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No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 18 May 2008: Just one question...... Do you do anything to make sure that she is satisfied or is it all ME ME ME???????????... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: For God sake this is the most trivial thing to argue about because she won't give you oral sex.
Some women don't like oral sex, its a plain and simple as that and if you are going to break up your marriage because of that then I think you are bein... (read in full...)
Am I a horrible person for having lied?
Q. Am I a horrible person for having lied? My ex broke up with me yesterday. It was because I came clean about some stuff after I had lied to him some other times before. It involved my past. I hid a lot of things about my past. According to mos...
A. 16 May 2008: You don't say what you have done so bad in the past, to make this guy want to be so judgemental. I don't think he is Ideal boyfriend material if he makes you feel bad about yourself concerning your past.
I guess you lied to him to spare his feel... (read in full...)
He's going to marry someone else. I can't stop crying.
Q. Can't stop crying... I'm feeling so low today. I keep thinking about my ex and his girlfriend. I'm thinking about how happy they are, I'm seeing them in bed. They've just come back from holiday, so I'm seeing them holding hands. Kissing, lying ...
A. 16 May 2008: Oh Sweetie I know exactly how you feel. I dated a guy last year for a few months, then he dumped me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. Three months later the rat found himself a younger model of 28 (I'm 40) and I had exactly the same visions ... (read in full...)
I want him to notice me. I need tips on flirting
Q. hi, i like a guy and i need some tips on flirting, is it wrong to flirt with one whose got a girlfriend? how do i get him to notice me even if he has someone? and how do i get to win his heart, we work together....
A. 16 May 2008: Darling, you have a very good chance of making yourself look a complete wally if he does not respond to your flirting.
If you do want to flirt with a SINGLE UNATTACHED GUY, then I suggest you buy the book called Hot Relationships by the author T... (read in full...)
How do I make him see the reason he is single is his bad hygiene??
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I have a bit of an odd problem. I've been friends with this guy for about 8 years, and I have tried to bring this up to him numerous times in different ways but he won't listen. The problem is, he has given up on women beca...
A. 16 May 2008: I know this is going to sound cruel, but you have to be cruel to be kind. Next time you are out with him, ask a few random girls whether they would date your friend, if they say no because of his bad hygiene then at least he has heard this from ... (read in full...)
We are ready for sex. Recommendations?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring ...
A. 16 May 2008: In my opinion I find the IUD coil very effective, you don't have to remember to keep taking the pill and you do not put on weight. The only thing it does is it makes your periods a little heavier and also it takes a few months to regulate them ... (read in full...)
All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 14 May 2008: Isn't this called train crash women. ... (read in full...)
Should men pay on the first 'date'?
Q. Question #1 I met a woman on an online dating service. She suggested we should meet up for coffee and I agreed and suggested a time and place. When we finished she said she would go to the restroom while I took care of the bill. She didn’t offe...
A. 13 May 2008: Good God lucky you never took her out for an expensive meal with champagne. I think it was very bad mannered of her not to say thank you, if that was me I would have said 'next time its my shout'.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?
Q. i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?...
A. 13 May 2008: If its good enough for Madonna then its good enough for me.... (read in full...)
She stole him from me and I don't plan on ever talking to her again. Am I over-reacting?
Q. Hey well ive been seeing this guy since august last year. and well basically my best friend has taken him of me. she liked some guy in her work he doesnt like her . She knows how much i like this guy and she pure hits on him and stuff infront of...
A. 11 May 2008: Drop this nasty little girl out of your life.... (read in full...)
I met a widower on a cruise and he was upset I didn't have sex with him! How can I get back on his "friendship book"?
Q. I am 54 just returned from a cruise and "met" a man on his own he wasnt looking for anything really but we palled up a bit and did some dancing but nothing romantic for 14 daysw at the end we just kissed on the cheeks and he said see you sometime...
A. 11 May 2008: Why do you want to be friends with a guy who clearly disrespects you? You were right not to have sex with him, and should stick to your guns.
But even if you did go out to dinner with him he may expect you to sleep with him, sadly there are guys... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 10 May 2008: Ever thought about visiting a sperm bank for you fix. hehehehehe !!!!!!! These posts get dafter by the minute... (read in full...)
Is it because I refused him sex that he couldn't wait to get rid of me?
Q. About 2 weeks ago I slept over my bf's house. I told him before that I wasnt ready for sex, so he should not of expected me to sleep with him just cause i agreed to sleeping over...i just wanted to sleep in his arms, nothing more. Anyway, he wante...
A. 10 May 2008: Don't you think you was unwise sleeping in the same bed as your bf, when clearly he wants sex? I mean you left yourself open wide to his sexual advances, and because he did not get his way he has finally dumped you.
If you had no intentio... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...
A. 9 May 2008: Oh my God she certainly had a colourful past hasn't she?
One thing I find interesting is that she said four of them were without her consent whist under the influence of alcohol or drugs. If that is the case, why did she continue to put herself in a... (read in full...)
