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On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 4 April 2012: You've never been supported, you've never felt safe or secure, so you won't be missing anything. When he is gone, you will feel stronger, you will feel more secure, your life will be happier. He is a burden, without him you will become happy ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 7 March 2012: "My Dad says he can see he is protecting his money because our relationship has been volatile but that was due to him not me. " (unhappy scared wife)
Since it's the money your thinking about.... This guy is so protective of his money, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 5 March 2012: Your always welcome babes, I know you got no-one else to talk to and I'm not surprised to hear your still with this "man". So things are getting a little bit better, not a lot, but just a little bit, but the guy is still awful and can't be fixed. ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 18 November 2011: Hi baby girl.. I thought I scared you, and you wouldn't come back again. You are very brave. So how much was I right about and how much did I get wrong? You got courage, I like that.. but I do not like him very much. Anyway, you two are finished ... (read in full...)
My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...
A. 17 November 2011: I like the fact that you are trying to find out all the ways you can get pleasure in sex. Good on you for putting no limits on yourself.... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 17 November 2011: Hey natasia, I do remember one time we had a post from a young kid who was living in the garden shed. He said his stepmother had said that he and his sister had to live there.... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 17 November 2011: Hey, you never mentioned kids. She's probably tired. You just came here to talk about stuff that is bothering you. Avoiding dealing with some other issues. You need to fix that too.
You two should maybe have a talk about the things that are... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 16 November 2011: Ok here goes.. never got a chance for pregnancy. Damn you must hurt. And yes, I've had to walk home from hospital while a selfish guy lay in bed. Ended up with him leaving me when I was sick. Does it mean he didn't love me. Nope, guy just ... (read in full...)
My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...
A. 15 November 2011: We like you kid, and we is hoping and wishing you well... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 15 November 2011: Remember I said the guy could ask for you to stop using the vibrator.. I stupidly thought maybe he was trying to help you get more pleasure. I was willing to give him the benefit of doubt. I took in consideration his "mild aspergers"....
Rubbi... (read in full...)
She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?
Q. My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...
A. 15 November 2011: We missed your follow up, that's why we didn't respond. So it's a lack of attention, your feeling lonely. I'm sorry you feel like that, it's not nice. Same as when people stay at work all the time, taking any overtime going, preferring the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 15 November 2011: All the aunts are thinking of you today, and hoping everything has gone alright.. Be well.... (read in full...)
Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?
Q. My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always ...
A. 15 November 2011: He does sound like all his focus is on sex, it does suggest maybe an addiction. The other stuff, no compliments, no help around the house, that's more normal. Lazy guy who can't be bothered, and doesn't see why he should try. It doesn't make ... (read in full...)
How can I leave my husband without hurting my kids?
Q. I have been married 27 years to my high school sweetheart and we've had our good and bad times in our relationship. I've tried to leave multiple times through the years for different reasons but have no family and always felt alone and that I couldn...
A. 15 November 2011: One life you have, what will you be thinking on your death bed. Kids like happy parents. Only you and you alone can decide which way to live your life for the best. A life full of regrets, is a life that has been wasted. No matter what we say, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on attending a concert while I'm in surgery
Q. This may take me some time to write so here goes. I've just moved in to a house with my bf of two years, we've got a mortgage togther. We started to try for a baby around a year ago and in september I got pregnant with fertility treatment. After ...
A. 15 November 2011: Yes it's his baby too.. You are hurting and you want him to be close to you. He is hurting and he wants to forget everything. That is grief, everyone deals with it differently. He is not selfish and you are not being unreasonable. When children ... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 14 November 2011: Why are you with this guy? Is it love or are you scared to be alone?... (read in full...)
Attracted to students as a teacher. Help!
Q. I'm a secondary school teacher 11-18 and always find myself attracted to students. I'm 28 and married. I find myself attracted to the older students and sometimes thinking what the younger students will grow up to look like. I have never acted on ...
