Rob Lowe, Colin Farrell,Martin Shaw...... the list goes on. Treat it as a crush and nothing ... (read in full...)
Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?
Q. im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...
A. 20 June 2008: Yes Lady of Sorrows, I agree some guys like skinny,blonde beautiful women. I wasnt being arrogant at all, the point I am putting across was that men ALSO go for women that are brunette,redheads,mousy coloured hair thin women curvy women fat women ... (read in full...)
Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?
Q. im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...
A. 19 June 2008: 1. Not all men are attracted to blonde women, red heads and brunettes are the new blonde
2. Men find curvy women are more attractive than their skinny counterparts and want something they can cuddle up to.
3. Beauty is in the eye of the behol... (read in full...)
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