I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?
Q. Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...
A. 9 May 2008: The keys to a loving and healthy relationship are loyalty,trust and love. I am afraid you have neither, you are coming across a total hypocrite saying he cheats on me as well as I cheat on him and you do not trust him.
Please can you tell me who c... (read in full...)
What would you think if you found out a friend had punched his 3 yr old?
Q. If you had a mate who always bad-mouthed his ex girlfriend who has his teenage son, and always says it's because of her that he doesn't see his son. But then you were shown a neswpaper report which says, your mate years ago punched his child at 3 ye...
A. 6 May 2008: This guy is the most foulest person I have ever come accross. I would never want to be friends with a guy like this.... (read in full...)
I met a guy on a dating site. I'm nervous. Am I being paranoid?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am looking for some advice. My partner left me 3 months ago when I was ill and although I have my own friends, i joined an internet friendship and dating site for company and interaction but for friendship only. Howe...
A. 6 May 2008: I don't think it is very advisable to have an online relationship with someone who lives in another country. I joined a dating agency last year and hit it off with a Portugese guy who lives in The States, we spoke on msn and sent emails but never... (read in full...)
I'm so deeply hurt and desperately need some wise advice.
Q. Hi everyone, I would truly appreciate some advice/opinions on a really upsetting situation that I have recently found myself in. You won't believe the unbelievable piece of bad luck that I and my girlfriend just experienced... I'm 31, my girl...
A. 6 May 2008: BTW save some wedding cake for me. You Hear ???? ;))... (read in full...)
I'm so deeply hurt and desperately need some wise advice.
Q. Hi everyone, I would truly appreciate some advice/opinions on a really upsetting situation that I have recently found myself in. You won't believe the unbelievable piece of bad luck that I and my girlfriend just experienced... I'm 31, my girl...
A. 6 May 2008: We have all slept with people that makes us cringe of embarrassment, I am sure you have too. But please this happened donkey's years ago, do not let this mistake ruin what you call a PERFECT RELATIONSHIP.
Get that ring on your sweethea... (read in full...)
How can I stop "Mr Perfect" from trying to force me to have sex?
Q. Everyone thinks my bf is perfect! He portrays this Mr Nice Guy act but Im not too sure how REAL that image is. His family think hes a perfect catholic boy who treats women with respect. My family think the same. And my friends, they think hes the ...
A. 4 May 2008: This guy is what I would call Wolf in Sheep's clothing. He is Mr Smarm and Charm to the public and a Would be rapist when he is alone with you. Get away from this guy he sounds dangerous and in the end will succeed. He has absolutely no re... (read in full...)
Me or her? Why can't he choose or is he just playing with me?
Q. I broke off twice with this guy, G because of religious reasons, him being a Christian and I not. We then held on to each other in an ambiguous relationship (I had two boyfriends after him but he was always there for me and I kept turning to him) ...
A. 4 May 2008: Forget him love he is playing with your emotions good and proper.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of trying new sexual positions!
Q. I am afraid to try new sex postions what do i do?...
A. 4 May 2008: Read the Kama Sutra !!!!! Very informative :D xxxx.... (read in full...)
When did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it?
Q. Hi, just for curiosity, when did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it? I am 36 but stopped when i was about 20ish. Also, when did everyone start. Males and females should answer...
A. 4 May 2008: STOP STOP??? Ahhh the joys of a Rampant Rabbit!!!!!! Don't know what your missing GIRL lol :D xxx.... (read in full...)
Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin?
Q. This is a question for the guys. I'm in my early twenties and I'm a virgin. I'm saving myself for the right person. Do men prefer experienced women? Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin. What are your views please? thanks alot...
A. 3 May 2008: Some are some arn't. If you put across to a guy about waiting for the right person, you are already making the assumptions whether they are the right person or not.
When you date a guy and you want the relationship to progress into somethin... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 3 May 2008: We are supposed to be Agony Aunts on here and help people in their hour of need. NOT THE JUDGE AND JURY!!!!... (read in full...)
Do the English think of my race as relationship material? Is the different background a hindrance?
Q. I am a fairly attractive Indian woman in mid twenties residing in England for good i guess. I am very focused at this point on my goals and career and have got friendly and positive approach in life in general. I am pretty much new in dating sc...
A. 3 May 2008: There are loads of men in England who appreciate women of all races and cultures, because they find them beautiful and very captivating compared to English women. Let me tell you Hun, they go wild for the exotic,sultry olive skinned women and I am ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex with the EX! I also discovered he is intimate with his girlfriend, which he had denied. What to do?
Q. Dear Cupid My ex of 2 yrs and I had a messy break up due to the fact that when i was working abroad for a few months, I cheated. I came back and confessed my mistake to my boyfriend, which i guess was kinda stupid. He decided to get back at my b...