A. 14 November 2011: Your human, and young women are pretty, you have eyes and you can see. Your feelings are normal. As long as you take no action, then who can see what is in your mind. Anyway, you need to get your wife sorted out and you need to be diplomatic. ... (read in full...)
Contraception advice, anyone?
Q. So me and my long term boyfriend have been using condoms as our only method of birth control and it's not an ideal situation. He constantly complains about how much less good it feels and frequently gets irritated that I won't go back on the pill or ...
A. 14 November 2011: I don't like this guy, he causes to much problems.... (read in full...)
On the verge of buying a house with a miserly man who only tolerates my children
Q. Scared. My second marriage begun disasterously my second Husband refused to bond with my children lied cheated and left me when I lost my job with his baby and my two other children to fend for ourselves financially and otherwise. My Son who is 9 ...
A. 14 November 2011: Your scared so am I... I'm worried about your son.. this doesn't sound good for him at all. Are you so in love with this man that your kids unhappiness doesn't matter at all.... (read in full...)
My son wants a civil partnership with his friend for financial reasons despite not being gay! Is this illegal? What should we do?
Q. I have a 23-year-old son, he's been in a relationship with his girlfriend for the last 18 months and everything's going well, he's got a good job, working in IT equipment sales and has a good social life. He lives with his best friend Steve who he's...
A. 14 November 2011: So he wants to "marry a man"... It's a marriage contract, no matter what he and his friend think, and it comes with legal responsibilities. What do the girlfriends say? They guys will need to get a divorce if they want to marry the ladies. What ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong by refusing to pay for my wife's new dress?
Q. Hi, I really got to get this out as I don't know what I am doing wrong, maybe there are some factos which I am not taking into account. My wife and I are both young working professionals, my salary is higher than hers by around 30%. We bough...
A. 14 November 2011: You are a good husband. Yes she does work, and she could afford to buy her own dress, but she wants a dress from you. The dress becomes sweeter that way, because everytime she wears it, she will think of you and feel like she's wrapped up in your ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we both REALLY want a baby!
Q. I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and we both REALLY want a baby!!! What do we do?!?! We talk about getting married and having kids all the time!! What do I do? P.S. We haven't had sex if that's what you are thinking.....
A. 14 November 2011: You may want a baby now your 14, but what happens when a baby comes and you turn 16 and change your mind. Most young men talk nonsense. If you get pregnant, he will be gone once the baby starts shitting, crying and vomiting and you keep on crying ... (read in full...)
His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...
A. 14 November 2011: If they are friends and your not romantically involved, ask them to join you on a social network like facebook. If your still using a dating site he has every reason to suspect that your still looking for another partner to love.... (read in full...)
My Bf has given me an ultimatum-either I orgasm with him and without my vibrator or he's going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I always thought we had a pretty good sex life. We have sex 5-8 times a week usually and feel really comfortable with each other and have great chemistry. It might help to preface this with saying ...
A. 13 November 2011: The thing is, your very young, only 22. Many women find sex gets better as they are older. I'm also wondering. You say you sometimes have orgasm during sexual intercourse with him, but you can't orgasm through touching or oral sex. No there is ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 13 November 2011: Please Odds, don't class all feminist the same. There are many feminist who like pornography and erotica. There are even feminists in Europe who make their own pornography films. Feminism is a camp that is very large and there are big ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 13 November 2011: I thought this was a discussion about porn. What has DIY got to do with whether men, women, lesbians or transvestites like get aroused looking at naked people having sex. Why does everyone assume that porn is about straight men looking at women... (read in full...)
Is this a traditional FWB relationship?
Q. A close friend of mine which I have known for the past 3 years, and I have hooked up 4 times in the last 7 months. I'm not sure if it's a FWB relationship... we don't booty call each other (which is what I've read that FWB do), or have long cha...
