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Hi my name is Rose, I am a 41 year old mother of two lovely kids and have a lovely 15 months old grandaughter. Being on cupid has become a kinda hobby of mine. I like helping other people with their problems, it shows me there are always people that are worse off than yourself. I have made quite a few friends on here THANKS GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.

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We are expecting our first child but she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no longer loves me, I cannot imagine being intimate with another woman...

Q.   I split with my girlfriend 2 months ago, we are expecting our first child, she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no loger loves me. I feel very lonley very isolated, every night i dream of my ex and i wake up upset beca...

A.   30 May 2008: Oh Hun big hugs for you xxxxx. How disheartening for you to for her to let you down like this. Are there any other reasons why she has split up with apart from not loving you no more? She may have found someone else, I don't mean to jump to concl... (read in full...)

My BF of 4 years constantly cheats on me and does not even try to hide it...

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 yrs ( within this time frame has been unfaithful over 6 or more times that I am aware of) but within the last year has been faithful until 6 months ago, but now is in another side bar relationship with a married women, I also know ...

A.   30 May 2008: OMG DUMP THIS LOSER NOW BEFORE HE BRINGS YOU DOWN ANYMORE!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

The sex is unsatisfying, what can I do to save the relationship?

Q.   Hello again aunts =) I am having a little problem in my relationship right now. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now and we currently live together. He is a wonderful man, but he can never seem to please me in bed. I bring it to his ...

A.   30 May 2008: Hi there Hun, I read your post with great interest and feel that I must reply to this. You say you bring it to your fiance's attention that he does not satisfy you in bed...... In What way does he not satisfy you? You do not say how. Have yo... (read in full...)

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

Q.   Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...

A.   29 May 2008: There is a saying where I come from....... NEVER SHIT ON YOUR OWN DOORSTEP!!!!!... (read in full...)

Can I still have a baby after two abortions?

Q.   when i was 21 i had an abortion i had it want my choice my bf wanted me to have the abortion even though it was a planned prenancy anyways he flipped on me the 2nd abortion was with this guy i loved and i though that he was different than the other ...

A.   28 May 2008: Sorry to say this, but why listen to a couple of nasty jerks who want to play God with your body? Having abortions is not like having a cold and going to the doctors to help to get rid of it. If you wanted these babies then you should have fought ... (read in full...)

I'm furious with my boyfriend for the way he broke up with me!

Q.   I'm so hurt. So, so hurt. My boyfriend and i got back together yesterday. We had a faboulous time! He had broken up with me because of things from the past. But we got back together and spent most of the day together. Then, at night, he got up...

A.   28 May 2008: Totally agree with anon reader!!! THIS GUY IS JUST PLAIN NASTY!!!!... (read in full...)

Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?

Q.   I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the ...

A.   28 May 2008: Why do you want to split up with him?... (read in full...)

Why's he behaving like such an arsehole?

Q.   My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me last week because he "suddenly" realized that I have a son and he didn't want to be a part of it. He has made some sorry excuses in the past for pushing me away, but then he always comes back with the ...

A.   28 May 2008: It seems that 'matey boy' wants you but not your son, but he should realise that your son comes part and parcel of you. Its him thats THE ASSHOLE not you, he comes accross an immature little boy who is not ready for an adult relationship. Next tim... (read in full...)

What's the best food to make you feel horny?

Q.   whats the best food to make you horny ?...

A.   28 May 2008: Wine makes me horny :P xx.... (read in full...)

What's the best food to make you feel horny?

Q.   whats the best food to make you horny ?...

A.   26 May 2008: I like to lick chocolate mousse off my man, it is more erotic :P xxxx. Chocolate is a well know aphrodisiac.... (read in full...)

The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!

Q.   Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...

A.   26 May 2008: OMG Are we still discussing this boring and tedious matter? Dear Poster, You are obviously not going to take the advice of us Aunts, so why don't you go and bore someone else to tears with this matter? We all said you are acting like a BITCH ON... (read in full...)

Can I save our relationship??

Q.   Ive been with my boyf for 4 years today. We moved in together last Sept, and starting planning to build our house, discussed having a baby, getting married... we were so happy and content. About a month ago, he went quiet. He was working really long...

A.   25 May 2008: You deserve an explaination as to why all of a sudden he wants his space. I think I need more insight, I mean have you been having quarrels? Also do you have proof that there is no one else? You say he stays out all night, he could have met some... (read in full...)

He has me on a 7 pm curfew! And he blames me for what he does to me! Am I doing the right thing planning to leave him?

Q.   I'm now 21 years old. I was barely 19 when I MOVED IN with my boyfriend. Things have gotten worse since I turned 21. He has me on a 7PM curfew! If I'm a few minutes late he doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night. Hes even locked me out for ...

A.   25 May 2008: OOh I need a cigarette to calm myself down after reading your post about this disgraceful pondlife OMG I AM SO ANGRY...... So bear with me..... Hi Hun I'm back and a little calmer now. What this guy is doing to you is ABUSE of the LOWEST DEGRE... (read in full...)

Time to end the fling with the married man?

