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Hi my name is Rose, I am a 41 year old mother of two lovely kids and have a lovely 15 months old grandaughter. Being on cupid has become a kinda hobby of mine. I like helping other people with their problems, it shows me there are always people that are worse off than yourself. I have made quite a few friends on here THANKS GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.

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Can I become an Agony Aunt?

Q.   Hey, I'm Chloe, i'm using dear cupid, because i used to love talking to agony aunts, and they always gave good advice when i didn't know who to ask. So i would like to become like that, and help others out from my experience, can i? Chloe x...

A.   12 April 2008: Hey honey welcome aboard and the very best of luck with becoming an Agony Aunt. Dusky xxxxxxxx.... (read in full...)

I put her "under pressure" to join my church and now she need "space"!

Q.   my fiancee and i were going to get married. we had a blissful relationship the only problem is i put her under pressure to join my church and gave her an ultimatum she wanted a break for a while to think and i involved her family now she h...

A.   12 April 2008: For God sake man get a grip, she is clearly not interested and she used the words needing space, as an excuse to get away from you. You are a controlling and manipulative person, so with her getting the police involved should make you WAKE UP AND ... (read in full...)

I hit my pregnant girlfriend and now she is ignoring me! I feel awful...

Q.   I hit my girlfriend and she is 5 months pregnant i feel bad and everthing but she is ignoring me and i dont get. I said sorry she was winding me up and i hit her i really need to see what can i do please help i feel awful. PLZ HELP?! she is alot ...

A.   12 April 2008: Im glad she saw the light and I hope she never lets you back into her life YOU NASTY ROTTEN BULLY. Just reading your letter and you whinging "She wound me up" makes me want to PUKE!!!!... (read in full...)

Due to give birth to my first baby soon--what will it be like?

Q.   Hi Im due to have my baby on the 21st of april but i am really scared about what my babys birth is going to be like? does it really hurt that much? its my first baby and im worried i ask the doctors but they use long words and my dr is a guy so he ...

A.   12 April 2008: The only way I can describe labour is, it is like having extemely bad period pains and it is like passing a melon through your vaginal entrance. Sorry that is the only way I can describe it. Good luck and let us Aunts know whether you had a boy or ... (read in full...)

He disgusts me so much! All I see is an old pervert instead of the guy I fell in love with!

Q.   I'm having some guy issues. I'm going out with a guy who I met online and I have been dating him for 4 1/2 years. It didn't occur to me that he would ever lie to me about his age. But it all started when my mom didnt believe me when I told her he ...

A.   12 April 2008: I dated a guy a few years ago who used to lie about his age. One minute he would be 35 the next 33, I mean what is the big deal with these guy about age. The fact your bf constantly lies about his age and refuses to let you see his ID seems a bit ... (read in full...)

Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive?

Q.   Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive? I find myself interested in a woman 35 but am not sure if she really feels anything for me sexually or is just being nice as a friend?...

A.   11 April 2008: I am 40 years old and personally I go for guys between the ages of 29-42, because I am only attracted to guys of that age group. Everybody has their personal preferences when it comes to age of their potential partner. What ever you do please d... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm never going to find a boyfriend with all the competition out there!

Q.   I am 28 and havnt had a serious boyfriend for 5 years. I meet several men a year but it never seems to last for longer then two weeks as they usally end up getting bored and leaving me for someone else. I cant help but feel that there is far too ...

A.   10 April 2008: Hey Q1605 I maybe 40 but I have been told I look younger and there is life in the old chick yet lol :)). Men go wild for the older woman let me tell you, I have even been hit on by guys in their early twenties. Older women tend to be more experien... (read in full...)

He wants me to cut my hair? I won't have a chance with him if I don't...so is he worth it?

Q.   i need some advice, i've got this guy i really like him and we are going ot meet soon but he says i ain't got a chance unless i cut my hair i really like my long hair and dont wanna cut it but i dont wanna miss out on being with him do u think i...

A.   10 April 2008: I with all the Aunts on this one you have your hair the way you see fit. Do not give into this jerk's demand, how dare he give you an ultimatum. Next time you see him tell him he has no chance with you until he gets some MANNERS.... (read in full...)

Pregnant! I'm only 11 and I'm a good girl really. I don't know what to do.