A. 13 November 2011: There's not such thing as a "normal FWB, it really depends on the people involved and what they agree to... I had one, that was just like this one, cuddles and everything but no proper romantic attachment. I didn't want one and neither did he. ... (read in full...)
She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?
Q. My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...
A. 13 November 2011: Your girlfriend works in the sex industry. It's not for everyone, but if you have a good body and no educational qualifications it's a very good way to make a living. You don't like it, and that is also natural. Many (if not most people) would ... (read in full...)
She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?
Q. My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...
A. 13 November 2011: Your girlfriend works in the industry. It's not for everyone, but if you have a good body and no educational qualifications it's a very good way to make a living. You don't like it, and that is also natural, many (if not most people) would find a ... (read in full...)
He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?
Q. On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my ...
A. 13 November 2011: Sorry male anon, but even if she made a promise, she can't keep this one. First time sex hurts a lot. If she lies down with him it will feel like rape and it will hurt a lot and make her feel dirty and ashamed. You might make such a promise to a ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain how people who divorce can still remain "close friends"?
Q. OK, probably people are gonna think I'm too rigid and old fashioned, but I honestly don't get how two people who get divorced can remain "close friends." I mean, when I have broken up with someone, it was because we had terrible conflicts where ...
A. 13 November 2011: I'm the opposite to you. How can you kiss and hold and have sex with a person and then all of a sudden turn round and hate them and never see them again. In my community people who do this are seen as strange. It's like you can't keep friends or ... (read in full...)
Do girls always find nude art in a guy's place offensive?
Q. Ok, I studied film in college and since then have gotten interested in still photography as well, especially photographers like Howard Schatz, Patrick Demarchelier, Andreas H. Bitesnich, and Herb Ritts. Nudes happen to be one of the subject-matter ...
A. 13 November 2011: I live in Europe, so nudes on the wall in art form are perfectly normal. We got a cooking programme here where people invite each other to dinner. One woman had a nude of herself, and the guests thought it was in bad taste, but only because it ... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 13 November 2011: That's what they said about not letting women vote.... (read in full...)
After he walked out, I joined a dating site and when he found out, he dumped me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had an argument,and as normal he walked out. The day after I joined a dating site. Only a day I know, but we was not together. He has found out and now dumped me. Its the longest we have ever broke up. He says he does ...
A. 13 November 2011: I'd dump you too.. but that's anger talking.. wait a little while, then call him up. Your story is that you felt hurt and rejected and was lacking confidence and you wanted to feel attractive again, because his walking out made you feel like shit. ... (read in full...)
A little primer on women and sex...
Q. A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...
A. 12 November 2011: "motorboat me????"... Thank goodness for google... (read in full...)
Before we were married, my wife said she was horny but didn't want to have premarital sex on moral grounds, but now that we're married she still doesn't want to have sex!
Q. I've had an on and off relationship with my wife for about 8 years. When we first met, we were together for about 2 years. She had a very high sex drive, and that aspect of the relationship was good, but we didn't get along very well. We broke ...
A. 12 November 2011: Take her to the doctor and check for early menopause. Then demand she come with you to a marriage counsellor.
Bottom line, you told her you wanted frequent good sex and she promised that she wanted the same. This is the marriage contract... (read in full...)
Realisation that your ex is a bloody 'user!!'
Q. Tonight, I have (at last) realised why my ex keeps in touch with me...because he's bored (as he work nights) and for a 'confidence' boost...(occasionally, but rarely texts me when he's off...!) I am no longer going to play 'his game'... Just...
A. 12 November 2011: lol... hahahaha.. I like your style a lot.... (read in full...)
A little primer on women and sex...
Q. A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...
A. 12 November 2011: Brilliant article Tish. It works for me. ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 12 November 2011: Young lady... I noticed from the start that you like to hide things. You've probably been hiding all of this from your parents. Little by little you tell us more of the story, and the more you tell the worst it gets. No wonder your parents are ... (read in full...)