A. 3 May 2008: How can you say you are not willing for someone to put your health at risk, when you cheated yourself? Neither of you are relationship material.because you BOTH CHEAT RIGHT??
He is going behind his girlfriend's back to have his jollies with you... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 3 May 2008: There is one thing I want to ask Lonelytwo. You say you was abused as a child by your mum's boyfriend, so why do you not believe this young lady if the same thing happened to you? Surely you would be on the victim's side????
Or am I missing ... (read in full...)
Please help me, my wife wants a divorce, and I don't!
Q. so my wife and i have been together for 5yrs maried for 4. i love her to death i know you shouldnt say that but i do recently she asked me what i thought if she were to tell me i wanted a divorce. i told her she was crazy that she needed help. we ...
A. 2 May 2008: Oh Hun, I'm sorry to hear that your wife has finished with you. You deserve a proper explaination as to why she has thrown in the towel on your marriage, go and see a marriage councellor together and get to the bottom of this.
Is there a third pa... (read in full...)
My girlfriend called me a freak! Will I ever have sex?
Q. my penis is 10 inches long and when my girl saw it she left me and called me a freak will i ever have sex...
A. 2 May 2008: Blimey there are women out their who will do anything to have a boyfriend as well endowed as you. Your girlfriend is a silly little girl and you are better off without her.... (read in full...)
Will he expect me to sleep with him? We've been sex texting and I sent him a raunchy picture of myself...
Q. I have been sex texting (quite explicit) a guy and sent him a raunchy picture of myself. He is taking me out for dinner next week. Do you think he will be expecting me to sleep with him as I've sent him these raunchy messages? I have already been ...
A. 2 May 2008: Before I dated my boyfriend, we use to send saucy messages (nothing too risque lol) and I made it absolutely CRYSTAL CLEAR that I would sleep with him when I am good and ready. Suffice to say we have been together for seven months. But I don't think ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon for a new relationship?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with after 8 years, he was treating me like dirt towards the end when he felt like it. I got talking to this other guy and he seems nice. It is finished with me and my ex just 2 weeks, should i meet up with the other guy?...
A. 2 May 2008: This is too soon to start another relationship, because you are still vulnerable after finishing with your ex.
I am sure the other guy makes you feel good, as your ex treated you like dirt. The thing is what I am saying is, make sure this guy's in... (read in full...)
I wrote the girl of my dreams a song. Is it okay that I give it to her?
Q. I wrote the girl of my dreams a song and i plan on giving it to her today. I am really nervous that she is going to think its lame and think i am gay or something. She knows i am writing her one but she doesn't know it is about how great of a ...
A. 2 May 2008: Aww that it so lovely, if a guy wrote a song for me I would be hurrying him down the aisle lol.... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I've met someone else
Q. well im really confused now coz ive got a boyfriend and been with him a year and most of that time hes been in prison and i love him 5 days ago i started a training course and i met some one else and he is really sweet and i could see myself with...
A. 2 May 2008: Ok first of all, why is your boyfriend in prison and much more of his sentence does he have to serve? I don't think he is good boyfriend material if he is locked up and is not there for you.
If you do decide to get with this other chap, then ple... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 1 May 2008: By the way this is how you spell naive not nieve.... (read in full...)
I can't stand my wife. Should I leave her for my lover?
Q. Hi, I have been with my other half for 7 years now and been married for the last year.I have a job which takes me away for up to half a year at a time. My other half somewhat pushed the marrige on me before i went away last year and this time i'...
A. 1 May 2008: Why are you married to her??? If she pushed you at the time then you should have said NO, it is not as if she held a gun to your head.... (read in full...)
A three year relationship and no sex. How long can it go on?
Q. Im Not sure what to do about my reationship. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and living with her for the last 2 yrs. We have never had intercourse yet because she is scared of getting pregnant and probably would like...
A. 1 May 2008: Wow it is very rare indeed that a couple who co-habitate are still virgins and even rarer in England that they are nearing thirty too.
Have you guys ever discussed contraception? I would take a trip to the local family planning clinic, I mean you... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 1 May 2008: Lonelytwo if you did a bit of research on abuse victims, most cases go unreported because the abuser threatens them or makes believe to their victim that no one would believe them. This is probably why this young lady did not report it, because no ... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 30 April 2008: Solver you are no doubt THE SICKEST AUNT ON HERE!!!!! You give the people on Cupid a very bad press. Go away you disgusting creature and leave it to us GENUINE AUNTS answer posts on here. You really the most revolting person I have ever come ... (read in full...)
My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 30 April 2008: Next time he humiliates you in front of his friends...... Tell them in a loud voice "I hear that he has told you guys what we get up to in bed. Let me tell you that HE HAS A TEENY WEENY TODGER AND HE IS SO CRAP IN BED I FIND MYSELF FALLING ASLEEP ... (read in full...)
I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 30 April 2008: Here Here Doctor Vendetta I could not have put it better myself. Dusky xxxx.... (read in full...)
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