Q.   hi im 11 years old i dont drink or drink achohal im a good girll but somhow im pregnant and dont no wat do???p.s my parents do not no...

A.   10 April 2008: If you had been a good girl then you would not have got yourself up the duff.... (read in full...)

Is there something funny going on with my internet guy?

Q.   To start with i have met this guy online 7 months ago. Since then we always send each other, emails and I'ms. We talk like 3 to 4 times a week.We haven't met personally yet coz he lives in another state.He told me everything about him and I am to ...

A.   10 April 2008: From what you are telling us about this guy, he sounds like he has a woman already. The reason why maybe he has not called you, is because there is a thing called estimated phone bill and his missus may get suspicious if there is a phone number she ... (read in full...)

I fell in love but found out she has a daughter from another relationship! How can I look at her the same?

Q.   Dear friends out there, thanks for all the great advice you are giving to the world because it's helped lots of people, me included. However, I have one very disturbing situation that I have gotten myself into unintentionally. I fell in love wit...

A.   10 April 2008: I am a mother of two children, I am currently dating a guy with no children and what you have just said about this poor girl is insulting and downright patronising. So she has a child from a previous relationship, BIG DEAL GET OVER IT YOU SILLY ... (read in full...)

12 years old - too young to have sex?

Q.   i wanna have sex but i think 12 is tooo young!...

A.   10 April 2008: Rhythm and blues two has given the best advice so please take note dear. Dusky xxxxx.... (read in full...)

Should my friend stick with her "dirty" boyfriend or go for someone less smelly?

Q.   ok, this question isn't for me it's for a friend!! she has this boyfriend that she lives with. she says he is kinda dirty like he doesn't take showers everyday and brush his teeth and that sometimes he smells. She has been talking to these ot...

A.   9 April 2008: I think she should tell him straight, clean up or ship out!!!... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm never going to find a boyfriend with all the competition out there!

Q.   I am 28 and havnt had a serious boyfriend for 5 years. I meet several men a year but it never seems to last for longer then two weeks as they usally end up getting bored and leaving me for someone else. I cant help but feel that there is far too ...

A.   9 April 2008: Younger and slimmer???? Blimey I am not exactly a spring chicken myself at the age of forty, I do not have a washboard stomach but somehow I can attract guys like flies round a jam jar. Sorry I wasn't boasting but men like women all ages shapes and ... (read in full...)

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.

Q.   We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years ...

A.   9 April 2008: You have been with this guy for five years since you were twelve. Big Question, WHERE ARE THE BLOODY PARENTS TO HELP THIS POOR GIRL???????? I'm sorry but they are still responsible for this young lady as she is still very young,naive and vulnerable. ... (read in full...)

My love with my wife's sister!

Q.   I am married to my wife 9 yrs back, and have two kids. I love my wife verymuch. It was three years back when my wife was carrying my second kid, her sister stayed with us to help her. During this time, somehow we both liked eath other the way we ...

A.   8 April 2008: You have got to be the SICKEST POSTER I have had the misfortune to answer. 'This is why I am feeling guilty sometimes. My wife is innocent and trusts me and loves me a lot. Whenever I think of my wife I feel very guilty, but whenever I think of her ... (read in full...)

How do I make a guy love me?

Q.   How do I make a guy love me?...

A.   7 April 2008: Ditto to what LJ001 says.... (read in full...)

How can I make my breasts bigger without surgery?

Q.   Is there anyway to make your breasts bigger? Without surgery? x...

A.   7 April 2008: Judging by your age you are still at the puberty stage and would not worry as your breast are still growing.... (read in full...)

Thinking of going to a club tonight - alone. Should I?

Q.   Hi, quik question. A club in town that I like to go to apparently does well (gets lots of people to come) on monday nights. I'm considering going, but none of my friends can make it. I guess I would be going out in the hope of finding a girl a...

A.   7 April 2008: If you do go alone take a cab there and back, no matter how much it costs safety does not come with a price tag my love. Keep safe and have a great time. Dusky xxx.... (read in full...)

He loves me and I love him but his temper causes him to hit me and I'm pregnant!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have just turned two years and I'm five months pregnant with a beautiful little girl. There is one problem though, he has a really bad temper. Sometimes he throws me around or slaps the back of my head hard and I atleast cry once ...