Do I go for a man who has long term suitability or one who I feel attracted to?
Q. In such a dilemma!! Im 23 and hav met a lad who is 25,get on so well with and he has a really good job, a nice car and would def be a good long term partner. I am attracted to him but not as much as a lad i work with and this is my problem, he is on...
A. 12 November 2011: You fancy a guy aged 17, who is legally above age of UK consent which is 16. Legally you can date this guy, but he will still need his parents consent if he decided to marry you. That's the problem, he isn't fully grown yet, he is still partly ... (read in full...)
Should I have a woman to woman talk with his ex? he talks to her every day. What should I do about him not answering me when it comes to her?
Q. I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. Our relationship moved pretty fast, we seemed to click right away and began spending all of our time together. While he did disclose that he was separated and getting a divorce he failed to tell me that he ...
A. 12 November 2011: How long were he and his ex-wife married? Do he and his ex wife have any kids?... (read in full...)
Realisation that your ex is a bloody 'user!!'
Q. Tonight, I have (at last) realised why my ex keeps in touch with me...because he's bored (as he work nights) and for a 'confidence' boost...(occasionally, but rarely texts me when he's off...!) I am no longer going to play 'his game'... Just...
A. 11 November 2011: * Miamine grabs pencil and pen to write down these very wise words.... (read in full...)
Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?
Q. I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...
A. 11 November 2011: That's me done and sorted.. (smile)
Here, please read this post, I think this lady has something important to say you and me.. (laugh)
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/realisation-that-your-ex-is-a-bloody-user.html... (read in full...)
He watches porn every night and it upsets me
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 years and we have 2 kids, a 2 yr old and a 3 month old. I caught him watching porn back in 2010, and it started a bit of an argument, he thought I was sleeping, he got extremely defensive and almost ...
A. 11 November 2011: Nearly missed your follow up, anyway thank you very much for coming back again. Ahhhh, sweetheart, you know you actually made me cry. Young mum too tired to let out the sex tiger inside her. Yep, that's the way it goes I think for most young m... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my sex life in my teens?
Q. so as a teen(maybe when i was 15 or 16 i had a boyfriend who i had gone out with for about 2-3 years. we had sex....and we were truly in love.... but then he moved. :( now i have a fiance. we've been dating for about 2 years. and i love him so ...
A. 11 November 2011: Either tell him the truth, or tell him it's not of his business and refuse to answer. He has the right to know if you are a virgin or not but nobody has the right to your past secrets.
Many men have issues when you tell them your sexual history,... (read in full...)
My wife wont have anal sex, should I go to a prostitute or will I regret it?
Q. Hello friends, i know i have been several times here on DCupid issues about that issue, but still i want it to get this help from you! Please! Here it comes: i wish i could get intercourse in the anus in my wife but she doesn't want it anymore, we ...
A. 11 November 2011: Sorry, but you need to grow up. She has had anal sex with you a couple of times, but it bloody hurts and that's why she doesn't want to do it again. How about you let her get a vibrator and use it on your anus, then you will have some understandi... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to have any interest in sex?
Q. 20. Never interested in sex never feel like it dont care about it. Is this normal?...
A. 11 November 2011: Normal... sexual desire isn't the same for everyone, at one end you have nymphomaniacs who have sex with everyone and the other you have asexual people who never have sexual desire, the rest of us are some where in the middle. You are young (20) a... (read in full...)
Why do some guys like women to send them nude pictures???
Q. Before I say anything just thought i say that DO NOT judge me for this cause I`ve beaten myself up about it and regret it, plus i`m an adult. Also i have another question which relates to my post so instead of making another post I decided to post ...