Q.   I have been involved with a married man for 2and a half months and things started off really well and he used to pay me so much attention but recently, things have just gone downhill he hardly calls or makes any effort to stay in touch. Although ...

A.   25 May 2008: Let this be a very valuable lesson to you!!!!! Married men are a TOTAL NO NO. Men like him are selfish,disgraceful little boys, who need naive and gullible women like you to pamper their OVER-INFLATED EGOS. You my dear fell for the oldest trick in... (read in full...)

Boyfriend left me alone, never said goodbye--what does it mean?

Q.   This might be a bit long, i'm sorry but I really need some help sorting out my feelings. Yesterday I went to a party. All night my boyfriend kept avoiding me. we were supposed to stay at a mates house together (we made these plans about a mont...

A.   24 May 2008: Dump this Dumb Ass!!!!!... (read in full...)

My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?

Q.   Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...

A.   24 May 2008: Dear Mr F...... You really are a sad little man, who thinks nothing of humiliating your poor downtrodden wife over stupid things like sour milk and flip flops. If I was your poor wife I would have stuffed the flip flops right up YOUR NOSTRILS and ... (read in full...)

I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this...

A.   24 May 2008: I just noticed your name is Mr T...... ' I pity the fool who says I am a pervert'!!!!!!! LOL.... (read in full...)

Do I get pregnant if I finger myself?

Q.   do i get pregnat when i finger myself....

A.   24 May 2008: Darling ARE YOU HAVING BUBBLE BATH (LAUGH) or what? You are in your mid to late twenties and you ask stupid questions like that. Did you do any sex education at school?? Hun do yourself a favour get yourself educated on the birds and bees and stop ... (read in full...)

I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this...

A.   24 May 2008: Hun these eejits are jealous of you having a lovely young lady as your girlfriend. Stick the metaphoric two fingers up at them and enjoy your time with your girl. Good luck when you finally pip your cherry. xx... (read in full...)

Please help! My boyfriend now lives thousands of miles away having moved to his dream city!

Q.   Hi - please help! My boyfriend now lives thousands of miles away having moved to his dream city. This has been really tough on our relationship as he used to live 10 minutes away. I've never stood in anyones way but I did resent him for doing ...

A.   24 May 2008: Where did he move to and did he ask you to go with him and make a new life together? Honey it seems like he has made a new life and is very happy, surely you should be happy for him to fulfill his dream and not stand in his way. If I was you I wo... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   21 May 2008: Lol I am just picturing a Role play scenario...... BF: Hey honey you were wonderful, you are such a great lover Hun. GF: Thanks Hun you are the best lover I have ever had. BF: Wow thanks baby...... Out of curiousity how many lovers have you... (read in full...)

I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!

Q.   I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...

A.   21 May 2008: Tell him he is taking the piss !!!!!! ... (read in full...)

My girl told me she was raped. What do I do?

Q.   What should you do if your girlfriend tells you she was raped by her x boyfriend but neva said or done anything about it and I'm the first person she told,to make it worse this guy is a good friend of mine but I don't like him anymore for what he ...

A.   21 May 2008: I think you should report him to the police, even if he is your friend. What he did was totally unforgivable and would not let that creep anywhere near you and your gf.... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   21 May 2008: Actually I am not a know all, I think I answered your question fairly and said it was very unfair to call your gf a slut. I am fully aware what a slut is and that it means a promiscuous woman, if you do not like what is said to you then don't post ... (read in full...)

Any tips to induce childbirth so my beloved dying grandmother can see her first great grandchild? It would mean so much to me!

Q.   I am pregnant with my first child. However my grandmother who is the most important person to me in my life is dying. There is nothing more in this world that I want than for my gran to see my child when it is born....but the way things are looking ...

A.   20 May 2008: What the bloody hell is going through that mind of yours? I am very sorry that your grandmother is dying, but wanting to induce your birth so that she can meet her first grandchild is absolute madness. This is dangerous and downright stupid, I hope ... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   20 May 2008: I find your letter very sad, because you refer to your girlfriend as a slut. What makes you be the judge of her just because she has had a few lovers too many? Why don't you find a woman who does not have a reputation if you can't handle her past... (read in full...)

The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!

Q.   Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have ...

A.   20 May 2008: Honey you are 21 years old, start acting like one! This man is clearly freaked out by your behaviour, if you want to get to know this guy be friendly not some PREDATORY DESPERADO. No one one this page has called you a slut, all Rythmn and blues said ... (read in full...)

My match is 10 years younger, which worries me. Share your experience please, if you've lived a similar situation.

Q.   Has any woman had a long-term relationship with a man at least 10 yrs younger than her, how did it go? i have met a very mature man that is 10 yrs younger than me and it is getting serious but i have some concerns about the age, i look very young ...

A.   19 May 2008: I am dating a guy who is almost 6 years younger than me, he is 34 (35 in July) and I am 40. I prefer younger men, they make great lovers, they don't have hang-ups like some older men and not set in there ways too much either. If you feel comforta... (read in full...)

Did I make the wrong decision by temporarily breaking up with him?

Q.   So I was dating this guy that I was friends with for two years...just to give you a little bit of a background, his best friend and I were 'sleeping together' for 6 years...he knew coming into the relationship that I was with him but one night when ...