A.   7 April 2008: To Poster and Danielle, why would anyone in their right mind stay with a man who physically and mentally humiliates them? I am even lost for word when you say that these SCUMBAGS hit you whilst you are pregnant, in my opinion for what it is worth ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?

Q.   hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...

A.   3 April 2008: Laura you seriously make my blood boil!!!!! This poor guy was sexually molested by his mother and now she wants money out of him. He was violated in the most disgusting vile way by his own flesh and blood and you think that he should be forgiving ... (read in full...)

I'm black, he's white. HE still to this day hides our relationship from his parents whom he still lives with. He says they are racist.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for two years I am 26 he is 25. I met him right after a previous serious relationship with a person I had a child with. My daugther was three months old when we met through work and we hit it off really well. ...

A.   3 April 2008: It is very sad in this day and age that people have their nasty narrow minded prejudices about someone's colour of skin. The world would be a weird place if we all had the same colour skin, I think if anything your boyfriend is racist himself,... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend?

Q.   Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend of theirs that they have had for a while?? I mean even if you think you have a good reason??...

A.   3 April 2008: No it means that you will end up being a CONTROL FREAK and dictating to your partner what to do with their lives. Lovers just come and go, friends are for life. Unless of course their friends are a very bad influence on them, nevertheless it would... (read in full...)

Is this smegma? And what could it do if I had unprotected sex?

Q.   When my penis head is fully exposed its very red and shiny and feels very numb as I feel I have a thick layer of smegma, so I think anyway. What else could it be and if anything else how can I prevent it other than washing. Also if I still...

A.   1 April 2008: You have posted this question three times. Twice today and once yesterday... (read in full...)

I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend, where can we meet in private?

Q.   Ridiculous as it sounds, I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend. They're very snobby and he is from a less priviliged background and they don't think he is good enough for me. We had been seeing each other 6 months befor...

A.   29 March 2008: Ruby!!!! Why are you apologising to this nasty spoilt bitch??? If anything it should be the other way round, she slagged you off and threw your advice back in your face. I think it is high time she got off her high horse and grow up and rake res... (read in full...)

Am I being used or does he really like me??

Q.   well am 16 and recently guys have started noticing me. I've had 4 boyfriends in the last 6 months or so but theres always been one thats special to me..hes 17 and has a kid but the problem is am still a virgin..we've messed around alot and since we ...

A.   29 March 2008: This guy should concentrate on being a father not trying to make out with girls, however if you do decide to sleep with him use protection. You don't want be another one of his latest conquests ending up pregnant, do you? The reason he makes yo... (read in full...)

What's the least painful way to have sex?

Q.   Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 ...

A.   29 March 2008: Sorry it says you are 13/15 years old.... (read in full...)

What's the least painful way to have sex?

Q.   Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 ...

A.   29 March 2008: You are too young for sex, wait until you are of legal age.... (read in full...)

I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend, where can we meet in private?

Q.   Ridiculous as it sounds, I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend. They're very snobby and he is from a less priviliged background and they don't think he is good enough for me. We had been seeing each other 6 months befor...

A.   29 March 2008: Ha Ha Dr Vendetta you rascal. I am glad someone is taking down Little Missy My A**e Does Not Stink down a peg or two.... (read in full...)

I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend, where can we meet in private?

Q.   Ridiculous as it sounds, I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend. They're very snobby and he is from a less priviliged background and they don't think he is good enough for me. We had been seeing each other 6 months befor...

A.   29 March 2008: Hey stop condemning peoples advice they give you!!, everybody on Cupid has taken time out to advise you on your problem. I get the feeling that the reason why your parents treat you like a child is because you act like one especially by telling ... (read in full...)

How can I make my husband be more responsible?

Q.   i have a husbend who has a chimecal disorder and i he is going out to have fun all night and working at afternoon . when he is coming into the house he's main and grumpy don't talk to me dont joke with me . i dont see him and he doesn't want to ...

A.   29 March 2008: Question. Why did you marry this BUM ???... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I are going to a hotel for the night, any ideas on something special I can do?

Q.   My boyfriend is taking me to a hotel on Friday night. I need some ideas as to what I can do that's special, I will be arriving before him so will have up to an hour to do something!...