A. 11 November 2011: Big hug.. you made a mistake, your human, now I really need you to be nice to you.
Even I have been tempted into doing stupid things on the internet. Don't worry about it, it happens to loads of people. Please put it down to experience and laug... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 11 November 2011: Yes you are right.. more women seem to have problems with FWB. I don't believe that this is due to biology, but the socialization of men and women, and the creation of gender roles. There's a big difference between saying many women fall in love ... (read in full...)
My hair was messy after grocery shopping and my husband automatically assumed I was cheating?
Q. So i went made groceries today and when I got back home my hair was a little messy (i wear clip on extensions and these are really old and ready to be disposed of) but when i got home my husband asked why is my hair messed up which made me mad ...
A. 11 November 2011: Your husband is a jealous bully and you need to take control. There is no point in talking to him, he will either get angry and accuse you of doing stuff, or he will cry and apologize and then do it again.
You are not a dog, your a wife, and you ... (read in full...)
He watches porn every night and it upsets me
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 years and we have 2 kids, a 2 yr old and a 3 month old. I caught him watching porn back in 2010, and it started a bit of an argument, he thought I was sleeping, he got extremely defensive and almost ...
A. 11 November 2011: Nightime porn habits could be a way of helping him get to sleep. Some people use sleeping tablets, some people use alcohol but many people (especially men) use porn and masturbation to help them relax enough to fall asleep. Please remembe... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my friend who is 19 has foreplay with strangers?
Q. Do you think it's bad if a girl who is only nineteen, has foreplay, but not sex with guys she's met on a night out? Because, my flatmate does this and says it's being young and having fun. She said she wouldn't ever sleep with anyone she just ...
A. 11 November 2011: If she's having oral sex, remind her she can get herpes, which can't be cured and will remain with her until she is dead. Herpes can be passed to anyone she kisses.
She's young, and she's not falling in love or having penetrative sex. It shoul... (read in full...)
Is 'dry humping' morally wrong?
Q. We were making out and it just happened, we're both Christians and we want to wait till marriage to have sex, but is it wrong that we dry humped and we both enjoyed it? ...
A. 11 November 2011: Dry humping is fine for everyone but strict religious people.
If you are a strict christian, then anything that is lustful is wrong outside marriage, including thoughts as well as actions.
Very few Christians are so strict and if you have a wo... (read in full...)
He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?
Q. On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my ...
A. 11 November 2011: Don't feel bad.. this guy is scum.
In five years time you will feel dirty for ever spending a second of your time talking to him.
He's using emotional blackmail and talking rubbish. Tell him to go to hell, and find a bottle to keep him happy. ... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 11 November 2011: Women offer sex in the belief that it is part of a loving relationship. Men will feign a relationship in hopes that it will result in their getting sex.....
.. and THAT's the truth.. (Sageoldguy1465)
For some women, but not the women I know. The... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 10 November 2011: OK, it's the age thing. I wouldn't like my young daughter dating a man so old. But if you love each other and he treats you right, your parents will eventually understand.
If it's love, he needs to prove to your parents that you are his world. ... (read in full...)
Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?
Q. I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...
A. 10 November 2011: Be strong babes.. I got my stupid ex visiting tomorrow and I know exactly how you feel.. I am telling you just what I tell myself. No man is worth heart ache and pain, there are billions of them in the world.
If they want you, then they shouldn'... (read in full...)
Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?
Q. I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...
A. 10 November 2011: Maybe.. but he has a girlfriend, so it means nothing. I know how you feel, but do not hope that he will come back to you. You will only be upset and build up your hopes for nothing.
If he wants you back he will say something, until then, he... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 10 November 2011: If a woman has romantic feelings for a man, she should date him in an exclusive relationship.
In our modern days, sometimes a woman (or man) doesn't want or doesn't have time to marry/commit to one person and that's when a Friend who is sexually... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 9 November 2011: I really don't understand. So he's older, so what... there is nothing illegal in your relationship. Your not married, and you didn't mention any wife for him. Why can't you be his proper girlfriend? So what if he has a sick mum. Ther... (read in full...)
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