A.   19 May 2008: I bet if his best friend had been a random guy he had never met, he would not be feeling this way would he? He is clearly threatened by his friend who had a reltionship with you before him. My advice is never date two men that are good friends ... (read in full...)

I fear being alone and find myself jumping from one short relationship into another. How to move forward?

Q.   Hi, I'm 27 and have been separated from my husband for about 20 months. I moved away after the split and found myself changing, becoming more confident, independent and enjoying life but I seem to have relationship demons. I seem to find myse...

A.   19 May 2008: Try having a guy as a friend, instead of jumping into another unfulfilled relationship. That way you can assess whether he is suitable boyfriend material, make sure you check out his qualities properly so that you won't feel used and get hurt. Are ... (read in full...)

I sweat really bad, anyone knows how to stop it???

Q.   this may seem a little funny but its a porblem that i dont konw how to solve. i sweat really bad. i use deoderant all the time and if its too hot ill look at my armpits and there will be massive sweat patches. even in school, i know that i ...

A.   19 May 2008: Wear natural fibres like cotton, manmade fibres make you sweat and does not let your skin breathe. 'Sure' Anti- perspirants are good. hope I have been of help.... (read in full...)

How do I get over this married man?

Q.   Hi,i have been involved in a situation and would like some advice. I have been working for this company for a year now and part of my job is dealing with reps based all over the uk.There was this 1 rep in particular who i got on well with-we ...

A.   19 May 2008: You have certainly fell for his Bullshit Hook Line and Sinker. Why are you getting yourself in such a state over this guy? He is married with a child, you had a lucky escape and was not foolish enough to sleep with him. He just used you as a con... (read in full...)

I feel very disappointed he hasn't tried to make much contact after the break up to know how I was doing. Are people really that callous?

Q.   Could someone please help me understand? My boyfriend (?) and I broke up in October last year. I also found out later that month that he had lied and cheated many many times. We actually tried to do the whole friends bit on his insistence. Didn't ...

A.   19 May 2008: Honey why do you want to even associate yourself with a jerk like that???? He cheated on you many times, he never cared about you or your feelings, Period. It is time to move on and find self- esteem and courage to get on with your life without ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore and she doesn't want to talk about it, how do I solve this issue with her?

Q.   I am a 28 year old man who has been in a relationship with another 28 year old woman for 18 months living together for 1 year. Our relationship is pretty good except for the lack of sex. We both love each other very much. At first she wanted it al...

A.   18 May 2008: Gosh you guys moved in very quickly together. I agree with the other Aunts, when was the last time you courted her and made her feel a Princess. It seems all the romance of this relationship has ceased since you moved in with her. Const... (read in full...)

No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?

Q.   Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...

A.   18 May 2008: Just one question...... Do you do anything to make sure that she is satisfied or is it all ME ME ME???????????... (read in full...)

Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?

Q.   Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...

A.   18 May 2008: Darling you have posted this post 3 TIMES already!!!!!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend thinks I am sexually unattractive

Q.   Hi, I just got off the phone to my girlfriend and we have been having problems lately. She said the problems were due to her not finding me sexually attractive due to me not being 'big' enough. She said big as in how i was built and that I'm too...

A.   18 May 2008: Six inches ???? OMG that is more than enough for a woman to accomodate..... What does she want a muscle man with a ten inch donger????? Tell this silly little girl to bugger off and find a man of that calibre, she will find it very hard to find ... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea for a 21 year old girl to lose her virginity with an older guy?

Q.   Hey, Do you guys think it is a good idea for a 21 year old girl to loose her virginity with a much experience men who's 35 years old or do you guys think that's too old or that we've got too much of a difference in experience ?...

A.   18 May 2008: I agree with anonymous, if you think this older guy is worth it then go ahead. But don't lose your virginity until you are for sure that he is the right guy and that he isn't using you. I would build up a stable relationship if I was you, you have ... (read in full...)

I finally came clean about everything about my past, and he broke up with me

Q.   My ex broke up with me a couple of days ago. It was because I had lied about some stuff from the past, several times. The other day I finally came clean about everything, and he broke up with me as I expected. Of course I was hurt, and of cou...

A.   18 May 2008: Hang on this girl posted this letter of the same nature on Friday and still she has not said about her past that her bf won't forgive her about. Hunny we need more details so that we can help you!!! (Moderators I am surprised you never spotte... (read in full...)

I gave my virginity to him. How should I take revenge on him?

Q.   I'm single and fell in love with a married guy. He is 10 years older than me. His wife was pregnant and got a baby daughter on my b'day. I gave my virginity to him, but after he got his wife back in his bed. He started acting weird, like ignoring ...

A.   16 May 2008: Darling he has used you for his own gratification. GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON!!!!! BTW GROW UP!!!!!... (read in full...)

No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?

Q.   Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...

A.   16 May 2008: For God sake this is the most trivial thing to argue about because she won't give you oral sex. Some women don't like oral sex, its a plain and simple as that and if you are going to break up your marriage because of that then I think you are bein... (read in full...)

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