A.   29 March 2008: Order champagne and scatter rose petals on the bed. Also take a bath with him and have some scented massage oils handy. (Hope my fella is reading this and taking note) LOL!!!... (read in full...)

24 and still at home, is that normal?

Q.   This may sound silly but here goes. Im 24 years old, 25 in June, and I still live at home with my parents. I am single but that's through choice as I havn't met anyone I like yet. I have a good job and earn good money. I have lots of friends and a ...

A.   29 March 2008: If you think it is too weird to still be living with your parents at the age of 24, then move in with a friend or find your own flat. Don't wait until you find a fella, be independant and self sufficient.... (read in full...)

I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend, where can we meet in private?

Q.   Ridiculous as it sounds, I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend. They're very snobby and he is from a less priviliged background and they don't think he is good enough for me. We had been seeing each other 6 months befor...

A.   29 March 2008: Your parents have no right to ban you from seeing your boyfriend and they are treating you like a little girl. I suggest you move out and find a flat so you can come and go as you please, YOU ARE AN ADULT and have to make your own decision... (read in full...)

Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?

Q.   Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I f...

A.   29 March 2008: Well done Lazy guy you hit the nail on the head. I think some Christians are BLOODY HYPOCRITES and doctrinate a load of BULLSHIT. If the poster was a true Christian as she alleges she would have helped her friend like a "Good Samaritan" and gotten ... (read in full...)

He now wants to have a relationship with another girl as well as me?

Q.   i have been best friends with a guy for a year and for the past three months we have been in a relationship with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.initially he told me that he loves me and i felt the same towards him.for the first 2 months we ...

A.   29 March 2008: He wants you as a FWB not a girlfriend,three months is not long enough to declare love either. I think he uses the word love too loosely and has reeled you into believing that you are the girl for him. Also he is using as a stop gap by saying he ... (read in full...)

Eleven year friendship, five months of long distance relationship...and we've never met in person!

Q.   I met my boyfriend on the internet 11 years ago this summer. We were kids when we first met and dated on and off, drifting apart occasionally, but never losing contact of each other. Last May he finally broke ties with his ex-girlfriend, and I was ...

A.   25 March 2008: You say that you are going to meet up?? I get the feeling by his major reductions of contact via email and online that it might never happen and that he may have a girlfriend. He also has contact with other girls online too, so technica... (read in full...)

Eleven year friendship, five months of long distance relationship...and we've never met in person!

Q.   I met my boyfriend on the internet 11 years ago this summer. We were kids when we first met and dated on and off, drifting apart occasionally, but never losing contact of each other. Last May he finally broke ties with his ex-girlfriend, and I was ...

A.   25 March 2008: Darling he is not your boyfriend and you do not have a relationship with him because you have never met this guy. In the eleven years that you have known him online, why have you guys not met each other? This is a very bizarre situation, you need... (read in full...)

His arguing and rudeness since our wedding is causing my love for him to disappear...I have no idea what to do.

Q.   My husband of one year (although we have known each other for nearly three years) is becoming more and more insulting towards me. Prior to our marriage he was fantastic for 18 months, full of fun, loving caring and gentle. The day we got married he ...

A.   25 March 2008: Show him the door!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

My partner calls me bad names like "Loser" and "Bitch", how do I deal with it?

Q.   Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have been with my partner for 6 yrs now - we do not live together - i live with my children (18 and 22) and he lives with his son (age 19). We have talked about living together at some point, once he has recovered...

A.   24 March 2008: What I am gonna say to you is going to be not what you want to hear, but I am gonna say it anyway. Under no circumstances do you move in with this NASTY PATHETIC LITTLE WORM, he does nothing but belittle you and calls you vile names. Do you real... (read in full...)

Do you think that one day he will ask me to be his girl??

Q.   I've been seein this guy for a long time since November. He's been stayin with me almost since the first night of November. We now live together. He doesnt consider me his girlfriend even though we live together and have sex like boyfriend and ...

A.   24 March 2008: Having two children has nothing to do with him not wanting you as his girlfriend at all, so stop using that as an excuse. You say you met him in November and then moved straight in with him, that was stupid wasn't it? I think you should have you... (read in full...)

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